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@ Op.....you are not a fool or Maga as people above are saying.I have discovered that an average nigerian lack trust and patience when it comes to relationship because everybody want to have the upper hand or be the smartest and at the end will lost a beautiful relationship that would have happened

If you really like the girl for a relationship then you have not really done bad except that I think you started on the wrong note;

Firstly;you are so much in a hurry......the I love you stuff is making you look suspicious, weak or naive

Secondly; for christ sake nobody gives 5k to a lady visiting for the first time when you are not a politician or dangote. I don't believe you can sustain the foundation you just laid

The 7k is understandable because you already show to her you are very generous

Henceforth,I advise you stop the I love you and talk more about your feelings and hw caring you will be if she gives you the chance to know her


Please stop the sending of money until you are rest assure there is a relationship

Finally try to know if she is in a relationship that will determine a lot

Thank God is a story because is a only a dumb man (mummy boy) will sacrifice his son for job and status.
Why will I sacrifice the opportunity of raising my own son for the happiness of my mum

Happiness87:
do you have international passport and visa, where did you get yours from

I didn't want to comment on this thread but just want to correct your foolishness because of your hatred for buhari

NIS is under ministry of internal affair; they issue passport to citizen and not visa

Embassies are under ministry of foreign affair which deals with foreigners; they issue visa to foreigners

Come to think of it; maybe some of these girls shouting been raped by a guy has once raped a male child before.

Bunch of rapist

essielove:
g

G stands for ?

No man is an expert when it comes to women. The first step is communication.
Ask her what she likes; some girls like kissing turn some on while it doesn't to some; apart from mouth to mouth kissing....neck kissing,ear licking are all various forming of kissing....if you can't ask her do it while you pay attention to d way she respond

Secondly; some like squeezing of there breast while some don't.........some prefer sucking d nipple gently while other like it wen you tease n bit it a little........when doing any of the above ...watch out how she respond

I met few girl who lick guy licking there arm pit......you will be suprise...it varies with individual......communication is d key

Some girls like you lick in between there breast to there navel......communication and be attentive to her response

Then some lick there kit kat licked n suck (MouthAction).....but don't just rush d clit at once. Some prefer you lick and bite (maybe) there thigh then you kiss the labia (I don't knw if am correct).

Finally you move to d clit...you lick,suck and make sure your teeth is not interfering with it....

Most of all...communication and pay attention to her response

I will stop here......distracted with d song am listening to

My 10 cent

Raiders:
There is no lots of questions for her to answer. The man is a rapist and belongs to jail. it doesn't matter if the young lady scream or not as long as she said NO and the lecturer force himself on her. Why are you defending the rapist when even admitted of having sex and raping the victim?

The man never agreed he raped her but consensual sex

You are just been sentimental ......read the girl story again

Every human has a defensive potential when face with danger

The man was flirting with her in the car,restless in his office and she didn't plan a defence even when she perceive danger

Or are you telling me this is the first time a man is making sexual advances towards her when she is not a virgin

Facts prove case and not sentiments

So you agree with the fact that the romance was consensual,
When she was rubbing the man chest it was consensual
When she was playing with the man dick it was consensual

When the man inserted the dick she was playing with inside her vaginal then it was not consensual but rape


Well done

Rexology:
Both the" Raped" and the 'Rapist' obviously lied at equall proportion, however, the man has no justification whatsover to have had canal knowledge of that girl.

In as much I condemn the man action for betraying the trust of the girls parents
The girl in question is not a virgin and she is an adult (18)

Raiders:
We are talking about a teen girl that just finish secondary school. The rapist is over over 40 yrs old and probably bigger than her and he probably threaten to kill her if she screamed. most rape victims are scared. According to the original news article, It was the first time the victim was meeting the rapist. why would she have sex with a man she is meeting for the first time? The lecturer is a serial rapist and needs to be locked up in jail because tommorow it might be my sister or your daughter that he will rape

Go and read her statement

She was not threatened, her clothes were not reaped off, she was not hit and she claim she screamed and wasn't loud enough

The man is bigger than her.........do you know the size of the man who dis-flower her?

She is experience and cannot claim ignorance that she doesn't know the man intention right from the car

Why did she follow the man back to the office after the other female lecturer told her her admission is impossible

When the man was going out ,coming in and been restless then y didn't she ask the man she was leaving since she done ?

