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Personally I think some girls are confused naturally.. I met a girl back in sch we liked each other.. It was obvious dat we did cuz she'd shown signs and all. But for some reason she didn't want us to date. I'd asked her out for abt 3mths straight but she didn't accept. So wud u say that's playing hard to get or jst sumtin else. :s

@op.. Reason why guys always want something in return 4rm girls is dat most girls are ungrateful. And majority of them have nothing to offer u in return other than their body.

Another point is, girls expect that they dnt have to pay u back the money. Cuz they feel they are "girls" dey can jst collect it nd walk away like dat. It doesn't work dt way.

Trends like this got me laffing..

How old are u?

Are u even worth the standards ur here bragging about. Dnt get me wrong u knw wah u want and dats nice. but dnt come up here nd be acting like ur perfect.

As a guy I've been in this same predicament once.. Back in sch my 3rd year a close female friend of mine jst strted dating her bf. At some point I had to keep a distance cuz she told me her bf was getting suspicious nd all. So if ur friend really loves her bf she needs to put him 1st.

Bro to me u hve no problem.. Some girls dnt have the time to strt making-up or dressing sexy when they are not going anywhere. Girls like being comfortable When at home. Cuz there's nobody to impress.

My brother, since she dresses well when u guys go out there's no big deal in it. U can't expect her to still put on make-up and dress well while she's at home. Its jst the same way we guys love being comfortable at home with our shorts on sometimes even boxers and a sleeveless shirt. U've got no reason to complain

Its just in the nature of girls to be money conscious.. Even the nice and gentle ones still get all jacked up when money is involved.

I remember when I told a girl I was asking out to gimme some space cuz I guess she was ignoring me then and when I told her I was done wth her she didn't say anything at that particular time.

Only after a week did she chat me up and said she needed some money. I was sooo shocked and surprised at the same time. Reason was 1) I tot she'd 4gotn all abt me and 2) she has never asked me for money b4 even when I offer to gve her.

So out of my nice guy heart I agreed and I helped her out sha.
So lately we've tried to resolve our issues and she has been more open to me.

Has he spoken to her yet? Has he called her to know wat was wrong. Its soo strange and unusual for her to jst come up and abandon a 2yrs relationship

Dark skinned girls re the best.. They've got this Natural Beauty that jst attracts me to them. A dark skinned girl looks good with or without make-up on. Dark skin girls ROCK!!

LMAO!!!!!! A lot of English professors on this Thread.

A typical example of a blind Man leading another blind Man.

JesDivine: Op, re you the person on your profile? If yes, then I think I know why she's always giving you the 'am busy' excuse. #NoOffence

Just becos u say "NO offense" doesn't mean there isn't one :s

Tallesty1: A lot of girls think playing hard to get will get a guy to like them. Most of them play hard-to-get when they are interested otherwise she will just play never gonna happen. I know it gets to a point where it becomes boring, annoying and frustrating but deleting her number just because she gave you excuses doesn't seem cool to me. Reason being that she may not even know/like, In other words she doesn't care if you are alive or not. You have to make her like you atleast before she would be able to make out time for you. Some ladies are really busy and sometimes they are worth the chase, but that is if you have seen in their attitude that they are interested. Some are so good at it that even when they are playing hard to get they wouldt still be encouraging you to continue the chase. Sometimes it is cool to give her the "ultimatum" to accept to be your girl or sitdown so that you can see the girl behind her.

I gree with u on the Point of the Ultimatum.. I did this to a girl I've been asking out. I told her that I wanted to take a break 4rm her da if she aint serious with me then am backing out... After like a week she came running bck.

yungryce: Na so dis chic my frnd introduced me to on watsapp talk say she no want unto say she blive say I short n she had only said hi to me n hadn't evn seen my full pix. Mtcheeeeeew

Chai.. Tuff brake mehn

I'm Kay.. I stay at Artilary Ph, wouldn't mind to meet up with a pretty gurl though.

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Hi.. I'm a a fresh Graduate staying in Ph city thought am waiting for service. I jst need a nice, good looking down to earth girl dts willing to mingle and have fun with no strings attached.

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jhydebaba: Tall guys = long joystick.

Not evry tall guy is big down there

What is it abt Tall guys that get girls all attracted to them. I'm abt 6'2 and I've had a couple of girls tell me they like my height and stature.

Most times when I enta into a place for the 1st time I tend to notice dat Pple stare at me. This makes me feel so uncomfortable.
So girls why u pple attracted to tall Guys..

