₦airaland Forum

ikekings: Hmmm... ...

In some cases, it melt right in your mouth.

jhydebaba: How come Mrs Chima knows this too well? Is that the place u met Mr Chima?

Actually...there is a club in my area called Dating Spot and it is off the chain. No, I met Chima at a function. Any more questions?

ikekings: How did you come to the conclusion that butter is easy?

That's a nickname of my husband's (-----)......anyways it is easy to me.

ikekings: Well, you just did... ...

Good. Easy like butter.

ikekings: Lol... You really want to know what i can do huh?

Bring it! You won't be the only Igbo man I have broken and tamed.

sam4xadams: some people ask why nairaland doesn't have a dating section since more folks are present. Maybe its because OF the scammers

There is a dating section on Romance Section....it is above the Sexuality link.

NEROSKY: he means it mitigates d chances of cheating,
i find hez point meaninful cuz wen i was wif an angel i dnt cheat..
Maybe i should pave way 4 newly weded 2 av dier say, i will com bak in 4-5 years 2 share mine..
Abeg make una no lock this thread oh!

LMAO@cheating is cured by the high standard of beauty!

No damn wonder there are sooooo many unhappy marriages in......

ikekings: Hmmm... ... Why did you just mention my name? ...

Cos I can! What u gon do? Huh? Huh?

Never let a man just put the head in!

Sexkillz.

[quote author=9ja_I_hail]Thanks for loving our food and culture but here we are talking about our pride and heritage which we cannot afford to toy with, as i am typing this is 3am here and i am still awake monitoring this thread so that invaders or hijackers will not take us by surprise.[/quote]

Steezz: Mrs.Chima...pfff...u obviously cant be 40.Get a life...your pussy stinks 4rm here.Fuckin disgrace 2 womanhood

Just like your mammy when she didn't swallow you!

Steezz: *yawn* Is dat your best shot?You are obviously one of those dat got married to a mumu 4 a husband...stayin online 247...d fool must probably be starvin...go cook 4 him...jobless hoe!Na your type dey molest underage...prostitut

[size=33pt]A manbitch is hurting! [/size]

[quote author=*Kails*]im divorced.[/quote]

pendo89: I love it.
Means that One's reaction to a particular situation will tell if it stems from jealousy or love.
As in, if one behaves in a disordely,unprotective and violent manner, just to get his message across,it's obvious what the root cause is.
thanks

Yes. I also want to add that jealousy and envy are two separate things because jealousy is something that you have but you don't want others to have it. Envy is longing something that you don't have and will do whatever to get what you are longing for.

There was an incident that happened in my area where this man killed a woman that he has been stalking for some time and when he approached her, she rejected him. You know what happened next. That was envy.

My cousin's friend likes my husband and every time there is a function...she is always there to see if my husband is around. She would try to dance with him and make flattering comments to no fault My cousin asked her to pass out food to people that were sitting down and she made sure she served my husband first and even asked him how did it want it. Now as his wife, I was a bit jealous because that is my husband no biatch serve my husband BUT ME! That was jealousy.

Now don't get me wrong I take great pride in my husband getting compliments but when it is over the line then I have an issue with that. My husband handled the ho by saying that he has a wife and no thank you. I was grinning like a Cheshire cat! I was like that my baby!

Coasting: @Mrs Chima,

What we have in Nigeria is systemic divorce (my way of describing a situation where couples merely co-exist physically as husband and wife but are isolated emotionally). It is a more dangerous form of divorce because the two people involved (man and woman) are merely tolerating each other.

The reason couples dont practice the usual divorce in Nigeria is because of our cultural system. Our culture is anti-divorce in orientation. But that does not take out the systemic divorce already mentioned.

Be that as it may, I believe if we share our positive experiences here and offer constructive advise it will go a long way to make our homes better; and once our family system is upheld, our country would become a better place for all of us.

Okay.

Steezz: Mrs Chima your posts are sooooooo hopelessly lame...u luk like a freakin hoe....f@ck off already!

Just like your lame and whorish mammy biatch!

pendo89: I love that.It made me think.
Where do we draw the line? How do I tell if my partners reactions/attitude are prompted by love and not jealousy?

let me share you something personal...when a man approached me at the market my husband didn't do anything until he saw the man getting beside himself and he simply called my name asking me to meet him over where he was at. He quietly asked me if I was okay or do he need to check him?

In America, people can be arrested for public disturbance so my husband didn't want to cause issues unless imperative. I gave my husband the okay and he handled it. That was an act of love.

My husband may been jealous when the guy approached me but he balanced it by behaving maturely and asked if he needed to step in. That's balance between jealousy and love. I expected my husband to be jealous since I am his wife and I would have felt the same way but react maturely. No need to act a fool with a fool.

I grew to respect and admire my husband more so therefore our bond strengthened and we had a good time.

What do you think of the analogy?

Tusky44: Marriage is boring. I have concubines and they are mainly European women who don't give a damn. OP Try this for a start and tell me how you enjoy it. One voluptuous Polish mistress, one thick Jamaican mistress, one mature French mistress and one slutty Latin American with lips like Ava Devine. Add them to your wify experience and you would know why they say this world is a Man's world.