Abeg a lot of questions for her

Chidoks:
if he does that what will they invest.they should work with petcentages till and after the wife gets a job.no matter how little they must save plus they must not eat to their satisfaction.

Save what?

Subtract the husband transport and lunch moni then how much do you think will be left from 25k?

How much do you think will be feeding money for 2 mouth per month?

The lady in question will not buy pad for monthly cycle?
Recharge card to call.... e.t.c

HeartRobber:
The guy is working, and age is no longer on his side. He's 28years old

From 25k, how much do you think the guy should be giving his wife in a month?

Must he give the wife pocket money every month? Can't he save some money

Like I said before

He should remove his remove his transport and lunch money for a month from the 25k and give the balance money to the wife

He can't save anything for now.

If he want to save anything then he shouldn't have bother to marry or marry a small girl of 10yrs age difference

Only son and so what?

25k is damn too small to start life with and the fact the wife is not working
Also,I think the lady is too young

I think the boy is young,not working and the 25k is from the parents to the boy

My advice;

1) If the guy is working,he should subtract his transport fare and lunch moni then give the balance to d lady

2)If he is not working as I think, he should subtract d money he spent on recharge card in a month and add 5k to it then give the balance to the wife

My 10 cent

[quote author=HeartRobber post=36739185]Thanks, ladyF

The guy is the only son of his family that's why he must get married.

The wife is just 18years old

You mean the salary is too poor to take care of the family?

Just two of them for now?[/quote

Only son and so what?
25k is damn too small to start life with and the fact the wife is not working
Also,I think the lady is too young

I think the boy is young,not working and the 25k is from the parents to the boy

My advice;

1) If the guy is working,he should subtract his transport fare and lunch moni then give the balance to d lady

2)If he is not working as I think, he should subtract d money he spent on recharge card in a month and add 5k to it then give the balance to the wife

My 10 cent

hadura29:
My brother good morning, thanks for sharing the same ideology as mine oo. I read the post through and through and stated my observation, people just read and pass judgment just coz they have phone and little mb to type...

I hate rape but one can actually phantom who is lying in this situation. All these NGOs also, most of them are just looking for quick and cheap publicity..

Let the law of court do whatever it deem right..

Shikena!!!

You can't blame ppl.....nobody likes to hear rape because we all have sisters or daughters

sweatlana:
The kind of people on this forum are quite shocking. And to think that we are the educated youth of Nigeria.

Isn't it quite clear that the man drugged the coffee he gave her in order to weaken her?
A single pill of actifed can make a person so weak and drowsy however you will still be conscious!!

And so what if she is not a virgin? Is it only virgins that get raped?

Drugged?

I thought it was after d coffee they left for the woman lecturer office so how come she wasn't dizzy there and even walked back to the man office

My question is......after knowing the exercise was fruitless then why didn't leave for home ? Why did she go back to sit down in the man office again?

@ 18 she is old enough to fight back when she is been raped

She wasn't even threaten by a weapon or any object

Her clothes wasn't reap off

The man didn't hit her

She was wearing a trouser and the man removed d jean/trouser and her pant, wore a condom then penetrated her

What did she do when all these were happening? She didn't bite ,scream or threaten to report the man

How many hands this man get sef?

Remember ,all these happened after past 7 wen they returned frm woman lecturer office

If she screams.....where were d cleaners, early morning student,other lecturer around,ppl walking pass.......nobody heard her?

Well..........

There is something abt this story

@18 she is nt even a virgin

How can a man rape a woman without hitting or tearing her clothes..........

The man held down with one hand, remove your trouser and pant with the other hand and you were not screaming

What was she doing when the man wore his condom?


There is more to the story

SAMBARRY:


what is homoerotic about that. So a woman should implicate herself because she wants to please a mere man that can disappoint her at anytime

I guess you are not married neither do you have a trustworthy partner for you to refer to someone husband a mere man that will disappoint her.

Well,not all men are "mere men"......there are trustworthy and faithful men who through sun and rain will stick and love there wife till the end without disappointment


As for the Op,I have no advice for you since your decision regarding you home/husband has to be decided based on public opinion

All the best

No BDC price here?

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chybykee:
Movie title please

My half sister is in love with my half brother..........

