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afam4eva: I've been studying marriages all my life and i am an authority in that department. It's unfortunate that the married ones that are supposed to know these things don't know any better than the unmarried people.

No thanks. I will pass.

My spouse and I are doing exceptionally well.

afam4eva: You guys don't know that marriage is about utmost trust. You shouldn't be hiding anything from your spouse including your anus. he should be able to look whenever and however.

Marriage isn't about cellphones and text messages...there are more to marriage and the bigger picture. It includes RESPECT, UNDERSTANDING, TRUST, STABILITY, LOYALTY, and COMPASSION. From the look of it...you don't understand the definitions.

You are not married so why should I take marital advice from you

jidegirl12: It's not a big deal maam, my husband sees my paperwork (client stuff) and even helps me with some stuff like say on my iPad , he will never say that info to a third party or even joke with it, that's the trust he'll never break. That's even the peak of being disrespectful .

Abeg leave ethic code jare, you wan kill me with work when I have a extra hand (that has a knowledge of what i do and I trust) to help?

It doesn't matter if you feel that your husband will not share information to the public. You broke the code of ethics bottom line. If you wanted extra hands...STOP BEING CHEAP and hire an extra hand. Make sure they are bound by confidentially clause. And also if you don't think there is nothing wrong with you sharing your clients' information with your spouse....did you inform your clients?

That's lack of professionalism. Bad for business.....

I am willing to bet....no, you didn't inform your clients.

Glad to know I am not your client. Good riddance.

agabasam: Its nt desrespectful, if u cant cope with it, go n marry anoda man.... As i no hack ha phone ma sef..... Al dz lv and trust stufs are highly exagerated, dats y 1 man close to my place is been fooled by hs wife, hu cheats on him and he goes abt broadcasting hz luv nd trust 4 hz wife, if u tel him d truth, u turn hz enemy... Bleeping idiota

Marrying another man isn't going to increase the previous man's trust level. It is okay that you disagree that it isn't disrespectful but why are you telling people what to do?

Are people telling you to go kill yourself because you disagree that it is not disrespectful? No.

linearity: ..for these reasons shall a man leave his father and mother and shall be joined to his wife and they shall be one.

The day you said 'I do' you give up that privacy; both spouse should be able to read each other's SMS and emails...

Why are you quoting the Bible? Not everyone are Christians or believers of the Bible....You failed.

And you won't be married long (that if and when you are married) Misquoting the bible can get you in trouble....

Don't pick a sentence out of a Bible and then add things to it. That is an offense punishable by a knock on your head.


What was your vows? Your feelings aren't important and I don't trust you.

MsDarkSkin: BY FAR!!!

https://a.abcnews.com/images/Politics/ap_michelle_obama_jp_120905_wg.jpg

Beauty, intelligence, education, goals and common sense.

TOTAL PACKAGE!

My presi. chose a WINNER!!!

https://disgrasian.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/michelle-obama-sexy.jpg

Yes...he did. He used his brain when he chosen a wife.

LMAO@somebody said Kim is educated and intelligent.

Flygeriansteve: Not every guy is controlled by his willy--or allows his willy to control him. I for one am not

Sureeeee if you say so.

BelaMorena: lol...yes, run from jamo men!

run far!

Even the fione ones Why are you so against Jamo men??!!!!!!

BelaMorena: Nah. He created this thread for ppl to vent about personal experiences with racism.
Then he attacked her (same with that fo0l Pagan_9ja) when she showed up declaring her unworthy of participating because she is white.

Ironic.

I see. Pagan ain't worth the stress.

BelaMorena: Naw. Royal said his mother is AA and his father is white puerto rican.

LMAO@White PR.

KingMichael777: I guess I'm wrong.

I like both AA and Jamos.

I tried to holler at this Jamo dude but Ms. Darkskin told me to run. He was fiooooooone too!

KingMichael777: Me and Royal use to beef.

But we squashed it.

THat's good....I am still whooping his pink arse!

Hausa chicks rocks!

Why don't some of the liars keep it real. Many of the liars know damn well they will step over Michelle to get Kim because their dick will do the talking and not their BRAIN.

Kim is a cute dummy and Michelle looks good to be 40 plus. Let see how Kim looks when she is Michelle's age.

Black skin definitely do not crack.

BelaMorena: yep.
And I have a feeling I will be banned again.

Of course I would be deserving of it, I won't lie.

But this clown is being racist to another member and upset at me for calling him out.
As much fun as I am having, the inevitable ban will be worth it.

You mean he is calling Jallowah a racist?

solomon111: I am sure if you conducted a survey,you would find out that most of those who are against the fact that cooking is primarily a female duty are mostly females and maybe some few white-washed' males.
Besides,i would like you to ask those africans;who took care of the cooking when they were younger.
You would be surprised at the homogenity of the answers.

