European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs West Ham (1 - 1) - Live by mriyesecnerwal(m): 7:58pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
Mourinho needs to get a good lineup against them in the FA. Rashford, lingard should not even be in sub. Mata, rooney, ibra, pogba, jones, smalling, valencia, rojo, de gea, young and any other should do better. I don't even know who draw pass manchester united or okro |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Hangs Out With Chelsea Players After Their Victory Over Tottenham by mriyesecnerwal(m): 8:30am On Nov 27, 2016 |
Money is just everything! Some people be repping blues before davido and don't even know where stamford bridge is located in london |
Christianity Etc › Re: Zimbabwean Pastor Beaten After Impregnating His Follower (photos) by mriyesecnerwal(m): 8:10am On Nov 27, 2016 |
What's all these pastors and committing one crime or the other? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Prophet Ebelenna Chukwu Sprays Money Non Stop At A Wedding by mriyesecnerwal(m): 8:05am On Nov 27, 2016 |
End time prophet! |
Business › Re: Was Black Friday Worth All The Hype? by mriyesecnerwal(m): 7:51am On Nov 27, 2016 |
When I hear BLACK FRIDAY all that comes to my head is SCAM SCAM SCAM |
Crime › Re: Angry Kenyan Women Beat Up Drunk Men For Not Satisfying Them Sexually (Pics) by mriyesecnerwal(m): 8:36pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
They have seen Jesus na. You never hear cosmatika: Kenya needs Jesus |
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Saved Boyfriend's Phone Number With "No Oxygen, No Life" by mriyesecnerwal(m): 8:18pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
The heartbreak wey dey come this girl wey still dey inside traffic. Na boy this one dey carry for head like gala seller. |
Romance › Re: And We Are Set To Wed After Nysc. by mriyesecnerwal(m): 8:15pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Kk |
Celebrities › Re: Seun Egbegbe Denies Taking Poison And Being Hospitalized This Morning by mriyesecnerwal(m): 8:11pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Every time deny denies denied!!! Always denying one thing or the other. Poison or not bros you will soon die. But how those 9 iphones cost 2.8m I'm still not understanding |
Nairaland General › Most Disgusting Type Of Kiss Ever by mriyesecnerwal(op): 3:30pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
I saw this on a friends wall and decide to share #justforlaughs
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Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Visits Her Former Primary School Teacher In Lagos(pics,video) by mriyesecnerwal(m): 3:04pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
She'll goan inspire the little ladies to b hoes when the grow up since it worked for her *spits* |
Education › Re: Would You Burn Down Your School For $10million? by mriyesecnerwal(m): 1:44pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
I'll burn the school, teachers, students, neighboring house, if anyone complains here on NL or any other place, I'll add them also. |
Family › Re: 4 Lessons I Learned From My Abusive Father About Forgiveness by mriyesecnerwal(m): 1:38pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
Thanks so much! I'll work on that. We used to be better but now things have changed and they are thinking I'm moving with some boys lol Daboomb: I am a Dad! I have children that are grown-up (at least nearing University Graduation) but l do act like a kid here at times! 
If l can "reflect" on the past when l was a young man too, there are things l wish l could do, that l did not do, which if l have done, would have made some difference! So, l like to say it and let someone younger try them out.
for example, can you call your Dad one day, when everyone is not around (or you too can be alone maybe take him outside somewhere quiet! I bet you are thinking he wont even listen to me, right?) It depends on how you put it forward: Show some courage and confidence, in a very respectful manner (very important) but without fear! *Look him straight in the eye, dont fidget, say it calmly: Dad, how are u today? (he will wonder fi you are okay!) *I want to speak to oyu about something important, if you have the time FOR ME though (He will still be puzzled) *Can you make out time so we can have a father-Son heart to heart discussion (he will probably ask you "about What"? in his most stern voice!  As a father, l know fathers appreciate strength and confidence, in their children. *Tell him: I have been thinking about my relationship with you. I wish it was better than this and l really want it to be better than this but maybe there are things l am doing wrong, that is causing a strain between us. I wish we are the best of friends, more like buddies since you are me and l am you. But our relationship seems strained and l should not be so. What do you think l can do to make it better? I want it to be better.
Then give him time to soak-up what you said. Dont say a single word again but keep holding your gaze with his eye! Never lose eye contact, very important. Some Fathers will open-up immediately. The stubborn ones will grunt and shift from one buttocks to another (like me!). But inside his head, it is doing overdrive! Let him express himself but if he is uncomfortable, ask him if he wants us to re-schedule the meeting to another time of his own choosing (Allow him to 'escape' if need be bu tlet him make a commitment to when you can reschedule the meeting).
Even if you dont get exactly what you want, dont be annoyed but rather show him that you are happy now that you have opened-up to him. After that, show interest in what he does (dont pry please!). Help him in chores he does at home (polish and brush shoes, iron, wash cars, DIY repairs, watch films with him, discuss politics with him and generally try to break the ice).
I know for a fact that one of the greatest and most trying periods in a son's life is the "teenage years" (14- 25), its even worse when the bond is not there from the beginning! I also know that Sons can "break the ice" by showing maturity and confidence, taking the lead and becoming the Dad, of their Dad! Sounds funny ehn? Yes, all those "driving" that our Dad do (strictness, pushing you hard, etc) is to prepare you (sons) to take over from them and become "the Dad", when he is ready to hand-over (not before!). So, show that yo are ready, by taking the initiative. But do it with respect, Dads hate competition in their house. 
