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[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264680#msg9264680 date=1317601953]I don't see my post ANYWHERE - when you call me a liar - PROVE IT - until you POST MY LIES AND PROVE ME TO BE A LIAR - I AM NOT GOING TO TAKE ANY TIME TO READ YOUR BS

POST IT - where I said my husband died in 2008 - post that - YOU STILL RAMBLE AND HAVE NO background - you are like those uneducated school aged AA females who laugh really loud, don't open a book, don't write, constantly pick fights - because they cannot communicate - cannot communicate - don't speak good English.

I expected to see you post "MY LIES"  SINCE YOU ARE SO CONVINCED THAT I LIE - but since you can't do anything but come back online and start your ridiculous lunatic ravings you have made famous - I didn't even bother to read the mess you wrote.

Idio.t. plain and simple - a stark raving i.di.ot.[/quote]I guess you are going to continue lying huh?  I guess we are done then. 

Such a classy lady!  Classy ladies are so proud of you!  Not! 

I hope for your stake when you FINALLY get to Nigeria that the guy doesn't run off when someone with a gun trying to hijack your knapsack. Lord forbid, we will hear all about it on NL since you don't want your families in your business.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264666#msg9264666 date=1317601625]You are just ignorant - this is just you.  You make up stories and add material to your stories.  My husband died in 2009 - like I said - you make up stories  - you post fiction and then you run with it as though it is fact.[/quote]You are just a liar.  You talk/type so much that you don't remember have of the shit you say but unfortunately for you people do read threads.  

I have read a few posts where people also said you flip flop in your stories/posts.   I guess they are ignorant too.    Shyone is so classy that she doesn't lie and get into trashy spitfires.  

I laugh in Mandarin.  

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264591#msg9264591 date=1317599665]I know - you see things quite differently than I do - you carry yourself and behave on a very low level and you have done it for as long as I have ever logged onto NL.

You see me as a liar - as I have NOTHING TO PROVE TO YOU WHO MEANS NOTHING TO ME.  I could care less.  Did I gasp or make up stories when I repeated your words to the forum?  NO I DIDN'T - so now you go on the attack?

Always over the top - Chima.  Instead of responding to my words - you charge me through my dead husband, call me a cheater and malign my current relationship.

You are one "quality individual" - stop acting like a street thug, street walker - this isn't the ghetto - I realize that it is hard for you to differentiate sometimes but please join the rest of us in the discussion.

People who have nothing much to say pull stunts like you do.  Keep contributing to the forum - what I stated to you CAME FROM YOUR PREVIOUS WORDS TO THE FORUM ON MANY DIFFERENT TOPICS.

You know that you don't just talk about a dog attacking you - smh.

You are one Trashy Female - is what you are.

Good Grief!!!![/quote]LMAO@this chick thinking I give a Bleep about her opinions of me. You are a faceless chatter just like the rest of them.

Spare me the sob story. You should know about being trashy lying and all. If you were honest which I doubt you would say that you brought Mr. Chima in from previous thread and this thread. I don't mention anything about that dude you trying to convince to marry you on the beach unless you bring up Mr. Chima. As for the late husband, the only thing I said since your late husband died in 2008 and I am sure he would get on you for even chatting with other men. That's what protective husband do.

I made points without bring up the dude until you brought up Mr. Chima and if your skin was thick as you have claimed you wouldn't have fallen to the "BS" you cooked up.

You have stated many time you are classy and you don't get into trashy spitfire. Classy people who do not get into trashy spitfires doesn't scoop down to the level of people they have claimed are trashy. You lied again.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264547#msg9264547 date=1317598956]Mrs. Chima wrote:
^^^
Don't hate boo - it doesn't look well on you - is that the animosity you hold against Shy?  Is that your problem with me?  Because I have a Nigerian that treats me very well across an ocean.  And you reside "under the same roof with a Cheerios eating spouse that has you spending the majority of your days on NL and chewing and popping your gum" - rolling your eyes and throwing plates at the screen?

^^^

Wow - it must be a miserable life you live - it must be really messed up to be YOU.

Please FOR ALL TO SEE - POST MY LIE - Go ahead - DO IT!!!  My husband was diagnosed in Oct. 2008 and died Nov. 2009  as I have ALWAYS SAID - my guy and I have been together since March 9, 2010 - Post where I said 3 years.  I have always said going on 2 years or 2 years - Your ignorance has truly outshone you this time -   smh  - also put an apostrophe and an "s" on the word let - it's "let's do basic math"

But how can I expect you to do "basic math" when you can't read "basic English" - your recall skills are non-existent.

