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ypzilanti: a simple rule that will serve all women: never [size=55pt]date or marry[/size] a man you do not respect and doesn't respect you.

Gbam!

Adaeze003: Hmm did i just see 'worship your husband'? I'm not married but i know I'm not gonna 'worship' any human. I believe in mutual respect and love.. ..

I guess in their world, respect means worship.

What's sad though, many of those statements come from supposedly Christians.

No wonder atheism is on the rise.

[quote author=fresh_dude]From the above you have proven that 'A' person(and I mean male or female) will need to be assertive when dealing with/in a relationship with a disrepectful partner not one in which mutual respect reigns supreme[b]. And my question is why would anyone be/want to be in a disrespectful liaison?[/b] Perhaps I see things from my point of view-I am usually very gentle and I can just as passionate, I definitely will not like to be with someone who elicits the wrong destructive passions in/from me.[/quote]That's a good question.

samyng: wow hope most girls would take note of this abeg.. Most women are the cause of failed marriage but if they just follow this then 80% of failed marriage would never had happened.. They need know that we don't want to marry and keep fighting for strength at home

There is a difference between girls and women. It takes TWO to fail a team. There is no I in team and if YOU ARE A MAN then YOU FAILED AT LEADING your unit/family. Men should accept responsibilities for lack of leadership qualities and if your wife has to step in and assume the position. It reflects on you. Respect goes both ways, if you do not respect your wife, then how can you expect respect in return? It doesn't work like that in ANY form of relationships.

The woman isn't the head of the household, but the neck. If the head crumbles, the neck has nothing to support.

cowgurl: Now u'v js raised deir 'ego' a notch. For moi, 'l worship a guy hu deserves 2 b worshipped not an arsehole. It's y am into talkin wit d guy first so WE both can mak compromises b4 we begin. Let's bring our principles (cos 'v gat myn) 2 d table n talk abot it lik matured minds n blif me wen dis is done, d relationship is heavenly 4 both. It's been workin 4 moi thus far.

I see your point and there are millions of relationships such as yours that are productive. I think some people need to be honest and realistic about their expectations in relationships.

Some males believe that they are not obligated to fulfill their duties as a man in their relationship and compromises are only prevalent to women. As you beautifully stated that BOTH compromises and thus your relationship is healthy and thriving.

You are not supposed to worship ANYONE but your Creator and if you aren't a believer in the most High then disregard the worship part, but I REFUSE to worship my peers.

Now since people like quoting the bible and throwing verses in without actually understanding the core of its meaning, one of the tenth commandments, THOU SHALL NOT WORSHIP any other gods, gods is a symbolic of things [b]AND PEOPLE [/b]you hold dear. For example, some people are addicted to drugs and will go above to "worship" their drugs even disregard God. That's is a sin against God.

As much as I can accept the fact that people will throw in scriptures and verses in written debates, however we need to be careful how we insert our "beliefs" on others or to others. Just because we believe a certain way doesn't make it right. It seems though many people are set to prove their way is the right way and because they have thrown in a few verses it validates their beliefs.

I am sure we can all debate without adding our belief machineries.

Chimezie198: he screams chewwwwma

That's a cute name for ur mother.

swallu: Take a look at the family system in your country.It is completly dead because many american moms prefer to prostitute in their streets for a little crack or weed.Your country is full of drug dopes and there is a lack of moral values.Nigerian men have their problems yes but then it shouldnt be an american coming in here trying to judge nigerians since you people are worse than dogs.

If you don't want people to judge you....I SUGGEST YOU FOLLOW SUIT. Don't be a hypocrite. Just like you can say Americans are worse than dogs...there are people around the world calling YOU, a Nigerian worse than dogs. Don't just talk the talk, walk it.

Not everyone in America believes in having children out of wedlock nor having unprotected sex. Some of us are heavily into sanitation.

The family structure in America has nothing to do with rampant HIV/AIDS infection rate in Africa. You want to explain why "virgins" are spreading and contracting HIV/AIDS in Africa? I got a few seconds.


Try again boo boo.

Ammyng: I don't mean to take lateral but seriously you need to learn how to ignore one or two things online. You sound some emotional IMO and secondly leave Reality alone and I believe he will ensure the same I believe. All the indirect name calling and stuff are really redundant.

