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This a little long, if you have a phobia for long text, pls abeg, move on..‎
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I just don't understand the way ladies think and behave, they keep screaming equality when it favors  them only. A guy will be the one to ask you out, chase you around, call you, spend his hard earn money taking you out, get you gifts, help you out when you need help, even though when he is got little, he will still try to please you what he has. (shebi we are equal?)Why do ladies feel once they r dating a guy they are entitled to his money? It just not logical ,how come this ladies think they are doing you a favor with se.x? Isn't it mutal enjoyment? ‎

My story.
 Have been dating this lady on/off for 3years now, and have been trying my best for her. From hanging out, to calls, I call most times, sometimes if you don't call her she wouldn't call you, she complains of been broke, send her the little I can afford, send airtime , subscribe,gifts and all a normal guy do for his gf, but I have come to realise is she that wouldn't spend a dime of hers on the relationship except calls and chatting if that counts for spending, the only thing she ever got  me was a singlet pack, I didn't complain.‎
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 So of recent, been a little broke (no thanks to the economy) and seeing it been a while have seen my babe, I subtly suggested  me coming over to her location and knowing she is so "gallant" currently, running to over a million, her share of a property, and me feeling she will glady sponsor my coming, since have done same more than I could even remember ( outing and all), knowing my present situation, all my dear girlfriend could say is "God will provide" when she is got more than enough, it not even like am asking her to give me o, It just sponsor our seeing each other.‎

 So am asking, is it right for a guy to just be the one spending and making sacrifices  while the ladies wil just  be there on the receiving end? , isn't that selfish? How come with men, my money is ours but with ladies their  money is just thiers alone? Is this only particular to Nigeria girls or is it everywhere?
 I guess have learnt my lesson, instead of spending my hard earn money on a lady that wouldn't even offer to help when I need it, I will rather spend it on my mom,sisters and friends who  got my back. ‎
  it not just not me, ‎ applies to lot of men too.

Cc: toks2008

mrsmith11:
Please is it advisable to use NIPOST (Benin branch) to send transcript to WES?

I think WES accepts transcript officially only i.e directly from your school.

Married with 19,800 allawee?? 39,600 for both of them. Good luck to them, they will surely need it

The dude get time o, that is sure artificial ikeja pink lips oh lip rather Abi? .#whatismyown

gunther6:
Let's do this.

oya,leggo

Jamieb:
Thanks Mr Jojo, would be nice meeting up with you bro. Am.sending you a pm now .Thanks

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@op, , passing through sometin like this too, serving in IB too. For me, having a gf is nt even an issue, but I still get lonely with em, and zone off. Let relate, trust me I know exactly how this feels

Bros, you just need regular exercise and lot of fruits, especially watermelon and banana, take this often and your se..x life I'll never remain the same. Tested and Trusted

This is the type of people Nigeria police love arresting

Rapmoney:
Now, you are in a better position to make wiser decisions when faced with similar situations

now once you an EX, it going to EVER be that

Rapmoney:
Life is a teacher. It uses experiences to teach us lessons. Handling escapades or affairs an ex could have entered with other folks is one battle one is expected to face in a re-union. Having the ability to withstand it is another issue on its own.

Yea, It wasn't easy accepting bro, but i did and got burnt eventually. I learnt my lesson sha

