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I was at my regular cool spot yesterday, sipping some vodka; when I saw a young mad man strolling.
This mad guy used to be a rich Gboy, who shut down clubs and bars in Lagos and his locality, I even heard, he once used to transfer money to people in the street anyhow.
But today; this same guy, roams the street wirhout anybody that cares to even feed him.
--Moral of the story----

In life, whatever you do, ALWAYS know that; YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN!.
Aside very FEW people that have those that can follow them through thick and thin (I am very lucky to have 1 in my life; Else, i would have been dead by now ), EVERY other humans will severly learn the hard way that; STREET NOR GET MEMORY.
The time things changes negatively for you, is when you truly know the meaning of love.

I pity those that thinks making money will solve their relationship problems in life.
Money will only attract fake and fair weather people on your way, when problem come knocking; U WOULD KNOW HOW BAD, MONEY HAS PLACED YOU.

When I was counting million +, I was counting 20's and 30's of squad but when things turned around, I can barely count 2 squad.

Everything that happens in life, is not by accident. It is either to teach you a lesson or to test and train your mind.

If i haven't been in a difficult situation for a year + now, I wouldn't have known that; HUMANS ARE EXTREMELY TERRIBLE!.

God is indeed wonderful to have put me in tight situation, in order to teach me a great lesson and I am enjoying EVERY bit of my lesson; SEEING PEOPLE I LIFTED, CHANGING DRASTICALLY, IS THE MOST HEART BREAKING THING I HAVE EVER EXPERIENCED IN LIFE.
As painful and fresh in memory as the death of my young niece years back, it is nothing compared to the pain my heart has been feeling.

There is no other way I would have believed that; PEOPLE ARE TERRIBLE.

A lot of people I catered for, took closer to myself, are the ones that are turning their back on me, talking and spreading hatred around, uhmm; very sad.
These are people I did everything to put smile on their faces, people I lifted, even with few resources and when my load was heavy, HUMANS ARE REALLY TERRIBLE.

One big lesson this year taught me was UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.

A lot of people make the mistake of sidling people, tagging them enemies, but I will tell u guys freely that; THE BEST PEOPLE THAT STOOD BY ME ALL THROUGH, WERE THOSE THAT I NEVER EXPECTED OR THOUGHT THEY LIKED ME.

I*f you must have squad, BE VERY VIGLANT.
*If you have friends, TEST THEM TO KNOW, WHO IS REAL.
*If you must live life peacefully, search and know those that love you UNCONDITIONALLY.

--Pretend sometimes, in order to know who gat u---

One thing I MUST do in 2024 (God's willing) is to; pass through it quietly, devoid of squad or unecessary closeness.

The very people that will show you shege when things relapses, are those you can NEVER expect.

NA SQUAD KILL JESUS.

STREET NOR GET MEMORY.

A BLINK OF EYE, IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.

warrifinest1985:
Says who? Are you a part of the calamity called APC?

Guy, don't u understand simple SARCASM?
is there December 32nd in your calendar?

Uchesis:
I know you won't answer the question

Mr High IQ

If you truly practice what you preach, you suppose be like King Solomon by now

For the last time;
READ MY SIGNATURE.

cybernaut:
Hello Friends,
Please your suggestions is counted. A relative to me was engaged to marry a divorce a mother of four and he is in the process of meeting the family of the single mum to discuss more about their plans to be one.

Please what is your suggestions on these my relative decision.

Thank you

You guys should be mature and stop asking childish questions.

When has love (which is a personal affair) got to do with strangers opinions?

He alone knows what he saw in her.
He alone knows if she would make him happy.
He alone will be there to enjoy or suffer.
He alone knows his NEEDS and WANTS.
Marrying a girl of 20, 25, single, divorced or baby mama, are all thesame.

INDIVIDUAL NEEDS and WANTS + CHARACTER IS THE ONLY THING TO CONSIDER IN MARRIAGE.

What use is the advice here for?

Englishisamust:
How about femi otedola, Obi cubana, Jay z and beyounce, davido, wizkid, banky w, peter of psquare.. ... Dey play... Like say na only rich people no dey divorce, U here no go make money and develop yourself...

I don't and can never have that dead mentality of making money and getting your dream woman.

I believe the wives of Millionaires that are being fvcked daily by these small boys, some even take bastards to their rich husbands , is your definition of making money and you would find a woman?
WOMEN ARE LOYAL TO WHAT DRIVES THEM AND DRIVE IS A PERSONAL AFFAIR.

Bro. u have a lot to learn in life and if u are above 25, then i must say;
U HAD A LOT OF CARRY OVERS IN LIFE, GO BACK AND LEARN B4 U TAKE THIS CHILDISH MENTALITY TOO FURTHER.

_Thats d end of your lesson, let me attend to higher levels.

lordnkem000:
Money only keep bitches and whores but it doesn't keep a good girl who loves. Money buys fvck but definitely doesn't buy love

Flesh and blood didn't reveal this to u Nigga👍
This is something any reasonable adult should know, but as usual, some people grow old physically but never improve their brains and minds.

If Money is the answer, then Elon, Dangote etc would have had the BEST marriage ever.

A lot of Rich men's wives are just there physicallly sipping the foolish men's funds, while, their loyalty, love and faithfulness is elsewhere and some fools are shouting make money up and down.

Go uptown and see small boys Fvcking the make money gangs wives in one hotel or the other, impregnating them anyhow for the fools to cater for and they will come out to tell you, their money is what gave them their dream women that are just ripping them, VERY SHAMEFUL.

