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Governor Fashola urges accommodation for the office of First Lady in nation's democracy

She wants a limited role as wife of the president. She doesn't want the responsibilities of a First Lady. A First Lady is a leader.
Something to be noted is the age difference between her and her husband. She is 44 and Buhari is 72. She was probably even a child bride.

Sabrwahaqqo:
So, you know all of these? Why those scrutinies about Islam then? Smh for u ooo.
Lol, feminist ko, masculinist ni

I should be asking you that question.
A lot of people, due to religion or other beliefs, rationalize mistreatment of other human beings.
You haven't even answered the question I kept asking you if you have no respect for your gf.

yup. me marrying a muslim will be like you marrying a feminist. impossible

rubbish

amazing

I saw this in a documentary a while ago and thought it was fascinating.

Sabrwahaqqo:
I can see you are unable to decipher my statement, so, I say I hear you.
As far as am concerned, a pagan and an atheist are virtually the same family. Like in the cat family where you can have a domestic cat and at the same time have a lion.... The bottom line is they both aren't on the right path. Understood?
Maybe you will end up marrying a Muslim in the end, who knows...

yeah. the cat and the lion's domestic pet and zoo blah blah blah.. just admit you didn't know the difference.

abstaining from sex before marriage, wearing hijab, praying daily, going to temple, celebrating chinese new year etc those are all religious rules and don't apply to everyone. Cheating , killing, stealing, raping, lying etc apply to everyone because they're humanitarian rules. All humans with conscience (non animals) generally follow it even if they're atheists or christians or buddhists. The ones that don't are the ones who refuse to listen to their conscience or who don't have conscience at all because they have no respect for the person they are harming.

God forbid. Maybe you will end up marrying a feminist in the end, who knows.

NobleG1:
The sexual obsession by Muslim men as conveyed by Islamic writings, takes its cue from the founder of the religion. The description depicts him as a sexual predator. Aisha, Muhammad's wife since she was a nine-year-old girl, described her sexual experiences with the prophet. When she was six years old, he could not have intercourse with her due to her young age. As a consolation prize, he placed his penis between her thighs and massaged it softly. Aisha explained that unlike other believers, the prophet had control over his penis."

Being consistent with its sexual obsession and predatory practices, the Qur'an permits pedophilia (sura 65:4). It also discusses rape in detail. It lets you know that men can rape female slaves and captives (Q 23:6), even in front of their husbands (Q 4:24). Other writings advise that when having sex with captives, it's better if you don't pull out at the end (Sahih Bukhari 3:46:718).

It's no wonder that 72 Virgins in Paradise are a fundamental piece of Islamic culture. Sex, sex abuse, pedophilia, and enslavement of women take central stage within that religion. Encouraging martyrdom by pointing to sexual rewards in heaven is a natural corollary of that tradition. Although the Qur'an may not be as specific, it nevertheless, offers many clues, which subsequent inscriptions reinforced, interpreted, and broadened.

If this is true then that explains a lot. It seems like genuine relationships in islam are between parents and children only. there is no such thing as husband and wife or girlfriend and boyfriend in islam. Just sexual relationships.

Harem:
the separate part of a Muslim household reserved for wives, concubines, and female servants. the women occupying a harem; the wives (or concubines) of a polygamous man. a group of female animals sharing a single mate

Sabrwahaqqo:
Ramadan and suicide bombing... How does that relate
No, atheist don't. Remember ritual killings, killings of twins in the olden days? Is it your pastors that masterminded those? Is it not the practice of the atheists?
Yh, am affectionate to my fellow but I won't see gun and call it stick.

Exactly. they don't relate... you are trying to relate things that don't relate. Cheating is an act of extreme disrespect toward your partner. She doesn't deserve that.

So you don't know the difference between an atheist and a pagan?

Sabrwahaqqo:
Lol. If you are not married and are having sex wt your boyfriend then you are as good as a cheat. That was the point I was making.
You should even be careful because that dude claims He doesn't at all believe God exists, so, why should you at all follow his guide?

it's a senseless point.
does your religion also tell you that "if you forgot to fast during ramadan, then you are as good as a suicide bomber?"
because we are all created in God's image, even atheists know that cheating, raping, stealing, killing etc are morally wrong and we should be respectful and compassionate to our fellow human beings.

Sabrwahaqqo:
I was just asking about your point of view on a general note... life experience with a cheating partner is not always the same for everyone

Nope. I don't have any cheating experience (and I pray never to). In a christian relationship, cheating is the same and it's very disrespectful.

NobleG1:
Is Islam not a st*upid religion? The Koran is even the worst!
Islam promises it's followers 72 virgins when they reach heaven. What a complete lunacy!
Why people follow a dumb religion with this type of shallow thinking is beyond me!

maybe this explains why cheating is not a big deal in islam.

Sabrwahaqqo:
You haven't answered my question.

