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Apparently it's not important because you have different tribes who are marrying or have married other tribes.

sexkillz:
. . . . And MMM (Mad Man in Mexico) Would be waiting for you!

You mean you will be in Mexico waiting on her?

sexkillz:
For this statement alone, i've come to a conclusion that you still have a hubbub mis-mash discombobulated idea of what LOVE really means! Hope you did not say that to his face or ears? Take the below! And show interest in what he does! That is what is meant by "I was there for him"

She is having a change of heart. That's what people do when they are not into the person.

Lacrissa:
My long distance boyfriend is having a lot of issues with his job and some personal issues and lately been using a little of the frustration on me. I got angry when he said i was not encouraging him and all that and that really hurts simply because he told me of his long hours over the weekend and my reply was "wow". I only said wow because I felt now there would be more time apart not because i wanted to make him feel worse.

At this point I'm thinking of distancing myself completely, let him solve his problems himself since I'm not encouraging or still be there for him and keep on letting him know I'm here or what is best to be done in this case?

Thanks

Long distance relationship isn't for you.  If you can't cut it just tell him that you are having a change of heart.  There are others that are and were in your shoe and they too complained about their long distance relationships.  You are human just like they are.  

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be with the person on a daily basis physically and in person.  You are not obligated to stay with him because you are not married.

My wifey and concubines, they know whom they are.   

Why are you shouting?

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=771271.msg9251801#msg9251801 date=1317400622]^^^^no wonder she cant find a man [/quote]No wonder you can't get any punny.

I would rather born piranhas.

[quote author=~Mikael~ link=topic=771794.msg9251499#msg9251499 date=1317397958][size=14pt]Huh? Am i the only one?. . . .[/size] [size=14pt]Only if you are posted to Afghanistan! [/size] [/quote]So far.

Take as long as you can until you hear that clock ticking. Once you have a baby everything change.

Braids and Weave are two different things. You do not need synthetic fibers when braiding hair but some women use it to give their braids depth and length.

Weave or human hair extensions (depending on the type of hair) are usually from dead people and Indians (India). There are different reasons why women wear weave and extensions.

Hair loss condition
Styling purposes
Inferior complexity

Black women who take care of their hair using healthy products have long and beautiful hair. The women I know are into healthy hair care regime and all of them have healthy long hair.

Even white women have hair issues hence extensions and hair repair treatments.

Pregnancy talk makes me nauseous. Catch up Nayah.

[quote author=~Mikael~ link=topic=771794.msg9251204#msg9251204 date=1317395468][size=14pt]. . . . .Cos it's not necessitated by facts. . . .[/size][/quote]Oh my goodness, you actually believe men are following their wives around the world. 

Urggggggggggh pregnancy

[quote author=~Mikael~ link=topic=771794.msg9251021#msg9251021 date=1317394071][size=14pt]! i dont believe this is about men forcing women because they make the decisions in the household! No! . . . . [/size][/quote]You don't have to believe it.

I agree no decent woman will do that.

You are missing the point Mikael and that's expected.

Nayah, Ebonyvibe, and I understand all about communication and so forth but we are stressing two things:

Communication and compromise on BOTH SIDES not just one person. If you are communicating your feelings and[b] NOT WILLING[/b] to make a compromise that will suit both parties then divorce will definitely follow.

Opportunities and life curves happen to both women and men but women are more likely to follow their husbands and I am not saying some husbands doesn't follow their wife. I know some husbands that followed their wives but that is small in comparison to women following their husbands.

It is important for both parties to know each others information before making a life long decision. It is different when the relationship is casual then she has no business asking that question but when marriage is introduced she has every rights to ask that question and if she is only focusing on money then you know what you need to do.

A woman of substance would focus on things of intangible value such as:

Love
Communication
Compatibility
Respect
Health
Education
Lifestyle
Family
Finance (It is important to know the person's spending habits and their philosophy of money)
Belief
Politics
Goals
Expectations
Roles in the marriage

All of these things should be considered and asked before marriage.

Nayah:
^^Hey Mrs Chima how are you?? yeah life is not just black or White

I am good. How are you?

[quote author=~Mikael~ link=topic=771794.msg9250800#msg9250800 date=1317392026][size=14pt]. . . . . . .And most women would expect their husbands to follow them if opportunities awaits them too! It's all about willingness to sacrifice/compromise on the part of the affected spouse![/size] [/quote]Words are important.  Most doesn't mean all.  Regardless if women expect their husbands to follow them doesn't change the fact that most women followed their husbands.

If Africans women are trying to imitate white chicks by wearing weaves then who are white chicks imitating wearing wigs and extensions?   


Black women can have long and beautiful hair if they leave those harsh chemicals alone and focus on healthy alternative hair care.  For example, Oprah Winfrey's hair is long, thick, and healthy because she know how to take care of her hair and without loads of cash your hair will look just like her. 

I don't gerrit about the bleaching cream and plastic surgeries that on them.  They will have to deal with the consequences.  If you feel beautiful and confident then you wouldn't need to resort into plastic surgeries.   Do you. 

Call me whatever you feel but when I see people with bleeped up plastic surgeries I think that's funny and will laugh in your face.

Good question, Nayah.  You are right everything isn't cookie cutter nor straight shooter.  I know for a fact most men would expect their wives to follow them if opportunities awaits them.  

Ebonyvibe, you are right its not always about one person in the marriage.  All factors should be taken in consideration before any actions are done and all money isn't good money either.

Beware of the yelping dogs.

Yawns. Zzzzzzzzz.

[quote author=MRbrownJAY link=topic=771501.msg9247537#msg9247537 date=1317345507][/quote]Awww come here suga


Get in line plenty of the men wants to shoot, stab, dice, slice, flog, and karate chop my arse. I already got several bullets lodged in my computer screen.

Relax101:
Wetin dis one mean self?
African Americans women dey easy to f0rk as the white ones. Both the educated or semi-illiterate.
I know no where all these your yeye shakara dey come from.

[size=22pt]A hit dog yelped.[/size]