KristaPretty:
There's no joy in Masturbation. If e too hungry you, get a partner!

Sis is not easy getting a partner o, all gals are now in relationship, so make we use masturbation take console ourself

alekside:
Yes you can. I had 2.83 in my first semester but graduated with 4.23. It would have been better If I had worked harder.

pls can u give a breakdown of each session or semester cgpa

catwalq:


Do you both get excited talking all the time, Does the convo flow all the time or it flows better after days of dry spell?

Don't listen to what your friend said. You have perception,use it to discern how she reacts

thanks for the input

catwalq:
There is no definite frequency. Whatever works for both of you is the standard

how do you know what works for both of you?
because like my friend said, if u call your woman everyday, she might start misbehaving

How often is it adviceble to call a girl you are trying to build relationship with?
Or
How often do u call ur distance bae?

Someone said twice a week is ok

Tangmaniandevil:
Uhmm... Bruv.

First off, you don't have her yet.

So get the whole "I don't want to lose her " shit out of your head.

Secondly, you have a bigger problem. You don't yet know what to do at the different stages.

I'm not saying this to diss you or anything. It's just that you sound a little inexperienced and considering you're also shy and from your tone in this post, I'm guessing this is the first girl in a while to give you attention.

And that's okay.

Now... From what you wrote, you may have dulled her or bored her and she may have lost interest (or found a new Bros to be interested in) which is why she is now acting up.

Here's what you should do.

Give her space. Don't call or text her for a while. Still say hi and all when you see her in class and all. Just don't be all over her.

Next, get busy meeting other women and learning how to hold conversation, and what to do at each stage - first meeting, hanging out at your place, getting her into bed (if that's what you want) and just generally getting comfortable talking and flirting with women.

Then, after a few weeks... If she has not texted you or called you by then, call her up and tell her it's been a while and that y'all should hang out. She'll most likely say yes. If she says no though, it's no biggie. Free her and continue doing your thing.

Still say hi when you see around. The last thing you want to do is do that immature malice bullshit thing.

Funny enough, if you do this, you might get her back or even meet somebody better.

Whatever you do, do it for you. Not as a move to get her back. And have no attachment to the outcome - whether you get her or not.

Also, for next time, know what you're going to do and what you intend to do with her and lead her there. Because most of the time, women won't take things to the next level. They expect you to.

Hope this helps

yes boss, I really appreciate

showafrica:


No go dey tell her say you love her now oo, otherwise, she don waka finally. Just invite her for lunch again, take her home and initiate a long kiss. If she resist, dont force her but if she no resist, tell her you like her after the kiss and wants to be a close pal. Warning, never mention love at this early stage.

noted

Munzy14:

You want to taste apple...

why not.
but I must confess it is not easy, she is not the first girl, this thing keep on repeating itself.

LOGOBELT:
Bro, Studies mixed with a lovely girlfriend on campus, aids easier assimilation in school. You suppose understand na.... Have you ever noticed that a girl/guy wey no dey any relationship for campus, na dem dey fail course pass

Reason Am.... All work no play, makes MrPoul a dull boy he needs that girl

thanks bro, all through my life, I have been a book worm, always envying guys with gf

Meklex:
You started well, but ended badly. Don't make the mistake of asking her out, that will give her an edge over you.

The girl came to your place prolly because she was bored and instead of you to switch things up you were asking her to go because of her roommate, what nonsense.

You could have entertained her, made her feel comfortable, play games (games that gets you to know her more) with her, and prolly Bleep her.

I see some people saying, don't Bleep her. Here's the thing, if you want sex go for it, delaying it will make you do stupid things. Things you would later regret.

If a girl digs you, she'll want to have sex with you immediately.

Don't be an asshole with her, or try to be shady. Show her how cool you are (but not at your expense), if you are shy, let her know, do things together. Be open, but not too open (only say the things that will help your cause)

A girl recently came to my house, we played a lot of games such as sharing house chores and racing to see who would finish first (it was her first time coming to my house), and I bleeped her that same day. And I was able to do this because I got to know her and what she stands for and used it.

Always know your girl first, always know what you want, then go for it. She would either oblige you or not.

But first, always be a cool guy.

thanks for this

Strica:
you're not shy, you've just run out of things to talk about for now. take her to a movie and allow her pick the movie. you can discuss the plot, characters and alternative endings over ice cream and fries or Pepsi and popcorn. then schedule another date for the following week.

if she's up for it, you can go foodstuff shopping together and make the meal together. you'll bond without breaking the bank.

these are just a couple of suggestions and please keep sex off the table, at least for now. there's a high chance it'll ruin your chances at something lasting. also ensure you're clean and well groomed too.

and remember, you're a student first. having good grades is another way to stay attractive.

noted

Rubbiish:
How old are u

22

Spy360:
Send her this write up, you will be amazed.
Again, be yourself. That's the key. Girls hate pretenders.
Lastly avoid sex. Thank me later.

why do u say, I should avoid sex?

