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Learn what from white chicks?

I am awaiting my test results.

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]Worst movie ever! The writer is discombobulated and needs some serious whooping! [/color]

Aww. Come here suga.

Onche loves you.

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]Is this a movie scene? Cos i never made it mandatory for her to come home at a particular time! She knows her responsibilities as a wife, and therefore knows when she should be home! Anything further than that, and i wont tolerate it! Solution will now be to move house or fcck the job! Simple!
I dont have time for permissive marriage! The world has gone too advanced to leave any situation to chance! Do your best and leave the rest! Doesnt mean i dont trust her. . .[/color]

A good movie script huh?    

"Onche, your shoe!"  

(throws a bomb at the window and walks off thread)

REALITY101:
,    What's up dude

Hey suga. You enjoyed your New Year's?

iceblue:
racism is now hereditary? o ga o  

You didn't know?!!!  You know there is a test for that.  You have to go to a Racist doctor to get your test done!  

(laughing and slapping legs)

Hey! You want to go together and get ours done? I think I got $10 USD to spare!

LMAO@some people getting mad

Unwavering people sure love validation.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=843288.msg9943520#msg9943520 date=1326300959]mRS cHIMA is quite intelligent. Am proud! [/quote]Just for that you may have 123/345th of the punny.
[size=44pt]Sike! [/size]

pendo89:
@ chima
See thats exactly what am talking about.
Theory will make us believe it was due to nagging and spying.Well they provoked the feelings of revenge but even then, he had the power to control but he went ahead with revenge to make himself feel better.

Truth be told when somebody cheats he always had the thought in mind,just waiting for an opportune moment to manifest itself.
The thought behaves like an animal with antenna. The antennas keep sensing the wrongs and feeding the thought till the ripe time when the body responds.

You cannot stop a bird from flying over your head but you can stop it from laying eggs

I strongly believe people often cheat when they have reached their last iota of "patience", we are patience to a certain point and that's why communication is effective because it can dissuade how we are feeling and thinking in our relationship. 

For example, if you feel that your man doesn't love you because you lost your favorite shoe that he paid for by the ways he is acting, because you haven't communicated that to your partner, your feelings become "true" to you then you will sabotage your own relationship when your partner had no idea, you were feeling out of place. 

Some people want to believe that their partners can read their minds and know that everything is okay, but when someone isn't communicating and sharing personal things with friends and family could be the worse thing a married person can do.  I am not saying your friends and family will be the reason to break up your relationship, but they are not your spouse and shouldn't be in your business. 

I find that many people are more comfortable talking to their friends and families about their relationship issues than their partner.  To me, that is a bad sign.  A person should feel that they can communicate with their partners and come to solutions suitable for both parties and not having to recruit cheerleaders. 

Now getting back to the time thing, I believe that everyone has different time slots their spouse should be home according to the household lifestyle.  However, I feel that smothering our partners is the surefire way to destroying our relationship.  Compromise and effective communication is the HARDEST THING in today's relationships and marriages.

pendo89:
sexkillz needs to sit under some old married men to get tips on reality. Life is not a theory and not all theory works in marriage.
Things are dealt with as they come and at times the word love is never mentioned.

The problem many people have is the idea that marriage is PEACHES AND CREAM and no matter how vocal and diligent a spouse is, will not change what will happen regardless.

It is natural for all of us to want the best marriage/relationship there is however if we do not take LIFE application to perspective we will lose focus on what is important and our partner.

Communication is very important in any relationship stages because without effective communication things can go awry.

A psychologist once said, rebellion has no age and the result is often disastrous. One client once said that he cheated on his wife because she kept nagging, accusing him of cheating, and spying on his every move. My response was no, you didn't cheat because she nagged, accused you of cheating and spy on you. You cheated because you rebelled out of emotion and frustration and you wanted to hurt her like she hurt you.

The worst thing a partner can do to another partner is to defile the relationship.

LMAO@people who prefers a specific race is racist 

I guess white people that prefers white people are racist
I guess black people that prefers black people are racist
I guess Asian people that prefers Asian people are racist
I guess Hispanic People that prefers Hispanic people are racist
I guess Native people that prefers Native people are racist

I think I cover pretty much everyone.  We all racists!

