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Z8:
@Mrs chima the poster has a point and it's true, bt doesnt mean i will stop watching em

There is a difference between living the life you see in movies and watching the movies living your life realistically.

Don't confuse the two.

LMAO@being around Nigerian men makes you stronger 


Oooh lawd!   

MsDarkSkin:
Dude. Serious?

They kills you huh?

Are you bossing me?

They can hump each other effortlessly but they can't communicate a simple conversation?   

What's the REAL issue?

Yall some curried goat eating mofos.

REALITY101:
Mrs. Chima please don't shake off your wig ok?

I will leave the wigs to you boo boo. You have an appearance at Sir Eric John's Bash tonight!

tavon:
Why should you care what strangers you are likely never to meet offline think about you. You got family and friends who think d world of you. The Internet is the worst place to look for attention.  

Real talk if I was Tiwa I would not even reply the tweet.  Look at justin bieber . He got mad haters everywhere. Do u think he has the time to  respond to hateful youtube messages and tweets  

In d words of chipmunk opinions ain't facts u got 2 take em in and let it go. The motto is bleep wot everybody say coz d money in the way. PeoPle will always talk. That's life. Talk later joor. Chics Plenty for gym today. Oulala

You are okay suga?

Op

If you trust your girl then you have nothing to worry about but if you don't then I suggest you call it quits because your insecurities will break it up before you have the guts to do so.

Good luck.

xtramo:
Nugget: Women are NOT cars that break down and
need to be fixed. Women are more like flowers that
need to be showered with understanding and love.

What it means: Men and women do not approach
emotional upsets the same way.

Men go to a space by themselves and then figure out
a 'solution'.

While,

Women prefer to have someone listen, validate their feeling with
words AND emotions.

Example:

Tom forgets to grab the milk that Michelle asks
him to pick up on his way home.

Michelle has had a bad day, and barks at Tom
when he shows up sans milk.

Tom, thinking like a man, says he'll go get the
milk after dinner and thinks that'll be the end of Michelle's
anger. (the FIX)

But,

During dinner he can still feel Michelle's anger.

Tom returns the anger with anger and the
whole 'milk situation' explodes into WWIII

Now imagine,

If when Tom returned home, (he would've looked
deeper and realized this was about more than just
the milk)

Michelle: Where's the milk?

Tom: Oh CRAP! I totally spaced it out!

Michelle: It figures. (angrily)

Tom: (Taking Michelle in his arms) I can't
believe I forgot the milk. I've been so
forgetful lately.

Michelle: (cooling down) It's okay. It's
not a big deal.

Tom: No, it is a big deal. (cupping Michelle's
face in his hands) I love you, you're just
as busy as I am and I shouldn't
forget such a small request.

Michelle: (big smile) Ooooh, I've just
had a bad day and felt totally unappreciated. I
shouldn't be such a grump. You're so sweet.

Tom: It's okay, I was a bad boy, You
can punish me later after I get the milk.
What happened today?

Michelle: Mmmmm, (and she tells him
about her day.)

Now, I used 'milk' as a small example.

What's important to understand is that you don't
HAVE to solve every problem.

If your break up was over 'money', more than
likely, it wasn't REALLY over 'money'.

Anymore than the argument between Tom and
Michelle was about the milk.

This sounds like two high school kids not knowing the real aspect of relationship and what is required of them.

People have this notion that all women are the same and all men are the same. It is a societal notion that men are tough and women are weak. It also explains why some men are very vocal when it comes to "assertive" women because they feel that by societal standards that women are to be meek and seen.

The same effects with men where the mother tells a young boy not to cry because it would make him less than a man when all it does teaches him not to be expressive of his feelings and you have some men today reacting physically then verbally. I would rather have a man that express his anger verbally then physically.

Communication is very important and if the woman told her man to get a gallon of milk before he left and he doesn't. It shouldn't have turned into WWIII because it is a simple mistake that he didn't get the milk. We have to be realistic in what we fight for in our relationship and fighting over milk is not important or shouldn't be important.

Some people who are frustrated with their relationship or life will find the dumbest thing to fuss over and use it as a way to leave the relationship. I am not saying that you shouldn't leave the relationship, but I am saying check yourself before you end up destroying every relationship you have because you haven't learned from YOUR flaws and maturate from it.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=848379.msg9986527#msg9986527 date=1326822838]Women are the most complex beings on the planet[/quote]LMAO@your signature

SMH.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Keeping it real as usual

Pitiful species.[/color]

Exactly. Somebody got to!

SMH.

r231:

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=847818.msg9985681#msg9985681 date=1326815491]Mrs chima. can i shave your hair? [/quote]Yes, you can shave the hairs off my nuts.

jay bee:
Yes if it's OK for your sister's bf to use her as a punching bag

Exactly. Don't forget the rest of the women in the family then again many of them may not give a damn.

