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[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=773924.msg9267514#msg9267514 date=1317648677]Who exactly are these answers going to fly with?

Definitely not Nigerian women. [/quote]It must be for robotic women.

LMAO@the dude shirt

Mission Bay on the shirt was the first clue.

There is no need crying over depleted milk. Dust yourself and move on. Screen your men more carefully.

REALITY101:
Talking to yourself again huh? U gon be aiight

I wish I can say the same for you.


Let me see, Reality and Hottie Tima.

sexkillz:
Chillax!

(farts)

Wifey! You are so mean!

lagcity:
^^^
to your question. i dont mind if someone gets startled and quickly hides behind me. now if the person grabs me so that i can't move, then that's another thing. if someone used me as in the picture below. then i would try to turn and use the person too.

Damn at the picture. Who and what were they shielding from?

I hear you on the holding part that is crazy. We are designed to self preserve first before anything and that is real. It is not surprising that the girl left because you reacted to being robbed at an ATM location and what could you have done with a knife or gun pointing toward you?

If you were in a situation where you were at a movie and someone is attacking your girl verbally or physically then I would say you have more "preparation" time to make a decision but not when you are being robbed at gunpoint or knife point.

If I was in that situation, I would have self preserve and do all I can to help my baby but we never know what will happen until we are in that situation. We can talk all stuff about what we would have done and could have done knowing damn well we need to arm ourselves with basic self defense mechanisms and hope for the best.

Aww. He is being rude and you need to have a talk with him. Stress to him that if he continues speaking in his native tongue when he is around his people without giving you a heads up on what you need to know.

You should speak your native tongue around your people and he start to get agitated and questioning your every vowels, it is the perfect time to say now you see how I felt when you did that to me.

It could be harmless and a habit with him but sit him down and communicate with him. If the problem continues then you have to make a decision on what you should do from there on out.

Don't stress yourself if he doesn't listen. Some people are there for a season and some are there for eternity. Which one is he?

sexkillz:
All these is girl chatter?  

Wipe your face. I am surprised you are getting threats is all I am saying.

lagcity:
sorry oo. there was a day someone startled me and my GF at the ATM at night. I immediately used my GF as a bullet shield. meeeeehn, was she pissed. she never got over that episode till we broke up. but the thing is that I am the only Son and she has four siblings. abeg what am i supposed to do?

I just read your post because of what 2buff said and I had tears in my eye because you said you used your girlfriend as a shield. You reacted with your human instincts and I believe your girlfriend would have done the same thing to you. Just keeping it real.

I guess she was upset that you didn't use yourself as a human shield and next time don't go to a vacant ATM unless you are inside of a bank or store.

Question, if the situation was reversed and you were used as a human shield, what would you have done?

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=769878.msg9265081#msg9265081 date=1317616742]First of all, I wouldnt even put myself in this kinda situation. Public fighting? ugh, no.  Unless if it's for self-defense.

If my man brings himself that kind of public attention, I WILL WALK AWAY. Or simply call the cops.

I do not like that kind of public attention, infact, any kind of public attention.[/quote]Hmm.

sexkillz:
. . . . . . .And the MODS keep threatening sexkillz with bans! What an absurdity of a derailment!

What could you have possibility have done to warrant bans?   You wouldn't jump in front of a speeding bullet for a girl chatter huh?

2buff:
Lol. Sha don't do that to your wife. With a GF it's certainly allowed

Don't listen to 2buff! He will leave his wife AND girlfriend at the sound of a fart.

Just admit it 2buff, you are a wimp.

(laughing at this trick really think I am mad)

You know how desperate, broke, and lying airhead you are and so does the dude you never met, your entire family, and online friends. Keep bitching, crying, and sucking on a chat dick. It just pains you. LMAO@I just met you and there is nothing I can do for you. Of course, you can't broke trick.

Moving on is hard for some people unfortunately.  Let see if I can get this dead thread moving-----

As I have stated throughout the thread, women need to learn to defend themselves and not expect a man to jump in your every beck and whims.

If you stood there and the man left albeit your boyfriend or husband and you got your arse tore up then you deserve it.

