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How romantic do you want Nigerian women to be? I thought the men wanted to be the leader of all relationships?

SAFO:
Yes but she just portrayed herself as a regular born & bred AA. So one should assume English is her native tongue. I still think she's a regular ol negro and none of that "I got Indian in my family" nonsense.

Lawd!  Black folks STILL claiming they got Indian in their family?    I remembered this one heffa went and put some Indian weave in her head and went around telling folks her great, great grandmother was Pochontas.

sexlog:
Chima, those ones sending u mails are amateur. U've never met a pro & i pray u dont. Anyway, u get plenty mouth, but no be by mouth O!

I will continue to have "plenty mouth" and no thanks on the prayers.    

By the way, many of those "amateurs" claimed thousands of victims yearly. 

I typed my response in a very pleasant manner without the neck popping/twisting.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=799767.msg9957473#msg9957473 date=1326473923]Mrs Chima. Can u have 2 sons for me? [/quote]I would rather fillet my uterus and feed it to the cannibalistic Amazon warriors.

tellwisdom:
And shall i not fail to pound it hard till u sleep off unconsciously

Mshew chima, do you realise, i have 9 packs?

You like this huh?

Aww. Adorable!

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=844846.msg9957358#msg9957358 date=1326473018]Is that not what the Oyinbos call obssesed?[/quote]Move cockblocker!

jay bee:
My imaginary self is always locked on 97.5 Chima FM

(farts) Embrace it!

tellwisdom:
, This is partly the reason why i had to shoot a woman 32times on her yansh for using a borrowed word .

May my big juicy arse smother you unconsciously.  

jay bee:
Are you sure? My past experiences contradicts your assertion aunty cuddle.
Anyhoo, my game is still pretty tight and forever locked on to right frequency so ain't no problemo for this dude
You pregnant again  
must you always get pregnant every time the Igbo prince strokes your big ikebe?
Don't tell me you are on a break the world record mission

You have not SEEN my body parts!   Aww.  You going to be daddy again?  How months Mrs. Jaybee?

jay bee:
You've been burned twice so no better luck next time I sincerely hope.
Shine your eyes

Said Mack Daddy Jaybee

Stomp your cane, Mack Daddy!

sexlog:
Chima, i dont oppose your afore-mentioned points. But u know, it's easier said than done. Hmmm, i pray u dont run into a profesional con artist,  hin go trick u & trick your psychology journal join.

If I was a fool and blind, sure a "professional con artist" would run into me.

Making excuses to fall victim is easy, but using common sense that isn't available to many is hard. I get many emails from "con artists" everyday telling me their uncle is dying and they need five million dollars to replace his heart and my mother died and left me billions of dollars but I need you to deposit five million dollars in a swiss account before I can get my heritance.

Using common sense and spiritual discernment, I didn't fall victim to such scams/cons.

jay bee:
My lips are reserved for u alone

(vomits and spits)

OP made her decision before she posted this thread and all I can say is may common sense be with you.

Unfortunately, thousands of women will knowingly go into a doomed marriage.

jay bee:
I hate kissing
My mouth is about the only organ I choose not to abuse

Who wants to kiss you?

sexlog:
Chima, luck do work on this attimes. Some guys are so good at being phoney.

I disagree with you because people usually get red flags when things aren't right but CHOOSES to ignore those red flags.  Women need to pay attention to common patterns and listen to the stories expressed.  Many times people who lies often times switches their stories because they forgot the first or second lies they have told. 

There has been some studies according to Psychology Journal that people with multiple personality disorders can pretend longer than those without MPD.  However, this guy isn't suffering from MPD and he carelessly left clues around to be found. 

The guy's fault was he underestimated the fact that she wouldn't open her eyes and see him for what he is. 

She dated a guy for a year and haven't met any of his family members?   
She see a woman on his facebook page (I am sure it was there the entire time they were dating).

If they were just friends casually dating then that is different because it is not exclusive.  Exclusive dating and casual dating are two separate things.  Exclusive dating is typically a stage above friendship dating, which leads to engagement/marriage. 

Casual dating involves getting to know multiple people and doesn't typically lead to exclusive dating. 

She may have been exclusive dating him, but he wasn't exclusive dating her.   She stated that she can't control whom she attracts, which could have some element of truth however we often times non-verbalizes our desires and expectations. 

Some people are very good at deciphering non-verbal communication and can pick up on some things.  Why do you think most scammers are able to pick up on gullible women/men? 