I've said this b4 and I'll say this Again.. Girls that decide to stay the night at a guys House ALWAYS.. I repeat ALWAYS anticipate that there's gona be sex. They Know that ur gona make a move on them. I'm talking 4rm experience and also a girl has told me this b4. So forget if she's pretends at 1st( dats there way). The Important thing there is to make a move.

But OP u sef jonse ooo.. It was Raining and am sure the weather was cold. U cud nt even try to cuddle her then see where it leads to.

Ok, here's another of my experience with this blind date poo. I had travelled to my cousin's place from school spent like two or three days with them. Then on the 2nd day around abt 5 or 6pm ish I got a call, at the other end of the call was a light sweet female voice (Guys una knw wats up na when u get a call 4rm a random number and its girl on the line ). Well at 1st I was stunned, I wasn't expecting it so I had to comport myself and play it cool. So I was like "who's this?"... She replied "its Naomi".. Hmm Naomi, I've always had a thing for girls that where named Naomi or cynthia. So Naomi told me that she got my number 4rm a family friend of mine Kelechi. Oh I remember I had a talk with kelechi one time dat he was gona hook me up with a girl that attended my school back then. I was in my 100level then and she was too. So we got talking for a while and she was like she'd like us to see. In my mind I was like WTF!! Jst like dat. I told her I was not in school dat I traveled for the weekend that when I get back we would see. So I kept posting Naomi until one faithful saturday, I was bored then I remembered I had this babe that had been bothering me for us to meet. Somehow I told my roommate abt it, so I gave Naomi a call and I sensed the excitement in her voice told her we shud meet in school at new Exam Hall. So I tushed my sef up and off I went with my roommate he was so determined to see the babe. Me on the other hand had a lot of things on my mind. If I'd like her appearance and poo. So we got there and she was waiting infront of the exam hall, wht I saw... Wah I saw... WHAT is saw ....... Well wasn't really that bad she was cute though but I was a bit taller than her. I'm 6ft1 she was abt 5ft smtin. We talked briefly I loved her smile. But after we met we did get to talk again until my 200level. That's when the main koko happend that's story for another day.

P.s- I heard dat she was shagging one of my friends brother then too. So dats my experience

I have seen this film b4 na... Jim iyke, Stephanie okereke and Yul Edochie. Yul edochie finally got the girl sha.

Well I can relate to this though... Inferiority complex is really a bad thing which happens to both male and female.. As a dude I've had to struggle with it most times. I've had people talk abt my height and hw gud looking I am. But most times I really don't see it. But I'm working on it though.

Am not really a big fan of blind dates.. Had like 2 or 3 encounters back in sch both 4rm 2go and on twitter.. Well 1 of my encounters back in school was on 2go. My friend linked me up with the girl(Sarah) he told me hw the girl was a cheerful giver. so I was like let me try out my luck and to top it all of the way my guy described her as a very fine girl dat she'll rock a dudes world. So I was looking forward to meet her. I collected her 2go username and we started chatting. So after all the talk and all the babe was interested and we fixed to meet in my room on a sunday. I told my roommates then that I had a visitor coming via 2go runs so they where all excited. Fast forward to 4pm that sunday I got a call and she said she's infront of my lodge. As I got out of my gate I saw the "so called" babe my friend talked abt. I was sooo disappointed, the girl had a wobbily face and had spots on her face. I was so embraced dat I cuddnt even walk by her side. I led her to my room, I was sooo annoyed dt I didn't even offere her anything sef. My roommate had to buy her the stuff with his own money for some reason he was Interested. She saw the disappointment In my face I was jst praying that she wud leave soon. After that day I deleted her number 4rm my phone. Even when I saw her in school I'll jst pretend like I don't even knw her.

@Op why such frustration in one Thread.. Did a fine Dude still ya Babe?

Kslib: I don watch the film.

The guy later die for the end. E pain me sha.

Lol.. This got me Cracking. Na Jim iyke act am.

Here's my advice and there's a 50% chance it might work.
Call her up tell her to come over to ur place dat u'll give her the money when she comes to see u at place. Trust me, for her to jst ask u for a phone within a week she'll probably be expecting u to ask for sumtin In return. B4 she comes over try to convince her to spend d night with u. If she says yes then u knw u've hit the jackpot. But if she declines or comes up with a excuse not to come. Jst free the babe cuz she's not serious.