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pendo89: Why did u call me many times? I understand tht calling smbody's name x3 is death!!

Ok what dd u call it?jollof? sounds like it contains sponge

No! It is a rice dish!

Mr. Chima likes it.

Oh my goodness!


Now we have a new addition to the family.....FACEBOOK BOYS.

clemmonce: i saw a comment sayin THE guy don hammer shey na all whlty get money ni ?

Granny got the gold and diamonds.

Pendo! Pendo! Pendo! Pendo!

How many times I called you?

Come eat this rice and eggs with me. The fight is getting good!

[quote author=~Killz~][color=#000030]Eggs? Why Eggs? No fried chicken? [/color][/quote]Fried chicken with Jollef rice?

It sounds like some people are allergic to quality time hence many of them have failed relationships.

Quality time is about getting to know the person you are with and assessing whether you guys are compatible for long term relationship depending on your preference.

Some people want booty calls.
Some people want one night stands.

Not everyone get into relationships heading for marriage. That's what people who are not married should do before jumping the broom. However, you do have some people that are desperate to get into relationships that they will do anything to be in one hence date a killer or a rapist.

I agree with Pendo....quality time is imperative and before I got married...I didn't limit my ducks in one basket. I got to know the guys without having sex with them and the ones that only wanted sex didn't stay around long. It works if you aren't desperate.

Keep your legs closed and ears/eyes open and you will prevent future heartache.

LMAO@Pendo working for Boko.

Well at least you got Boko! I got the devil himself!

Jollef rice anyone?

(cracking the egg shell)

swiftycool: Kissing wasn't originally part of any Nigerian culture but I assure U KISSING ARSSES especially of the white man and theiving Govt officials is part of the NiGerIaN Nature!

Damn!

@topic

Kissing is natural and some like it and some don't. Move on.

pendo89: yep.
This is my analysis.You always post after sexkillz.So you must be him.I have exposed you!

No darling.....I am very salty raw particularly to manbitches. Killz is getting there though. However, I am married to Killz' strapping and handsome brother.

Be right back....gotta stir the rice.

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pendo89: chima is sexkillz.

Bite me.

AngelEbi: Why is at always a young black man marrying an old white woman?

Do you think older black man marries younger white women?

Awwwww. My lil brother got an admirer!

La Parisienne: LMFAO. Men are the new leeches, guess it goes both ways

Y'all should stop being cowards and own up to your actions

Gold digging is bad, but it stinks when men(wimps) do it

Exactly! Tell Marc Anthon....he needs to let you out more often!

Nebeuwa: There seems to be a wave of criminality that is impacting British of Nigerian descent. Everyday, we here news of another young Nigerian either committing a crime, or being the victim of crime in the United Kingdom. What I want to know is what is the problem?

The same cannot be said of Nigerians who live in the United States. It is very rare that you hear about a Nigerian in the United States being involved in a gang. It is so rare, that I have never heard of such, even though I know it probably does exist. Are there any differences between the Nigerians in the United States and Nigerians in the United Kingdom?

I have my own hypothesis, in which Nigerians in American want to differentiate themselves from African Americans who are often seen at the lower levels of United State society, but Nigerians in the United Kingdom do not have that luxury to differentiate themselves from other black groups in the UK since they are all recent arrivals.

Another hypothesis that I have is that there are more opportunities for Nigerians born in the United States than Nigerians born in the United Kingdom. The U.S. is more of a merit based society, even though it is being eroded compared to the United Kingdom when it depends on not only your social class, but also your pedigree.

Are there any other reasons that you can think of?

Correction: Black men in America is considered the lowest on the totem pole. Get it right. That's includes Blacks from other countries.

[quote author=Nosa-Henry]The woman is not as bad as the previous celebrate case. Good for them, but why is the guy holding the flower[/quote]It is the American custom.

OP keep stressing that women on this thread are shouting they want a real man.

Who on this thread stated that they wanted a real man?

Talina and I (women) are asking what is a real man.
Ms. Darkskin and Oguga are asking why the fuss and tears.
Killz is wondering how a wig determines someone's worth. (laughing at the sight of a wig flying with the wind)
Slim wants to know why MBJ and OP are taking it personal.

So, who is asking for a real man on this thread?

MRbrownJAY: this thread is an eye opener for all our younger brothas out there who have been tricked into settling for such ladies. many would actually fall for some of the answers ladies have given on this thread (out of ignorance), and therefore it is our DUTY to educate young boys who might fall for this tricks.

Again....many of YOUR brothers know this old shit. It is nothing new! They are with women who wears fake anything and do you think they give a Bleep? No! Otherwise, they wouldn't be with them if they cared!!!

LMAO@educating them like it will change how they feel about fake tits and arse.

ogugua88: A lot of men are unkempt and have bad personal habits, especially in Nigeria where there's scorching heat and not enough deodorant to go round. Luckily for you, women tend to care about what's on the inside.

Ooh lawd! I was riding in a taxi in Lagos where the driver smelled like he took a bath with pigs!

Many of them have nassy feet, nails, bad receding hairline, skin looks as if they are being sucked by leeches, and teeth looks like churned butter. Yet....they want to biatch about women attempting to look neat and decent even with fake anything?!!!

