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oh shyness.... it has really been one of my greatest problems.. but I'm getting over it though. am working on it.

tammyloreoluwa:
Tell him to buy APPLE CIDAR VINEGAR pour a some on a cotton wool and wrap around it over night..if he has to use plaster to hold it in fine...by morning he wld see it had shrunk and peelable..in abt few days its gone...tank me later

where cab d vinegar be gotten from?

softnipples:
Its okay to date your pastor's daughter provided the relationship is free from all immorality!


#my2cents#

yea dats true. I just followed u cud I get a follow back u look kind of familiar...

op don't worry go and find clay and mould him urself....

wow... the female specie 'the 8th wonder' of the world.

you ask dem for sex problem, you no ask dem for sex problem go still dey.

now OP their cud be a lot of reasons to wat is happening to u right now.
I think u guy is just shy and so he is playing the "Mr. nice guy" card. its obivious its working on u days why ur over thinking it. just take it slow with him sex or no sex if he likes u fine. if he doesn't fine. sex doesn't really determine anything. just take it slow and steady.


PS. it's so obvious dat u like the guy die

a friend of mine asked me but since am no doctor and d answers I'm been getting 4rm goggle are not really helpful.. so I want to know if there's any over the counter cream one can buy in Nigeria to get rid of genital warts...

tnks ur advice cud save someone.

op I don't get if u where paid to post this... but this is just a picture... anybody cud just seat down with a man and take a pic. dat doesn't prove anything. what's ur source for the pic... it cud be from a scene of a movie or something.. niggaaaa take a chill pill...

the getting laid part

kingofpool:
What else if not for him to get her to know hw much he loves her so that his dreams and obsession could calm down

I think u'v got a point there sha... tnx
its beta I know now so I can fully move on...

WORLDPEACE:
You seriously need to get laid. Start getting laid regularly.

I tried it once after we lost contact ... but I regret it up till now

striktlymi:
I hate to be the one to break it to you pappi but you ain't over her......not yet anyways.

I don't know the circumstance surrounding your breakup but if you did love someone, it would be a tad bit odd for you to forget about the individual in just 4 months.

However, if the breakup was for very good reasons then it would be appropriate for you to focus on other things. Calling her with the belief that she is yet to get over you is setting yourself up for a major disappointment.

tnx mehn.... I think I'm not. the reason why it didn't work out was she wasn't ready to open up to me fully. so I felt I was being too pushy with her. and secondly she stopped calling or chatting me up the way she previously did. I'm a kinda guy dat can't beg a girl for love. so I just had to free her.

yes... I'm over her... I think :/ at this point am confused. has anyone ever gotten dat feeling dat ur over someone and all of a sudden u find ursef thinking abt that person. it happens maybe a special song or a picture or something dat trigger's d good times u have.

I just saw her pictures on my Facebook wall and was going through it. I'm almost tempted to call her, I find myself thinking maybe she's not over me too. its been abt 4 months now we saw or even talked.

so can one really get over another... :/ :x

Mprex:
I have a lot of guys that are my casual friends so i get occasional calls that will be like "stay away from him, he is mine".

Doesnt bother me sha

lol it happens especially when u don't even have bad intentions

OK so I just remembered something that happened to me abt 3yrs ago and thought I should share it here and hear ur thoughts.

Ok so back in sch... I schooled in ABSU around my 2nd year their was this babe I met on a social network... we got talking for a long period of time and I found out I was into her. I really liked her back then. we could chat for hours and hours on the phone abt everything and nothing. so we met up for the 1st time in sch and leta on she came to see me at my place.

she would practically come to see me almost everyday after her lectures in school. cuz my logde was close to the school and she stayed in town. at 1st I never knew she had a bf I tot it was all this normal ish girls do wen they like a guy and all.

so one day while we where chatting I asked her if she had a bf she told me yes dat she did. I was so shocked and disappointed at a time. why?... cuz she never told me she did and I was really liking her. to put salt on injury I leta found out she actually stayed with him in town.

