₦airaland Forum

Yet you browsed and posted.

Maguy:
Security, confidence, swagga, intimate stamina in bed and not a one minute man, skin texture-blk skins are well better taken care of better than white skin, enough or should i keep going.

Security from what?  

Confidence?  There are insecure Africans.  What there are some new level confidence only pertaining to African men?  

Swagger?  Which Africans are you talking about?  Do not make me pull out some country based photos!  

Intimate stamina?  LMAO    So there are NO ONE MINUTE AFRICAN MEN?  

Skin texture?  Not when MILLIONS OF BLACK PEOPLE TRYING TO LOOK LIKE WHITE PEOPLE.

You should stop because you looking mighty CULO MIERDA LOCO.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=745628.msg9017838#msg9017838 date=1314412270]sounds like you've been waiting to spill that.[/quote]Exactly.

Do hearts actually break?

Hello Ms. Potato! It will be alright. Just dust yourself up and move with the wind.

On the real, I am sure there are plethora of people who don't care why Africans go for white women.  

Some people will ask why white women go for African men.

You sure about that?

I see why online scamming so easy.

honeric01:
Well i didn't give her, i only corrected her own "definition".

You still didn't give your o, BTW, do you show your BF every new PTS you buy while putting it on? (jokes)

No, no, and no suga. You didn't correct me because what I said was THE TRUE definition of traditional dating.

Traditional in the DICTIONARY even states the definition is an adjective of which place or thing are handed down by or conforming to tradition.

How do you think cultures are formed? DUH.

Lax75:
^^^^ "Whareffa!" But that girl was CRAAAAZZZYYYYY!!!! Any female co-worker that tried to talk to me, it was war! And me being a private guy, I had absolutely no privacy. She knew I hated my business out there and she really spread my "gospel."

You was putting it on her huh? That's what happens when you putting the MANDINGO on a girl that couldn't handle it. It is not a good idea to romance with coworkers but maturity plays a big part in it.

If the girl was a bit more matured then your gospels weren't been out there. Real talk.

5stardude:
whatever happens in vegas stays in vegas

So you basically saying that as long as you don't know you don't care?

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=745564.msg9017395#msg9017395 date=1314402527]^^^
Mrs Chima, its not very fun when you ask questions and you answer them yourself[/quote]The initial questions were WOULD YOU ALLOW YOUR mate call another person a pet name and asked if there were ANY MEN that didn't agree with the foolish coworker. 

So again how did I answer the question?

Babe

Let me see if I can help you on this one.

Traditional dating are usually refer to courting back in the old days where the boy will come to the parent house and request your hand in courtship with parent's approval beforehand. It is something similar to gentlemen calling when back in the old days where a group of girls who were "ready" to be courted go to the town ball and the suitors would show up and "auction" for the girl and sometimes you will have two guys picking the same girl. The guy then will have a silent auction the largest bid won.

Sex talk and actions were like a diamond in a pile of shit during the traditional time.

Now imagine the opposite for modern dating. Hope that helps.

Just throw the dead corpse into the river.

No.

You got your arse whooped before huh? Tell the truth.

I hear you and you will be surprised how many eat where they are crapping.

Lax75:
Mrs Chima, you can use pet names on me anyday, so far as I suggest them :-)

But seriously, I could give a flying porkchop if I had a girlfriend that uses petnames on other guys. It's her actions towards the guys that sends a stronger signal of what the intentions are. But come to think of it ooooo, my boss (who is a female, married and a CFO) has referred to me as "baby." I don't think that is appropriate ooo. Kai! She has even told me that I am eye candy! Dead serious! I think I should find another gig.

My husband has his special words that I have reserved strictly for him and hardly calls him by his government name unless necessary. But I will call you suga in a heart beat because that what we call everybody in my hometown. I don't think there is nothing wrong with calling someone sweety or sugar in my opinion as long as it is innocent.

Now I had men call me some pet names that would make a blind man see and the lame man walk. Now the fact your boss calling you baby and call you eye candy that a red flag! You do not want to get involved because you don't know what you are dealing with blindly.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=745564.msg9017025#msg9017025 date=1314398629]You have answered the question already. It is because of where he grew up. Society have big influences on our lives and they shape how we think but that does not mean all guys think like that[/quote]I understand that how he was raised plays a big part of how he thinks his girlfriend should be however his girlfriend wasn't raised in the same environment as he so therefore he should have taken that in consideration.

I can understand when I hear people say they prefer to marry someone that is from the same culture as them because it is much easier however if you decides to step outside of your culture then you too have to be tolerable and understanding that the person whom you are in a relationship with may have a different cultural expectations.

What considered a sin in one culture may not be considered a sin in another culture.

LMAO@IGBO men obeying their wives  

You must know the watered down Igbo men.  

Would you allow your boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse to use pet names on someone else?

During lunch time a male coworker's girlfriend surprised with a picnic lunch.  He introduced his girlfriend to some of the new male coworkers and she greeted back by saying "Nice meeting you sweeties" and smiled.  She even hugged them like Madea hugging her long lost grandchildren. 

The girl is from Costa Rica so she spoke with a spanish accent which sounded cute in my opinion.  (You should hear the men with the accent, it would make you want to el loco)

Anyway, the guy looked upset and said that he wasn't feeling the picnic and told the girl that he will talk to her after work.  Some of us were confused and thought maybe he had a stomach virus and didn't want to embarrass his girlfriend. 

Okay. long story short this FOOL rejected the lunch date with his girlfriend because she used a term of endearment to the males and he didn't like that.  He said that he was raised where women do not speak sexually toward men nor use term of endearment to other men that weren't their husbands nor boyfriends. 

WTF.  Seriously?      I can see if the girl said COME HERE BIG DADDY OR BIG PAPA she said SWEETIES!!!  I even asked Mr. Chima and he agreed with the guy! 

TELL ME THERE ARE AT LEAST MAN WITH BALLS that do not agree with my husband and that foolish coworker?!!

It seems though many of the men are not sure what they want Nigerian women to be which is sad. I don tire for Nigerian women.