Who I have been speaking of IS MY EX.  We didn't mention names since you don't know him there was no need for me to mention "which boyfriend/husband" in which I refer - smh, smh - we are listing scenarios and I have listed scenarios and experiences I have had.  

Do you have anything else you want to say?  lolololol - Can you spell "i.diot"?  How about "buffoon"?  or maybe "ignoramus" - yes - choose one of those 3 for your next "username"  once you burn through Caliente and Chima for the hundredth time.

What was it Chima - mad because I mentioned "what you have stated about Mr. Chima over and over again?  Did I lie?  All I did was repeat what came FROM YOUR MOUTH about the hubby.  It wasn't meant to hurt you as your lashing out at me - was clearly your intent.  

Unfortunately for you - my skin is much thicker than that and I see through your BS.  

To bring up my dead husband and then misquote dates and then try to align me as being a "cheater" - You are a lowlife scum - don't get angry because I was surprised at your defense of the topic when you CLEARLY tell eveyone constantly about how your husband will fight.  

You posted a thread about fighting in a club and how you WILL DEFEND YOUR MAN and how someone approached your table wrong and you asked the other women would they fight and you egged everyone on in that thread.  That was when we knew you as Queeneve.  That userid.  Or was it Queen.eve. or Queeneve._[/quote]LMAO@this chick changing her story.  See people if you can't lie, tell the truth!

You must be living a pathetic life to lie about something of no importance and you stated you have met and spend time with the dude (which is a lie) and you stated you have known the guy for three years.  Just like posts can be created it can also be edited.  The proof is in the pudding.  If you made an error say it but to make up stories to save face?  Come on that a punk move.  

Again where did I say in any post that I wouldn't defend Mr. Chima and that Mr. Chima wouldn't fight?  Are you confusing my posts with MBJ's again?  

I know he would fight and he will do what he wants to do but what does that have to do with my statement about women need to learn to defend themselves and defend themselves?   Take your time.  

You are typing through tears and frustration that you are gasping for whatever you can find. What and who would you blame it on this time?  Your "workload" or the running man?  

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264547#msg9264547 date=1317598956]Mrs. Chima wrote:
^^^
Don't hate boo - it doesn't look well on you - is that the animosity you hold against Shy?  Is that your problem with me?  Because I have a Nigerian that treats me very well across an ocean.  And you reside "under the same roof with a Cheerios eating spouse that has you spending the majority of your days on NL and chewing and popping your gum" - rolling your eyes and throwing plates at the screen.[/quote]Oh my goodness!  Why would I be jealous of someone that has to masturbate (by your own admission) to a man's emails and voices off Skype?    Are you that serious?  As far as animosity toward you, there is none but it is clear that you have it toward me seeing you can't stand it when I throw what you say back in your face and then you go crying making an apology thread.  WTF.  My issue with you as I have stated before you take things too personal hence the long diatribes with MBJ and I because we have different opinions well mostly MBJ's.  Unlike you, I don't go around asking people what they are doing in their real life and trying to catch up with them offline.  

As for being on NL all day and night, you would know about that seeing you aiming for 190's popularity status with a "job" you claimed to keep you busy.  

According to you, my excuse for being on NL all day and night is not having a life of my own.  What are your excuses?    You have plenty of them I know!  

Yeah, the dude treat you so good across the ocean that you are masturbating against the images of his pidgin!  Oooh jealous!  

LMAO@Cheerios    Ask that dude can you borrow some money to buy some Cheerios seeing you having financial difficulties.  You will pay him back with interest.

MBJ,

I know that you were confusing my posts with Shyone's because I stood on what I said and didn't flip flop.  I even stated since 2buff's statement about boyfriends versus husbands that I do not expect boyfriends nor men who doesn't care about their woman to defend their woman regardless of situations.  That did not changed at all and I also was asking you what other situation, you would defend your girl but you answered it and I am not going to keep saying the same thing over and over because somebody got their feelings hurt in the process and that applies to hit dogs that yelped. 


I guess I am riding on MBj, Hairaki, and 2buff's bandwagon because I agreed with some of the things they said. Opinions are like assholes everyone has them.

