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Her store is at Dolphin Extension

It's really hard (and expensive). I guess it's a bit easier now with skype, IM etc but still a chore. There will always be major trust issues and a slightly off conversation can cause massive drama. Been there, done that. Do not plan to go there again! Its nice to have some space sometimes but not so much.

Macgreat:
LMAO. , .
4 naija club?!

Lol. Most Nigerian girls seem to do the toasting,

Hey All. Just to clarify - it was defined the "worst place to work" by EXPATRIATES!!!!!

Annual BusinessWeek survey. Cnn clip is on url below.

http://www.clickafrique.com/Magazine/ST010/CP0000003381.aspx

Enjoy

@Poster - I admire your ability to give him a 2nd chance. Major concern is not even the cheating but without condoms?! Thats f'ed up.

@Leilah - WTF??!?! Is that your only angle. You keep popping up saying "dress up" "go out clubbing" "stop him drinking". Is he a child? He is a grown man. You cannot keep a man on lockdown unless you really want to piss him off. If he is a good person (the jury is still out on this one) then its ok for him to let off some steam and have a few drinks with his mates. Men don't like to be suffocated by their wives.

As a wife, I like going occasionally - just often enough to feel included but it does get pretty boring after a while. I think if you never take your wife, thats when she'll want to go!

"women are made to be loved, not understood"

no open marriage in the bible.

Each to his own I guess. I asked my hubby (Nigerian) why he married me (I'm white) and he said because he fell in love with me. Period. So simple innit!?

Well, from what I've seen, most men need variety and an ego boost. I have a friend who on paper is the perfect wife but her husband still has girlfriends - none as pretty, intelligent or as classy as his wife. Even worse, he really does love his wife and kids.

I personally feel that men are the weaker sex when it comes to infidelity and temptation. Women (especially in Nigeria) are very devious and manipulative and they put themselves on a plate. How many times can a guy turn down a freebie?! Especially when they are totally and utterly wankered after heavy drinking on a Friday night.

We just gotta pray for them all - apparently its "destructive behaviour" and its addictive. Lol, or so a Pastor's wife told me. We should pray for the husbands and also for the Ho's (!!) - not an easy task.

~Sauron~:
What i cannot seem to belly about these women is the fact that they come here to bash Naija men when things go tits up.
When everything was rosy. . . . .when the Naija dude was buying diamonds for em, taking em out to posh restaurants and doing the right thing. . . .we don't see em coming here to give em credits.

@ Sauron - I am not here to bash!! I love my Naija Man, he is a soldier amongst men and treats me with more respect than an english guy ever would.

@ Bridget - the bible says love never gives up - if you really love then you need to get on your knees girl,