Jersuiyjoe:

Hmmm...
such a trip.
Seems like you already loose her before you came here to create this tread, the way she behaved are signs that means she isn't interesting in you anymore.
anyway i don't know what to say.
But let me suggest this. And what you have to do is:
Tell her the kind of guy you are, that you are the kind of shy guy and you don't how to communicate properly because it's your first time, and also tell her that things may not work for the both of you because of the kind of person you are.

Look man i know that what i wrote up doesn't sound too good. And the only way to please a lady is to be honest with your situation, and stop trying to act like a boss. Just put yourself together and let her know the truth.
And also try to read some books when facing a mirro, talk whilst looking at the mirro and see your expression while you grow more confidence.

thanks for the input

inspirator1:

.
From birth ladies were gifted with comm skills, unless they don't like you else they won't engage you...just experience this my assertion this morning from a lest expected junior staff.
I was once like him...it's a skill indeed that needs to be develop and when you do that, menh the feeling is out of this world. Like someone said upfront...try and be controversial, dress neat and ignore her for now then seems to be distracted when with her but don't ignore her gists.

how did u overcome shyness?

LOGOBELT:
A shy guy for this 21st century? Guy send me her number, let me help you talk to her, she will say yes to me in no time......Oh sorry! She will say yes to you in no time.


Guy, work on yourself, your boldness matters alot. Apart from that Girl, you need boldness for your Seminar Defense, Project Defense and even Interview when you are done with your studies.

Your boldness will make most people believe you even when what you have to say is stupid.

Now when you have boldness, when you have accomplished it, then you will not look for what to say to THAT GIRL you said you dont want to LOSE, what to say WILL COME ITSELF

We Nairalanders won't help you, rather YOU GAT TO HELP YOURSELF. Thank You

is there any book you can suggest for me?

I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

mrpoul:
There is dis girl, that I meet in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture. After the lecture, I disappear because im this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture. So I saw her on FB I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finish eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5mins. I told her we need to go, dat her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was happy to see me. After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

pls guys what should I do

There is dis girl, that I meet in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture. After the lecture, I disappear because im this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture. So I saw her on FB I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finish eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5mins. I told her we need to go, dat her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was happy to see me. After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

Apart from Hibbeler, Rajput and Kurmi, is there any other good text or material on engineering mechanics that is recommended for a person that is not really good in mechanics especially in Dynamics?

LostAddict:


Mouau

ok, is very possible for u to graduate with a 2.1 and even a 4point cgpa. if u had read well and u still had that cgpa, it only mean one thing that u have not been studying smartly...

LostAddict:
Good morning house, sorry for my typos.

So, I recently saw my 100lvl cgpa and it was very discouraging after all my struggles like going to the library and night classes after school hours. I had 2.81 on a 5.0 scale, I would like to know if I can graduate with a second class upper, at least a 3.80.

also studying computer, which uni??

ladyF:
I can see bush near the house. Means there’s more where this one came from. Be “Kia-vool”

It’s LadyF again

long time no see
where have u been?

My Facebook account was hacked and my pictures deleted, I have search for help online especially on YouTube, I was told to download Facebook history, which I did, the only pictures I found there is the one that uploaded recently. so pls is there anyway I can recover my pictures?

cidieschat:
The video couldn't play on my phone but I think the boy is wrong by beating his elder sis just because her mother chased his father away,and as for his uncle he shouldn't have slept with his landlord's daughter but I suggests the landlord should give him two weeks more then if he didn't pay his house rent,he should go and marry another wife before the igwe calls another village meeting, thank you.

Nigerians

I don't judge easily

ndat:
permission to use this for a paper presentation...

permission granted

I am a Calabar boy, I would like to marry from yoruba.

PotatoSalad:

Go to the person's file manager, then go to WhatsApp, go to databases and find the chat backup of the day you want to explore. It's in .crypt12 format
Copy and send the database to your phone via Bluetooth. Don't forget to clear Bluetooth activity after sending. Then download WhatsApp Business, paste the database file in the WhatsApp folder/databases and do as if you're creating a new account, enter your second number and restore backup.
All her chats will now be displayed on your WhatsApp business app. Then read and drink sniper

thanks 4 dis

Please guys, how do I stop forgetting things I read, just today I went to write test, I became blank when the question was shared, this course that I have read the material for close to 4times, jot down some point, try some pass question but I still couldn't remember 70% of what I read, how do I go about this? I want to improve, I want to boost my gp, but I don't know why this keep happening to me?

the answer is 600.036mm^2