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MRbrownJAY: some people are here talking about slaps like as if it is EASY to land a good slap. it is not easy to land a backhand at a 45° angle, and still keep your posture and power to look good, lol!

patsucess: Dear Brothers/Sisters

I am a married woman aged 22. My husbands Penis is very huge and whenever we have intercourse, I feel it in my chest. It hurts so bad sometime I throw up after we have had sex.
I do not enjoy the sex at all and given the circumstances, I seek a help from outside our matrimonial bed. I am of late getting disgusted because I can no longer handle his “thing”.
I have tried to give him excuses, signs and clues that I want to bow out of the union to no avail. Even when I flirt with guys, it doesn’t seem to matter much to him.
In the night, he humps me real bad like he is punishing me for my overtures. I am afraid to sleep on our bed because even if I creep in late, when he wakes up, he will hump me without even caring about pre-intimacy.
Everytime we have sex, I get hurt because my Virgina is never lubricated. Help,plzzzzzzzzzzz i am suffering in my marriage.

From reading your post it seems though the only complaint that you have is lack of proper intimacy with your spouse. From a medical standpoint...it is very imperative that you seek a doctor about a potential diagnosis of ATROPHIC VAGINITIS, which is dryness of the vagina but if the doctor rule it out then it could be that you are not properly arouse (sexually ready for intercourse).

Some individuals feel that physical pre-intimacy is the key to "wetness" and in most cares....mental pre-intimacy is the solution. If you are not feeling loved, cared for, worthy, valued, and cherished these things can contribute to involuntary vaginal dryness or ineffective arousal. There are some steps that can diminish with a candid talk with your husband.

Try expressing him your sexual expectations and desires but also incorporate how you are feeling at the moment or any emotional issues held. Women are emotional beings and we often times respond emotionally and the men may not understand without any physical cues. Be less emotional and more physical by showing him what pleases you and engage him into mental pre-intimacy....by talking candidly.

Good luck!

Blue moon: Please tell him...the issue here is not that his thing is too big. the v*gina can handle whatever size cos of its elasticity. the issue is he doesn't make u get lubricated enough. Tell him to touch u more before sex or u can start the pre-intimacy urself so he goes along with the flow. getting turned on has to do with ur mind. when u guys are having sex, u can also think of different positions u wld like to try. thinking of that alone can get u turned on. that way it wld be less painful or totally stop the pain.

Accurate information is very important. A normal vagina can envelopes a penis up to 7 inches in some rare cases 9 inches. A vagina can NOT accommodate a penis that is 10 inches or more unless the woman enjoys the discomfort.

2buff: You just jealous cuz i never seen your azz and commented on it.

And you will never see it boo boo.

LMAO@jealous.....yeah right.

MsDarkSkin: loooool!

Thats a good one bro.

Girl you fell for that old arse line?

It is Lord Reed's turn.

MsDarkSkin: Gotta catch me first.

Im half jamaican..the only thing faster than us are crack heads lol...good luck. Lol.

And Jesse Owens.

[quote author=Lord_Reed]Stealing[/quote]I have no plans on stealing and if I steal something from my husband...it is mine!

[quote author=Lord_Reed]And when you take your police mugshots please send us copies.[/quote]Why would I have police mugshots?

[quote author=Lord_Reed]I guess basically you cannot steal from your husband because all he has is yours.[/quote]I guess.

La Parisienne: Oh dear!!!

So much cheating going on in here

How's my suga MarcAnthon doing? I know you got him under your crusty toes,

kokoye: Yep. mad and jealous too

That's right boo boo...represent the truth.

Who said a man and a woman would never be equal

Just because a man was created first doesn't make him superior over anything nor anyone.

slimyem: ....and now,its debosky!
Ends shall never wonder!!

bennyraz: fat women 4 pleasure.. For dating, is a no way..

If they are good for pleasure they should be good for dating....you are ashamed huh?

bennyraz: more like a peck on the cheek.. Whats the essence of kissing without touching d tongue?

We are married so we have plenty time for tongue kissing.

slimyem: what if you want to do the do that early,you'll do it without kissing?

I don't think doing it before getting up is wise because then it will push back you getting ready to go out. JMO. But some people do it and great for them.

bennyraz: who told u? Keep dreaming. BIG BOLD AND BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ROCKS

I have seen his wife on his profile and she is skinny.

You like fat women

bennyraz: lemme help u knw cutie

You are a ho.

I will kiss my husband on the lips but no tongue.

cindyrella: First it was Kokoye and now it is Jeybee? Who will it be next? Sexkillz or Mynd or maybe Acidtalk



Woman, you need help!

Sharrap!

bennyraz: Meen u, jaybee likes dem very fat and big? Are u fat?

Jaybee's wife is skinny. He lied to you.

kokoye:

I sure am not tripped with a love like that....

Hush hater!

slimyem: ..and now,its Jaybee?
Mrs Chima,how confused are you?

Love is confusing.

KingMichael: True.. true.. But I think the South African Apartheid was worse than pre Civil Rights America. I heard a lot of black South Africans were killed.

You can't gauge how many people were killed to determine which event was the worse. In that case....the Holocaust was the worse in the history of mankind. But, that is not true because we do not know of other events that weren't published nor testified.

There is nothing wrong with cooking for your husband as long as he doesn't mind cooking for you.

Sure. I make my own money.

AmBeautiful: leave my sweetie sweetie alone!



Sweetie, Sweetie Snatcher!

I had him first. They never leave their first love.

kokoye: So..you fall in love so willy nilly. End of.

And they say men are dogs.................................................

Oh well. Your loss.