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ikekings: Who told you nigerian guys marry on cooking abilities? Besides, what is so hard about cooking? No be this ”white rice and co“ i dey cook? Except soup... Nawa ooo... A woman should know how to cook... So, you would rather lazy around in the house while your husband goes out to eat outside?

On a very serious note... Who gives a fuc.k whether you marry a ”white man“ or a ”nigerian man“? Go and sort yourself out 1st before looking for a man to marry you...

tellwsdom: Please tell the OP ur experience

Rooneyboy: Are u a racist ?

dabossman: Here is an answer from you from a female like you on this forum called Wislet:

Ok, let me talk.
All des women supporting a lady being lazy about domestic work or not knowing how to (or want to learn) how to cook, can you marry a man that sleeps at home everyday- no job, no help around the house??
Can you marry a man that thinks his 'love' for you should be enough for you to say YES to his proposal. He musn't have a house or money to take care of you??

And now my comments: Mrs. Chima stop speaking from both sides of the mouth. You're sayin someone is deadbeat because he "doesn't work to support himself", but its okay for a wife not to cook to feed HERSELF and her family right? By your philosophy then it is safe to conclude that a woman who can't cook for her hubby and kids is a DEADBEAT WIFE TOO! Now I wonder who wants to marry such a woman.

Maybe we should just advice the OP to cook for himself and his kids alone. His "I can't cook and clean" wife can take care of herself or be a "hungry mofo"

Xionez: Hehehe, I'm just saying. Some women are guilty of that.
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dabossman: Ah, now what makes me a deadbeat? The fact that I don't know how to do all those things that society says is a man's duty to do in the home? That's old fashioned lady. This is the second decade in the new millenium. You go make the money, provide for the home, you can work, who says your husband has to.

Oh, by the way, if I can cook, then so should my wife.