You will learn to wake up from fairy land and face harsh truths.  There are men that will run before you even have time to swallow your spit and if you do not have a man whether you met him or not that will defend your honor even with possibility of death then ride on.  Seek the man you want and stop changing a man to be your idea of what he should be.

If you want a man that will fight for you then seek or accept a man that will fight for you and do not be surprised if that dude ran off when you know he is a runner.  That's bleeping ludicrous.  I can see it now a woman expecting a man who is afraid of a baby ant  to fight a 7 feet tall thug.  WTF.  Seriously.   Undecided

Until then learn to protect yourself and use common sense when judging your partner's behavior.  If every guy you date run off when someone does something to you, what are you going to do?  Leave every time?  Undecided   Let be real.

Truth be told ladies, Not all men will fight for your honor.  Marinate that.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264934#msg9264934 date=1317610285]And your point is?  smh  - whatever.


^^^^
Agreed   

My church is in Nigeria - different parts - all over and our Governing Body - pulled the U.S. representative away from Lagos last month because of the "unrest" going on surrounding terrorism and terrorist activities - etc,

I am with you on your point of view - you have to stand firm to bullies and ignorance and ignorant people who have no drive and motivation but to persist - once you stand your ground - and they see you aren't giving in to their onslaught - what you are taming is not THEM - you just tame the situation and bring the situation under control.

I am so into what you said - to get the mental, physical and financial skills and security under control.  I don't fear Nigeria at this time or any other time - to secure your future there or anywhere.[/quote]You are the only person bitching in books about being bullied.  EPIC FAIL!     Keep crying sob stories and crying victim, I don't give a bleep, cry baby.    I guess people like "ignorance" seeing my name being nominated for Best poster.

I am moving on and the thread is dead.

As I have stated throughout the thread, women need to learn to defend themselves and not expect a man to jump in your every beck and whims. 

If you stood there and the man left albeit your boyfriend or husband and you got your arse tore up then you deserve it. 

You will learn to wake up from fairy land and face harsh truths.  There are men that will run before you even have time to swallow your spit and if you do not have a man whether you met him or not that will defend your honor even with possibility of death then ride on.  Seek the man you want and stop changing a man to be your idea of what he should be.

If you want a man that will fight for you then seek or accept a man that will fight for you and do not be surprised if that dude ran off when you know he is a runner. That's fucking ludicrous. I can see it now a woman expecting a man who is afraid of a baby ant to fight a 7 feet tall thug. WTF. Seriously.

Until then learn to protect yourself and use common sense when judging your partner's behavior.  If every guy you date run off when someone does something to you, what are you going to do?  Leave every time?    Let be real. 

Truth be told ladies, Not all men will fight for your honor. Marinate that.

Uhmmm, If I am bitter at a broke chick who self services online to a faceless dude and follows a popular chatter around asking for offline contacts and creating NL bashes with NO MONEY then the world is definitely coming to an end soon.  Real talk!  

We can go through all threads on NL and I know for sure Mrs. Chima did not reach out to Shyone for offline chats.  Mrs. Chima doesn't quote nor respond to MOST OF Shyone's posts but you have Shyone raging like a herny bull understandably so after some of my statements she have shared she didn't like.  But I am JEALOUS OF a broke chick?  Oh my goodness!  

Sure I be all of that and you are still everything I said you are.  

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264883#msg9264883 date=1317608402]

I know that was good wasn't it?  I love a good time.    

I hope they bring the thread back again,

You just stu.pid - the items you point out - you are seriously baffling - that child is going to come out with claws - bald, fat, not able to speak clear English and acting like a street brawling - ahahahahaha

biting other kids - spitting on them - you are going to be removed from so many different "play dates" - Chima's mini-me is going to be a site to see.  

we will hear you on NL - begging for advice - it won't sleep - help me - you are up into the late hours of the night online - keeping the poor child awake - then feeding it Cheerios side by side with the husband.  Can't you break up the monotony some?  How about some pop tarts or cheetos or Frosted Flakes.  Let Tony the Tiger get some time.  

ooo you kill me - Chima and her Cheerios.

lolololololololol

[/quote]Glad your online secretary job give you all the time to be "st[i]u[/i]pid with me".    

