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Joavid: Divorce cases are on the rise(in Nigeria) because of the influence of the western culture.

Why would u get married with the mindset that 'if it doesnt work,fine,we get a divorce. People now test-run marriage.

The main reason of having a pre-nup is because u kow d marriage is for a short while.
Then why get married??
And why get married to someone u are not sure u can spend the rest of ur life with? The more reason why u shuld be extra-careful who u marry.
As for me,who ever believes in divorce cannot stay married,because when the heat is on,u get out instead of putting an effort to make it work. "if u are not ready for the heat,dont even get into the kitchen"

So whoeva is divorced shuld not blame it on his/her patner,cus u saw it coming and when u want to get married,marry some1 with the same mindset on marriage as u.
If u want "for better for worse,till death do us path",marry a person who wants d same.

I believe,"till death do us part"so am 100% sure of the man i end up with

Let me get this right....are you saying that Nigerians are so daft that they allow a continent to influence their life and destroy their "culture"?

Gotdamn.

[quote author=A-ZeD]Why will/should a married man cheat? Most men would not hesitate to throw out a cheating wife but expect the women to 'understand'?[/quote]Thank you.

ogugua88: I wonder if a woman will still be respected when she's been beaten to partial deafness and brain death or is suffering herpes and HIV, all in the name of marriage. Hmmm.

Hmmmm.

But hey as an African...you are required to abide by the culture despite the bullshit.

Davo93: Divorce is not part of our culture until recent time of bastardization....

To delete post or deactivate your account, check my signature.

But cheating is

xynerise: The bible permits divorce but only on INFIDELITY ground. But african women will manage.






Husband scarce o

Who are those fioooone men on this thread?

Dark men are sexy to me.

[quote author=ozo_emeka]No Igbo achievers ? Sarcasm or do I take it you are really not learned about the world around you or plain stu-pid? [/quote]She was being sarcastic suga.

Boll2010: bitch u be trending on twitter with the #SaveAsoul......u need to get injected with some sweetener......cuz ur whole life v been so bitter,fat Pig aint feel no pity to yo'sorry as!s, go continue rockn dos old 80's wear!.......u come here n spew trash! Ur life will do well if uv been on da'street suckn di!cks n givn ur man some rimjobs......atleast dat wld save a DOLLAR for yo'nasty lifestyle.....binsh y u mad.......I gez u hate life so much u rant a lot on nairaland if u hate u life so bad y dnt u kill ursef.......fat bitc!he's claimin charmin,u gonna stay trippin ur whole fuckin life.......freaks! Badbitc!he's wannabe y don't u hookup juicy J in da'50grand twerkin challenge loolks u would do anythn to get da'bucks......old bitc!he's lookin for fun.......am tru wit yo'ass.....hop on next dick SUCKER......I knw u wld b so dumb in tryna quote....done n dusted!!!

A manbitch is mad!

White men rocks!

NEROSKY: Leave the aristo babe who just decided to settle down with the man who's managing her.... Lazy old woman who spend all her time online...

You don't like your mammy do you?

Did she choose a man over you?

Boll2010: are u some loosed psycho or wat? get a strapon for ur self lucky HO!E

What did your mammy say when you asked her?

Boll2010:

You know about smelling toto huh?

Nassy bish.

NEROSKY: You & ur man are pig in making, because he's still strafing dat ur smelling pusssy!!!

You need a cognitive therapy

You might want to screen the hoes you nyansh because toto is not supposed to smell.

They make pigs in Nigeria?

[quote author=ozo_emeka]Hahaa...

Let me tell you something. I am Portuguese-Nigerian American and so I can relate to both cultures. Take heed: Nigerian men are different, yes. Culturally. But don't be fooled. Nigerian men are MEN. In fact, they are one of the most suave sweet-talking men (compared to African-American "standards" .
A nigerian man believes in family - he grew up THAT WAY so it is nothing "exceptional" (as it is for a Black man to be about starting a family AND remaining there as a PRESENT father figure) however, to the "typical" american, it is exceptional that a "man" wants and desires a family.

