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Wifey 

This conclude the boys only want easy chicks to break them off and without marriage. 

Got the answers you was looking for?   The responses from them were expected.

2buff:
^^ If you're gonna be a staunch defender of tradition now, tradition says you should be in the kitchen not online typing.
Best go and start arranging that firewood

And men should be out killing cattle and not online typing.

Ms. Potato!

This is your brain on crack.

Nairalandi:
imagine where you have only two children,a boy and a girl and arm robbers invade your house, gave you gun to kill your only son or your only daughter,if not the two will be killed.WHAT WILL YOU DO?

seun0622:
U surely must be living in the 70s!

I live in reality. Try it.

justwise:
You also have Donald Trump who made a plonker of himself and backed down after he was shown a birth certificate.

I am still waiting on your surveys.

wildwater:
Yes. and Yes again, but you can be sure, that fearing another woman was not the topic for me (anyway he knows how I would react, just kick his Bottom out the moment I got to know it, ).I am sure about him having noone else and not sending money to some family there, he even rejected when I offered to help his best friends brother with some university fee.

As long as you are sure.

SMH. 

If he was practicing bigamy in AUSTRIA he would be jailed. Austria doesn't have govern power over Nigeria neither does Nigeria over Austria.

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=745629.msg9026850#msg9026850 date=1314540554]Why call women a biacth when men also can be a biatch as well? Dont you think both sexes would break each others heart when it comes to a breakup anyways?[/quote]Ask MMM why he called the woman a "biatch". I agree anyone can be call a biatch.

Men and women broke each other hearts.

justwise:
That is true though we seems to have more of them in America.

You surveyed all politicians huh? Where is your source? Assumptions aren't facts.

Wildwater

Just know Muslims aren't the only ones practicing polygamy.  Polygamy marriages aren't done just in Nigeria by the way.  

Someone on the thread is seeking attention and hopefully it doesn't derail your thread on childish bullshit.  

It is not a cultural thing and your husband has his own agenda.

Somebody please ban TOTO BANDIT!

Just like somebody said on the thread. Just go along with it and Good luck.

The boys should be proud.

justwise:
That is worse considering her position, she policies could be dangerous. . .Tea Party for example. . . what unknown Nigerian thinks doesn't matter.

A fool is a fool is a fool position or not.  There are dumb politicians everywhere included Nigeria and UK. 

God help us!  They think Sarah Palin is the epitome of America.  We are doomed. 

By the way, Sarah Palin isn't even in the running so she doesn't count. Any other politicians?

I am sorry you lost me on the "Your wife is like Yoruba women".      What is Yoruba woman like?

Polygamy marriages in most parts has nothing to with religion but culture.  It doesn't matter if you are Christian, Muslim, or Jewish.  If the culture supports the lifestyle regardless of religion it will be celebrated.

davidylan:
Oh i didnt know families were not aware of the marriage. hmm interesting and i wonder why.

That's why Russianlane said he smelled rat. Not because the husband doesn't want his family on his wife's facebook page that is a nonissue.

I know when you get married everybody and your enemies would know right?

justwise:
Actually you are. . . wrong, Americans doesn't do it for me, you got to worry for a country that produced the likes of Sarah Palin who thinks she can see Russia from her bedroom and thinks that Africa is a country.

You like UK and that's okay. No tears shed.

What's worse in your opinion, a redneck white American woman who isn't well traveled thinking Africa is a country or a Nigerian man thinking Cubans aren't hispanic and DC has the largest HIV/AIDS infections in the world?

davidylan:
he probably sees you as naive and susceptible to the wiles of his country men.

Do you think that insulting to the girl?  To know her husband think she is not smart enough to say NO and handle her business appropriately? 

In this case, both families aren't aware of the marriage according to OP.

Russialane:
@mrs chima valid point some nigerians are ploygamous still i feel that dude is hiding something from you

I do know Nigerian men can be very protective when it come to their wives and things however keeping the family in the dark is a bit suspicious in my opinion. 