Bisjosh:
Thank u Mrs Chima, u ve spoken well

I tire ooo

I sensed some hypocrites on this thread.  Many of you have made claims to what YOU DO NOT LIKE but when someone mentioned what THEY DO NOT LIKE, it is discriminating and illogical? 

People need to learn to accept that not everyone thinks the same nor wants the same thing.   

It is not the end of the world if someone prefers a less hairy person! Let them live/learn from their decisions.

It is a shame how adults (I assume) are blaming movies for their DECISIONS. It is not Nollywood nor Hollywood fault that your brain hasn't maturated to the point of rational comprehension.

You should know some things in the movies is purely entertainment and shouldn't take to heart. It is a shame when Hollywood has to constantly plaster disclaimers all over the screen for dumb arse people to get that this act or scene shouldn't be attempted at home!

If a man was to rape a girl, because he saw a scene in a movie that makes it okay? WTF.

Take responsibility for your OWN ACTIONS AND DECISIONS.

MsDarkSkin:
Someone sounds like they are hurting. Sucks to be you right now. 

wow so you wait until i log off to pop shiet?  TWO posts about how 'the slave trade is over' in a row without being provoked >>> guilty and ashamed much?  south americans have their own pan-African movement reetard  . Proper African my azz. More like 'Ignit Bush Monkey'.  How excited the average African WITH SENSE gets when they hear of western blacks keeping up their african tradition and some even traveling to the west to do their own studies about it. Bet you didn't know in Jamaica alone there were Ghanaian and Nigerians down there whose sole purpose is to study our history

My own teacher asked me in DISGUST "why do you consider yourself african? you're jamaican, you're not african", I looked at the white man and said "I am black that's why". 

which leads me to THE FACTS: why would he be disgusted? why would other races look @ us western blacks with a puzzled look when we claim Africa? . . .

You already know why! you want to talk about AAs but fail to realize Africans are the most stereotyped people in the world!!  So bad Africans had to take it upon themselves to create "the africa you don't see" videos on youtube to counter how every time you see news coverage of Africans it's something bad: war, famine, r@pe, and the s3x trade. Such a shame.

That documentary about child witches was not filmed in the western world  the statistics of violation per capita on our side is not rated among the highest  african americans and jamaicans look to each other for inspiration BECAUSE we are inspiring, look at your artists!  Your celebs and culture as a whole is trying HARD to compete with and imitate akatas  but i'm not mad at that. I respect that! you talk about our youth calling themselves 'niggas'? i guess wale, tinie tempah and the rest of the wannabes aren't Nigerian now  . And look you this fo0l popping shiet on the internet. 'proper african' my azz. Nothing but jealousy and "bad mind". So much steam and hatred but still ain't worth a damn. All that "culture" but can't even get yourself together, mad as hell cause nobody toasted your ignorant azz  .

anyway you can continue to do you and talk junk.
you're jobless and attention seeking anyway, i'm just mad I gave you my time.

@onila,

         
smh.

I have seen many Nollywood movies and many of them do favors "Hollywood" style.

Oprah Winfrey, A Black American woman is an icon in Africa.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=833540.msg9962948#msg9962948 date=1326547794]STedman? a somali? is that the best she can do? she interviews the whole planet but cant find a black man! [/quote]You are mad because she didn't marry you huh? As much shet many of you broke arse manbitches talk, you will give up your right leg to be Mr. Oprah.

Keep it real.

amefi:
How did you mean?

You still begging?

rokiatu:
Is Mr chima hairy?

No!

Lawd Wifey!

Not too hairy!

[size=22pt]LMAO@Sexkillz being the subject  [/size]

Sexkillz don suffer!   

REALITY101:
Lol Mrs. Chima. . So tell me, how cute is Mr. Chima :d

Mr. Chima is very attractive facial and body wise.     I thanked his daddy!  

Mr. Chima's daddy is very attractive as well. I can imagine what he was like as a youngster.

REALITY101:
We fine goddamn-it I'm glad that my parents are from that tribe ;p

You like my Igbo man picture I posted. He is fione!

Igbo.

MsDarkSkin:
hmmm yourself and swallu did a FINE job in proving that,   
you two been dropping more "pisstivity"/"looks comparison" threads than tupac laid tracks!!

You better leave 2PAC ALONE! You know he just came out with a song!

Dead corpses coming out with songs and shit!

[size=44pt]Hold up![/size]

If Black Americans will never be Africans then WHY ARE PEOPLE AROUND THE WORLD calling Black Americans----------[size=44pt]AFRICAN AMERICANS?!!  [/size]

Not that I give a damn, but don't label Black Americans, African Americans if they ARE NOT AFRICANS.   

Get it right!

2buff:
No

But can u live in a city like that?

No. But you need a hug.