Shyone

[size=22pt]I still stand on my statement about women having to defend themselves and not one time you have read any posts from me saying I DEPEND on Mr. Chima to defend me and I will leave him if he doesn't defend me.[/size]

As far as you beating MBJ, what are you beating him with angry shouting and crooked middle fingers?  

Okay, yeah right.  


Learn to fight on your own coward.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=769878.msg9264327#msg9264327 date=1317595115]Also Chima - Not trying to be rude, but I clearly recall in NUMEROUS THREADS:[/quote]I am not trying to be rude either when I say this but how can you know what some guy you met online is going to do for you when you haven't even met the dude in person?  It is a difference when you know from physical experiences what the guy will do and what some dude told you via Skype or Yahoo.     If you are going to lie at least lie credibly.  

I have caught you in a lie and some when you stated your ex husband died in 2008 due to prostate cancer and you stated on NL that you know the current guy that you are going to meet in Nigeria for three years.  Now if your ex husband died in November 2008 and by your own admission, you have known the guy for three years, now let do basic math to keep our readers entertained.  

Your ex died in November 2008 and in order to have known the guy that you claimed will defend your honor and fight for you albeit gunfights, club fights, and a man tapping on you.  

That would mean you have known the guy during the demise of your ex husband in 2008 and it is not November 2011 yet.  You grieve fast huh?  

I am sure if the ex husband was alive and well he would too be jealous and fighting YOU for making marital arrangements with a guy you haven't met and almost dropped the dude because he didn't want to get marry on the beach.  A few lady folks got you to slow down and see you were making a mountain out of a molehill.  

So again how DO YOU KNOW what a man that you haven't met would do for you entirely when you haven't met the dude?  Don't lie.  

Now getting to Mr. Chima, I have stated many time that Mr. Chima (my husband with proof) fought with a dog for chasing me and all husbands are territorial about their wives.  I have stated multiple times that in the case of boyfriends and husbands, the reactions would be totally different hence the statements most men stated on this thread.  Most of them said WIFE, yes and Girlfriend, no.  

I would expect husbands to defend their wives not boyfriends.  I stood on that throughout the whole entire thread with and without MBJ.  You are upset that MBJ whooping your arse and that's not my problem.  I also agreed with Hairaki so I guess I am riding on Hairaki's band wagon just like your cheerleaders rode on your bandwagon.  Keep it real.  

Stop making up stories as you go along because you gasping for ammunition.  Its not cool.

MRbrownJAY:
@Mrs C
why would you think that "me calling the cops" is NOT helping?! are you saying that if someone does anything to you, i MUST lower myself and fist fight (because of an unseen HONOR)?
i can find MANY ways of making someone pay for their insolence, beating them to a pulp is not one of them, as it doesnt solve the problem, it only makes YOU feel better.

MBJ, please do not confuse my posts with Shyone.  I am not saying that you must FIGHT in to preserve your honor or whatever.  I understood the scenarios you presented and understood where you were coming from and at the same time all I am asking you, what situations WOULD you defend your girl but you answered my question saying you will find other ways to defend your girl and [size=15pt]I GET IT BROTHER.  TRUST ME.[/size]

Please get me when I say I advocate women standing and defending themselves as a man would stand up and defend himself.  If I would to expect a man to defend his woman, it would be a husband more so than a boyfriend.  

We cool brother?  Let me make sure, I understand where you coming from and you are human.

harakiri:
Sometimes, I wonder how people reason. You expect a boyfriend to start acting all macho when he hears gun shots? If he gets gunned down, it's people like you who would be the first to call him a senseless fool and woman wrapper. This reminds me of all those tertiary school cult boys who kill themselves over a girl that would most definitely get married to a "jew man". Some even died over a woman influenced fracas without knowing who the lady was. I am very manly in physique and mind but if I hear gun shots and I'm not armed at the time, the lady is on her own. If she can run with me, fine but I won't let her slow me down. There's nothing macho when it comes to bullets coz when you die, she will be the one telling the whole world how dumb you were in acting "super hero" and on top of that, she will sleep with your best friend! So much for being macho!

