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Wisegeek01:
These days i wont advice anyone to train anyone, but if you want to do it, here is what you must add ..

As the guy as you are training her, build up yourself too to meet up with current trends, make you no go dey old fashioned

Also note that training the lady is as a friendly gesture, have that in mind, so contribute what you can, what you wont regret later, if she say she no do again .. you cant force her

For the lady, if you want to train a guy, omo .. i'd have said don't, but ..
Contribute the little you can also as a friend .. why ?
The guy might still not end up with you,
The guy might get too relaxed ( yes this happens too)
The guy can pick another small girl that has nothing, under your nose and be giving her the money you are giving him

Everything on Earth is 50/50.
wot works 4 A might not work for B--J, but may work for X--Z.

Wisegeek01:
Heres why ladies refuse to build with guys
.. Experience ✨

and i cant blame them for that,
because this my gender, men!!
They can ghost ehh!
Today you are dating, tomorrow is saturday you see trad on their friends status😎🥂 ..

but thats not to say ladies don't ghost too oo, one of my guys they ghosted during university, fell sick for 1 month, i mean he said theres nothing he didnt do for her, even that he was repeating a year is because of her, they dated for the whole time frame in school, same set, and towards finals she was bringing invitation card, ma guy fainted, when i talked to him, he was like nwa nkwo na zu, ngbe mmiri na ezo, je ulo ogwu ( the lady i backed inside rain to the hospital ) but you see this gist, i wil gist another day.

So ladies do too, and they usually do it to someone they think is unserious about marriage, whether they love the person or not, ( i dont know if they are usually under pressure from family or peers - but this will be another topic for another day )

while the guys ghost a lady they feel dont have all the requirements, but both of them are sneaky and using the same formula, no closure, just ghosting, i will understand if theres no closure for a toxic relationship, but a relationship that had no flaws, you just wake up one morning and jump out of the molue ( i.e assuming your relationship is the bus)
Why ?
I mean thats what c0wards do

Now back to the real question, why dont ladies build with guys again ..

See let me tell you dating anyone is a 50/50 percent chance, anyone can wake up the next day and break up, or worse you wake up and find out they are getting married or married with 6 kids or any other reason (for the men), or they have a hidden child or children from different men or any other reason ( for the women )

So now for the guys,

what's to say the guy will continue to marriage stage when he has money, that he wont dump you for his dream girl, and you have to start from scratch again ..
So i never blame any lady that says they wont build with a guy, their reason is valid, but ..

For the ones who choose to build with the guy, kudos to them, but ..

While you are at that please build yourself too .. i cannot vouch for any human being or any man, build yourself in the relationship too, learn skills, get certifications, as he is growing you are growing,

If he refuses, your growth !!

omo i give you the permission to leave him, that is a very bad boy .. a narcss!st to say the least .. because if that guy eventually gets money and gets someone else, you have your years of achievements to console you, you wont be starting out again with nothing ..

Now if you decide not to build with a man, like i said, you have good reasons too, but ..

While you wait for your prince charming, please build yourself also, you cant just be dancing on social media and saying all sorts about wanting a big man or saying things like if your boyfriend is not given you 500k monthly dump him, or if his account bal is not up to 50m dump him .. what audacity for someone that has no skills, i mean they say empty barrels do what 😅

So you think a big man will just gallivant and coman carry you like that so you can be doing tiktok in his parlour .. they too know what they are looking for, and if they carry u best bet theres only one thing they need from you at that point in time ..

So build yourself while you wait for prince charming, a way of encouraging him, that ..
"see ma guy nothing loss" i gat you
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And for the guys that want to know what to be doing in relationships that they are building, maybe the lady is not supporting you or is achieving more than you -- i.e you want to know what to do, i will cover that in another post,

Now another topic that is coming is -- when to dump a guy or a lady in a relationship, i will cover these together
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You guys just follow up, give me your feedback, negative or positive, i need it to get better, at this point i drop my pen,
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my brain wan burst ..

