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MsDarkSkin:

really?

my best AA guy friend is dark skinned and his girl friend is east kenyan and she i MAD dark.
in fact its because of her dark skin and "exotic" looks that he was first attracted to her.
And she is not the only east african girl he has dated, all of who were dark skinned with kinky hair.

I was referring to the examples given and Kenya wasn't mentioned.  I also explained that many people who aren't exposed to Horn of Africa thinks all women are light skinned with long straight hair.

Lawd have murcee! Tyler Perry is finally SETTLING DOWN WITH some toto?!!!
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Ilamina:
I hrd AA men/carribean will love to date Horn of African women(ethiopian and somali) but most of them hardly date AA men

Tyler Perry's(the man behind Madea) girlfriend and soon to be wife is Ethiopian

Black American/ Carrib men who are into Horn of African women are typically into red bone women.  It is the same thing in the States and many of them believe red bone women and East African women have long hair and lighter skin texture, which many of them do.  However, I have seen dark East African women that are darker than Sudanese women.  

Again it is the misinformation and misconception of being unexposed.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=846200.msg9966726#msg9966726 date=1326592917]AA who say they dont like to date african men?

Poster, I thought you were beautiful, that the boys cannot resist. Kilo sele?

No, i'm talking about the ugly mofos in your father's compound.[/quote]Black American women don't date African men?      Typo maybe?

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=846200.msg9966714#msg9966714 date=1326592752]https://www.projectwedding.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/66.jpg

Guy is AA, Nigerian chic[/quote]Damn, the cake is pretty!  Oh the bride is too!  

REALITY101:
Ileke-IdI you really need to grow the hell up. You don't like Igbo's marrying Yoruba, you don't like AA marrying Yoruba's. Smh tribalism+racism = ignorant.

People always say that Igbo's don't marry outside em tribe but that's pure blahb.

Either they lied about being Nigerian or they are tripping, because I see many Nigerian men from various tribes married to different ethnicities of women in the States.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=846200.msg9966695#msg9966695 date=1326592404]SWAG!

https://www.xsightn.com/wedding_photographer_nigeria/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/nigerian-wedding-pictures-201120.jpg[/quote]Uhmmm Ileke------come here closer.  Who is that man and what was he doing?  

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=846200.msg9966683#msg9966683 date=1326592193]Have you even touched any of those lands?

I agree with you if you agree that 99.9999999% of nigerian men are fugly all over the world.[/quote](windmilling and biting Ileke on the ear like Evan Holyfield)  

Correction: 97.99999999  

seedord247:
Almost 80% of Nigerians girls in USA are inglorious Fuglyyyyyyy . . .

If you want to confirm  . . go houston in texas, North Chicago in Illinois,  Buffalo and Manhattan in New york.

Aww.  Nigerian women hurt you huh?  Let it out boo

MsDarkSkin:
hmmm interesting. 
In fact in jamaica a black woman who keeps her dignity and is cultured is literally called "African daughter". 
Rastafarians first started that in the 70s and now it's become so embedded in the dialect. Being called that is a sign of being a virtuous woman.

[random:]
Now some folks may say "well why do Jamos act like they don't like Africans" if that ^^ is true? well it depends on what u define as being "Jamo". Are you talking about some British or Canadian born twit   who only represents Jamaica for convenience if not ashamed of Jamaica thus calling themselves Black Britons or Canadians or are you talking about Jamaicans who actually know the Jamaican national anthem?   Yes there are ignorant AAs and Caribbeans like there are Africans. Common sense.

(clearing throat and repeating La, La, La, La, La)

Oh say can you see?
By the early light gleam
Oh so proud we hail?

Oh Jamaica! Sweet land of liberty!
Oh proud we shout and rasta mon you!

Wait!  That ain't it!  

Ilamina:
Nigerian (lady) and African American man

lovely wedding

he is now officially a Nigerian Man now!! lol

Beautiful pictures and they looks good together.     She married who she wanted and her family supported her.  A real family does that regardless if they are happy or not, the marriage isn't about them.  

onila:
most of my African friends have noticed this

because i remembered one day a guy from barbados came up to talk me. he was friendly and all but once he asked me where am I from

and  I said African. .He felt uncomfortable and walked away

Please know that If a black man has complex with black women period, it doesn't matter where she is from he would rather be with a non-Black person.  Many times, it has nothing to do with her being "African", it has a lot to do with what Black women are stereotyped to be in society and media.  

The guy that felt uncomfortable and walked away was ignorant has nothing to do with the fact that he is Black.  Some White, Hispanic, Asian, and Arab men feel uncomfortable with Black/African women as well.  

You remember the article, "Black women are least desired" written by an Asian author.

Yield:
This's not true. I tend to attract Caribbean men (a lot) and they know I'm African or I tell them when asked. I think many are able to look past whatever negative things they've heard about "Africans" and won't judge nor generalize. One of my siblings is going out with a Jamaican, but he was with a Ghanaian before. At the end of the day, if you're truly interested in someone, you know it's what's inside that counts.

I agree.  It is all about attraction and interest.  If someone isn't interested nor attracted to you then life does continue.  

All men that are human and alive will go after what they like and many of them are open to dating outside of their culture more so women, which why you have more men in multi-cultural relationships than women.  

If Black American and Caribbean men will date/mary White, Asian, Hispanic, Natives, Arab, and Eskimo women, how come they wouldn't date nor marry African women?   It is the false perception and information people need to stop feeding into.

Ilamina:
I cant find the picture where she jumped the broom after the vows (African American culture)

it was so nice

Actually jumping the broom isn't Black American culture. It was derived from Jewish traditional marriage with the stomping of the glass.

