₦airaland Forum

You and hubby just have to wing it but make sure your baby is okay because crying is the only way a baby can communicate and if your hubby have issues with it...he can self service.

Hmm.

It's good that women are taking a stance and you do not need to accept abuse to have a man.

It's weird.

Chiamaka01: Op, you are just flattering nigerian men. No matter what, i won't marry a Nigerian man.

Not even Michael Majid?

Yes.

Yes.

TrickofTech: So I am from the US. I am white, male. I have just spent some months in Nigeria and I found Nigeria amazing! I really enjoyed it. Seeing the different cultures and the different way of life. I was great.

I was staying with a Nigerian family (Yoruba) and again...it was really cool. Thing is, the family had a daughter about 30 (a couple of years older than me). She is not really good looking, but ok, Born Again, and we seemed to get on really well. She was really friendly...and I slowly got the impression that she liked me (romantically). She would use any excuse to talk to me and was always coming to my room to chat. I really liked her too, straight away...but I never really did anything about it. Basically we just did this back and forth flirting type thing everyday...and that's how it stayed. I was very aware that her parents lived in the same house and I did not want to be disrespectful. On top of that...there is the whole cultural gap...I know quite a bit about Yoruba culture, but I am not sure how Nigerians approach courting and flirting and all that stuff.

Her family would often 'joke' (although I am not sure!) about us getting married...which was quite awkward. At times she seemed very interested in asking me "when will you marry?" and "would you marry a Nigerian?". Other times she said outright that it was not appropriate for her to marry a white person. When I left she said she would really really miss me...and has called me a lot since. She keeps asking to return to Nigeria.

I left Nigeria without telling her that I liked her a lot.
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Thing is, I am not an mugu. I am aware of the film 'oyinbo hunters'! I know there are many Nigerian women after green cards and money! Also, I am not even sure if she really liked me romantically. Are women in Nigeria flirtatious generally? I could have just been mistaking her over-friendliness for romantic interest, although there were times which I was sure she fancied me. I am well aware that some Nigerians are intrigued by white people...and it could have just been that.

We were pretty close by the end of my time in Nigeria. I REALLY regret not telling her that I liked her...I just want her to know how beautiful (inside and out) I thought she was, even if she isn't interested.

I am glad at least we are friends for the moment. I would really like to see her again one day, although all I can think is that I will probably never see her again. I just wish I could have spent more time with her...talked to her some more.

Awwww. Just offer her a green card...you will see her pronto!

Good luck!

ikekings: Huh? Who be this one? This one wan follow claim like say she knows anything about igbo guys... Well, it's too bad mr chima is stingy... Like they say love conquers all... Keep loving him...

Lie!

ikekings: Eeerrmmm... Who said igbo guys are stingy? We ain't stingy ooo... If there's one tin igbo guys are good at... That's spending money!!! Bia vivian kpachara anya gi ooo!!!

Lie!

Chillisauce: But Igbo men stingy Sha. Aka gums!

Yes!

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]There are women who have no issue cooking for their Bleep buddies, ; baby daddies, bootycallers, and one night standers but how come these women are not married to any of them?

Intelligent men looks for the total package when choosing wives and the ability to cook water doesn't make a good wife nor partner.

Little boys want to play house but don't have the guts to mature as standard married men.

It is not nobel peace worthy for a woman to cook noddles for her man but can she find cure to AIDS or end world hunger is worth bragging about. [/quote]Gotdamn that was swift!

justplainpaul: you never liked Nigeria men for once, why? how do put up with Mr chima then?

Lol@the likes.

Hating bishes.

Ghanaians.

Kaycee7: What the f,uck are you doing here?

Sleeping with your daddy on Halo.

Congratulations! Happy marriage life!

25Calibre: Kill yourself hag!!!

5 minutes later...the nigga is still bishing.

Did Badosky break down your 50Cal account?

What's next? 10 Cal?

Old news.

25Calibre: You are worth less than a chicken. Hag!!!

10 minutes later and he is still wounded.

Little boy smells like he needs a diaper change.

Bad mother!

[quote author=*Kails*]c'mon guys!
there's no need to argue!! [/quote]Gamers!

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]There are women who have no issue cooking for their Bleep buddies, ; baby daddies, bootycallers, and one night standers but how come these women are not married to any of them?

Intelligent men looks for the total package when choosing wives and the ability to cook water doesn't make a good wife nor partner.

Little boys want to play house but don't have the guts to mature as standard married men.

It is not nobel peace worthy for a woman to cook noddles for her man but can she find cure to AIDS or end world hunger is worth bragging about. [/quote]LMAO at the barking dogs.

They are pissed!

25Calibre: Lol the foolish woman is now quoting herself hahaha what a waste!!

Another wounded dog.

Just like your foolish mammy for not using a hanger when she should.

Now help your friend....he sounds pissed!

LMAO@the poster begging for opponents and throws in the white flag!

Priceless!

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]There are women who have no issue cooking for their Bleep buddies, ; baby daddies, bootycallers, and one night standers but how come these women are not married to any of them?

Intelligent men looks for the total package when choosing wives and the ability to cook water doesn't make a good wife nor partner.

Little boys want to play house but don't have the guts to mature as standard married men.

It is not nobel peace worthy for a woman to cook noddles for her man but can she find cure to AIDS or end world hunger is worth bragging about. [/quote]TKO!

Too easy! Let us see who else the rock hits.

Ugly truth hurts.

johnnyblakes: with their weak albino joystick,tah comot their make i see front jor

I am sorry a white man took your bish.

Boll2010: puke

Don't be jealous.

dmcdad: It seems you just decided to skip the part where I stated it clearly that "even the so-called westerners they look up to do cook". Smh...

You clearly missed my point...typical.

Lol at Nigerian rap and hiphop.