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Chimezie198:

You no like?!!

dabrake: don't tell me you hawk plantain chips

YES! TWO BAGS FOR N80!

MsDarkSkin: Exactly. In fact most men find their counterparts begging as a sign of desperation.
You think any sane man wants a desperate woman? And if he does take her back..he will play the HELL out of her like an XBOX console. The guilty men on this thread who like to play with women claim it's tradition. BULL. If it were tradition and African women heed to it as "law", there would be no reason for this thread. But as you can see, most sensible African women see right through the bull. Cooking for, nurturing and being a wife to your man doesn't and shouldn't mean being a damn fo0l.

Exactly Sis!

There is nothing wrong with a woman being a good wife to her husband ONLY IF SHE HAS A GOOD HUSBAND. I tell women this all day and long....I am good to my husband because he is good to me. Why would I have a problem with that?

Now if Chima was treating me all kinds of ways and having me crying all days of my life...you think I AM GOING TO BEG HIM TO STAY?

GIRL! YOU JUST GOT ME WARMED UP!

Chimezie198: Kudos all dat uploaded theirs! If ur yet to upload urs, u gotta show d world hw cute, handsome, sexy and goodlooking u are.

Check my profile! I uploaded a photo!

No. Then how the Bleep am I going to flirt freely?

luckgames: It's not about begging but making things work
I am sure we know the type of person we can beg or not beg
You beg some people that will give they the advantage to step all over you

Begging and being two matured adults conversing to improve the condition within the relationship or marriage ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. What the OP's original statement was begging a man not to leave the house as if it is something women should do to keep her man.

If the conversation was about maturity and being sane adults then my comments would have been different.

I am all for having conversations with my husband to ensure all communications are good and that we are on the same page. I don't support closed mouths because closed mouths do not get fed period.

luckgames: They don't have to play the begging
But they will play the single game

Wise women would rather be single than to beg a man that doesn't want them.

Lets keep it real.

And even if all women begged and stayed with the men. There are more women than men....
SO THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SINGLE WOMEN.

i think a lot of people are getting it twisted....

You can beg a man to stay with you all day long but it will not CHANGE HOW HE FEELS about you, the marriage, the relationship, and being in the same presence with you. It is a reason why people LEAVE and if nothing was an error or wrong then they wouldn't BE LEAVING PERIOD. COMMON SENSE.

If you are in the wrong....then do what you have to do to make your marriage work.....however DO NOT BE A FOOL just so you can say you have a man.

Some women needs to learn their self worth and learn that they deserve. Decide what you wants to be.....a rug or a purse.

drnoel: sorry but there is no place it is clearly written that a man should be the one proposing.

There is nothing in my comments that even suggested that men should be the only one proposing! I said that traditionally men are the ones that propose to the women and I ALSO exclaimed that I AM AGAINST TRADITIONS!!

Pay attention! Damn!

No one likes to be betrayed and betraying others is easy as popping 2buff on the mouth.

sexkillz: [color=#000030] New generation with a scarce mentality. . . [/color]

So a scarce mentality makes a marriage successful?

Yes, age to me was a deciding factor in whom I chose/accepted as my spouse.

Do you.

silentlywild: I know Men say they like to still be free after marriage but, didnt they make those promises infront of the pastor to stay by their woman for better or for worse. Why is it that once the wife is pregnant they start looking at the next thing in a skirt(Man or Women).If the roles were reversed you expect the woman to sit with you and possibly feed you soup to get you better.

Isnt the Woman carrying the baby that you both planted in her....STOP being selfish and PLS if you have to play out of Marriage, put a rubber on it...Dnt pass on some random disease on ur wife because you want some 5mins fun....

Hmm.

sexkillz: [color=#000030] New generation sucks. . . [/color]

You will be part of the new generation husband crew when you marry. Yup!

Regardless your stance about new generation wives....my marriage is divinely good!!

sexkillz:
[color=#000030] That's the point. . . Why do most ladies remember tradition when it comes to asking a man out, or proposing first? [/color]

There is a different between old school girls and new school girls.

Remember you called me the new generation Igbo wife!

sexkillz: [color=#000030] Can't you see we are derailing? [/color]

Shattap!

Amicus Curiae: What of those who can't cry easily no matter how hard they try?

I have noticed Igbo men are suckers when it come to women shedding tears.

You can even buy fake tears!

Is this a sport thread?

(rolling eyes at Sexkillz)

I know several married couples varies in ethnicity, religion, and culture, where the woman have proposed to the man. They all are in a happy marriage. It has nothing to do with who propose first....traditionally a man proposes to the woman however many people are becoming non-traditionalist (which I heavily supports) and doing what makes them happy collectively.

I am totally against cookie cutter mentality of how each individual people should operate in their OWN LIVES. If following traditions make you happy then great! But do not shoot down others that doesn't think like you nor follow the same things as you do.

This is for everyone it applies to.

[quote author=Mynd_44][/quote]Why you quoted me?

onila: no matter what
ders nothing proud abt ruining pple's families

No one can ruin a family without being allowed to. Whether Zim or Nigerian women snatching or borrowing husbands has nothing to do with the type of men they are.

Ethnicity has nothing to do with a person's character...if a married man don't respect his marriage and wife...how can the wife expect the outsider to respect her and her marriage?

People need to accept accountability for their own actions and stop pointing fingers at a group rather than the specific person guilty of such act.

[quote author=Mynd_44]No[/quote]Po' thang.

[quote author=Mynd_44]you lost me[/quote]You said Mrs. Chima on your thread.

You are found now?

deshclones: who is talking to this miserable single mom..

Don't dump your frustrations on me...i ain't the cause of your problems...go pick on peeps your size...cheers

Okay Lesbianboy and Tellwisdumb......keep my name out of your mouth then I won't say shit to your DUMB AND REJECTED arse.

Cheers that biatch.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Mrs Chima[/quote]Oga Chima wants to have a brother to brother word with you.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Why do people always take shots at Killz? After you will say he is sinister[/quote]They takes shots at me all the time.....I guess some of them are slow healers.

deshclones: will really love to meet born2fork,dabrake,annonymous,tellwisdom,acidtalk,lefulefu,190 in a cool joint or pub over some bottles of beer..mehn..we go gist wella and crack enuff jokes mehn......dont want to meet any NL chics..they are all bloody pretenders...will pray to meet the m0r0n killz,mrs chima,mzdarkskin and idowogbo whenever am ready to go to jail..cause i sure will kill them

Awwwww. Get in line. Many manbitches have vowed to track me down and tell Chima that his wife is the wicked nut cracker!

I am not worrying about you....your brain is decaying rapidly as we speak.

[quote author=Mr..Cork] no wonder Eve trick Adam to eat the apples!!!! [/quote]Did the ashyho steal your apple?

Amaks Tonia: I have a friend who has a very good guy, God fearing, honest and all but he does not seem to be on the same level with her. The types of friends he hangs with are introverts, those that don't know what's happening or fashion and can't really dress well and some what lack experience in dealing with girls. I don't know what else to advise her so i resorted to getting more advice here.

Do your "friend" have an issue with her man or his friends? I am reading two different scenarios!

razznaija: https://www.lolwtfcomics.com/upload/uploads/oie_2416348aKx5cE92.gif

Let me have this upload!

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Hey Suga.