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I know that Blackberry phone felt so loved and cherished.

iykay4455:
@poster, clap for yourself.Never lay your hands on a woman.That is a sign of weakness.Learn to walk away

Now, now!  You know he has a good excuse for beating the girl.  She smashed his precious Blackberry phone!

The world is coming to an end!  Run!!!  

Crack is helluva drug.

mobf:
Believe a lie so much and it becomes the truth

Hmm.

Goldieluks:





Attack me for stating my bit?? Fucck that shiit, i'd tear and shew that shiit!

I still got bullets lodged in my computer!

Goldieluks:

As in?

In the hands of nuts like OP.

mobf:
she'll remember not to destroy gadgets whenever she's angry. .same way a girl tore an original MSc. result of a man shes calls her love .all because of anger. .


Now this is extreme, WTF!

Now you know damn well if a man doesn't beat his woman, he doesn't love her! (just repeating what the dumb arses are saying)

Goldieluks:
Very true. I can imagine the arguement started whilst he was pinging on his BB.
He cares so much about his phone and as a childish nutter,he couldn't hold himself,he had to pounce
on his gf just to show that he's not man enough to control his emotions, all because of a
very useless blackberry phone. Smh! If I were that girl I wouldn't go 50000 miles close to him again.

Be careful Goldie!  They will attack you!  

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=884556.msg10315414#msg10315414 date=1330703130][color=#770077][b]@mrs chima ''if you're planning on marrying'' , does that ring a bell?  [/quote]You been skimping on your meds?

arrived:
Chima, a girl like that could stab her BF if knife is nearby because of attention.
The OP shouldn't have beaten her to that extent though, a nice hot slap would have been okay.
Wel, now she know her BF is as mad as her, she won't repeat such act in future!

You don't know what the girl will do.  He better watch his back.  Mark my word.  

(chanting, smoke that arse, smoke that arse)

Did Yaba Left let out for recess?

Killz

If you are planning to marry make sure you don't marry a dumb arse girl.   

LMAO@a female caused me to act dumber than I am.

LMAO@some people making excuses for their lack of control.   

I think they should make killing LEGAL since it is natural to kill people. 

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=884556.msg10315217#msg10315217 date=1330701539][color=#000030]Smashing your phone is disrespectful but not a criminal offence. . . Beating her up is disrespectful AND a criminal offence. . .

Bro, thank your stars she is not my sister, be thankful too if she has no elder brothers to handle your pathetic arse. . . If i was you, i'd look for a way to appease her. . .

Nairaland can only soothe your conscience, NAIRALAND CANNOT SAVE YOU!

Watch your back. . . FOOL![/color][/quote][size=44pt]Exactly! I can't wait to hear a report that a dumb nukka was burned to death by an irate girlfriend. [/size]

Oluwa4Sure:
why u change ur post?
I bet you find out say na trash yourself

You mad?

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=884556.msg10315233#msg10315233 date=1330701676]well his dumb arse chose to beat her instead   Yes it didn't change what she did, but now she knows she's not the only one who knows how to get upset  

singing *if you dey craze, no bring craze come my side*  [/quote]Then he dumb arse better watch his back and I hope she set the nukka on fire!  

OP let me know if she needs wood and kerosene.   

I got marshmellows!

arrived:
I dont know why some people are blaiming the OP for not being able to manage his anger! What about the babe? If she had, would she have smashed the phone?

Then his dumb arse should have smashed her phone. Beating her arse didn't changed what she did.

He better watch his back. A woman scorned is a mofo! Mark my word.

rokiatu:
You beat a woman because of a phone?

How much is it? Now I can really see how important blackberry is to Nigerians.

Shallow really.

Wifey, you know damn well he got his arse whooped by a man.

You know men have fragile egos.

My respect for Lorena Bobbit tripled since reading this thread.   

MarcAnthon:
You hit her cos she smashed your phone on the floor, but the phone is working now and your girlfriend is scarred.

She crossed the line, no doubt, but you led her to the line in the first place. Ladies HATE the silent treatment; their sense of worth is stringed more delicately than it is for a man. You should know to not use it with someone you care about.

You should also know to nip an argument in the bud before it escalates. Two mad men cannot be in the same market . It is a recipe for chaos. So instead of sitting there pinging, you should have walked away to some place to calm yourself if you couldn't get her to calm down. She'll become more reasonable when you aren't there. Sitting there and ignoring her just stoked her fire.

Remedy? It's up to you I guess. But if even you want to take a break or not go on at all, I think you should find a way to talk to her and apologize like a gentleman would. If you do want to go on, a very good gift accompanying that would be in order. I'm sure she also apologize for her own misbehavior.

All in all I think the key with non-violent arguments is preventing it from getting into 'freewheeling gear'. You'll be hard pressed not to 'act like a man' if you allow it get beyond a certain point,  no matter your previously held beliefs.

Silent treatments work wonders on men.

It would be funny if she set your arse on fire huh? 

It isn't funny now huh?   

Why are guys always stubborn and disgraceful to their girls?

Nayah, bless your heart dealing with that tellwisdumb.

1000samu:
Is it in the Bible that husbands are allowed to beat their wives, even to the point of death? I

God isn't an author of confusion, Satan/we are.  It doesn't make sense that God will tell husbands to beat their wives to death and then say it is against the commandment to kill. 

In the book of Ephesian, it speaks that husbands should love their wives and beating to death in my book isn't love. 

It is important that people read things with the discernment of the HOLY SPIRIT and not with the understanding of MAN. 

I do not put pastors or religious leaders on a pedestal.  I view them as human beings with faults.  It saddens me to hear people refer their religious leaders as the CHOSEN ONE. 

People change religions as often as they change their panties assuming that it will bring them closer to the Creator.  Religious itself isn't going to save anyone, but salvation and grace will.

Logic.

Chimezie198:
Is he?

What do you want the answer to be?

The bible also said THOU SHALL NOT KILL.

"Beating/hitting leads to death".

If we are going to use the Bible in our arguments we need to use all of it contents and not pick what suits our argument.