So you don't believe

G

A man had a son with his wife and after few years they divorced and went there seperate way. They both remarried; the man had a beautiful daughter with the new wife and the woman had a son with her new husband.

Later, unknowingly the daughter of the man entered a love relationship with that the son of his father ex-wife

They just found out and the brother is not happy with the relationship that his half sister is in love with his half brother


Is the relationship right?

What do you think

jaybee3:
Meanie

Meaning ; orgasm and squirting is different

I think google can be useful

what all the ladies sees here is the man is controlling because they forgotten the word Obedience.

If your GF except is an open relationship cannot obey you in a relationship then she wouldn't in marriage
That Y we have issue today in marriages becos we didn't get our relationship right

kevinberry:
Seriously,I wasn't surprised when I saw some nl females supporting this action....this further shows that some females are with fish brain...

The boyfriend is dating her and @the same time picturing himself as her husband...he made his decisions assuming himself as her husband..but alas the girl was only thinking about the present,should he dump her now...you will hear the same girls saying he use and dump her..

Pity

Some of these ladies do opposite of what they advice

jonaifame22:
Hmmmm this makes me remeber the first time I made gal orgasm/squirt,it was back in ma days in uniben,dat day it rained then we went to GT plaza at uselu area and bought ice cream,when we got we took our shower in then I smeared the ice cream on her pusst region then gave her a head for several long minutes of which she twisted her legs round my nexk like she was gonna break it in a judo fight competition,then I face her to the wall,then rammed at her from the rear as in doggy style,after several ceaseless thrust I started hearing sounds from her like dat sounded like she was grumbling later she began vibrating,then next she urinated and cried out of shock I removed my dick and ran to the door,she remained in dat position and cried for like some few minutes.then I asked her what happened why the tears then she explained her feelings and told me she just orgasmed and dats her first time,she neva left mr till graduated and it happenned some few othe times,but I already had experience from the first,chai God bless that gal sha!

You were told orgasm and squirting is the same?

Jascon4:
I do not support the view that a girl has to secure the permission of her boyfriend before carrying out personal decision like double piercing. As long as she is still under the care of her parents, it is only pertinent that she seeks the permission of her parents or husband if she is married.

She may choose to inform her boyfriend about her decision, but it is not within his purview to stop her except he is her bread winner or her husband. He may advice and give his opinion, but in a normal circumstance he definitely has no authority in that sphere as long as he is just a boyfriend.

You and ladies above are saying he doesn't have right to be mad becos his just a bf

Tomorrow he marries her then ask her to remove the the double piercing becos he doesn't like it so you don't think there will be fight?

One of the things in a relationship is your partner having influence in your life whether husband or boyfriend so if you can't accept there influence then you are not ready or suppose to be relationship

[quote author=Jascon4 post=36117783]I do not support the view that a girl has to secure the permission of her boyfriend before carrying out personal decision like double piercing. As long as she is still under the care of her parents, it is only pertinent that she seeks the permission of her parents or husband if she is married.

She may choose to inform her boyfriend about her decision, but it is not within his purview to stop her except he is her bread winner or her husband. He may advice and give his opinion, but in a normal circumstance he definitely has no authority in that sphere as long as he is just a boyfriend.[/quo

You and ladies above are saying he doesn't have right to be mad becos his just a bf

Tomorrow he marries her then ask her to remove the the double piercing becos he doesn't like it so you don't think there will be fight?

One of the things in a relationship is your partner having influence in your life whether husband or boyfriend so if you can't accept there influence then you are not ready or suppose to be relationship

The Op is just another attention seeker

Like I said before,since you are on vacation in benin city,nigeria then we should see pictures of your family in benin environment ,outing pixs in benin or anywhere around nigeria and not this online downloaded pix

@ spanish kids if your family is presently in benin then it would be better to post a pix of them in benin environment rather than this pix that can easily be downloaded from the internet

Put up a pix that shows your present location and not this online picture

Thanks for the info

I usually make my booking in september against december trip.

From milan to lagos airfrance, alitalian will be charging 1k plus euro so I normally go for those cheaper airlines like ethiopian and turkish and even at that i will still have to pay almost 750 euros with 2 stops and long hours of transit

I really need a direct flight from milan to lagos for fair price of 800 euros

I will wait till october this time to follow your rules and I hope I get a direct flight for the amount