True That, I don't think it a good idea going back to one's ex, you guys became EXes for a reason. Currently in same ex dilemma. Went back to my ex 8 month ago, I kindof blamed myself for breaking up with her in the first place,it was entirely my fault. We made up and continued where we stopped, Relationship was going smoothly, and all of a sudden i started hearing whispers of my babe escapades while we were apart, well I ignored and shove them aside because i had no right to judge and question her on what she did while we weren't dating, I had my own escapades then too, so no blame whatsoever. This stories didn't stop coming that i had to ask her to tell me EVERYTHING she did, relationships and all when we were apart, so it wouldn't come as a surprise anymore. She told me some scary shit, I took it, like I said I didn't blame her, blamed myself for leaving her in the first place.Told her mine too.
Well our relationship has been going smoothly until 2weeks ago, called my dear babe and she was sounding funny, to cut the story short, I found out she was with a particular EX, they dated when we were apart and he was out of the country, now he is been back for 2months and he is been "disturbing" her according to her, well they did things together again, even traveled out of the country together without my knowledge yea, was surprised too, (Call Roaming). well we broke up last week and her excuse was because I no longer have her time, , We don;t stay in same location btw. Story of my life, to say I actually loved her so much and was loyal. Well, it all good, Lesson Learnt

sorry bro, i know how it is when you are on a TIGHT budget and you trying to squeeze something out and SAVE. Endure bro, very soon you will be lodging in a 5 star hotel, very soon,
#Every hustler has got his payday

La click, La cry

wtf, God! when will Nigerian grow up and start using there mental faculty ehn,Sorry who the f.u.ck is he? that carrying his own baggage has turn to a big deal. We idolize all this politicians in this country, both present and past and it not even like they delivered when they were there. Even Bill Clinton sef do carry his own luggage not too talk of an ex governor who did averagely. Rubbish!!

Dude is trying too hard too. Fashion should be effortless

So you will let your company collapse cos of a public Womanliness ??if this is True, then you need to closeup the company,i don't think you are mentally fit to run it.

Please Edo peeps, vote this moda.fuck3rs out abeg

The album is actually wack truly,maybe it cos my expectations were way high. Really dissapointed.

delishpot:
Busted
Chaii, it better not be O.

i dey tell you bros, the guy in US might actually be the victim here

Bros, What kind of job EXACTLY did you do for this "client" of yours? Cos something like this happened 3 weeks ago to a friend in US. A mutual friend of ours requested for his account details, which he gave without asking questions, unknown to him, the payment was coming from a "client"(oyinbo lover), he got the payment 0f 8,000$ and realized the source, he simply didn't send the money to the dude in Nigeria. The dude was no running up and down reporting him (us friend) to everybody reportable and guess what I didn't blame the guy, you directed funds gotten ilegally to him and you want him to send, when the authority over there trace and caught up with him, you will be here in Naija enjoying your money and forming boss. I will sure do the same if I was in his shoes, I wouldn't even give my account to a friend I don't trust his source of income 100%.
Am not saying this applies to you oo,

Dude has gotten balls of steel. In a country like Nigeria this is VERY rare. Respect

ngobaby2264:
thanks a lot. I'm a girl.

oh my bad. You welcome

ngobaby2264:
Hello friends. Please I have a question. I want to study bsc nursing in USA. My university degree is not that great. Can I use my waec? Or would I write SAT?

bros,write SAT and make sure you ACE it

happy for you bros @masquellett

Is this man a cult patron or what? His meaningless style is sure subtly encouraging some nitwits somewhere

Let welcome our dear brother to the VIP area of the FRIEND ZONE section. Welcome bruv..

3yrs chasing a lady?? Ha, Do you need an angel to appear to you before you know she is not into you, abeg move on. You would av gotten another degree sef, instead of chasing someone, like say na marathon.

Lawd!! What is this one saying again??

poundssky:
please matured minds only am almost out of school havent been dating much because of school now i want to start building a serious relationship but i live with my family i dont know how to go about it i cant stay out passed certain time how do i spend time with my s/o
my other relationships didnt last never spent a night out couldnt go to parties if my bf asks no weekend trips
please any one with valuable advice i will appreciate and if you have been in the same situation how did you manage

you are almost out of school, don't worry, focus on getting a good grade out, and before you know it you will go for service, then you have all the freedom you can think of, you will even get tired sef. I was in same position a while back, couldn't even invite friends home sef, it was that bad.Now am serving and am as free as a bird, I even miss home sef. So inshort, #patience