Still LMAO@being jealous of a broke chatter being paid with emails and Skype.   


DOA@if that dude run down the altar shouting Praise the Lord and Swing Low Sweet Chariot I will leave him. My excuse is I am too classy for that but I will cuss out chatters if they disagrees with my ramblings.

Is the NL Bash still going on for Christmas and New Years?

Oh my goodness! LMAO@your writing sucks so bad that I can't stop reading and chatting with you.

See what happens when people ramble so much they forgets 90% of what they say.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264872#msg9264872 date=1317607999]Laughing from crying? Again you laugh - so does that mean you are crying?

Who am I saving face from online? What? I have achieved so much in this life at this point in my life - who do I care to save face from online? Girl please lololololol

Seriously Jessica Chima stop!!!!![/quote]If you didn't care you wouldn't have wasted your time. Good thing you minor in Law according to you, You would have sucks as a lawyer seeing you couldn't lie your way out of a wet paper bag.

This chick still falling for the Jessica Chima moniker

I guess common sense isn't common.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264867#msg9264867 date=1317607855]

Now Chima - quotes me?  lololololol

I'm good - yes I know  

Who IS THE FAN NOW?  lolololololol - yeah you like my words.

Leading by example huh?  Who am I suppose to lead?  You?  No - there is no leading you by example.  You would destroy the class room - the ghetto inside would let loose and ruin everything within a 10 mile radius.

You wouldn't be able to shut your mouth long enough to learn anything.

Unless Mz. Darkskin were in the room - then and only then would you calm yourself enough to learn.

Listen to this - "You pass to your unborn child ALL THAT YOU ARE" - especially your mentality - that is why it is important when pregnant to stay calm, cheerful, sweet, kind - many couples will record classical music or their voices and put headphones on the pregnant woman's stomach so the child can hear.  Your state of mind is CRITICAL when you are pregnant.

INSTEAD of hurling filth and lies at unknown people on NL - introducing your unborn child to your CRAZY, BS - you should be painting, reading and preparing for your child to be the next Einstein

But here you are CREATING A "MINI-CHIMA-ME" - I pity your child - your child doesn't deserve you as a parent - smh[/quote]I pity you when you get to Nigeria and realizes you bit more than you could afford.  As for the babies, thank God there aren't any mini Shyones.  

See I got straight to the point. No long arse diatribes.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264852#msg9264852 date=1317607355]Chima - you are funny - stop playin 

Really stop yourself.  I really don't even understand what you just wrote.  I know it hurts you - that I am doing very well - see how you just add all kinds of mess

A bitter woman - very bitter.  You have a husband and you are still online making up lies about me.  I encourage you to do whatever you can do to bring your marriage back to life.

Wow - I have a bf - on the other side of the ocean and I spend more time with him OFF NL then you do with your husband who is in the same house.  You are quick to jump at me and you have very little of your own to control.

One thing I can say - my marriage will definitely NOT RESEMBLE yours - I pity you.  Cheerios, chewing gum, staying online for hours and hours and hours and having a husband, being fat and overweight and can't lose the weight and pregnant at the same time.

Then being delusional that you have "fans" because you offer an opinion on a faceless forum.

smh[/quote]That's right keep laughing from crying.  Saving face online is important!  Keep fishing for information about me because you will never know.      LMAO@her falling for the Jessica Chima moniker.       You fell for the bait.   

LMAO@you are delusional because I am wasting my classy time with you Chima 

Yeye Fowlness can be funny.   

I remember this chick tried to form an offline bash with Nairalanders and only had ONE member on the planning board while everybody were laughing their arses off. Your arse were serious too!

You picked Lagos of all places. I was on the floor!

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264841#msg9264841 date=1317606904]I know - "this is the internet"

You live by that - you say that because you "lie" about who you are so you think everybody else around you lies.  You use the internet so you can lie and that is why you can call me a liar.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-707034.0.html - HERE ARE MY DETAILS FOR ALL TO SEE  

My contact information - phone - email - I listed mine for all to see



You are a liar and an ignor.ant  one at that.

I am NOT A VICTIM - I am doing wonderfully for myself.  Another BS Angle.

Do you not know where to stop yourself?