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Building with someone is a risk that is strictly by choice. its 50/50.

I have a nigga that trained my pry. sch. class mate to college of Edu. Today as we speak, they are happily married with 4 kids.
When taking such risks, have it in mind that; If it works out, fine and if otherwise, u deal with it😎

ExudeLoveToAll:
Those people you are talking are far less than 1 percent of the population.

It's as if you don't know statistics of rich folks in the country . The NBS stats says less than 5 percent of the total population of the country has up to 1million as account balance in their account. The people who can survive this is just about top 0.5 percent of the population.

Exceptions doesn't make the rule.

Dear, learn not to educate adults that think with their anus. U C ME SAY I ANSWER DEM?
I don't quote foolish people that claim to know, instead of wanting to know.

Comparing people that are financially stable womanising and those that are struggling to find their way, womanising as well, OUGHT TO TELL THAT; U ARE QUOTING A PREMATURE ADULT!.

Womanising is very unproductive sef to those that are financially OK.

Pls read my new thread and see a fast manifestation of my great move.

I made this thread yesterday about what i have observed that is taking me backward in life.

https://www.nairaland.com/7954988/avoid-u-must-go-far
and it is funny how some foolish comments were rolling out.
Normally, i don't quote foolishness.
I leave time to teach them painfully.
Some where even saying, u can womanise and still go far in life.

My dad used to tell us (The guys) that; If u start life with what u ought to end life with, u are planning for massive failure already. THERE IS TIME, DOSE AND MODERATION OF EVERYTHING.

☆Currently happening now☆☆

A girl that i have been wasting my time on, stressing myself to see if i could make a wife out of her (she seem decent and cool) is being fvcked in the master's quarters of my compound!.

My boss's Nephew drove in from Lagos just now and requested some guys to give him something to chill with.
I was surprised when i went to open the gate, only to find out; she was the one they arranged for this Nigga that came in with Lexus Jeep. They are currently having fun in the master's quarters.

Just imagine how things started manifesting fast, just yestereday i took this decision.

I now know that; if i focus and fix my mind on building and improving my life, rather than chasing what ought to chase me, when the time is right; A lot will come out of my life this year.
SUCH A TIME WASTING ACTIVITIES I HAVE BEEN DISTRACTING MYSELF WITH☹️

For guys that are struggling to stand or find their bearing; CHASING OF WOMEN / WOMANISING IS AN ACTIVITY OF ZERO VALUE, EVEN IF U ARE FINANCIALLY DOPE, IT DRAGS U BACKWARD (Physically and Spiritually).

lolu2019:
the story is just like mine.i prayed not to serve in the north too,I eventually served in Abia watching Enyimba FC during match days..i also prayed to leave a corrupt and stressful working environment.got a job with an oil company after that.but,I don't want to travel out.i am ok here in Nigeria.

May God continue to move us to greater heights🙏

Carlylepneuma:
Its quite a great thin for a person to sit back just to honestly and sincerely be d judge to his own life in general. I think that's how u can evaluate and knw ur flaws so as to avoid, quit or whatever u gotta do to stop d one thing that is dragging u down. Womanizin can be very addictive just like other bad habits so freaking temping. But since u have set ur mind to it, ur unstoppable men just focus on improvement, self actualization...
Let me tell little stuff about my experience ok. I use to smoke 🚭 ok had that bad habit for like 13+ one day I decided tht I was tired 😪. Then I made up my mind to stop ⛔ here I'm today 2yrs later without non of that shit men. So keep d positive energy and d sky is ur limit

Bless up👍
Man saw a lot in 2023, at least let me try and stay off unecessary women in 2024 and see wot happens, at least; for once im my life.
GOD HAS BEEN GRACIOUS 2 ME.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Women is not the reason why people don't go far in life. It's just a flimsy excuse.

I didnt create this thread to argue the obvious but to educate, because i doubt if u know the consequences of putting your divk in all puxxy (womanising).

Moreever, i don't quote everybody.

Have a blissful year.

This might sound funny but its very true.