I agree with you because I know damn well when I hear a gunshot I am not trying to fight someone with a gun and [size=22pt]I will run off. Mr. Chima better hop fences or his arse going to be shot up.[/size].  As old people always said don't bring a knife to a gunfight.  Keeping it real,  I expect man and woman to run when they hear gunshots or facing the barrel of a gun.  Trust me people talking that shit about shoulda, coulda, and woulda their arses going to be running like Forest Gump too.  

Someone mentioned women listens to fairy tales and pretend it is easy that is incorrect because you have women that know the real deal and women that WISH/DREAM/HOPE a man will run across a speeding bullet.  

In a nutshell, it doesn't matter if the man catch the bullet for his woman with his mouth and die or run off like Forest Gump and Bubba in "Who let the dogs out", the woman is still going to be alone having to defend herself.

Cravessex:
I have one of mine to tell,

One nice evening, my guy picked me up from work and took me home, we were close to my street but still in his car talking romance when suddenly a bus full of men with guns stopped in front of our parked car.

Unfortunately, he parked in such a way that the passenger side was too close to a wall and I couldn't get out.
Wham! he opened his side of the door and took off! Leaving me trapped! They chased and caught him.
Fortunately, it was the police. what a relief.

I left him after that,  what a douche.

It is unfortunately that you were left to defend yourself and it wasn't something as tragic as violation or attempted murder.  You mentioned you left the dude after he ran off but would you dump every guy that ran off and left you to defend yourself? 

Suppose the guy isn't able to defend you or himself, would you step in and defend yourself and him?   Let say you stepped in to defend yourself and the dude but failed, the dude send you an email saying I am breaking up with you because didn't win the fight.  How would you react? 

Hypothetical questions because I am trying to get more prevalent situations other than running from the car and getting tapped on the arse.

MRbrownJAY:
@Mrs C
as i repeat, if my life is in danger then i would fight to DEFEND/PROTECT myself (focus on defend and protect).
fighting to SOLVE A PROBLEM is not only stoopid but also childish (thats what i did when i was 12!!!)

You have repeated you will defend and protect yourself and thinks fighting to solve a crime is childish, I get it trust me. I am saying minus the tapping arse part what situations WOULD you defend your girl and not saying she went out and ran her mouth. You kind of answered my question so thank goodness for that.

That's why I said women should LEARN and KNOW how to protect themselves regardless if the man is there or not. If a woman sat there expecting a man to jump at every whim and beck defending her then she is as clueless as seeing a blind man driving a car.

Expecting a man albeit the boyfriend or husband isn't going to save anyone's arse from dangerous situation and it is easy to talk the talk than walk the walk. Let's just be real about it.

[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=773431.msg9263604#msg9263604 date=1317586065]walk away.

nagging is usually used by people who lack any form of power in the relationship.
for example a parent don't have to nag their kid to do dishes. all u have to do is take out the whip or threaten not to feed him dinner  
a child on the other hand will nag the parent to buy stuff for him, allow him to sleep over at a friend's house etc. because he has no other way of making the parent listen/obey expect to annoy the parent with nagging.
the nagger is like a pest or mosquito murmuring in your ear and you will do anything to make it go away.

so, nagging works for the powerless.[/quote]I agree with you on the parental nagging because I have seen some parents goodness and let me say this there are punk parents in every creed but I have seen white parents begs their children to obey them and accept disrespect from them in fear of being told they are the worst parents in the world.  

You and I know MOST black mothers/fathers would have handle the situation in a different manner.  I am not saying exactly what because we do have some emotional chatters on NL.

MRbrownJAY:
@Mrs C
one thing is for sure I MBJ will not fight a man who has touched my woman's a[b]s[/b]s. . . . . . far from it, i will actually enjoy that as it will surely cost this ignorant man a great deal of money!!!!

Okay. I hear you about the arse part and what about other situations that you would defend or fight a man?

When you said "this ignorant man will spend great deal of money" are you saying you will make sure your woman file a sexual harassment suit? I am asking because of thinking of another possible answer you may be referring to.

I know for a fact after skimming through this thread, it is good to know opinions aren't one size fit all.

We need to find the root of why such person is nagging or have nagged. Some people do not have effective communication skills so some will resort into childish games or acts.

It could be the only way your spouse can communicate with you and that's sad. If your spouse have to constantly say the same thing over and over or treat your like a child then of course the relationship will not last longer.

Why would an adult remain in a relationship with a grown child?