According to you who know me not:

I am not young
I am childless
I am poor
I am a liar
I am a cheater

I know it would serve you well for me to be the above.  Kill the jealousy boo boo.[/quote]LMAO@jealous of a faceless liar     What the hell you got to be jealous of? Cum encrusted hands?  High arse International long distance phone bill?  Sleepless days from being online secretary?  Sure.  Oprah Winfrey doesn't have shit on you!  

You cracked me up when you said you were going to leave the dude if he start running in the church like Brother Franklin.  

I hope that dude doesn't shout Praise the Lord and Help me Jesus!  

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264826#msg9264826 date=1317606486]You can't stand on anything - you have proven nothing - If you don't want be called Trashy stopping acting like it.  Kill the ghetto you have going on.  It's not my fault that you can't retain information that I post - you mix up events and then repost and argue and YOU ARE THE CONFUSED ONE.

Seriously get it together AND I STAND ON THAT.  

Knowledge, intelligence and etiquette can be your friends - Google them,[/quote]Google is your friend as well learn how to lie credibly and apply knowledge, intelligence, and etiquette as well leading by an example.

One thing you have proved that you need to depend on someone online to help pay your bills that if you were telling the truth about not giving some dude money.   

Stand on your two feet and support yourself.   Don't be just an additional mouth, the dude already has harem of children to support according to you.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264820#msg9264820 date=1317606195]^^^

So responding to you means that I worry about you?  It also means that I am your fan?  REALLY??    - So tell me - what does that make your responding to me?    - You just can't help it can you? 

Thy name is stu.pid.   

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-707034.0.html - this machine costs 470,000.00 - a little under half a million dollars - NOT NAIRA - USD



This Ex-Executive Assistant - Sure lives pretty dam.n good - NOW DON'T SHE?   

Clean up your act Chima - YOU WISH you could be me.  You lack sense on so many different levels.



http://www.sup.org/book.cgi?id=16553 - I assisted with this book being published - He is an Ambassador -  

And I have another one hitting the book stores next month.  "Unending Crisis" - Look for it -  

Jessica Chima - Wherever you are getting the INACCURATE INFORMATION that I process emails and occasional phone calls - you really need to go back to your source AND GET A LOT MORE INFORMATION - boo boo



You and MBJ just don't quit - "You just can't have it your way" - You are such a child - let's hope your children CAN ASSIST in maturing you.  Don't worry about me having children - I AM YOUNG AND FERTILE -   [/quote]Correction: Oprah Winfrey would be my choice and not a depleted chatter begging for online loans.

You just won't stop the woe is me and I am the victim tantrum huh?  Suit yourself. 

As for MBJ and I, if you can dish it you should be able to take it.     The dishing and getting straight to the point without grabbing everything needing help but the taking it sucks. 

Sure you are young and fertile.  This is the Internet.   

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264793#msg9264793 date=1317604740]@ Chima

Let me end my comments to you on this factual statement.

Don't post your words - and then get angry when someone repeats them back to you - maybe I didn't repeat you word for word (verbatim) - but I repeated the idea exactly as you presented it.

You went over the top - you got angry and instead of just continuing to respond - you attacked.

Your husband - I didn't target him negatively - I was just surprised at your defense that men shouldn't defend their mate - when all you have talked about on too many threads to count is how angry your husband will get, how he won't let you do this, he won't let you do that.  You were just sharing.  About how defensive he can be of you and nobody better look at you, etc., etc.

So when I mentioned it - you went STRAIGHT CRAZY AND IGNORANT.

Then in shock at your STUP,ID.ITY - I then post the thread and you have nothing to say anymore but to call me a liar and talk about my family (a dead member) and a new member (My Nigerian guy)

You need to respond like an adult - you are embarrassing yourself and you need to stop.

I know you want me to be YOUR LIAR - But the only one that has proved themself at this point to be THE LIAR IS YOU.  The very thing you called me is what you are.

sheeesh,[/quote]Shy

i am going to end on this statement.

I meant everything I said and stands on it. You know what you said if you can remember any of it all with your ramblings. If you were talking about another guy that you have known since 2008 or 2009 whichever one it is now then you have been naughty.