Looking back to 2023 and the previous years of my life, it is evident that; seeing someone like me that God blesses and show Grace, IS EXTREMELY RARE.

--I am the richest and most blessed person, MY REASONS---

1. I don't and has NEVER fall sick to the point of going to the hospital.
Infact the ONLY time i have ever been to hospital since i was born, was when nail pierced my leg in 2007.

2. There is NOTHING i have ever wished for from God, that i didn't receive!.
It took me time and careful attention to notice this.
If i sit and reminisce carefully, i can count the number of times i have prayed seriously since i was born.
I live my life, like i own it; despite the fact that; GOD IS AND HAS BEEN GENEROUS TO ME.
☆ I prayed to God to make me graduate, despite a lot of departmental errors, IT HAPPENED, God sent someone at the die minute to correct 3 years errors.
☆ I prayed to God not to serve in the North or insecured places, because i am a Night walker and Extrovert, IT HAPPENED.

☆ I Prayed to God to get job immediately after service, IT HAPPENED.
I stayed @ the the labour market for few months before my first job.

☆ I prayed to God to lift me out of my previous job because of the intense stress, IT HAPPENED.
At the die minute, i got a job a life time, without stress or connection.

☆ I prayed to God to travel out, because a Nigga is losing his sanity in Naija's unfavourable conditions, IT HAPPENED, THE MONEY CAME BUT I FUMBLED! BUT this was when i studied myself and discovered how God has been Gracious and Merciful to me, despite the fact that; I AM NOT THE SERIOUS CHRISTIAN, I OUGHT TO BE.

---MY PROBLEM, PLS PAY ATTENTION AND LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES----

I sat down carefully to study my life and i discovered that; THIS THING IS RESPONSIBLE FOR MY FLAWS AND I MUST STOP IT THIS YEAR, IN ORDER TO MOVE FORWARD.

1. EXTREME WOMANISING:
I was born in a VERY comfortable home.
Ever since i was born till 2moro, there is nothing i want in life, within medium level that i won't get. GOD BLESSED MY DAD TOTALLY.
Look @ the life of ALL great men and u would see that a lot left this life unfulfilled because they loose guard 4 women.

But i studied the life of my dad and came to a conclusion that; IF U MUST GO FAR IN LIFE; Avoid women!
If you are lucky enough to get a good one, your life will be GLAMOROUS.

I calculated and came to a conclusion that; IF NOT FOR EXTREME WOMANISING, I WOULD HAVE GONE VERY FAR IN LIFE.

I have lived for more than 12 years of active svx, without going even a month without svx!.

2024, IS MY YEAR OF TEST RUNNING MY LIFE.

If i get a good lady fine, but if negative, i want to chase my goal of LEAVING THIS COUNTRY.
Avoiding unnecessary svx is the MAIN target this year.

I have been active here for years, God's willing, i will come back to update u, how my life turned around because of this GREAT MOVE.

☆WISH U ALL A BLISSFUL AND FRUITFUL YEAR🙏☆

This might sound funny but its very true.

Looking back to 2023 and the previous years of my life, it is evident that; seeing someone like me that God blesses and show Grace, IS EXTREMELY RARE.

--I am the richest and most blessed person, MY REASONS---

1. I don't and has NEVER fall sick to the point of going to the hospital.
Infact the ONLY time i have ever been to hospital since i was born, was when nail pierced my leg in 2007.

2. There is NOTHING i have ever wished for from God, that i didn't receive!.
It took me time and careful attention to notice this.
If i sit and reminisce carefully, i can count the number of times i have prayed seriously since i was born.
I live my life, like i own it; despite the fact that; GOD IS AND HAS BEEN GENEROUS TO ME.
☆ I prayed to God to make me graduate, despite a lot of departmental errors, IT HAPPENED, God sent someone at the die minute to correct 3 years errors.
☆ I prayed to God not to serve in the North or insecured places, because i am a Night walker and Extrovert, IT HAPPENED.