Idowuogbo:
^LMAO u shud have used Nneka as d galfriends name

Anyways u guys easy on my soil bruda jare,He's africanised to d core but his british accent is d cover up .Kai kilzzz bite chima she don damage dere

LWkkkkmddd missing ko-shoe oooo

He is still my bruh boo.

pendo89:
Really?? So if I show trust and he knows it that will reduce his chances of cheating?? Don't you think the reverse is more likely to happen??
Trust = reduced cheating??
I don't mind = more cheating??

are u for real? He can go bad regardless of the time he arrives home!!! What makes a bad guy/lady has nothing to do with home arrival time or HAT!!

Have you ever heard of suffocating love? You may think you are practising love while in essence you are suffocating your partner.
The reason I said you are full of theory.You believe Love is flawless and that you have the power to protect and save. Well be be prepared for any eventualities. People like u end up doing crazy things becz the believe nothing can and should go wrong since they put all necessary measures in place to safeguard their relationship only to be disappointed.

People in love give each other freedom,they risk,they trust their partners enough and at the same time realise they are humans capable of falling.
They  do not try to Father or Mother each other,
Love doesnt make rush decisions.Its understanding and tolerant.
[size=44pt]Marriage is not a dating game.
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"Onche, your shoe!" You got that right!

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=843288.msg9942640#msg9942640 date=1326294053]Missing a shoe? LMFAO[/quote]She would be jumping on top of cars trying to make it in on time.     With her wig cocked to the side and shirt stained with car oil. 

"I gotta get home to daddy, oh I gon be in trouble ooo". 

"No girl, I have to go, oh shit NEPA taking the light"

"Oche, your shoe!"

"Bleep that shoe girl, I gotta go ooooh shit I have 5 five minutes to get home"

"Oche, I will pray for you girl"

"You got an extra room in case daddy throw me out?"

"Oche, you know I do girl!"

(Oche left like thunder bolt)

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=842635.msg9942612#msg9942612 date=1326293861]The women are the ones that cncourage a man having two wives oooo. Why stay with a man who disrespects you by bringing another woman into the house? They stay and the man is walking around happy with him self.[/quote]Wait a minute! Every woman that is in a polygamous relationship BEGGED HER HUSBAND to have multiple wives?

Come on man!

All you dead noodle dicks mofos all up in HER PICTURE.

Op, you want me to cuss them out for you? Pretty please!

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=843334.msg9941409#msg9941409 date=1326283664] *** is Mrs Chima's Nyansh now flat? ****[/quote]Would that keep you away? (praying really hard and shouting Ohn na rema oh 20 times)

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=842635.msg9939793#msg9939793 date=1326268506]^^^
And lemme guess the women are saints right?[/quote]Women can't be chauvinists, but they can be feminists.     What woman in Nigeria, you know have TWO HUSBANDS openly? 

Only thing I can see they may have in common with men is cheating and lying.

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]Dont come home late is best for my Marriage! And i'll advocate it ferociously. . . With reasons! [/color]

Good.  That's all YOU SHOULD FOCUS on.  I hope she doesn't come in one minute too late.  God forbid!


No I take that back! I hope she doesn't come in 2 seconds too late and missing a shoe.

2buff:
Everyone has what appeals to them.

I'm not saying white girls aren't cute/fine/smexy. Some are more so than some black or latin chicks, but it just ain't ME to MARRY that, which was the crux of this topic.
Everyone to their own thing.

But I think words like "disgust" takes things too far and is too strong. These are human being you are referring to. You would be no different than the slave drivers of old if that is trully your outlook on any race of human beings.

Would abhor be a better word?  It all still means the same thing, a dislike for a certain group, place, or thing. 

OP saying white people disgusts him is no difference than an unknown Asian author saying black women are least desirable.

tavon:
its ok not to find them attractive. its not your cup of tea and we get it. But you are completely missing the point.  We are not finding faults with you  not finding them attractive. We are stating that calling another race disguisting and other barbaric terms is  completly wrong.

Why are you telling her that?  She didn't say they were disgusting or whatever.  OP did.  That's who you need to be addressing that to.  She voiced her opinion of what SHE LIKES and DEFENDED the fact that she isn't an animal per other chatters because she prefers black men. 

She has the right to date whomever she wants, JUST LIKE YOU DO.   I don't see YOU or other men "correct" other male chatters when they attack black women with stupidity.  It seems though you guys get defensive when black and non-black people express their concerns about white people.  Even if they do not express it verbally, it doesn't mean RACISM, PREJUDICE, and IGNORANCE is dead. 