You shouldn't care about what I have to say since I am trashy, Ms. Classy trashy liar.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264773#msg9264773 date=1317604267]^^^^^

Again I don't hear you saying much of anything.

The 17 year old boy is a man in his 30s - You are an idio.t and then you smile and DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU ARE EVEN TALKING ABOUT.  That is how stu.pid you are - I have posted my FACT

You are running with your fiction.

lololololol

Chima - please go and get an education.  If you don't do it for yourself or for your husband - do it for your children - As soon as you open your mouth you remove ALL DOUBT as to YOUR LEVEL OF STUP.ID.ITY.

The Queen of Stup.id.[/quote]Cyber self-service and desperation is a mofo huh?   You have all the "education" in the world and still an educated fool and cried about not getting a job.  You created a "job" being a secretary for a boss overseas you haven't met.  You get paid in emails and occasional phone calls.  Job of the year huh?  

You removed all levels of doubt and shown st[b]u[/b]pidity every time you type that long arse diatribe of bullshits.  Out of 50 paragraphs, you may say something of value and you have to write a damn book to get to the point.   Exhibit A: It is not necessary to use excessive words and redundancies in making a point.

You need to make sure you can have kids and wonder why you didn't have them when you were married the first time.  All that "education" couldn't help the reproductive system huh?

I am flatter you worrying about me though with your busy schedules and all.  

[size=22pt]Somebody is hurting and lying.[/size]   

I know a 17 years old boy awaits your attention.      I hope the boy can fight when trouble comes.   


Okay OP, now you see what happens when you don't fight for your girlfriend and die in her honor?

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264727#msg9264727 date=1317603000]@ Chima

As far as flip flopping?

I see many sides of one issue - that isn't flip flopping - that is discernment.

I can see many different view points that are all legitimate.  Because I disagree on a topic doesn't mean that I "don't see that person's point of view" -- and guess what?  I can agree with a portion and disagree with a different portion of the same sentence or view.

Your calling it flip flopping means that you just don't the same understanding.

And further along into a topic can make me change my point of view - maybe that person has shown me areas that I didn't know.  

This is a forum - we learn from each other.  There is no rule that states that we must hold to our thoughts that we had last week.  I should hope that the forum is assisting in growth.

But knowing how limited your thoughts are, you will scream "Liar"    smh  

Have you been to college?

Did you graduate?[/quote]I see now this is a thread where we learn from each other until someone disagrees with your opinions or states something that doesn't correlates with yours.  From the threads, you were pretty upset with MBJ not fighting with a guy that taps his chick's arse and took it personal. 

Taking things personal when you internalize something that isn't directed toward you.  Calling me names and asking questions will not change your financial situation and you feeling like your dude isn't romantic or wasn't what you thought he was. 

Why are you wasting on your "busy" workload time with someone you say is trashy?  I am sure you have better things to do like learning how to do a child's short hair.   

I am flatter with the free time you spent with me.  Anything for my fans.   

Okay fan! I need to go fix the Cheerios. Have fun on NL for the rest of the night.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264713#msg9264713 date=1317602547]@ Chima:

You are childish - give your child (if you really are pregnant - God forbid) - a mother that is worthy of them.

You are seriously childish - it hurt you to this extent when I mentioned what you said and then I posted your thread - about you fighting.

I don't see you commenting on that thread(s)

"You are a Ride Or Die Chick" - Remember?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-523336.0.html

Your hubby was getting ready to fight - where was the DOG "Chima"?   [/quote]Keep looking through the threads you will find where I stated the husband running and fighting with the dog MANY TIMES childish toad.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264704#msg9264704 date=1317602341]You don't speak good English - don't dishonor Asians - they don't want to claim you either

Still waiting for the threads.

talk is cheap

post my lies

He Say/She Say - POST IT[/quote]LMAO@stealing insults    Correction: You are narrating written English improperly.  We do not speak written English with our fingers.  

I write so bad that YOU WROTE five books worth of posts responding to my posts.  You such a bad liar.   People do not waste time with someone they do not comprehend. If the writing sucks, you should have stuck with MBJ.

Okay MBJ, she is yours now.  I am done with her.