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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Does A White Guy Have Any Hope? by MrsChima1(f): 9:21pm On Jan 22, 2012
wolfetone:
@Araboy not sure what rubbish your coming out with there but to be honest i think theres more to woman than intercourse when you grow up and become a man rather than a disrespectful little boy you might think the same
Damn! lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Her Conditions Are Too Much! by MrsChima1(f): 9:20pm On Jan 22, 2012
LesbianBoy:
mzdarkskin bro so u are one of all those who constantly check ppls profiles huh?! Anyways thats me and mrs chima! she is so sexxy isnt she!
You may want to remove Freecocoa's name then. undecided undecided undecided
RomanceRe: A Wifes Big Mistake by MrsChima1(f): 9:12pm On Jan 22, 2012
MsDarkSkin:
not always true. men can learn different s3x styles and motions.
Different intimate styles and dick/mannerisms are two different things. 

If he did it canine style, missionary style, and spoon style, fast, and slow, his Joystick will still remain the same size and mannerisms.
RomanceRe: A Wifes Big Mistake by MrsChima1(f): 8:23pm On Jan 22, 2012
inufele2:
May be the gateman Joystick is sweeter than the hubbie's grin grin
I wonder if she went back for seconds, thirds, fourths, fifths, and so on. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Her Conditions Are Too Much! by MrsChima1(f): 8:20pm On Jan 22, 2012
Sis! Get out of my mind! grin grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 7:59pm On Jan 22, 2012
Tosinville:
Mynd_44

Bro, your word sounds hypocrital to ur own people & i observe u always try to please these foreign girls probably to look nice or something by neglecting your own stuffs, are you not a Nigerian? don't u know what is proper & improper here? tell me whats wrong to let your white girlfriend knows these are the right ways to dress, do things, time to take a walk etc here just for the little time in Nigeria before going back to europe since she's not from here, if its a girl that truly understand & love u she'll stick to ur rules NOT that you're trying to control her.
If you COMPREHENDED her post, she stated that she doesn't have an issue after she realized that her boyfriend knows what he talking about in terms of going out alone etc, but she is stressing the issue that she should be accepted that she isn't Nigerian and she is willing to bend on SOME THINGS but not all.  

Just because she isn't a Nigerian doesn't mean she has to fully accept his culture without him fully accepting her culture.  When both parties accept each other cultures, they are more likely to form a middle ground that is acceptable to BOTH.  

If Mynd isn't a Nigerian because she believes that she has the right to be herself while accepting some of his cultural beliefs then you have an issue.  

[size=55pt]IF HER BOYFRIEND HAS AN ISSUE WITH HER AND HER CULTURE, then HE SHOULD HAVE PICKED AN IGBO WOMAN. SIMPLE.[/size]
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 6:30pm On Jan 22, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=851950.msg10023255#msg10023255 date=1327253380]But bro Tosin, it was not a problem for the guy until they came to Naija na.[/quote]Exactly. Why act one way in Sweden and another way in Nigeria? That's FAKE.
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 5:52pm On Jan 22, 2012
Claus:
As a final word so I don't detract from the thread. When people talk about the West e.g. "Western Woman" as it was used in the title, they are referring to western culture (as is evident from the issues she described). It is used in everyday speech. Most Europeans (including Swedes) are Western.

I'm out!
Bye.
RomanceRe: Is it right for a priest to be registered on a dating site? by MrsChima1(f): 5:51pm On Jan 22, 2012
Priests/Pastors do not have the time to traditionally date seeing they have to visit the sick, cast some demons out, prepare for their sermons, and conduct counseling sessions, and many other things.  

He is human and wants a wife to keep him warm at night.  If that his only option then may it work out for him.  

If he is asking for nekkid pictures and playing with himself on cam then he got an issue.
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 5:45pm On Jan 22, 2012
Basically your clothing makes you look older than you are.  So he may want you to dress more modern and forego your vintage clothing.  He is image conscious and those are the worst kind. 

It is up to you to continue your relationship with this person, but nine out of ten what issues arise before marriage will arise after marriage. 

Don't ignore red flags by being foolish.  Love is a wonderful thing, but it doesn't excuse your foolishness. 

The reason, I asked if you are really White is because many men on this site have stated that White women are more docile and less independent as "Western" women or Feminists.  You don't sound docile nor dependent to me.  (It is not a bad thing)  wink
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 5:36pm On Jan 22, 2012
Claus:
It does work, although I didn't really need it. Swedish culture would be considered western culture. The West is not actually defined just be geography. Most of Europe would be considered the West, some would even consider Australia while referring to the West. If the West is purely geographical, then Mexico, Nicaragua etc would count.

I wanted to understand why you said it wasn't considered the West that's why I asked you to explain.
When I said THE WEST, I was speaking of geography because of the title. I wasn't speaking of culture.

I thought it was self explanatory since I didn't mention western culture.
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 5:34pm On Jan 22, 2012
MsDarkSkin:
American/Canadian culture/ideas is mostly western european in terms of influence.
that is why we called "western" aside from the geographical location.

anyway. . . tongue
(farts)
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Forgive Their Cheating Spouse, Unlike Men? by MrsChima1(f): 5:32pm On Jan 22, 2012
[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=851922.msg10022688#msg10022688 date=1327248757]Msdarkskin, you just disappointed me. So now you are saying that all men are expected to cheat and so they should be forgiven easily when they do. Because if that is what you mean, that is very twisted no offence[/quote]What she said isn't farfetched.  Many women do expect their husbands and boyfriends to cheat because of the societal trend.  It doesn't mean it is right, but it doesn't change what on the minds of many women today. 