Your question isn't sensible to me. You can't punish your gf for having premarital sex with you by cheating on her. You are not her God. Read those passages I posted. Sometimes, wealth and good looks make people feel proud as if they are God. Try to humble yourself and treat your gf with decency and respect.

Sabrwahaqqo:
Yh, its not easy sis. Being good looking and somewhat ok financially is a big test I declare. Unless by God's grace it's very hard to revoke temptations. Every unmarried man/woman engaged or not to somebody, having sex even with the one he's engaged to is a cheat. He/ she is cheating on his/her legitimate hubby/ wifey even if he/she ends up marrying that he/she was engaged to and is in no way better than one who is not loyal to one boyfriend /girlfriend. Do you agree to this?

Try not to put your faith and hope in good looks, money and worldly things. Otherwise, the temptations will be great.

1 Timothy 6:6-18
Matthew 6:19-21

wisdomguy4u:
Corruption is ur highest problem..

We already have corruption as you say, but there is no excuse for terrorism.

Sabrwahaqqo:
Nope, the problem is not with my religion, the problem is actually with me! My personality. I admit that I am not a good example of a Muslim. For goodness sake I need you to please know the absolute truth about matters, especially one's that are very sensitive like religion of others before spitting comments that is as derailing and false like this one you've said. I would have let this pass for I have said I won't reply you no matter what you say but for the sensitivity of it. Islamic teachings is actually the best thing there is to learn and the religion of Islam is actually the best thing that could happen to anybody I re-proclaim. I am but a sinful human trying to get better. I am not yet the faithful Muslim I should be and should not be judged along with the religion I claim to observe.

Oh wow. ok. I pray that God touches your heart and gives you the strength to change your ways IJN.
We are all sinners actually, it's only by the grace of God. As long as you know that cheating is wrong and willing to stop then that's good.

the bible already provided the rule about this: "Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands....Husbands, love your wives" Ephesians 5:22,25
without the grace of God, it's not easy at all, as you have seen. lol

Sabrwahaqqo:
The Qur'an is Infact the best gift to Humanity only If you understand.

Now that I know that you are muslim, it makes sense. No wonder you lack respect toward ur gf.
In fact, it's probably a sin to be faithful to a woman in your religion.

so now we have to deal with boko haram and biafrans at the same time?

Sabrwahaqqo:
Its anti-African .

so the golden rule (do unto others as you would want others to do unto you) is anti-African?
It is 'African' to cheat on your wife or gf? no wonder our leaders are also cheating and stealing from us. they are true Africans. I see.

Sabrwahaqqo:
A pig when you behave like one, A dog when you behave like one, A beast when you behave like them, A dove when you behave like one or A bluebird when I see you're happy.
Now, to the matter. Most of us who cheat don't usually have that mind of ; I'm going out this morning to cheat on my gf, nah! So, most of the time it takes a split of the seconds-minutes. After the act you're like omg!!! I didn't mean to do this and you'll just continue to go Astaghfirullah!

you are irrationally trying to justify wrongdoing. You act like an animal toward your gf yet when she starts treating you like an animal, you will complain. which is why this list in unrealistic. It asks women to tolerate cheating husbands and then tells them to be faithful and loyal. Have you heard of the golden rule? Matthew 7:12..

Sabrwahaqqo:
Trust me, along the line he will cheat on you. Actually, from a personal point of view I don't see what you guys call cheating as what you folks see it as. I see it as nature; Man is a polygamous animal.

There's a difference between civilized men and savages. God created us in his image and gave us free will to separate us from wild beasts, so, "nature" is not an excuse to be irresponsible or immoral.

FannySwindler:
My Posh Nairaland babe has said it all...No rules in a relationship...just study your partner and treat him as he deserves.

nice one.

she's back!

Chanchit:
Walahi, any woman that can abide by this ten rules is a real african wife material.

everything on the list is good except #7

I have so much work that I need to get done but I spend majority of my time distracting myself or stressing about the said work rather than actually DOING the work. I need help.

Oh no!! Easy now to see that her cynicism comes from her personal experiences.

She's not your typical reporter and I love that about her. I will say she's the Nigerian equivalent of someone like Stephen Colbert or Jon Stewart.

handsomeness:
Dude, your code worked. I'm still trying to decipher how you did it. Can you explain this part in bold a little for me:

The part in bold is the for loop function. http://www.python-course.eu/python3_for_loop.php

this would also work:

greetings = "HELLO GOOGLE"
for i in range(len(greetings)):
print(greetings)

NAACP is as outdated as the brown paper bag test.

I don't have any advice except maybe to try to call her sometimes and call her back when she calls you. It will probably be easier to do this than face the consequences of not doing it.

when will the results be announced?

I use it everyday and it works really well for moisturizing. What I do is I put a bit in my palm, add some water using a spray bottle, rub my hands together and apply it to my face.

don't stay under the sun for too long if you don't want it to darken your skin.