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[quote author=Mynd_44]And you know this because you are a black guy?[/quote]She is a white girl. The name should have told you that ode.

ikekings: Crap!!! I prefer white girls because of one thing and I can't find it on your write-up... Where are my black girls jare? Come to papa...

They don't want you.

Sexkillz, just for clarification do I respond to Dont8's response to my argument or wait until the judges score the first post?

I am about to travel.

[quote author=Mrs..Chima]Good morning Mr. Dont8.

The correct idiom is “Give a man an inch and he take a mile” exemplify individuals whom are too foolish and selfish to appreciate kindness and generosity. How can a man who thinks he is superior over his wife possess kindness and generosity?

According to your explanation of the above idiom, you contradicted yourself by stating that a man should assert authority/superiority in the relationship if a woman take a mile, but who should assert authority/superiority in the relationship if a man takes a mile?

You have raised some significant tidbits that I have the opportunity to eloquently address. It is interesting that you have mentioned titanic and captain in your argument. Now bear with me as I explain the role and duty of each crewmember of titanic. A standard cruise ship consists of these following:
• Ship Master
• Staff Captain
• Safety Officer
• Petty Officer
• Boatswain/boatman
• Cruise Director
• General Staff Member

Each title has a specific responsibility and authority to ensure prevention of potential shipwreck.

The structure and operation of a cruise ship is similar to a family in marital relationship. The head, typically the man is the shipmaster and the neck; typically the woman is the staff captain of the ship. Shipmaster and staff captain have similar authority and responsibilities of the cruise ship, however the shipmaster oversees the operation and navigation of the cruise ship with supportive reports, propositions, and management of staff captain. The other officers and staff members are the children in marital relationship from the eldest to the youngest.

Because of effective communication, respect, compassion, love, and patience between the shipmaster, staff captain, officers, and staff members there are no threat of mutiny on our ship (Personal Experience of Mrs. Chima, 2012).

A debate content with biblical references is like copying and pasting theologies of opinionated and questionable religious authors. However according to your bible, if you look at Ephesians 5 (KJV) it illustrates that in a standard Christian family that Christ is the head, which He gave responsibility to the man to carry out in his family and wives to submit to their husbands as their husbands submit to Christ. Christ gave specific instructions to the husbands to love thy wives as Christ love the church.

Now let look at the definition of submission and feminism, according to a standard dictionary, feminism is a doctrine advocating social, political, and other rights of women equal to those of men. Why would a spiritual man that loves his wife not to support equal rights she deserves? Do you think your Christ will accept belittling attitude and speech toward your wife that He specifically instructed the husbands to love thy wives as Christ love the church? I think not, sir.

How can I as a non-religious person accept such laden contradictions? I have seen “Christian marriages” that share your marital philosophy and I must say sir, some of these women and men are denouncing the very fabric of what marriage institution represent.

The dictionary states that submissive is act of meek, humbly, obedient, and dutiful. I have noticed something when I read the definition of submissiveness that when given an example, it states submissive servants, not woman nor man. An orthodox Muslim demonstrates true meaning of a submissive servant to Allah. A Muslim man can teach his cruise members how to be humbly servants by being an example.

By the true definitions of feminism and submissiveness, I am a proud feminist who wants equal rights in life and prosperity as I am afforded and have no qualms being submissive to the head as the head leads by an example.

I am assuming that your biblical reference regarding women in the church and how they should act is from King James Version. Now bear with me as I eloquently address the above reference According to 1 Corinth. 14: 34 states that women should remain silence during public worship and refrain from asking questions that may disrupt pastoral sermon and ask thy husbands at home.

In contradiction, 1 Peter 3:1 states that wives be submissive to thy husbands so that if they do not behave according to the word by your silence and actions shall turn them or won them over.

The two verses contradict each other because? in one verse it prohibit women from teaching or asking questions during public worship but in another verse instruct women to lead by an example with their actions. If such husbands are not living according to the word how can such women win over dirt with dirt? Why would a woman want a man to assert authority and superiority over her if he is using contradicting verses of religious and dead authors to prove his opinion?

I will not even touch on the subject of male evangelists being questioned and accused of fraud by governmental and public figures.

As I close, you are correct asserting authority is not the same as bullying or intimidating women in relationships. It means the right to act in a specified way by delegating and overseeing operation of his home as a shipmaster would of his ship. If a cruise ship were to operate base on your definition of marital relationship and how it should be run with superior attitude, fortunately my cruise ship would have enough lifeboats to save your debris.

A man that controls his cruise ship without leading by an example will not prevent a mutiny or shipwreck. I think the staff captain and crewmembers have better chance of survival stranded on a deserted island.

Thank you.
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Thank you Sexkillz bro.