It is very uncommon for a man today not to have cheating thoughts nor cheated on their girl.  Women cheats too but, women are more loyal to their partner than many men are loyal to their partner.
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Forgive Their Cheating Spouse, Unlike Men? by MrsChima1(f): 5:30pm On Jan 22, 2012
MsDarkSkin:
cos women are used to it.

expecting a man to be faithful is like putting your hand in a lion's mouth
and not expecting to be bitten
. (yes that example sucked but you get my drift! angry)
Seriously Sis? undecided grin
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 5:26pm On Jan 22, 2012
kafefilter:
Ah yes, I was referring to the "western world" (whatever that means) in terms of culture, not geographically. We refer to ourselves here as "the west" anyway undecided Maybe that's just wishful thinking.

Yes, I'm white! Too white for my liking but my skin never seems to tan even a little bit cry
Aww. Can I adopt you? You gon be my first white baby. grin grin grin You made Momma proud. cry cry

As I was reading your thread, I was jumping up like that MY BABY! grin grin
RomanceRe: How Did You Meet Your Partner And Will You Reveal That At Your Wedding by MrsChima1(f): 5:24pm On Jan 22, 2012
tellwisdom:
Never heard of HOLLALUYA in my entire life. I swaar. #smh sad sad
You haven't heard or know a lot of ANYTHING. lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: -- by MrsChima1(f): 5:21pm On Jan 22, 2012
tellwisdom:
Mumu, she wass trying to help you. Not sure you rre aware she's as FAT as hell undecided undecided
Let me help your statement. You like this OP and Telldumbo.

RomanceRe: What's The First Thing People Notice About You When They See You? by MrsChima1(f): 5:20pm On Jan 22, 2012
MsDarkSkin:
I'm going to keep it REAL!!

-My Bottom
-my dimples (i've two on each cheek)  embarassed
LOL. What would you say if you weren't keeping it real? tongue

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=852004.msg10022522#msg10022522 date=1327247421]Oh Mrs Chima, we know[/quote]Your brother isn't complaining. tongue tongue tongue tongue
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 5:16pm On Jan 22, 2012
MsDarkSkin:
actually come to think of it, that's not exactly true.

west pertains to WESTERN EUROPEAN ideologies.
So Sweden does not count.  Unless we want to go waaay back into history undecided

wink wink
Right, right. When most people from the East speaks of the West, they are referring to America/Canada culture however other countries are in the Western Hemisphere.
RomanceRe: How Did You Meet Your Partner And Will You Reveal That At Your Wedding by MrsChima1(f): 5:13pm On Jan 22, 2012
tellwisdom:
grin grin grin grin sorry, what is HOLLALUYAHH?? U ever bin to church?? huh
You need a lift to Church? tongue
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 5:11pm On Jan 22, 2012
MsDarkSkin:
sweden is western due to the culture/european.
although geographically it isn't.
Thank you Sis. kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 5:11pm On Jan 22, 2012
Claus:
Sweden not considered West? Please explain.
Explain what?  Google isn't working on your computer?   huh
RomanceRe: How Did You Meet Your Partner And Will You Reveal That At Your Wedding by MrsChima1(f): 5:09pm On Jan 22, 2012
tellwisdom:
And who's ur husband??  (
It ain't YOU! Thank God! Praise the Lord! Holllllllllllaluuuuuuuuuuuuya!! Thank you Lord! Mercy!
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Forgive Their Cheating Spouse, Unlike Men? by MrsChima1(f): 5:06pm On Jan 22, 2012
It is the double standard in this so called "Man World" and it will continue until the end of times.

People pick and choose what is right for one and wrong for the other. Equality goes out the door.
RomanceRe: A Wifes Big Mistake by MrsChima1(f): 5:03pm On Jan 22, 2012
Old.  (She should know her husband's dick better than anyone. I guess not!)
RomanceRe: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by MrsChima1(f): 5:01pm On Jan 22, 2012
Ain't he justa cockblocking? grin grin grin
RomanceRe: How Did You Meet Your Partner And Will You Reveal That At Your Wedding by MrsChima1(f): 4:59pm On Jan 22, 2012
tellwisdom:
My friend, proceed to the gym, so ur yansh can come down a bit. undecided undecided
Go choke on a big spiked Joystick, Stalker!  angry cheesy MY HUSBAND doesn't have an issue with my nyansh. wink
RomanceRe: White, Western Woman Dating A Nigerian Man - Equality Issues by MrsChima1(f): 4:56pm On Jan 22, 2012
Kafe, ARE YOU WHITE FOR REAL? shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

By the way Sweden isn't considered the West, but I got you. wink
RomanceRe: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by MrsChima1(f): 4:48pm On Jan 22, 2012
Follow your heart, it will never lead you wrong. Never follow with emotions for emotions are flawed.

Good luck.
RomanceRe: What's The First Thing People Notice About You When They See You? by MrsChima1(f): 4:45pm On Jan 22, 2012
Arse.
RomanceRe: Who Is More Jealous In A Relationship? Guys Or Ladies. by MrsChima1(f): 4:43pm On Jan 22, 2012
Too many jealousy threads. Search the engine!

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