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Foreign Affairs / Alton Sterling: 4 Officers Killed At Dallas Protest Over Police Killings by mrofficial(m): 5:42am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Four Dallas police officers were killed and seven others were wounded by snipers on Thursday night during a demonstration protesting the police shootings in Minnesota and Louisiana this week, according to Chief David O. Brown of the Dallas police. Source: http://mobile.nytimes.com/2016/07/08/us/3-dallas-officers-killed-at-protest-over-police-shootings.html 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Lagos Reconstructs Isaac John Street, GRA by mrofficial(m): 8:47am On Jul 06, 2016 |
Good. They should also remember to install street lights on that road. It's too important to be left out in the light up Lagos project. |
NYSC / Re: Iwambe Yosev Akwa-Ibom Corper Dies by mrofficial(m): 11:16pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
nagodesmile18: Oh yea, what has he been up to in the useless camp? Drilling like a soldier...etc. |
NYSC / Re: Iwambe Yosev Akwa-Ibom Corper Dies by mrofficial(m): 10:25pm On Jun 27, 2016 |
NYSC is useless. Who knows how many more have died and will. Not all stories get to Nairaland. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Seyi Shay: "One Dance" Is WizKid's Song by mrofficial(m): 8:30pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
Does it really matter? There is this song in Drake's Take Care album that was composed by The Weeknd and it is said to be Drake's. I think it's based on agreement. |
Celebrities / Re: Wizkid To Seyi Shay "Shut Up", after she said 'One Dance' was his by mrofficial(m): 8:29pm On Jun 19, 2016 |
But Wale also said it. Why didn't Wizkid ask Wale to shut up? Does it really matter? There is this song in Drake's Take Care album that was composed by The Weeknd and it is said to be Drake's. I think it's based on agreement. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Business To Business / Re: Earn Steady Income From Dual Fuel Carburetor by mrofficial(m): 11:09am On Jun 13, 2016 |
How many hours before the gas runs out? |
Politics / Re: Oluyole Estate Bridge, Ibadan Under Construction by mrofficial(m): 1:24pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
Isn't that Zartech road linking with Ring road? |
Education / Is This True? by mrofficial(m): 6:19pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
Saw this on a friend's DP and thought I should share with Nairalanders and also know your thoughts.
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Education / Re: The Difference Between " I'm And Am" And How To Use Them by mrofficial(m): 8:51am On Jun 10, 2016 |
Nigerians can annoy someone with "Am". |
Politics / Re: Opinion: Why Is Lagos Light Rail Project Costlier Than That Of Ethiopia? by mrofficial(m): 3:09am On Jun 09, 2016 |
deeplow: OMG. You are funny! 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Relationship Or Situationship? by mrofficial(m): 12:17pm On Jun 07, 2016 |
Strahovski1: You have eyes but can't see. Only a dullardiᵰho will make such comment up there after reading the post. I'll take it that you didn't read it. Go and sleep and stop making yourself a nuisance here. |
Romance / Relationship Or Situationship? by mrofficial(m): 11:09am On Jun 07, 2016 |
Hello there, so this is my official first post on the blog. For those of you that know me well from the previous blog know we are in for a joy ride. After the struggle of medical school and changing status from student to unemployed I figured I should go back to my first love which is writing. The past few weeks for me has been a time of reflecting and transformation. I changed my perspective on so many things about life, it was amazing. truly the only thing constant in this life is actually change! So, I and a girlfriend of mine got talking last week about certain issues and I got inspired to write about it. It was about losing ones self in the process of being with someone for a long time and the toll it can take on your self-confidence and mental health. Yes, I said mental health. Some of y’all are probably asking yourselves, Is it that deep? It actually is. Serious relationships in these times is for those who are mentally and emotionally sound, the resilient and the mature; and when I talk about mature it has more to do with experience than age. It’s 2016 and there is a lot going on with social media, standards of beauty, side chicks and side dudes, the constant hype of being cold and heartless and rants about how everyone is replaceable, cutting people off is trending and we can go on and on. Now, in the middle of all this craziness there you are trying to hold on to this special bond you share with someone but at the same time refusing to be the object of ridicule in these times. The pressure to have your life together or at least appear to, the unspoken competition you put yourself into with your fellow girls or guys and even other couples could really take its toll on your relationship. I’m here to tell you to breathe. Yes darling, take a deep breath and think about this. If there’s one thing I’ve learned about relationships its that everything in this life is in turns. There might be a point where you feel smaller than your partner because you have let all these standards get to you and its the other way round in some cases. Simple things like them telling you they are going out with friends or something as trivial he sound of their cellphone ringing or a text coming in could bring you close to a nervous breakdown or the attention they get from the opposite sex could put you in a frenzy. There are times you feel like you’re not good enough when you see that rich guy pull up in his Benz to say hello to your girl. You see the Lagos big