₦airaland Forum

gendebs:
what is a good, decent girl with moral and proper grooming be doin in a club.

What is a crooked, demonic, and uncouth girl with bad morals and grooming doing in a church?

She is insecure.

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Maybe Chima can help with your issue as well. He thinks he is Solomon.

If Black women wears weave to look "white" then "whom" are White women wearing weave to look like?   

Don't be ignorant AND stup!d.   

pendo89:
I am not sure about 'living the school' but there's a principle here everybody is ignoring.
[b]She is married.[/b]She's one with her husband.I mean what is the use of marriage if you cannot involve the other half in such critical matters?
It threatens to tear a marriage apart and you choose not to involve him? Are strangers better placed to help you deal with lecturer?
Take the advise here and discuss it with husband.Choose the appropriate one if it suits you. Whatever the outcome you both face it! cz there's gonna be one.
How, just how can a man give you sleepless nights when you have a husband by your side and u choose not to share with him?
You are all partners in crime and are already halfway in it so go all the way and deal with it together.

I will say my mind here.I find it very odd for a married woman to discourage/seclude the hubby and seek advise on such matters online. It beats me and that is why I lack any proper words.
just asking.Who advised you against involving your hubby? What do u think he's capable of doing? killing the lecturer or handling him wisely and sparing you stress? He wants you to pass, so whatever his actions are must be for ur own good.No?

Let me add her husband to the equation.  She and her husband can both go to the school and request a refund and file a report against the lecture.  She can with the help of her husband resign from the school and find another school. 

The reason for my suggestion is because she doesn't have ANY EVIDENCE of her claim, so it will only be HEARSAY and therefore Nigerian police will just look at her. 

Her husband can waste his time cussing the school out about their lecturer but it will not change anything if the school does nothing.

pendo89:
the dude could be here on nl.Infact he could be on this very thread reading all ur schemes and planning his.

And for those planning to kill him   ,have you verified the story to confirm its true or are people just passing judgement on some poor lecturer who refused to take a bribe to allow somebody pass?? what if?

I have learnt to give most stories here a shadow of doubt. But one may ruin somebody's career in acts of revenge.

This is a married woman with kids and I want to believe the husband can do something for her, not strangers or her own self.

What if it backfires? things dont always go according to plan at times and one can get another killed cz of that.

Exactly. I was like oh lawd they are talking about killing this man and this woman isn't even their WIFE or SISTER.

As I have stated before she need to resign from the school and find another university because there is nothing the husband can do but whoop the lecturer arse.

What is that going to solve? Nothing. If she can file a report against the lecturer at the school then she need to do so AFTER leaving the school.

If she continue at the school taking his courses then she will not be taken seriously.

Let me shit on you.

I am still reading.

It is surprising to see husbands with grown up children cheat on their wives.  A woman is more likely to get back with her cheating husband than a man would with his cheating wife.

Double standards, I tell you.

You rang?

If she has tangible evidence against the guy then I would say go for it. However, if she doesn't have tangible evidence then it is hearsay.

It would be her word against the guy. Again, why would I continue in a school where a man is asking me for sex to pass me?

She can file a complaint against the school and request a refund. I still say she should resign and look for another university. She may not get the result she wants but at least she brought attention to the issue at hand.

Some people suggest that her husband talk to the school and police. GOOD LUCK.

Okontami:
Mrs Chima, u really dissapoint me o. How will u say she should leave the university, i swear na that lecturer will leave LASU. How much does he have?, how much does he earn? What is his status in the society?. Girl abeg give me his name and evidence of his act and let me tell you he will be out of job in 2 weeks. I can come to Naija because of this. Exploitations gets me angry. Them him to go and f.uck ashawo

How the hell I disappointed you?

Why would any sane person continue at an university that doesn't give a Bleep about their pupil? I would resign and find another university.

If her husband can solve the issue without her having to resign then Praise God! But, we are dealing with holes in the story so I am only speaking as if it is true and what I WOULD DO.

Post it right here so my husband can read it too.

Married or not, RESIGN FROM THE UNIVERSITY.

Ijogz K:
21 Alhaji kareem ifedayo str,
                                                                                                                                    Mowe Ofada
                                                                                                                                    Ogun State

2b Wellington Avenue
Banana Island
Lagos

Dear Ijogz k,
                                                    LETTER TO DECLARE INTEREST

I have been following your post and i keep fantasizing with your profile picture, you are very intelligent unlike the dum.b a$s nigger who calls himself Killz, who keeps seeking for attention and tries to attack most pple to gain cheap popularity. Well i reli reli reli like you and am kinda sexually attracted to you. Pls can we meet at the popular Eko Hotel and Suits, cuz i went as far as stealing my husband money and combined it with my life savings to spend an awesome night with the boss.

Thanks for your anticipated cooperation.

Thank You.

                                                                                                            Mrs Chima the unhappy married woman on N/L

I didn't know I live in Lagos!!!

You wish I was unhappily married.

I still don't want you.

What do people really expect the husband to do against the school?  If the story is true and there isn't any evidence what is more to do but to RESIGN?  

Why are people trying to make the situation more than what it is?  The school will protect it own and if there are incriminating evidences that link to the allegation then they will have no choice but to handle it.  However, hearsay isn't worth the hassle.

Ijogz K:
Why are you forming like those 1932 gurls, Are you Not Chima Nwako? ,

If you are not careful i would post the letter here

Post them. I want to show them to my husband.

Ijogz K:
Am sorry that am yet to respond to your mail,  And nope i can't meet you at Eko Hotel and Suits,  Its kinda old skool now.  . Plus am gonna be busy next weekend.

You didn't receive any emails from me.  
I am gonna be busy with my husband as well.  

Are you going to far with the killing thing?  It isn't that serious to be killing someone.  

Have a discussion with your husband about taking a breather and explain to him some things that are going on.  If your husband doesn't want you to leave for a breather then you need to resign from the school.

What do you think?

Leave the husband.

Long distance has nothing to do with your lack of trust in your partner. If she was 2 houses from you, you will still have trust issues.

People need to be truthful in what really bother them and not use external factors as a scapegoat. It is possible during the long distance courtship, she has proven dishonesty and you are holding the grudge.

You can either learn to trust her or LET HER GO. It is not fair for your relationship. You both deserve that peace of mind.