MsDarkSkin: i think the subject of this thread and these answers are not matching.
the OP is not talking about being fake in the relationship. He is talking about prior to.
Like a girl walking around with fake everything and hoping to find a "real man". My thing is,
these women are doing it ALL FOR men and competing with other women FOR MEN. These "fake everything"
women are the most criticized yet the quickest to be 'wifed up' than their natural counterparts.
AGAIN! That should tell you all something....

AWESOME POINT OGUGUA! And with all of those examples it boiled down to ATTRACTING A MALE/PARTNER!!
Self mutilation physically and refusal to themselves period was all about attracting a husband even if it meant
going through extreme measures such as squeezing one's organs out of place or suffering from mutated feet ...it
was because of the men. Period.

And some men biatches about some women suffering physically and mentally to get one of them.

MRbrownJAY: it makes them blinded by the smoke screen looks, maybe?!

LMAO@more excuses for men chasing fake women they supposedly don't like.

People need to keep it real.

It is hard for most people to be honest about their feelings, thoughts, actions, and desires.

I have found men to be the least likely to be honest about what they want in a relationship simply because they are too busy trying to catch the prey instead of making sure it is their prey to catch.

I have found women to be more likely to accept whatever just to "have a man" that they forget their basic needs are important for their sanity of life.

It is true that first impressions are everything however when it comes to long term endeavors, your true impressions should present themselves and the right person will accept you the way you are with reasonable provisions.

pendo89: Lemmie give my 2 cents here.
First no one comes as a ready made package. Have you ever talked to divorced people? They always say HE/SHE changed!!
Truth is, people don't change.Their evil nature was only lying dormant waiting for the right time and environment to manifest.
That is why trials are good.They come to test our character and all the good virtues you've highlighted up there.
When people are dating they hide a number of flaws.They hate revealing their true self cz they fear losing the one they love.
But once the relationship is sealed through marriage,they feel free to be their real selves.The small demons that have been acting as angles break lose.
Now that is what.
This is what I prefer.Just be yourself.Naturally and emotionally.Don't try too hard to be what you are not so as to please or trap anybody.
Truth be told theres always a person for each one of us including even the madman.
Allow ur partner to see ur true self before you walk down that aisle.That way she/he will not say she was deceived or blinded.

True.

MsDarkSkin: LOL!

AWE!! D-SENSE AND CHIMA!!

That's you and Reality aka Gayality.

If the women who wears make up and weave are insecure then what does that make the men that are chasing them?
[size=44pt]Bullshit!!![/size]

LMAO@men dont know if women wearing weave and make up.
[size=44pt]Bullshit!![/size]

MRbrownJAY: so you are saying that the REAL/TRUE look of a person i am dating is none of my business?!

many men remain with such ladies because they want to get as much profit from the investment and time they have wasted on this lady. also many stay because they'd rather be with a fake person, UNTIL they find someone better and then bounce. the catch is that LIFE TIME PLANS would have been dropped.

You claims you don't date fake women so why would I be talking about you?

Which one is it now?

LesbianBoy: SINGLEPARENT,sweeery were have u bin?

Ask your single and freshly divorced mother.

MRbrownJAY: ^^ again, not everybody is skilled with knowing what is real or not........some of these weaves are so good that they actually look real, until you realize that this was just a masquerade. some of these nails look real, until she takes them off and you see the nasty stuff that laid under. some of these breast look real, until the bra comes off and they fall to her belly button level.

so what many are saying is not that you shouldnt wear these things but to do it MODERATELY so we have a better understanding of who you are, and dont get the shock of our lives. there is nothing wrong with wearing a weave so long as you equally rock your real hair as well. a weave should be an accessory, not a NECESSITY!

Again...WHY DOES IT CONCERN YOU AND ANYONE ELSE?

You can continue to make excuses for men not knowing if a woman has on make up or weave. That's bullshit and you know it.

Even after the men find out the woman has on fake shit...HE STILL remains with the woman.

Get on with that bullshit.

MRbrownJAY: mama Chima
if i am bald but wear a wig everyday , would you say i am real?
if i am skinny but wear a body suit that makes me look toned and muscular, would you say i am real too?

as for your quote on the first pic i posted, this is what YOU believe. there is a huge difference between the two pics (at least to me).

the thread is about some women needing real men when they aint real themselves, and these photos showed some of these women (since some of you were quick to say that the issues stated made no difference).

if a woman remove all these stuff then we will have a better idea of who we will end up with for the rest of our lives (rather than be presented with one person, and when the lights are off, be in the presence of a complete different person).
yes, she will still be a good mother, wife, etc but she will LOOK DIFFERENT.

See that is where you and I differs....I don't spend time worrying about who has on fake whatever....

I am more concern about why are men who have claimed to like natural women chasing unnatural women. That's my question.

Anyone can wear and have whatever THEY WANT TO...but why are OTHERS complaining about their choice to wear or have them?

Highbros: All this oyinbo people will stop at nothing just to get a BLACK Diick.

That's some truth to that.