₦airaland Forum

Bekwarra:
Trump talks too much for a leader but his words are always laced with the truth. Well he's always saying he's not looking for political correctness.

christopher123:
I like Trump.. He said the truth

thundey95:
But they are not ashamed of their own culture, why are we ashamed of ours, most indomie Generation Children cant even speak their native language the way they speak English!

Princek12:
But you don't teach your kids your indigenous languages. Big deal.

patani:
Pele, classy lady. I know your type. They end up divorced

mrbyron:
Congratulations on learning french and Spanish. Truth be told. There's an economic advantage attached to learning these languages and I bet that's part of your motive. Else, you would have boasted of being able to communicate in more than one local language and even learning more.

mrbyron:
How many of the above do you speak

mrbyron:
Madam. We study English because they colonised us. We still study it because it was imposed in our educational curriculum. We have to speak and write it because they've made it a global means of communication. They learn ours out of interest and most importantly to maintain the status quo

Tobigirl16:
How do you handle a man you can not confide in,whatever you discuss with him he would call his mum and tell her,and definitely it would cause issues between you and his mum.ppl say I am not wise for still discussing issues with him but y wouldn't you be able to discuss issues with someone you call your husband?its so irritating

mrbyron:
Just kook at how keen they are about it. This is how they rule the world. They learn and know everything about us and use every information to their advantage

Silkmoth33:
Abi

bord:
I met this girl a couple of years ago but we started dating about a year ago. Though, I was the one who disflowered her and to be candid, I really pushed hard to make things really work as I'm not the one-girl man. Her case is different I remain ever faithful and I also opened up about me when we wanted to start. I told her I like sex and so far my gf satisfies me, I will not look outside for anything Xtra. I stayed by my word. She's still an undergraduate while I'm already a graduate and working. While she goes to school, I still visit her parents and even buy things along, I share my thoughts and everything with this girl.

But despite our obvious world views and everything (cos she's not that exposed like me) I get many backlash from my friends who never ceased to mock me about going for a girl of such standard; comment I never listened to cos I just want to at least treat a girl right for the first time.

However, I think she got so confident about me love to her along the lines, she stopped us from having romantic or sex talk anytime we are chatting online due to the distance between us, I adjusted. But much to my chagrin, she will be visiting me from sch soon and was bold enough to tell me no sex! I confronted her about it that I never had such agreement of a no-sex relationship with her and she didn't do much in denying that.

Guys what do you guys think... I can't have a romantic chat with my own babe not to talk of sex.

osawemwenze:
Our wedding ended at 15:44p.m, we left for home and reached home by 17:14p.m, we relaxed till 19:20pm when we started our honey moon, i notice her touching my pennis i was not shock not until she pull it out and started sucking it in her mouth, i stopped her and we didnt continue the honeymoon again, she keep saying baby you not good at bed.
please help me have i married a prostitude, haba my first day of marriage divorce is not an option.

bigfido:
I pity who ever ends up with you, that's if you ever find a man insane enough to marry you. I also fault your upbringing. You probably passed through the walls of a school but didn't get educated about the norms and values of cultural and institutional behavior. Not everyone that speaks English and writes it is educated. You are a perfect example. Have a sorry life ahead. My heart felt pity goes to whom will tender your garden full of thorns. Bye forever!

To others, sacking might be too harsh but I am sure it is better sometimes to just walk away rather than being in an abusive relationship.

Patience is a virtue.

Arsenate:
you are just shouting all over the place; writing lool all over the place without making any sense. The Bible you kept on hammering about clearly states that the husband is the head of the family. If you can't live with that don't get married at all. Save some poor man all the stress that comes from marrying a very stubborn woman who thinks she knows all.

Phame:
Those corrupt agents of that nefarious party called pdp that are working assidously to bring this government down might not accept the apology, but we good people of Nigeria did accept it and are already working to help the gov't get it right.
The Wailers aka boko haram sympathizers shall be put to shame by God's grace.

bigfido:
You obviously don't understand the concept of marriage.
The moment you make a decision to sign on the dotted lines, several privileges you have as A MAN or A WOMAN seize to exist. you are simply sugar coating the offence with church. It's even an offence towards God that she's going to worship to disobey her husband. So why exactly are you hammering on church? Be it a club, stripper joint or a tabernacle, it is within the rights of a marriage that the husband approves what goes on in the house. You know what the rules of marriage are. If you can't stand a man telling you trash, my sister, it is not by force to marry. Leave the institution alone rather going into it and then start quoting adult rights.You think as an adult, the man doesn't have a right to get drunk every night before coming home? But because he is married, those things come to check. And don't say she went to church because that even makes it worse. What sort of a irrational thinking pastor is that harboring a married woman for 2 days?

Sunofgod:
Biaafra...

nortcentrallord:
This is the very reason why the home front is left bare for intruders to invade and do as they please. If one cannot make sacrifices for ones kid and family then one might as well not need to get married nor have kids. Life is like a weighing balance. You can't have it all. If you make a choice you live with it. There are women, I mean very well exposed and career driven women who still have family values left in them yet they make sacrifices for their families. Getting married, keeping and building a home is not for everyone. It entails a lot of sacrifice. Giving up dreams to make it work. If you can't make a sacrifice, marriage is not for you. That's why there is an option of single parenthood even though it is to the detriment of the child not leaving out the many unpleasant never told stories of such parents. Copying everything from the west hook, line and sinker is just the reason for such. I have seen people even here that have family values and there is always a clear cut difference of such homes from those home which people in Africa are made to believe is the "in" thing. I have had opportunities also to have had conversation with many a number of the so called career women many from this hemisphere and there is not one I have met that has no regrets. A Lot of deceptive interviews, red carpet, fake bio's and stage managed events of such individuals keep luring people into making the same mistakes and destroying not only their lives but also the live of their kids forgetting so fast someone mad same sacrifice to better them.

It is very simple, career or family. No one has ever truly had them both except those who keep deceiving themselves and other gullible people.

nortcentrallord:
There are occasions that demand for such. I can't be married to a woman and have a house help cook my meal. I beleive in the original plan of God for man. I do the hussling, you protect the home while am out there trying to provide for the family. Note, am not saying a woman shouldn't work but not the kind of work that doesn't give you attention for the family and especially the kids. Nobody is going to take care of my kids. Nope. I grew up in a home where I got raised by my parents and my mum made all the sweet delicacies everyday and I never regretted it. I won't give my kids anything less. I don't buy into everything western, I only pick the few good. If that's not good enough, then it might as well be a formal contract. Its been practiced in the western world these days.

nortcentrallord:
Lol. Not that. Those are exceptional cases. I can cook in such situation besides there is the fridge which one can always stock up and the microwave too just that in some homes, the wife never get to cook anything but paints her nail and gives orders to the house help on what to do. They forget that the way to a man's heart is his tummy.

Kachisbarbie:
e be like the woman works harder than the man, where is he finding the time to come back home within working hours?
There are lots of good men out there though. This is the least of my worries...

nortcentrallord:
Who ever cooks my meal warms my bed. Its as simple as that. Some women are just lazy. Before all these feminist start yapping here, I am a good cook and I will cook cof my wife and kids when I eventually get married but if my wife can't cook me a meal, then who ever is cooking the meal should enjoy my bed too. Is as simple as that.