He is not FIRST AND FOREMOST about sex. He LOVES/WANTS sex but is "taught" that there is a "route" to sex. AKA see a girl, chase the girl, girl plays coy, guy plays smart, uses lines and techniques to bed her, then dates her. Of course, there are variations. The "Black man" is "conditioned to think like a rap music video - see a girl, ask her for her number (mind you a nigerian boy might know a girl for weeks before asking for her number - this is almost "normal" in a nigerian sense vs american sense), invite her to come "chill", have sex THEN decide if you want to date.

A nigerian boy's definition of a date is MUCH MORE than "Dinner and a movie". He is taught, (and believed) in serenading a woman he is interested in. Whereas in "american terms" that is a "simp" / "wuss" / "pussy" / "bitch boy" who is "whipped" or acting whipped. A nigerian man sees it as a means to display his "capabilities" (financial and otherwise). See a nigerian boy meeting a ho (aka a cheap easy girl) will STILL serenade her to get kitten, not because he is whipped or a bitch, BUT because he is taught THAT IS HOW TO GET kitten. Meanwhile a Black man will ONLY SERENADE A GIRL HE IS interested in WIFE-ing up. So when a black girl sees a black boy serenading her she THINKS she is "the one" for him.

Separate cultural differences from his personality. Nigerians are one of the MOST ARROGANT people you will come across. I am Igbo too, and I can tell you Igbo boys (especially when we are FINE) can be the COCKIEST motherF%cker you know. Tread cautiously. Because an Igbo boy will take your heart to the clouds and leave you hanging before you realize what happened.[/quote]Lol. Now that is real.

Seal is ugly.

RedBenson: Yes! Am his gateman. Can we mingle at my security post?

Yes...we can! Let me get my machete.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Damn....what are those white men doing to Nigerian men in Nigeria besides taking the chicks?

Somebody is upset! [/quote]

as usuall: Nigerian men are endowed,proud 9ja man

Endowed in what?

Uyi Iredia: Yes, we know you married oyibo. Wey Ms Potato sef I don taya for you and I miss her.

You too?

Damn....what are those white men doing to Nigerian men in Nigeria besides taking the chicks?

Somebody is upset!

Amelian: Op, hate the mindset .... Not the country, which can be empty and void if there is no one living in it...am not saying u shud blow up everyone. .. But don't u think, u shud occupy your mindset, with something creative, instead of waiting endlessly for the strike to be over... Look within, and and think beyond the box...be positively creative with your mind, also turning it into buisness.. God will not come down from heaven to solve issues here, that has already been solved years back..
So be positive and think inwards to bring out something that u think is not there and will u will surprised ... It could be marketable...and sort out for...
Best of luck in your search.

I was just about to say...it's not the country but it's the bleeped up people in the country.

Adamskuty: Heheh! BA ,nawaaa ooh! The real "native" americans don't even see u guys as americans (the white lord u love so much )


crack da ribs



siGn of Ends Times...AdaMz

Whatever those White men did to you in Nigeria....let it go.

You can still call the Nigerian cops.

Adamskuty: Heheh! BA ,nawaaa ooh! The real "native" americans don't even see u guys as americans (the white lord u love so much )


crack da ribs



siGn of Ends Times...AdaMz

Are you okay? You seems to got me confused with other people or seems to think you know what and who I am.

Assumption seems to be a Nigerian thing on NL.

Yellow water isn't good for you.

Adamskuty: hehehehhe! (now this write up over here made me crack ma ribs)? What's BA

AA ....african..american,that's what we all call u,that's what the whites (which u love so much calls u)

so what's the character of ur kind,madam professor on character?? Kindly reply plzzzzz


looool@BA

I don't know what AA is....ask someone who cares.

Adamskuty: it's prettier than that of chima u say,so what's it?

lool! I don't give a single fvck about what u think though,lool! @ non-nigerianish character,they is nothing like that, a nigerian can have different characters.

Every single nigerian got his or her own character.

Oops if i may ask,since u seem to know quite alot about different citizen's characters,what's the character of an AA?

daaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnq

Why don't you ask an AA because I don't know what AA is but I do know what BA is.

You don't give a Bleep but yet you writing essays and shit.

Try again nigga.

Boll2010: I gez u nid to sit or suck a di!ck......

Somebody is hurting!!!!

White men rocks!

madone: I think am in love wit you ggirl

Awwwwww. Badosky did you tell him you got EU papers?

RedBenson: Get behind me mrs chima! Who do you want to mingle with leaving Chima at home?

Are you his gateman?