Talk to your Dad, he is not "Sango" that you cant talk with.
PS: I am taking a break now! its past noon. |
Politics › Re: If You Are Given A Chance To Be A President Just For A Day, What Will You Do? by mriyesecnerwal(m): 1:10pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
A day is damn too long. Give me 2hrs pere. I'll change the fate of my family and everyone around me. That's all. I don't need to murder. Its money money money! 12hrs will be too boring in that seat |
Family › Re: 4 Lessons I Learned From My Abusive Father About Forgiveness by mriyesecnerwal(m): 12:50pm On Nov 26, 2016 |
I can relate to this well. My dad is strict also but I never had the liver to throw a punch but I'll talk and I'll do whatever I want to do. If I'll be kicked out, I'll pack my stuff and go. I was also kicked out yesterday not until my mom begged. When ever they say "what you sow you shall reap", I let them know my kids will never do such cos I won't do them as you're doing me. I don't even gist with him, only if I'm sooooo happy and feel like staying in d living room to have a chat. My first sister is my everything. Dads think because they make their sons go through a lot it can change them |
Celebrities › Re: Arike Gold: "I Hate Poverty, My Husband Will Kneel And Also Cook For Me" by mriyesecnerwal(m): 10:02pm On Nov 24, 2016 |
This one that has entered meno-stop still wants someone to kneel for her and cook for her. Well madam if na cook you want dem dey, if you want someone will kneel to beg you, you will never find |
Crime › Re: Man Who Robbed A Woman In Port-Harcourt Caught (Pics) by mriyesecnerwal(m): 10:17am On Nov 24, 2016 |
Nobody will ever burn anybody for stealing food stuff never. Get your facts well ms GossipHeart:
He's so lucky he wasn't caught in Afonja-land, they would have burned him like they did to that 7 year old boy who stole garri |
Education › Re: Which Of The Punishment Did You Hate Back At School. by mriyesecnerwal(m): 9:38am On Nov 24, 2016 |
No 3 ooo....kuku coman kill me instead |
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Pets › Re: Nigerian Man Receives Python As Gift In US Mall. Photos by mriyesecnerwal(m): 11:07am On Nov 23, 2016 |
ReneeNuttall: The snake is not poisonous though.although it can strangle and swallow stuffs,btwn he shld av cllctd it then sell it. Sell to lala right? |
Crime › Re: VIDEO : Goat Thief Caught In Benin City by mriyesecnerwal(m): 11:02am On Nov 23, 2016 |
He'll retuen the goat and still probably get another one to steal. Christmas must happen by fire by force |
Car Talk › Re: Overloaded Vehicle Arrested By Officials In Zamfara. Photos by mriyesecnerwal(m): 8:02pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
Funniest thing I've seen so far! One word = madness? But that dude got real balls for that |
Celebrities › Re: Angela Okorie's Support For Gambian President, Yaya Jammeh, Got Her Blasted by mriyesecnerwal(m): 5:14pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
But wetin Airforce1 do una na? |
Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa Flashes Cleavage In Sheer Print Dress by mriyesecnerwal(m): 4:13pm On Nov 18, 2016 |
But this babe go sweet nack ooo #nolie |
Crime › Re: This Kid On The Picture Below Was Kidnapped Yesterday Evening by mriyesecnerwal(m): 8:28pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
If these ones are caught now and burnt, some people will say #saynotojunglejustice. Just imagine what his parents are going thru right now and prolly its their only child. God save us in this country |
Crime › Re: Police Release Official Statement On Boy Burnt To Death For Stealing (Read) by mriyesecnerwal(m): 6:01pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Some jungle justice shit here. I watched the whole program abi scene. Very bad I must say but if you have had encounter with these people mehn you won't pity them any day. I have had encounter with them when I was much younger and since then I really don't care about them. These people have caused serious havoc in families. STEALING is not good. If you must steal, don't steal from people who are managing. Once caught, na death straight. They won't hear. |
Crime › Re: Lady Makes A Lovely Dress Out Of A Polythene Bag by mriyesecnerwal(m): 9:08am On Nov 16, 2016 |
Its possible for one to be mad and not know |
Politics › Re: #BuhariMustGo Trends On Twitter by mriyesecnerwal(m): 9:49pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
But this has to become a serious movement. Many are afraid to come to the streets to show their support unlike what they do in the states. If we come together as one, bubu will have no choice than to resign but who will lead? And the idiot is in another country. He'll be smiling or so now when some people in my hood haven't had dinner? Even God is tired of nigeria, he removed our map from his desk. |
Travel › Re: Truck Crushes Woman On Bike In Ikorodu (Graphic Pics) by mriyesecnerwal(m): 9:40pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Oh Lord, I , my family n friends shall see 2016 by your special grace! Amen |
Family › Re: “I Married My Boyfriend Who Infected Me With HIV Because I Love Him” —woman Says by mriyesecnerwal(m): 9:35pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
When a child (the stupid girl) is not well trained, that is what they get! Very stewpeed girl Where condom don cheap, don't know the cost but its cheap. Hiv, I hope you die early bitcch |
Education › Re: ASUU Strike: Senate To Engage Stakeholders To Avert Protest by mriyesecnerwal(m): 9:28pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
It should be like ASUU festival 2016!!! Name gotta change, we are in the season of change |
Career › Re: Buhari To Fire 6000 Workers In FAAN, NAMA NCAA by mriyesecnerwal(m): 9:08pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
nice move mr president. These ones too will coman be competing with the fresh graduates abi. Nigeria we hail thee |