Hottie Tima

I asked you to keep an eye on my wifey and you karate chopping nukkas.

rokiatu:
Roll eyes.

and get out of thread.

What this I hear you got another admirer? I sent you to get some foo foo and you sashaying with Reality?

ismaeel86:
i wonder what a "Mrs" should be looking for here, extra-marital affairs i guess.

I guess you and your nutsuckers are committing extra-marital affairs too for matching people on a faceless thread huh?

(walking out of thread laughing and looking at that heffa with tears in my eyes)

Guess what? R. Kelly in trouble again and this time it is supposed relate his bowel movements urges.

MsDarkSkin:
so let me get this straight:

if you get married and are unhappy, by the second year you can automatically get a divorce?!

i didn't read it all sis

Let me catch your arse in a Mexican chapel.

pendo89:
I am not a dream woman so I do not need a dream man either.

If EVERYONE will adopt that phrase, relationships would last longer and singleness wouldn't be much of a business.

MsDarkSkin:
hell no.

slap MY jamo mother? 
the day i do so will be the day i see a casket i like!

The day I told my Non-white momma I wish she would. She politely reminded me she brought me into this world with skills and will take me out of this world with skills.

Its kind of hard to describe her facial expression but say it wasn't pleasure nor copyable.

MsDarkSkin:
^^ that's right!

where is chima sef?
i say you and chima should get to know each other

Dsense, I apologize for cock blocking and you have my support in showing Ms. Dee, the Harem hospitality.

Go rough and make her scream.

[quote author=MRbrownJAY link=topic=769878.msg9262894#msg9262894 date=1317578682

@Mr Chima
yeah, a woman who can't handle herself out there on her own (and require your help for EVERYTHING) is a LIABILITY. the day you are not there then we can all imagine what she will do.

as for the pic, nah it's just jokes, we all enjoy your posts on NL (at least "most" times)!
[quote][/quote]I agree a woman has to be able to take care of herself if her man is AROUND OR NOT. As I said different situations requires different reactions. If it is something that can be avoided then mature adults should handle it maturely but sometimes you may have to act ignorance just to solve a particular situation and should be the last resort.

But the thing with men coming up to a woman and she doesn't say anything say a lot about her as a woman. She may not care who touching her arse or she is trying to keep peace but I would say it is the first one.

In a life and death situations, you really don't know what you will do. So I will not judge a man if he doesn't defend his woman because again it is easy to talk shit but harder to be about it. You will be surprised what a man and woman will do in those situations not saying YOU per se but in general.

As for the cartoon, you weren't joking NEGRO. I don't expect everyone to take salty treats very well.

Old subject. Use search engine.

ITbomb:
I was getting along with this Dela girl for some time, when we began to get personal, she ask me where I am from, I said Akwa Ibom, she was like "Oh, Calabar!" . She never pick my call again, always up with excuse not to see me, I got the message and move on.

Maybe she didn't like YOU regardless of your "group".

MRbrownJAY:
depending on what type of girlfriend you have, she should A) turn around and smack the hell out of this fool B) give him a tongue lashing, insulting his future grandchildren C) call the cops and have him arrested and charged or D) say nothing and go on her merry way.

whatever she decides to do has NOTHING to do with you, if she does nothing then i suggest you reassess your r/ship.

I see what you are saying because in the case of a woman getting tapped on the arse, she should handle that without her man.  Different situations requires different reactions and I didn't forget that cartoon you created (about my arse overdue for an arse whooping) 

Then again some men would still fight for a woman who have shown she doesn't give Bleep about him and his. I still stand on my opinion about expecting men not to defend the woman they care nothing about.

I have seen men smiled and grinned when other men degrade their chicks touching and humping all on the backside as if it something to brag about. It is not just the women that need checking the dudes that are with them need checking as well.

REALITY101:
Easy way to know a bit[i]ch[/i]




W T F is wrong with you Revolting grimy b1tch?



Puta por qué son chocantes  

Puta yo no soy el.

Oh my!

sexkillz:
Infidelity is on the rise worldwide! Why do Nigerians take utmost pleasure in Nigerializing everything?. . . I dont gerrit!

Just like people blames the ""West" for being trifling and infected ashyhoes. Humans are so quick to point fingers instead of looking inward.

Unfortunately, somebody/thing have to take the blame and from the posts, Nigeria and the West are the scapegoats.

Awww.