girls in their rides and their flawless light skin and you wonder how your partner resists all that on a daily. You look around you and everyone is winning in life and somehow it excludes you. Most people get it wrong here, instead of them to look inward and see a way to solve the problem so they can go back to feeling equal with their partners again, they take it all out on them and begin to exhibit unhealthy behaviors like being overly suspicious, nagging, unnecessary outbursts, jealousy thinking they are right and failing to realize that they are simply allowing their insecurities to get the better of them. It gets ugly believe me. What I advice people experiencing a down period in their relationships is to work on themselves. There were guys with Benz when that girl picked you, there where more beautiful and hotter girls when he saw something in you and decided to make you his lady. You shouldn’t allow this to shake you. For some reason, he’s paying attention to someone else but he still comes back home to you every day, doesn’t he? When he’s down, who does he call? When she gets that job or contract, who does she call first to celebrate with? Those are the things that matter, your partner knows what treasure he or she has in you, it is just human nature for us to forget to express it at times. If there’s something about yourself you think could be better it is that time to change it. I believe the key to a successful relationship is constantly reinventing yourself. It is a competitive world out there, but you don’t let life’s challenges and your insecurities destroy what took so long to build. Go for that training, invest in your skin, start that new business, always keep your partner thrilled with the things you can do with yourself. Talking to your partner about your feelings and insecurities also helps and more importantly talking to God. Don’t forget you are special and no one can take your place on this earth. You know I’m awesome. Xoxo Culled from: http://honeyricci.com/something-interesting-to-read/ |
Agriculture / Re: Researchers Discover Cure For ‘Tomato Ebola’ by mrofficial(m): 1:28pm On Jun 06, 2016 |
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Celebrities / Re: Brymo's Controversial Reply To Fan Who Asked For School Fees by mrofficial(m): 5:42pm On Jun 05, 2016 |
That was an epic reply coming from Brymo himself that dropped out of achool. Most people think school is what makes you successful. It goes beyond just towing that line and expecting greatness. Especially in a country like Nigeria. Only primary and secondary education should be seen as priority under standard educational syatem. |
Health / Re: How Safe Is Sniper/ Go 90 For Mosquito Control? by mrofficial(m): 11:52am On Jun 05, 2016 |
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Health / Re: Why People Say Bless You After Sneezing..... Answers by mrofficial(m): 11:49am On Jun 05, 2016 |
Funny 1 Like |
Business / Re: NIGERIAN BANKS: So Much Noise About Integrity by mrofficial(m): 7:24am On Jun 03, 2016 |
naijaboy756: Fidelity Bank Plc, we are fidelity, we keep our word by stealing billions of dollars. 1 Like |
Properties / Re: 4th Mainland Bridge Paths From Lekki, Ajah, Ikorodu And Ojodu Berger by mrofficial(m): 7:02am On Jun 03, 2016 |
How will it come to Ojodu Berger? 4 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Lil Kesh Flaunts His New Car As He Stuns In All Black Outfit by mrofficial(m): 9:06pm On May 31, 2016 |
7Alexander: No! Thats a Mercedes E350 or C300. If you know about cars very well, you wouldn't doubt that it's a Mercedes. |
Nairaland / General / Re: The Long Snake Killed At A Poultry Farm This Afternoon by mrofficial(m): 12:11pm On May 26, 2016 |
It's called black mamba because of the black mouth not because of the skin colour. This isn't black mamba. |
Celebrities / Re: Abuja All White Pool Party In Pictures by mrofficial(m): 2:54pm On May 25, 2016 |
This should have been called Abuja poolside party. |
Politics / Re: #NewOshodi: Ambode Unveils Solution For 'Oshodi Menace' (PHOTOS,VIDEO) by mrofficial(m): 11:22am On May 25, 2016 |
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Career / Re: My Madam Sacked Me Because I Killed A Snake In Her Compound by mrofficial(m): 11:20am On May 25, 2016 |
She been won use you but your head is there. Congrats to you. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: The Current State Of Enugu Airport Runway (photos) by mrofficial(m): 11:17am On May 25, 2016 |
What is wrong with Nigeria? 1 Like 1 Share |
Travel / Re: The Ten Most Notorious Neighbourhoods In Lagos by mrofficial(m): 11:08am On May 25, 2016 |
What about Oworo? With their one million boys. |
Agriculture / Re: Tomato Ebola Hits Six States – FG by mrofficial(m): 6:05am On May 25, 2016 |
Well hardly anyone eats tomato these days. Nothing to worry about. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Accident Along Umuahia Road (Pictured) by mrofficial(m): 2:53pm On May 22, 2016 |
Wow! Crazy collision. RIP to the dead. |
Car Talk / Re: How to Stay Awake When Driving (Photos) by mrofficial(m): 7:37am On May 22, 2016 |
AntiWailer: Especially when there is traffic. |
Crime / Re: CBN Security Guard Arrested For Stealing Specimen Naira Currency Notes In Abuja by mrofficial(m): 10:16am On May 21, 2016 |
The guy thought the bank wouldn't know. He played himself. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Niger Delta Avengers List Conditions For Peace by mrofficial(m): 6:50am On May 10, 2016 |
They should keep bombing pipelines. We are in this together. 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Pepsi Drops Tiwa Savage As Brand Ambassador And Teebillz Has Been Arrested by mrofficial(m): 6:34pm On May 02, 2016 |
Not a credible source. 1 Like |
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