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25omega: how soon did you find out about the trip? i ask because most men would like advance notice so they can prepare themselves for being alone with the kids for the whole week. Also what exactly will you "ladies" be doing the whole week besides talking about peni-ses

We are going to a resort and will have too much to think about men. The trip is for end of month.

Koyoke....do u think it's wise to invite single women or stick to all married chicks?

kokoye: So..did you ask him yet?

No

kokoye: She's going to Vegas with her girls...

Hush love-vendor.

Enegod: take them to their grandmama... you cant convince him...not this time

Grandma on vacation.

kokoye: I'll take yours as a form of payment for my service up there

I don't get stamps but I will take yours! Plus you ain't said nothing of merit.

kokoye: Well, I hope everyone on this thread is married ..or else my post may make no sense to you.

When you live together, there WILL be disagreements that if not well managed, may lead to something else. You have to understand your partner and know how to diffuse the situation.

I personally dont like going back n forth when tensions are high cos I have realised it doesnt work out well FOR US.

If as a result of your emotions or anger, you say things that are hurtful to me, I may naturally want to get back at you verbally ..then we start hurting each other with words. I dont go that.

Instead, I WILL KEEP QUIET ..or WALK AWAY IF NECESSARY.

We tend not to think right or listen when we are are angry.

If you keep shouting at me or saying hurtful things, you are simply just extending my silent period. I cant talk to you because you are too 'high' to listen to me or think right.

When we both calm down (not matter how long it takes..hours in most cases), then I will get my points across and listen as well - that is effective and efficient communication.

Call it silent treatment but that is what works for me. I'm not forcing it on you.

We used silent treatment too. It works for us.

kokoye: Sorry ...but some of these are good reasons as well.

Think about it...and be realistic

Smh.

She could have fallen over to catch him.

Enegod: take the kids with you....

Where we are going....no kids allowed.

kokoye: Just tell him.

I take credit cards or food stamps.

Koyoke!! You get food stamps

Sexist viewers!!!!!!

An all girl trip is coming soon and I wanna go!! How can I convince my hubby to keep the kids?

Any suggestions?

AK Money: I broke up with my gf today and below is the message I sent to her, don't know if I'm doing the right thing but have been hurt so much by many ladies. Now I gotta move on

You came into my life and spark the plug of love in me when the last thing on my mind was love. U promise to love me unconditionally and I thought I have finally found a safe place for my heart after several damages done to it. I cry quietly when I miss u, waited patiently for you to come and turn my world around but you prove to me that true love never exist. U show me how little I mean to u and u betray the love I have for u. If I can cry over it then I can get over it cos this isn't the first time.
Goodbye my love.

Aww she found a rich mugu huh?

Who fucking cares

r231: wetin

Hey boo! I dey wella!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Witch[/quote]Your fada.

Still reading and peeing.

I bet the pillow is saturated with nut juices!

jacobscros: shhh!! grownups are discussing...

Your fada.

Yes...I trust my husband so therefore I trust my best friend with Chima.

To avoid poverty and public opinions is not a reason to remain with an abuser. Family is important and if they truly care and love you...you won't be alone.

Love does not hurt.

REALITY101: I guess because there's no return item policy in Nigeria?

This nukka.

Wow at the fakeness.

Bored huh buffie?

MRbrownJAY: its very simple: because Nigerians ladies are in the same situation as 9ja men are (desperate to live abroad), and will overlook these men's marital status in order to marry someone who could take them away from their miserable lives in 9ja.
Naija man knows that and thats why he has the audacity to go back home and look for these desperate ladies.



immigration and economic reasons



because they know that they can get any deluded and desperate woman half their age to marry.

Ugly truth. Eeeew at chicks willing to marry grandparents for survival!

RedBenson: Mrs. Chima! Mrs. Chima!! Mrs. Chima!!! How many times i don call u so? U are cheating on Chima? Small time now, u go wan tell ur friend say em bobo dey crab another woman booty for shopping centre, this one nko? No be cheating be this? I blame Chima sha for getting 2inches dicck wen women like u wit excess wideness of punnany needs bottle of beer to penetrate them. I fit help u out sha! Pm me.

No thanks!

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]married and still searching [/quote]Lol.

It was fun dating my husband and I recommend people stick to traditional dating....you learn more!