Dummy....did you not see what I typed

Let me help you again....Some Africans on THIS SITE have disagreed on multiple cooking threads.....why are you fighting facts

You are feeling left out?

BelaMorena: lolz.

"Nonsensical, highly emo, endless typo filled" rant coming up!

They banned you again

(eating popcorn loudly)

LMAO@Comoron tried to throw me in the mix and failed.

KingMichael777: In the Beauty of AA women thread he said most AA girls in real life are mostly fat, which isn't true.. Just saying.

That's just what saw. And trust me, I know the stupid crap that some of the AA supremacist say.. But some people on here bash AA's for no reason.

Royal know his pink arse loooove him some fat chicks. He just trying to advertise without really advertising....don't pay Royal no mind really he is harmless. He ain't got no damn teeth as it is.

BelaMorena: Thank you.

Yourself and Royal are AAs who know how to give and accept facts. I applaud that.

I thought Royal said he was strictly P.R.

GIrl.....I am all kinds of things.....

solomon111: well,i can tell you with all sincereity,that this issue aint trivial.
Atleast to us,africans.

Apparently you don't represent all Africans because some Africans are questioning it as well. There are hundreds of cooking topics and thousands of Africans saying why is it a big deal that a man cook for his wife/family?

Or they aren't "pure Africans"

solomon111: Yeah right!.
Would you mind giving us the scientific,empirical or statistical correlation between decent men and men who cook for their wives?

It has been factually proven that men with decency and common sense don't come online and post stup!d arse questions and waste their time on trivial shit such as "who should cook or not".

Next question.

onila: you are far from rude

u r so sweet,

JallowBah: And yet, if I was saying "that black hoe took my man", it would be considered racist in my culture. So why is it not racist the other way around??

I didn't know Norway has a specific culture...in my book...it is not racist to call someone a ho or a color ho. It would have been odd if you call a White ho....a black ho but I digress.

I don't know why THEY say it is racist...but I say it isn't.

Then the man need to practice safe sex if he doesn't want any more children. It is common sense.

It is scary to see the high level of snooping a spouse will go through just to please their insecurity. If you have any suspicious the best thing to do is talk to your spouse head first before doing something that you will regret.

Secondly...many spouses have phones that were given to them for work....if a client send a message to that phone and you decides to snoop then not only you will be the breadwinner but your relationship will shake.

Please don't say that you won't snoop through work phones..because if you can snoop through personal phones....work phones is no different.

So sad.

afam4eva: So, you don't open your legs when you guys are at it? You also don't do it from behind?

Afam....even YOU don't look at the woman that you are screwing anus while doing doggy style.

Come on man!

afam4eva: Maybe it's because you're shy but that's the way to go...btw, doesn't your husband see your anus when you're naked?

Anus between my bootycheeks are different than my bootycheeks.

afam4eva: I don't have a partner and i've never had one...if i did, i'll have no reason to hide anything from my wife(not GF).

Good...make sure you tell her everything that went on from the time you were a baby until present. Make sure you tell her everything about your friends and family. Make sure you include their pin codes to ATM's and health statuses.

Since you are a sharing kind....it should be a breeze!

afam4eva: Then you should have kept your anus in your father's house when you were getting married. Anything you brought with you into the marriage has now become his own. Learn to share...

You are being foolish. That's like saying let share shit because we are married.

Please marry a chick that doesn't mind you opening her anus and licking it.

afam4eva: Your friends have to understand that you and your husband are one. So, they should be willing to allow your husband see them as well.

My posts may sound shocking or astronomical, but those are the realities of a true marriage. It's unfortunate that most of the things people are doing now is not marriage.

Let keep it real....do you tell your partner everything that your friends tell you?

Be honest.

My husband and I both agreed that when our friends share something personal that we will respect that privacy. It is not always good to know everything that goes on in people's lives.

Kobojunkie: WOW . . notice I have not had to STOOP this low in expressing myself so far by any chance, are you going to wake up to what you have been doing so far any minute now, that is the projecting you have been doing all through this thread?

Is there something bothering you about this in your personal life or something . . did you check your spouse's phone and get in trouble for it or something . . . I mean we are here to help where we can.

You are the one talking about you are going through your partner's phones to get to know her!! Why are you fussing? You are ashamed huh?

I don't need to snoop to know my husband UNLIKE YOU have to snoop to now your partner.

We share things of importance and do not need to read texts to know what is going on.....and in fact neither of us locks or hides our phone.

Doesn't sound like I have something going on in my household huh smack?