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pendo89: roflmao!!@replies

just go to bed op. you seem tired

Goldieluks: There's no need deliberating on a obvious issue such as this. Yes there are better things to battle in marriage like you rightly stated, but little things such as this, does brings about misuderstanding, distrust or feelings of betrayal. Besides, this story sounds as if the woman knows what she is doing and she simply doesn't care about the outcome.

Goldieluks:

The man is the head of the house like you rightly said. So what do you expect, that the man should be disregarded and disrespected by the woman? Yes sometimes there may be disrespect, but in this case, the man(her husband) already communicated to his wife about his hatred for tattoos. But she still went ahead to draw a tattoo on her most private parts. Mrs chima I believe you are married and I don't think you would go ahead to please yourself and displease your husband this way. What are we talking about here. The woman is on the wrong no matter what not. People can continue saying she gots a right to do whatever she likes to her body, but then again she is under a man for Christ sake. It all boils down to creating peace in one's marriage my dear.

Sagamite: You missed out the WORST ONE!

5. She ignored him when he complained and asked her.

She gave his views and objection a big fat middle finger. She ignored him like "see this mumu".

Inemeabasimi: Wat we u do wen u heard dat someone is fightin wit ur mother an u run inside to brin cutlass to fightin against d person,wen u open d door u saw a man sleeping wit ur life. If it is u wat will u do at dat?

Goldieluks: I see what you mean, but you should also remember that in marriages, men tends to get away with so many things,compared to women. Women are expected to be reserved,understanding and humble in some arguable sense. The man may go out,get a tattoo and still come back home to explain to his wife why he did it, but for a woman to do it without the knowlegde of the husband does speaks a lot of volume, and its comes across like the woman is in charge here.

stagger: What nonsense are you talking? After marriage the wife owns the husband's body and the husband owns the wife's body. Pure and simple.

It is very wrong for a wife to get a tattoo without her husband's permission. Now that the OP has said he hates tattoos, will he be blamed if he hypothetically decides not to touch the wife again?

Many women of today kill their marriages because of lack of wisdom. Then when another woman steals their husband's heart, they will run here to start complaining!

2buff: I'm not surprised. Like I said you're a good and quiet wife in real life

Goldieluks: I don't think the OP is saying its his decision to make, he is only trying to communicate the fact that his wife took him unaware.
Which is very wrong of the wife, because a good and humble wife would not go ahead to surprise her husband with what he detest most. Marriage is also about compromising and sacrificing one's needs for his/her spouse (most times). It goes both ways.

fatterman: I am married and Live with My wife at Home ,This morning as my wife was sleeping and her phone was ringing, so I woke her up to her pick calls, to my surprise she was rushing very fast and hiding her body, and I ask what is wrong with you, what i saw was so suprsing, she has tattoo all over her body, she never tell me her plans to draw a tattoo on her , and i never like a tattoo, she draw the tattoo on her bosom, waist, private parts, and shoulders, hmmm, I am still at shock, I don’t know what to do, I ask her what is the meaning of what she did, she never responded to me, My question is how can a married woman draw a tattoo without her husband permission? I am very angry now, I just rush out now, and still thinking what to do?

sweetcocoa: Banned?excuse me lady,have we met before?atleast say hi, that's what courtesy demands.

2buff: Did you not hear me say KISS & LICK only?
I see you can't follow instructions I can't tolerate that in a slave.
Get out!

sweetcocoa: Ewwww that's gross,please we still have innocent kids here y'all,not all of us are as spoilt as you are,thank you and keep it simple please.

2buff: I do. Wanna kiss & lick it?
It's at the back. But that's all you can do. It has vowed to remain a virgin forever and I support it.

breezy047: so even akatas have dreams??
girl yours is a qrazzie one all for the dollar bill

kay9: Playa hater

2buff: EWWWWWW iyama
She has a pen[i]i[/i]s

amefi: i want to b wt u

MsDarkSkin: Wait!
who did you use it on? Roki or Tima?

It was with both.

It was with Mrs.Chima

No! It was with Rokiatu cheating arse! Only man I am hooking is Mr. Chima....I think.



I can picture Born2fork trying to give an 'ashyho'
a hand made coupon for favors

With his cheap arse!

ITbomb: .
Are the single men complaining? Have you seen any opening a thread on NL to express his frustration at being single at 25 or 28?

rokiatu: What is wrong with being 35 and single? Being in a relationship is not all there is to life.

Goldieluks: Negativity much?