☆ I Prayed to God to get job immediately after service, IT HAPPENED.
I stayed @ the the labour market for few months before my first job.

☆ I prayed to God to lift me out of my previous job because of the intense stress, IT HAPPENED.
At the die minute, i got a job a life time, without stress or connection.

☆ I prayed to God to travel out, because a Nigga is losing his sanity in Naija's unfavourable conditions, IT HAPPENED, THE MONEY CAME BUT I FUMBLED! BUT this was when i studied myself and discovered how God has been Gracious and Merciful to me, despite the fact that; I AM NOT THE SERIOUS CHRISTIAN, I OUGHT TO BE.

---MY PROBLEM, PLS PAY ATTENTION AND LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES----

I sat down carefully to study my life and i discovered that; THIS THING IS RESPONSIBLE FOR MY FLAWS AND I MUST STOP IT THIS YEAR, IN ORDER TO MOVE FORWARD.

1. EXTREME WOMANISING:
I was born in a VERY comfortable home.
Ever since i was born till 2moro, there is nothing i want in life, within medium level that i won't get. GOD BLESSED MY DAD TOTALLY.
Look @ the life of ALL great men and u would see that a lot left this life unfulfilled because they loose guard 4 women.

But i studied the life of my dad and came to a conclusion that; IF U MUST GO FAR IN LIFE; Avoid women!
If you are lucky enough to get a good one, your life will be GLAMOROUS.

I calculated and came to a conclusion that; IF NOT FOR EXTREME WOMANISING, I WOULD HAVE GONE VERY FAR IN LIFE.

I have lived for more than 12 years of active svx, without going even a month without svx!.

2024, IS MY YEAR OF TEST RUNNING MY LIFE.

If i get a good lady fine, but if negative, i want to chase my goal of LEAVING THIS COUNTRY.
Avoiding unnecessary svx is the MAIN target this year.

I have been active here for years, God's willing, i will come back to update u, how my life turned around because of this GREAT MOVE.

☆WISH U ALL A BLISSFUL AND FRUITFUL YEAR🙏☆

UncleSnr:
Nigerian rapper, Ice Prince, asserts that his 2011 track “Oleku” marked the genesis of the “Afrobeats” genre. Asserting that his team consciously added an “s” to Fela Kuti’s “Afrobeat” label, Ice Prince contends that this alteration was pivotal in differentiating their new sound.

In a recent interview with Echoo Room, Ice Prince emphasized the significance when “Oleku” received airplay on BBC Radio, branding it as one of the earliest Afrobeats tracks to attain such recognition. Ice Prince avowed, “They [foreign DJs] didn’t know what to call our music and they couldn’t call it Afrobeat. So, we [I and my team] told them to put an ‘s’ it to make it Afrobeats.”

Ice Prince further challenged the commonly held belief that Ghanaian-British DJ Abrantee is credited with coining the term “Afrobeats,” asserting that it was their directive to use the label. He queried, “If not tell me who came up with the ‘s’ at the end? A lot of people said it is credited to DJ Abrante, but guess what? Abrante was the one that playlisted the song ‘Oleku.’ That’s my own claim, o!”

https://mediatalkafrica.com/139935/ice-prince-claims-oleku-was-the-inaugural-afrobeats-anthem/

African Queen
Do Me
Kukere
Oleku
Still remain the dopest jamz to come out of Naija.

tafat:
abegiii, buying a TECNO device for upto 200k is in no way wasting of money.

Your loss🤷‍♂️

hstar:
I will

Happy New Year

Same here bro.
More Life and Properity🙏

emmancipated:
Someone once blocked me, I guess because I didn't give her the exact amount of money she begged for. And I'm wondering if she didn't know that she actually did me a favour by getting rid of her self out of my life without even stressing me

If i have the opportunity to take back my favour, I ALWAYS do it, i nor get time for stupid people when normal people sef nova c help.

Stawner16:
As someone up there said, entitlement knows no gender. Sent an old friend money yesterday and here’s what he had to say

Very bad.