You can end it by not being ONE.  You can't control/change other's thoughts and feelings.

As I said many times before, EACH MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT RULES AND LIFESTYLE.  What works for YOUR MARRIAGE, MAY NOT WORK FOR THE NEXT PERSON'S MARRIAGE. 

A. If you don't have an issue with your partner coming in late and YOU GUYS HAVE AN UNDERSTANDING, I don't see how that can affect the marriage. 

Why do some people automatically assumed the spouse coming in late is cheating and the spouse coming in home early isn't cheating?  WTF If they are going to cheat, they can cheat in YOUR HOUSE WITH YOU IN IT!. 

B. If you have an issue with your partner coming in late and your partner isn't aware of it.  Communicate with your partner and establish a common ground that is suitable FOR BOTH PARTIES.

You are not in the marriage alone and you do not control your partner.  Child/Parent relationships never succeed in ADULT RELATIONSHIPS. 

C. If you have an issue with your partner coming in late and your partner is aware of that.  You can either "leave" your partner if it is a deal breaker to you or you can TRUST that your partner isn't doing anything to harm the marriage i.e. cheating or having another family elsewhere. 

You entered the marriage for better or for worse, you can't get any more realistic than dealing with LIFE. 

Focus on WHAT BEST FOR YOUR MARRIAGE.

2buff:
That dude's story was interesting.
I can't blame you. I don't really let myself go on when too many red flags pop up.

It's like this girl I only knew for a week who was already asking me to buy her a monthly bus pass.
A bloody WEEK. If someone has any sense of honor, you don't go throwing all your problems on someone who you've virtually just met.

Take a loan n*gga.

I hear you! Mr. Chima got the nerves to ask me to lend him my calculator cos his broke!

Take a loan NEGRO!

MsDarkSkin:
but sis the same guys who would nut in her mouth  (sorry for the imagery)
will thereafter kneel on one knee and put a ring on it. i mean its happening too often. imagine someone like TRINA ho has a video on youtube of her getting oral performed ON her while on stage, getting married quicker than Jennifer Hudson. 

Did you say TRINA HO?      I tell you what, I would be impressed if she had men like President Obama or Denzel Washington proposing to her then SHE IS THE poo. 

But retardos like Kris Humpdumbarse and even Reggie slow walking and talking arse didn't even propose to her (which I think the main reason they broke up). 

As I said Sis, I would stand in line to get my Joystick sucked too if I was a man.  Real talk!

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=842542.msg9938076#msg9938076 date=1326233305]Sexkillz's future wife is on NL? She must be Mrs Chima. Classic!!!!![/quote]No, it is not me. Sexkillz' name is Sexkillz not Mr. Chima. Epic fail.

(motioning for you to suck my dick)

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=843288.msg9938063#msg9938063 date=1326233215]It seems today is fight night.[/quote]

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]Reserve them for Mr Chima! [/color]

I took his too! Just kidding! Lawd! Gotta go!

Ilamina:
lol I swear that Kim Kardashian ex was just an EPIC FAILURE. .I was wondering what Kim kardashian saw in that guy. .he had no game, style, he was just so goofy and nerdy. I knew the marriage wont last and yea I am glad it didnt

My husband said although men like wild women in bed but established and intelligent men typically prefer women with finesse and intellect. 

There are good girls who know how to be sexy and wild in bed, those girls typically do not expose themselves in the open but knows how to throw down when pleasing their men.  That's the type of woman that men DESIRES but not too many men will have that blessing. 

Kim Kardashian isn't known for intellect nor substance but if I was a man I would stand in line to dump in her mouth as well.  Hey, it is the truth. 

One last thing, men are conquerers by nature and grabbing that title "I bleeped Kim Kardashian or Karen Steffan" and will do marriage if it means obtaining that title seems to be the new "sport" in the dumb arse men league.

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]Expired nuts![/color]

I got fresh ones!

2buff:
what are you still doing on NL? Have you finished cooking Mr Chima's food yet?  
Anything = slap, backhand, shake, angry sex . . . but never popo.

Right! Let me make a phone call.

MsDarkSkin:
except call the popo 

Right!  Girl get out of my mind!  Let him get a sister that been raised by MEN, he gon mess around be like Bubba on Forest Gump with a speech impediment. 

Hay Fowwest! You gon catch em' sckrimps?

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]Care to expatiate?[/color]

What there is to expatiate? These nuts?