Common sense.

MsDarkSkin:
uhm once you are born in the US and are black you are considered AA. So she could in fact be afro.latina/caribbean and be labeled AA. Furthermore there are smaller sub- black American ethnicities such as the french/ creole speaking creoles of louisiana, and the Gullah/Geechee ppls of south carolina who speak african/caribbean mixed pidgin and have  for hundreds of years. sorry for being technical but not a lot of ppl on this site are educated about western black culture.  

(oh yeah! and then there is. . .ebonics!  )

*lol sorry for bursting your bubbles guys  heeehaar!

Right. They think all Black Americans are born in American when many of them have immigrated to America and it doesn't mater where you are from, if you are black and American you will be Black American.

There are many different groups of Black Americans that speak different language as you beautifully illustrated and when a black person does something negative, they will not label them by their ethnicity i.e. Afro-latin, Carribean, West Indian, and etc, they will simply be labeled as Black American.

Ti fi, ou konnen tcheke yo dwa?

tellwisdom:
. Do you realise,im nt meant fr u alone??

I would rather gnawl both of my legs and feed it to the coyotes than to be with you. You can have her ALL TO YOURSELF.

Don't be the third Nigerian she will complain about.

babsjnr:
here is my Lil beautiful babygal

Awww. THe baby looks toasty.

[quote author=£20BILLION link=topic=799767.msg9951750#msg9951750 date=1326398328]My son.[/quote]The baby is adorable and love his cheeks! But uhmm, come here closer. Why your son got a girl headband on his head?

Auntie Chima is puzzled!

We would be modern-day Bonnie and Clyde.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=833540.msg9942741#msg9942741 date=1326294885]just look at 0Para Winfury.  Why cant she find a man? [/quote]She is with Stedman and she is cohabitating with a man that isn't her husband like MILLIONS OF women around the world are doing and did.

Judge all the flocks.

Kissing isn't required to have a successful relationship however it is a form of an affection for some couples.  If you meet a good man/woman and they can't kiss, teach them but free them if they do not want to learn.

My husband and I had a debate about kissing some time ago because one of our mutual friend complained that her fiance doesn't like kissing.  She said that if he doesn't kiss her he doesn't love her.  I told her that she is being petty and my husband said that she is being human. 

To me, kissing is something couples should do in comfort of their own home.  I am not talking about a peck but tongue mingling and spit swapping is something I do not want to see others do.  My husband stated that it is normal for couples to respectively kiss in public and our leader stated that couples shouldn't peck during wedding ceremonies.  A prolonged peck is decent for wedding ceremonies and children do attend some weddings. 

I had to bite my tongue because children and adults were present, but I simply said that she need to look at kissing from his perspective and work with him on his kissing fears.  Maybe something happened to him when he was a child or teenager that caused him not to kiss. 

It is not a life or death thing with me, but it is important to some folks.

LMAO@Nigerian men are the most desired

Uh.

tellwisdom:
Have you met me?? #Best guy ever

OP run from this one.

sexlog:
Op, u've been unlucky with nigerians, u've been meeting the bad ones, but the truth is : there are millions decent nig guys out there.

Not necessarily unlucky with Nigerian men, just need to screen the men that she allows in her circle. I am sure Nigerian men aren't the only men that she have talked to or dated. She obviously isn't with them if she just broke up with a Nigerian man.

Adaeze003:
@ topic
because white men are not sure of their sexuality. You get married to them and next thing they turn gay and leave you for a man! Lol!
Silly tread

I agree there are gay white men, but most white men have always been open with their homosexuality.  Homosexuality has always been taboo in black communities, therefore black men aren't as open about their sexuality as white men.  

Who to say that the president of Nigeria isn't gay?   Don't forget many in-closet gay men are having children with women so just because they have children with women doesn't mean they aren't having sex with men.

OP

It were the types you and others have attracted. There are decent Nigerian men, you just have to screen them the same as you would any other men.

MsDarkSkin:
i think lefulefu's name should be added as a tag to alert the spamb0t.

You know you were wrong right? [size=2pt]You told that man he got faded ass raccoon head? I fell on the floor![/size]

Goldieluks:
The ugly ones are crossed haha.

Damn!

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=842641.msg9950481#msg9950481 date=1326386060]huh? claremont u mate with goats? [/quote]LMAO Some people do mate with and marries goats and other animals.