Stawner16:
Nigerians are most likely the most entitled humans alive. See what an old friend sent after I sent him some money yesterday

Very pathetic.
Most people in saner climes, once they here that name, Nigeria; That is the end of reasonable conversation with u.

A lot of people won't know the doom that awaits posterity.

Nicepoker:
Ladies are generally ungrateful. If you like give them millions the day they request for a penny and you decline. That's when you see their true color.

Yeah, but let me correct this notion, Entitlement is not gender based, because i have encountered a lot of guys also.

Check my previous threads and u will see where i mentioned this.

HAVE A BLISSFUL YEAR🙏

Jeon:
Encountering or sharing a negative stories is not my portion this Year.

Amen.

Lady, what is negative in correcting ills in the society?

Did u even read the post?.

Just few moments before we mark a new year, it is pertinent for us to eradicate this stupidity from our lives.
When we complain of entitlement mentality, it doesn't mean we are complaining about what is at stake, rather it is a means of restoring sanity and gratitude to humanity.

Giving or doing good is something that is very rare, because it takes a kind heart to release.
I have seen alot of people that has millions but can never give u 1k, even if u are dying, they will say; E NOR DEY. While we have very rare souls that can even borrow or give u their last card.
Its ONLY a fool that thinks kind people are foolish.

☆My encounter with two entitled girls yesterday and just now.

Yesterday, i decided to check on a chick which i have been having interest in for sometime now.
When i got there, what the family were eating was pitifully bad. Soup that looks like water with little or no fish, so i invited her over to my place because i bought rice amd meat for my supper.
When we got home, we ate together, u could see how she was feeling relieved on the sight of something good in her stomach.
After eating, i brought Predator and Gordon Gin + 2 glasses, she refused to take alcohol and i expected her to take predator and i open both drinks and started cooling off, immediately, she collected the predator, saying; She would take it along, i declined and asked her to use the glass because i would need the rest after sipping my gin, instantly, she said; if i refuse her the whole bottle, she won't take.
I simply said; Ok and emptied everything, after sometime, she left angrily, to me, wetin consign me and this mumu.

So today, i was at home all through and i decided to come out to eat, on my way going, i saw a teenage girl, she greeted and requested i buy candle for her. I told her no probs. that she should wait till after i finish eating. After eating, i checked her but she was not around. I proceed to my fav. spot to take a little gin b4 going to church.
After buying my stuff, i bought 2 candles, with the hope to use 1 and give her the other.
As i was chilling, she came in, to get candle o, but she saw me accidentally.
I gave her one candle, could you believe this little teenager told me, the candle is too small, that i must buy the big one before she accepts it. I simply told her; THANK U and that was all , she left when she noticed i wasn't even listening to her noise.

NOW THIS IS THE DEAL;
How can a reasonable person tell or control u on how u should help them, when we have millions of people that would say No, EVEN IN MIDST OF PLENTY?

A lot of entitlement in women are caused by guys.
Most can't approach ladies, so they use money and foolish kindness to get the cookie, little did they know; They are creating a foolish mindset in ladies.

THIS MINDSET SHOULD AND MUST STOP, IF U NOTICE ANY ENTITLEMENT IN ANYONE, SHUN IT, EVEN IF ITS #20 INVOLVED.
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THAT WAY, SANITY AND GRATITUDE WOULD BE RESTORED IN THE SOCIETY.

Thanks.
☆Wish u and your household a blissful, fruitful and Prosperous year ahead, coupled with sound health🙏

hstar:
MSN1
You should have created a thread on this letting pple share their experience


How many me I wan talk?
Both grown up females adult and young boys are not exempted in my place here, they know nothing than to demand

u no wetin I dey do Dem (the senseless and very entitled illogical ones among them)

I dey show Dem real madness and serious yabbing that would not make us talk again anytime I notice they want to start taking my kindness for stupidity or whenever they want to start showing their entitlement mentality

At the end of the day I was nicknamed 'baba oni network'

That is a guy that works based on weak or strong network service.

