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You need to ask what type of men you are interested in and stick to those qualities that you are looking for in a man by being those qualities as well.

Good men are everywhere, it is the picking that's bleeped up.

pendo89:
Its a free world yeah but if your reason for cohabiting is to find out if you are compatible then I will say you are lost for sure.

1.Cohabitation is no guarantee for happy marriage
2.Refusing to cohabit is no gurantee either
3.If you are not ready to forgive,overlook faults,or if you are a coward do not marry but cohabit
4.If you respect the lady's parents and family and her honour as well then do the honourable thing of making her wife not some test car.

Again its a free world

I said that ALREADY!      However, GBAM!

LMAO@Someone calling Sexkillz ma'am.  

Okay, I am going to my corner.  

Sexkillz

Some people like to play "house" and that's their right.  I agree cohabitation reveals the same thing as dating exclusively does.  The reason, I use dating exclusively because traditionally dating is knowing different people without intimate relations and being friends with them.  

Through dating men usually propose to women before getting into engagement stage however time have changed and dating is now relative.  

Cohabitation is a modern day version of dating and many people like to have their cake and eat it too.

Some cohabitation relationship and marriages aren't successful.  Different strokes for different folks. 

I know some chicks and dudes that are cohabiting and the women are asking why after years of cohabitation, they haven't been proposed to. My response to them, "free milk".

(leaving the thread)

I guess it is safe to say that love isn't blind huh?  If you have to "test" the product before buying it then love isn't blind.  

I have always told people love isn't blind but many have sworn it is.  SMH.

No, I don't agree with cohabitation.  Why?  Because I said so.  


In the mind of men, why buy the cow when you can get the milk free. Don't sell yourself short ladies.

LMAO@cohabitation is a "westerner" thing.

I don't believe in cohabitation and I am in the "West".

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=824944.msg9764137#msg9764137 date=1323875081]Mrs, Chima.  does your husband have your surname? [/quote]Does your dog have your surname?  The news is all over Nigeria and congratulations on your canine wedding.

amefi:
Nah, as long as i hv urs, i dont need any other. BTW, hw r u sugar?

I am good. Don't hold your breath waiting on my arse.

Is it the end of the world, if the woman decides to keep her surname? Seriously!

Some of you knuckleheads, place some of the dumbest poo as priority. There are better things in marriage and life to focus on then a surname.

Are you getting married so you can say a woman has your surname or are you getting married for THE RIGHT REASONS?

maclatunji:
^^^ Mrs. Chiiiiiiiiiima, I have to agree with you for what I think is only the 2nd time in totality!

Okay, ask me if IGAF.

LesbianBoy:
SO you can actually type like this! i used to think u were from another planet with the way u used to type b4(they dont always make sense) https://poorwilliam.net/gif-ani/smart_guy_shaking_head_no_md_clr.gif

Are the doctors still downloading anti-retardation softwares in your brain? After installation and restarting, your brain should be up and functional.

Try again later.

rokiatu:
For calling you handsome, he must really be gayyyy.

Ijogz K:
Una no dey Crash Ni? , Like seriously, are U guyz dis dead?

Many of us do not live in Nigeria and it is still EVENING where I am.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=824650.msg9760127#msg9760127 date=1323830549]Hm. Thanks for your input.

The thing is, I'm Nigerian (Yoruba), and in my culture, it's sort of disrespectful of my daughter to address someone that old, by his "first name".

Isn't that a bit too formal? Remember we are gonna be living together.[/quote]I think calling him daddy or stepdaddy is too formal. Let say his last name is Koyoke, she can call him Mr. Koyoke as a sign of respect.

Mr. Whatever his name is. She is still a child therefore should address him as her elder.

Amefi is still begging for some arse huh?

How about applying for a job at www.jobsRus.org?

kokoye:
Chima . . .around the back . . who cares what you wear??

Don't worry! I won't tell them about us. Red heels it is!

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=821043.msg9757687#msg9757687 date=1323797257]Mrs Chima. ok you win. I will let you be the MAN!! [/quote]There ya go! Now go fetch my slippers biatch!

funmeme:
Tnks for airing your mind Mr, meanwhile av u read d book titled "Think Big"? Dream big ok, its Wα̲̅†̥ i tnk i wnt from Mr right i stated and if u re not d Mr right, pls read n move on as your opinion may nt mata except from Mr right

Meanwhile, I'm still hoping that Mr right will get τ̅☺ read this.

As much as I don't want to bust your "dream", but I am here to tell you that THERE ARE NO SUCH THING AS A MR. RIGHT.  Now there are Mr. Right for you, but no Mr right.   Mr. Right is PERFECT so you will wait until you are dead and buried for Mr. Right. 

Just accept a man for all the good things he has and work on his weaknesses.  However, if he has some deal breakers that you can't ignore, find another man that doesn't have those deal breakers.

What you should focus on is a good man that loves you for you and will work to grow with you as both of you live through trial and errors.  What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger and wiser.

Don't be like those women sitting on the park bench waiting on the perfect man that will never come around. 

I am sure you have flaws and errors that could push men away however, the right man for YOU will accept you as you are and work to grow with you.

[quote author=fresh_dude link=topic=820753.msg9751093#msg9751093 date=1323719524]@MBJ, you fully earned my respectwith your first post. All these girls truly have been conditioned to think that men are in this world to do their bidding no wonder marriages fail daily. @Funmeme, dream on oh you hear, anyman that will do all that is most likely gayy or prolly raised by a single mother, no man raised by a real man has the time or patience for sure trifles.[/quote]Sorry, all girls aren't conditioned the same. There are some girls who lives strictly on SUGARLAND and some who lives on SALTLAND. Saltland being the reality and accepting it is for what it is.

I as a woman do not expect a man to do a gotdamn thing. I don't babysit nor spoonfeed grown men that is what their mothers are for. If a man hasn't receive the proper training from his PARENTS before adulthood then he is A LOST CAUSE the same goes for women.

Unfortunately, some parents aren't equipped to teach their children the basics of life so therefore those "adults" run around in diapers looking for someone to break their confusion.

I tell women EVERYDAY, accept a man for what he is and if he is not your cup of tea do not CHANGE HIM. Get someone that is what you are lOOKING FOR. But of course, you men think by the merit of few women all women are alike. Damn.

You wish! I wasn't even a member in 2007.

PSST! What should I wear? I have a gentleman coming around the back at 10 am. Red heels or leopard print heels?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=821043.msg9757635#msg9757635 date=1323796754]Hang on there Mango head. Sweery, may I remind you that am only tryin to help u. You aint all that! [/quote]Hold on, You arseface. May I remind you that I WOULD RATHER you help your dumb arse to some books and SUCK A pirahna's dick.

You are definitely NOTHING!

kokoye:
did you just use that word?

not cool

Read again.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=821043.msg9757610#msg9757610 date=1323796476]errrmm Mrs Chima. I can get u anytime I want. I drive a Metalic Black 2008 Range Rover Sports with alloys!! [/quote]You can get me anytime you want and YET you are STILL BEGGING. Sure.

dayokanu:
It would be better for a man to slap me like that cos I would know its a no hold barred situation

And I can do as I want without any recriminations

Just saying because I see/hear many comments all over Nairaland and offline about women are weaker and delicate than men, but see more MEN fighting/combating with women than other men.  

Ironic.

Keep denying gentleman.