You can sign back into Reality and repeat the same post. Don't be a coward. It is low even for you.

If you want me to leave you alone....I suggest YOU don't mention my name nor respond to any of my comments. Take your husband/boyfriend and your other name, Tyson with you. Huevo sira?

Chimezie198: does he call u Mmma?

Do you scream Momma when you jacked off?

It is normal for women to have their monthly periods unless they have a medical issue preventing personal cycles. You can either wait until the end of her cycle or you can jack off. It is up to you.

Is the wife a robot?

None of your damn business.

For all you sensitive and illiterate manbitches.....do not read any of my posts without your dictionary especially those who claimed to have jobs. I am sure you can find better ways to get some attention.

To avoid looking like a fool....know the words you are using or have used. Just saying.

Do not waste your time responding to me if you have better things to do and I will continue to express my opinions/comment. If you DO NOT SEE [/b]your name in any of my comments...[b].DON'T RESPOND unless you feel it was directed toward you.

(read above comments for examples)

tyson55: @Mrs.Chima, Reality is prolly right...Let some sh*t slide. huh!

You get too emotional some times.

And[b] WHO ARE YOU?[/b] Nutrider? His boyfriend? Husband?

Seriously.....WTF.

REALITY101: Exactly what I expected to read. Sucks to be predictable. Pheww smdh@ taking heat on the internet from a total stranger. . Last time I'm wasting my time.

Oh! I am a stranger now? I wasn't a stranger when you have claimed to know so much about me writing novel threads. GTFOH.

Biatching dog yelping again! So predictable sucker.

REALITY101: Btch get a life and quit whining like a lil girl. He used you, bleeped you in the arss after drinking Guinness, used you to get his stay, sure you are not the only white ediotic victim. Get over it and move the Bleep on. Or did he Bleep your lil brain up too?



@Mrs. Chima, about time you start letting some shits slide, it will make you look less emotional over online ish. Just saying

It about time I start letting shit slide? Nigga, you created numerous threads after you couldn't take the heat and YOU ARE TELLING ME TO LET SHIT SLIDE?!!! WTF! Are you serious?

If what I said didn't apply to you then why are you biatching?

Your name wasn't mentioned. Hit dog yelped.

swallu: Its only irresponsible worthless nigerian men who go after american women.american women are the world"s greatest sluts.95 percent of pornographic movies comes from america showing american women involving themselves in various acts of sodomy.american women make the worst moms with over a high number of them murdering their own kids.A respectable african man will never get married or date an american woman.

According to you American women are the world biggest sluts BUT many countries in Africa has the highest HIV/AIDS infection rate than of all United States of America combined.

You want to try again?

sandy jo: My boyfriend is african american and he"s cute and this is why i am not surprised when black women start giving me dirty looks when i am with him.I will never date an african man not here not now.AA men got more class than african men and i go for men with class.

I don't give a Bleep who you are dating....BUT WHO ARE YOU BASHING? Black American or African men? You are giving reasons why American women should stay away from Nigerian men but YOU KEEP INSISTING that Black American women are jealous of Pale women dating Black American men.

Which one is it? Nigerians don't give a Bleep about your dislike for Black American women.

LMAO@as if Ghana is the only African country that residents practices homosexuality.

Trust me, there are MILLIONS of homosexuals in Nigeria and not all of them are bold enough to publicly embrace their homosexuality.

I have seen Ugandans welcome their homosexual resident with blazing fire.

Look at Jaybee's nosy arse.

Ignatio: Your "black American boyfriend"(now you talking), who eventually dumped you explains why you came here to in the first place. Probably went back to his black beauty cos he can't cope with your boney ass and psychotic behaviour. That explains your hate on black women too.

She stated that she had a Black American and an African man. She need to make up her mind who she is going to bash, Black American men or African men because the last time Amu Igwe told me Nigerian men are African and not Black American.

sandy jo: You are black american woman and so what?.Your men are dumping you by the dozen and running to us.You are the least desired and thats the truth.My black american boyfriend always tells me how he loves my blonde hair and my perfect white skin and how he would never go back to a black woman.I cant blame him since most AA women are overweight and ghetto.

Where are those dumb arse niggas that thought Sandy Ho was a Black American woman? I bet you dumb arse niggas looking mighty stup!d now huh?