If anyone of them approach me in reasonable way, I relate with them in a very good way,

If anyone approach me and demand sth from me in an oloriburuku way, we will scatter everything, the way I insult them ehn!

No be here o, after all, we will both go our separate ways, of which I don't av anything to lose but profit to me bcoz that is minus one entitled entity from my side .

You are rite.
Let me modify.
pls share your encounters.

Agbadocassava:
Wishing you a very Happy new year nairalanders

🙏🙏🙏🙏

Just few moments before we mark a new year, it is pertinent for us to eradicate this stupidity from our lives.
When we complain of entitlement mentality, it doesn't mean we are complaining about what is at stake, rather it is a means of restoring sanity and gratitude to humanity.

Giving or doing good is something that is very rare, because it takes a kind heart to release.
I have seen alot of people that has millions but can never give u 1k, even if u are dying, they will say; E NOR DEY. While we have very rare souls that can even borrow or give u their last card.
Its ONLY a fool that thinks kind people are foolish.

☆My encounter with two entitled girls yesterday and just now.

Yesterday, i decided to check on a chick which i have been having interest in for sometime now.
When i got there, what the family were eating was pitifully bad. Soup that looks like water with little or no fish, so i invited her over to my place because i bought rice amd meat for my supper.
When we got home, we ate together, u could see how she was feeling relieved on the sight of something good in her stomach.
After eating, i brought Predator and Gordon Gin + 2 glasses, she refused to take alcohol and i expected her to take predator and i open both drinks and started cooling off, immediately, she collected the predator, saying; She would take it along, i declined and asked her to use the glass because i would need the rest after sipping my gin, instantly, she said; if i refuse her the whole bottle, she won't take.
I simply said; Ok and emptied everything, after sometime, she left angrily, to me, wetin consign me and this mumu.

So today, i was at home all through and i decided to come out to eat, on my way going, i saw a teenage girl, she greeted and requested i buy candle for her. I told her no probs. that she should wait till after i finish eating. After eating, i checked her but she was not around. I proceed to my fav. spot to take a little gin b4 going to church.
After buying my stuff, i bought 2 candles, with the hope to use 1 and give her the other.
As i was chilling, she came in, to get candle o, but she saw me accidentally.
I gave her one candle, could you believe this little teenager told me, the candle is too small, that i must buy the big one before she accepts it. I simply told her; THANK U and that was all , she left when she noticed i wasn't even listening to her noise.

NOW THIS IS THE DEAL;
How can a reasonable person tell or control u on how u should help them, when we have millions of people that would say No, EVEN IN MIDST OF PLENTY?

A lot of entitlement in women are caused by guys.
Most can't approach ladies, so they use money and foolish kindness to get the cookie, little did they know; They are creating a foolish mindset in ladies.

THIS MINDSET SHOULD AND MUST STOP, IF U NOTICE ANY ENTITLEMENT IN ANYONE, SHUN IT, EVEN IF ITS #20 INVOLVED.
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THAT WAY, SANITY AND GRATITUDE WOULD BE RESTORED IN THE SOCIETY.

Thanks.
☆Wish u and your household a blissful, fruitful and Prosperous year ahead, coupled with sound health🙏

Sofistcatdmoron:
Chai, it's normal sha as a man,
Knacking must be involved

My own nor normal.
2024 MUST change.

tareboy:
What's up fam? This post is regarding guys/men struggling to get a woman for courtship or even marriage.

I have a step by step approach to help. I have compiled it into a book.

A copy cost N3,000. Only interested persons should DM.

Message me on whatsapp 09074934325

Dey play, Na mumu dey find problem with im hand.
Reasonable pipo dey buy books on how to avoid women☹️

Sofistcatdmoron:
Can you estimate the number of people you had sex with , I mean your body count for the year 2023,,

I nor fit count only December own sef☹️
More reason a nigga MUST live responsibly 2024.
Na ONLY God save d MUMU 2023.

Odewaleadesoye:
Dearest Members of Nairaland Forum, kindly define year 2023 using just a 'word'.