Even if he has CROOKED family members not ONE FAMILY MEMBER he can trust that isn't his parents? Come on!

I can see if it was just a random guy on Facebook requesting friendship I can see why her husband wouldn't want her to add him.  My husband FORBADE me not to add anyone that weren't family or family friends. 

We have TRUSTED family members/friends from both sides on our facebook page and have each other passwords.

Marriage is a wonderful news and not sharing it with families is sad.

Just because you married in Magistrate court doesn't mean he doesn't have other wives.  You do know Nigeria recognize polygamy marriages as well.  

It is highly unusual for a Nigerian man to keep family in the dark and just because you are sweet doesn't mean you are silly.  (I hope not)

The fact that your husband told you not to add any of his family members really bothered you and you respected his wishes but it doesn't solve how you are feeling.  You must have some doubts and suspicions or you wouldn't have asked the question.  

Talking about the issue and dissolving the issue are two different things so try to dissolve it if you can or you will continue to cause issues in your relationship.  

Real talk.

pendo89:
Really? interesting.Well am talking out of experience.A briton will put a fake smile.
I dont know but they radiate some coldness.The other fellows are just there.
Infact they can go out of their schedule to do something for you.But not the briton.
rigid is their middle name.

He knows Brits are less open minded and expressive than Americans.  He is pulling your legs. 

One thing I can say about America though at least we have a Black President and can move up the corporate ladder compared to UK.

Speaking of killings and violence, a bomb exploded in Abuja.

justwise:
That is true and Americans travel less, Africans know more about America and the UK than those countries know about themselves cos we learn alot about foreign history in school and visit those countries than they do visit Africa.

Studying about America in a classroom and traveling to America are two DIFFERENT things.  There are Global studies in American universities as well as in grade schools.  Do not be fooled.  

The American embassies in other countries aren't there just to issue out traveling visas to those escaping their homeland but merely to advocate American tourists.  

Just because Americans aren't flooding Africa doesn't mean they do not travel elsewhere.  It also doesn't help when you have African embassies telling you it is not safe to travel because of wars and political corruptions.  

Again, you are forgetting the Americans that are doing Humanitarian work in other countries including Nigeria.  That's Americans traveling more.  

pendo89:
Justwise you could be right.Don't forget the size of the country as well, so if you go adding up the number of killings per state,the total will surpass that of anywhere else.
What I mean is its very easy to chat up an american than a briton.
I find them too cautious,rigid and mean. I wont talk racism cz that is everywhere.

There are equally amount of killing EVERYWHERE ELSE and the only reason why people know about the killings in America because it is OPEN AND TELEVISED. 

You won't see local media broadcasting Jungle Justice in Africa unless it is a local who videotaping with their phones/cameras. 

America population is bread crumbs compare to Nigeria.

justwise:
People in the UK are more open minded, US tend to know only about. . . US basically.

That's for anyone who doesn't travel outside of their country/continent and educate themselves about cultural diversities without depending on CNN. 

I can say the same thing about Africa.  Lord knows!

America must be very open minded if they are helping everybody else but their own.

Oh my goodness!  

I wouldn't necessarily say that some girls play hard to get.  It call not being EASY and taking your time before getting into shit.  Boys these days want things to be done FAST, FAST, and FAST and WILL call the girl a ho if she give it out easy.  

A real grown woman will tell you if she is interested or not.  Maybe she want to take things slowly and not jump into things quickly that is ALLOWED.  

For those who talking that bullshit about they do not have the time to chase haven't met the right one.  Trust and believe, if a man wants a woman he will pursue her even if it take TIME.

Ms. Potato

When a man fall in love and meet the woman of his dream "the biatch" will break his heart if she ever decide to leave or cheat.

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=745629.msg9026811#msg9026811 date=1314540035]For u to be feeling that way that means u never did actually love your woman ever![/quote]

Japan (before the earthquake)

That's just like a girl wearing a wig in the swimming pool.

Oh my goodness, YOU TOLD HIM about the replies on NL?   

Didn't you say he was a jealous man?   

I don tire ooo