I have been to many Black American weddings, where no broom jumping occur but it is lovely to see because it supposed to symbolizes new chapter in life.

As much hype the media plays the black man/white women phenomen, many Black men/Black women marriages are occurring in great numbers but people focuses on the negative aspect of black relationships so the media feeds off of it hence ignorant comments such as not too many Black Americans are into marriage these days.

You are right when you said some Americans have negative perception of Africans in general, i.e. the guy saying "Eew, you African". It has a lot to do with not being exposed to Africans who are willing to teach and share their culture and not having the experience in an African country.

If African girls are only dating other African boys then it is definitely cultural reasons, but if they are dating non-African men then it isn't cultural reasons.

Black American and Carribean men do and are dating African girls. Do not let the media tell you otherwise.

deavicky:
will you allow me to sleep when u keep interrogating me.

Sign out of Nairaland and do not come back until you take your rest. I will be here like a Gestapo waiting on fresh meats.

I can spare three bra cups and three inches of nyansh.  Anymore than that Oga Chima going to be suspicious and worried.  

I believe men know when their women/wives lose the boobs and bum bum.  

deavicky:
Mrs chima don't you sleep, when do you have with your husband or it is not nite in the part of the world you are?

I sleep when it is bed time and where I am at it is afternoon. Don't you sleep?

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=845414.msg9965867#msg9965867 date=1326578940]what a waste of time[/quote]Come here suga.

2buff:
Good, good you have been productive. You are indeed super-woman having done all and having known all. . . but there's more to do
Now go and make me Pounded yam and efo soup with plenty goat meat     hurry

Cheerio and cold milk is coming right up.  That would be $4.00 dollars sir.  

(motioning put the money in my hand sign)

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=844072.msg9965823#msg9965823 date=1326578488]Just wait until I get my bosom augmentation done [/quote]You can have some of mine. It is free.

Idowuogbo:
^ewwwh mrs chima dat pic is yucky,she's got a double Bottom 1 above and 1 below, also dat soap looks like she's just done a wateryy poooo.

LMAO

Believe it or not, I have seen many man loving on women that looks like that. They have claimed they in love with them.

deavicky:
let me tell you the truth i use to date one while in school but nothing really like love is attaching me to her it's just that I'm in and i can not back off for no reason, l can not really xplain how i like slim girl i can love them any how slim they are whather no boos or no back as long as the face and leg is fine is OK to me.

Aha. The truth finally. Damn I am good!

You enjoy my picture suga? I hope I put a smile on your face.

2buff:
- Legends say a blackhole in the universe is where God divided by Zero   . . . makes perfect logical sense
- I said CURE Aids not prevent it 
- We know but how many rural villages have you promoted these tings in this week? 

You know we don't have villages in the States, right?     But, I have encouraged churches and community based organizations to promote and implement Community Farming/Bartering.  

To "cure", you first must educate those about prevention, which would reduce infection rate and those with the virus will SURELY wither away.  If one keeps mating with an infected person, the "cure" wouldn't be effective wouldn't it?   The same concept with dead and limp dikks, if a man doesn't prevent bad health and lifestyle, his illness is unpreventable.  

Anything in HUMAN WORLD divided by zero is undefined.  

Anything divided by zero is undefined.  
Promote effective and truthful safe sex education and abstinence until faithful monogamy to reduce HIV/AIDs infections.   Addition to any blood/fluid swapping activities need to be demolished in entirety.
Promote and maintain Community Farming and Bartering to reduce world hunger.  

Oh, we aren't in lecture!  Oops!  

deavicky:
I'm not a liar i just test and if you want me to agree that i like them it does not take anything from me and i don't hate them as i hate hard to get ladies in fact i prefer them to hard to get ladies.but certainly not the kind of fat you post here because that's no fact it obesity

You my picture huh? You can borrow it until you finish your "you time" session.

Obesity is fat.        A man/woman can only be small, medium, and large in size and frame.  I don't  want you to agree that you like them, I want you to be honest that you do.  Don't worry about what other chatters say about fat women, don't be ashamed that you felt good banging fat chicks.  Otherwise, why are you defending that you don't? 

If you read my second comment comprehensively, you would have read the sarcasm.  It's okay boo boo.

I gotcha. 

deavicky:
So you have never been with fat women, but you can write a very descriptive novel about them?   

Gotcha.

i have tested, one way or the other as a result of proximity. and i said before i don't av anything against them is just that i cannot just see one and start admiring strongly at first sight something must av to connect us for me to see beyond size. sorry to ask oh,  are you fat?

Aww.  i hit a nerve? 

Oh you have tested fat women, but you don't do fat women?        Are you a habitual liar?

2buff:
I'll take Jennifer whichever way she comes

I know you would.

OP

I am not surprised by his response because thousands of people are in relationships with people they do not love or love them. Some people get into relationships to avoid being single, to change their financial aspect, family/peer pressure, and to have legalized sex. Many of those type of relationships doesn't last very long, but if one went into a relationship because they truly love the person and wants to be complete with them and it is reciprocated then it will last longer than most.

True love is not something that you can buy from a store or "borrow", it is rare and usually those who are in true love momentum will not leave their partner even if they have HIV/AIDS i.e Cookie Johnson didn't leave Magic Johnson after she found out he was infected with the virus. TO ME, that's real love for someone.

There is love and there is real love. One is conditioned and one is unconditioned.

2buff:
What's your build?

Personally I feel it weird seeing a six pack on a chick.
Prefer a [i]small [/i]bulge on her belly. Makes good squeezing when u sneak up on her from behind.

You can't have a "tight" woman with a little bulge in the stomach.

You like pleasantly plump women, like Jennifer Hudson before she lost all of her weight.