Mine;


Kindly supply your own definition using just a 'word'.

Otilor

Mark267833:
made close to a million, but not able to save anything but thank God for life

I just calculated and discovered that my Annual salary wasn't even up to #850k, na wa 4 dis life sef.
who am i to complain wen som pipo dey receive less than 5ok monthly and a lot nor de c shi shi.
WHO GOD SAVE HIM LIFE AND WHO SAVE HIM SELF FROM DEPRESSION, NA IM TRULY SAVE 4 2023.

Jega2000:
I made around 1.5 to 1.8million ...But I was only able to save 800k..

God saved my life and I saved my sanity in midst of tribulations.
LIFE AND SANITY NOR GET PRICE.

bigpicture001:
...what kind of talk is this for crying out loud..? i and my girl decided to make it official by tieing the knot especially since sh is about 3 months pregnant..

At last i journeyed to her home town and her family house just last week oo.. the parents received me well, and in the goings her dad refused to accept my dowry payment insisting i must wait for 6 more months to marry her. according to him, it is forbidden to marry a pregnant lady in their tribe.. which kain talk b that, he said giving her out now means giving two persons to me at once , that i must wait for safe drlivery nd they take the child since sh is not married yet before i can marry only his daughter...i am suspecting its because they have only one male child in their family so they want to try luck.. moreover, we dont even know the child sex yet..

Me and sh wanted to make this official so that the coming child will b legitimate and moroever what is one even waiting for..?

aveg which kain confusion be this.. anyone heard of this kind of thing before..?

Bro, u are confused and saying thrash, do u think is all parents that are irresponsible?

Why did u not marry her before getting her pregnant?
Did u know that it is a big disrespect to the father.

Modernisation dey make una think like fools.

I have a Nigga that is currently in confusion na, He impregnated a Baby mama of 4, The Lady died giving birth, luckily, the child is a live.
The family gave this Nigga, a bill of almost 2million.
See, i don't blame d family, i just told him to appeal to the family to reduce and consider him.

The day we shifted from Sanity our ancestors created in our societies to follow westernisation and erase common sense, started our doom!.

You are lucky the man didn't arrest you.

ABEG MAKE UNA SHIFT WITH UNA MUMU RANTS.

Dexy4yah:
Please do whatever it takes to drop that your addiction in this 2023.

Are you not tired of being a slave to it??

Let 2024 be your year of new beginning.





You can do it🙏🏻

Addiction is NOT as easy to leave as people think.

Many has a lot to do with spiritual forces, I WILL NOT ARGUE THIS WITH ANYONE, TIME AND EXPERIENCES WOULD DO THE LESSONS.

Please, the BEST way to handle addiction is; PRAY AND HAVE FAITH IN GOD.

No one has EVER or will EVER override God's TIMING.
---ALHAMDULILAH----🙏

superCleanworks:
do you know what changed after all this plenty preaching? NOTHING.

A lot will change, stop typing rubbish.
Look and pass if u have nothing meaningful to contribute.

some1 passed a reasonable message and u are here displaying your foolishness.

QUOTE ME AND WASTE ANODA OF YOUR FOOLISH ENERGY.

Breastfeed:
how can you say this? So a person buying a Tecno phone for over 200k is economizing?

No, a person buying Tecno over 200k is good in WASTING MONEY for less value.

The highest i can get china fones is less than 80k, me that is enlightened to know that 2nd hand outdated Samsung S9 is far better than transsion of 2024 sef.

Aside few Phantom and d fold series, mention 1 transsion of 2023 that can match outdated S10+?.
MAKE UNA JUS DEY PLAY.

FaithELEFAN:
I am asking on behalf of a friend. She wants to know. When one is going through health malaria, is it good to have have sex..

Depends on your system.
We are not as strong at same level.

I have svx anytime, anyday.
even after EXTREME difficult work or over stressed activities.
I only starve my partner of svx, when i want to punish them for misbehaving.

Maybe it is because i barely fall sick or my immune system, i don't know.