so I just made up my mind dat I was just going to chop and clean mouth . But I got a surprise call one night... it was her bf the guy called me up and was actually telling me to back off his gf and all that. he even tried to threaten me dat he would "go me down" around school UPGATE... lolz I just cut the call and leta I sent the babe a text of wah happend and told her dat we should stop whoever dis is bla bla bla... she called me through out that evening but I didn't pick. it was leta she told me that her and her bf had been fighting over my issue and all dat. so my interest in her started reducing. even though she still comes around to see me though. lolz me no get time to fight with my fellow man cause of girl ooo. so has anyone experienced such, share and drop ur comments.

obviously abt 60% of uniport girls are Runs girls... op just take heart and move on... shit happens

Babe2sure:
Rubbish! Utter rubbish!
Benefit ko, detriment ni.











I know, its men that will read and digest the five benefits. The benefits is for them. Na their stock in trade.
Won ti gbe nkan ti e mon je de.

but still ladies do FWB..... It just depends on ur kind of person.

its so obvious Dat ur guy is soooooooooo shy. u guys are already in a relationship its just dat u haven't defined it yet. u like him he likes u, u can indirectly ask him out. e.g u can ask him
''wat am I to u?" and if he replies u by saying ur just friends then u can say
''but d way we are we have gone beyond being just friends''... remind him of wah he said to he' s family and friends.
by doing this u've given him d push to ask u out. but if my guy no understand u then babe I'll just have to tell him how u feel.


gudluck.

well if u ask me i'll say it depends on the kinda guy and the type of girl. an average girl has abt 3 toasters at a time.

1. i think most girls in naija lack basic communication skill. she might not want to be rude to u but she doesnt know how to let u understand her so by dat she cums up rude. i'v seen it happen dozens of times.

2. our guys on d other hand can annoy d heck out of even me wey be guy. imagine say u dey see dis babe dey pass ur street. nobi everytime she dey pass u go dey try stop am. dats why sum girls get rude though.

guy u sef harsh ooooo... where u expecting her to be jumping with joy when u made dat statement. and u no even fear say she dey there sef u know girls get jealous easily. her reaction also proves that she cares about u.

the babe is crazy!!!! did u force her to come see u. no be she carry her mouth talk say she wan see u. some girls can be very annoying some times eh!!!. u have the right to decide weda or not u'll pay her fare. what she just did there was to impose and claim it as a right for u to pay. some girls just dey vex me

how does some1 dress rudely again.... Mr op ooooo!!!

just make money and girls will come to u.... chikina

babeshayo:
thanks but do u think I can be happy being with him.I stated it dere dat I don't like fat guys.I wonder how I will b able to show him off to my friends as my boyfrnd or being comfortable when am with him.can it b possible

I understanding wah u mean... ur not physically attracted to him. u don't really have to date him u know. look 4 another person dats as nice as he is or u can give him a chance and see how it goes u never can tell u might like him.

p.s: is he fat or chubby?

typical scenario.. girls keep Friend zonings d Gud guys and chasing after the bad ones hoping to change them. it only leads to heart break.

probably leave the other guy and try to make it work with the other guy hu is caring. don't u want to be happy?

how old is ur cuzin to strt with. i guess she shud be in her early 20ties dats why she’s too choosy. well when she don dey clock 35+ lets see if she’ll still be picky.
wait sef... she’s like 4ft and expecting to marry a guy dat’s 6ft. she get big eye oooo

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahah
See all this sherlock Holmes for nairaland just cuz of rose Mata.

LaurelP: Pls when nxt you're typing, try and give in between ur points so dat we can get what you're saying. It will make more sense dat way and we will enjoy ur writeup.

See how I gave space above? Its for a reason. Shey u re enjoying my writeup? Dats d way it ahud be ok.

Anoda space. U see dat my writing is neat and readable. Pls implement dis

Oshey English professor, ur don with ur correction any advise for the girl?

goofyone: Quite a lot of them do this, but there is no point kissing and telling. You feel like you've achieved something simply by boning her?

Never said it was a big deal.. Only described how Funny the senerio always is...
First dey pretend then later they start yelling for more