Uchesis:
one question bro

why are you still single?

Read my signature, I only talk to pipo that are mature enough for reasonable discussions, your question states otherwise.
Enjoy your last attention.

Englishisamust:
Even with 100 naira I will Bleep any girl with my crazy format!!! . But No girl will accept to live is rest of life with a broke man... Thats fact get that in your head!!!
Make money!!! Make money!!! Develop yourself!!!... No woman can resist a rich and confident man... Because you got everything she want in a man

I doubt if u know that; Some rape allegations against some celebs. are TRUE!.
Of all the money, fame and power, Rkelly has, he was still ropped in series of rape cases, I BET HE WASN'T RICH ENUF, TO FVCK ANY GIRL ON EARTH?.

A lot of girls are on Earth that would tell even C_Ronaldo, Elon Musk etc_ To Bleep their money and won't say yes to them.
THINKING MONEY, POWER AND FAME CAN GIVE U ALL LADIES, EXISTS ONLY IN THE MIND OF RAPISTS AND NOT THOSE THAT INTEND WOOING LADIES.

Englishisamust:
Even with 100 naira I will Bleep any girl with my crazy format!!! . But No girl will accept to live is rest of life with a broke man... Thats fact get that in your head!!!
Make money!!! Make money!!! Develop yourself!!!... No woman can resist a rich and confident man... Because you got everything she want in a man

Where is Dangote's wife?
Kanye west?
Elon?
Gates?
Jeff ?etc.
Paul Okoye wasn't Rich enough too?
I bet, THEIR MONEY WAS NOT LONG ENUF TO MAKE THE WOMEN STAY.

Keep dreaming and ignorant of the fact that; WOMEN ARE ONLY LOYAL TO WHAT THEY FEEL AND LOYALTY IS INDIVIDUAL BASED, NOT SOCIO CLASSES.

Gerrard59:
With that, I see you don't know what it means to be a bank manager in Nigeria.

We agree to disagree.



MSN1,

Those are the people you term "causal workers".

You guys are funny.
What type of comfortable house that befits a manager, goes for 100k in Lagos?.
Casual workers in yanky have access to good life and high standard of living, I bet the Nigerain mentality of having a fat
bank account without even access to basic standard of living, is what you guys call enjoyment?.

Having millions in acct. that little sickness without prompt attention could take away, is better life to you?.
I doubt you know what it means to raise your children in a first world country, that is better than leaving 10billion naira behind for them!.

In this modern dispensation that even little celebrities are giving their children a reasonable citizenship, you guys are still arguing blindly.
TIME IS COMING TO TEACH U GUYS SHA, JUST REMEMBER TO SAVE THE MEMORY.

Sir, i rather be a SLAVE in another man's house and enjoy my life than being a SLAVE in my father's house, without access to basic things i need.

OUTSIDE THE POLITICAL CLASS OR FEW PERCENT OF HIGHLY CONNECTED TO THE ELITES; WE OTHERS ARE ALL SLAVES IN OUR HOMELAND, SO PICK THE TYPE OF SLAVE YOU DESIRE FROM THE ONES I MENTIONED ABOVE.

Englishisamust:
Make money!!! Make money!!! I know what I'm saying.. .. I understand woman very well, most of my friends are women!!!

Kids never cease to amaze me.
I have fvked a lot of girls while on phone with your make money gang.
Money is the least thing TRUE LOVE desires.

Make money, spend foolishly on your bitch while she is loyal to us; we reap fruit of ur labour by hanging her legs, lol...

Its ONLY kids like u that thinks having 100 trillion, can keep a woman.

Time has a lot to teach children like u.

Starz825:
yeah...you are right

I hate fear like madd...
cos I'm very much aware of what it could withhold from me...

I stay daring, fearless, and believing!

All thanks to God..

Fear is 4 d weak and those that don't want to go far.

I do ANYTHING that i have the oppotunity to, if it works; fine but if otherwise, I MOVE.
LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO BE A COWARD.

Gerrard59:
Does that apply to McKinsey's consultants in Nigeria? Does a skyscraper cleaner in the UK have a higher standard of living than someone working with KPMG Nigeria?

Do you know what it is to be a bank manager? Permanent staff o, not contract staff.

How do you guys do your comparism?.
what is the percentage of pipo working in your Mc kinsey whatever?
U for talk NNPC or SHEVRON make i know say u sabi compare, because u don't know the meaning of hi

Bro. a bank manager is a boy to casual workers abroad.
Or are u using the eye of Fraudulent managers, balling on pipos money?.

bigiyaro:
try get sense abeg, with una worthless naira getting more worthless every day, after one year of cleaning skyscrapers, he can come back and buy the bank and change can still remain, you should also know that people also japa for the sake of thier kids, and many other reasons other than jobs.

Leave those guys quoting nonsense.

Nigeria when they collapse everyday.
I sorry 4 pipo wen get millions as savings, i know a lot and i just see them as fools.
I know a guy that saves in raw dollars, he keeps the money at home, e dey change small small, when he broke.

MT:
Why do you guys talk this way?

because; thats the fact.
If u are close to a senior professor, ask him/her to tell u their salary.
I bet u don't know the cash, stress and frustration it takes to get to professor evel.
The first day my now late Senior Professor palli told me his salary, i almost weep for him.
That is the money my Dad that dropped out @ pry6 makes in one business trip (for 1 week).

How do u guys even compare variables sef?.

Comparing country where a whole doctors are living from hand to mouth with countries where common labourers are balling hard is insanity and to think u guys don't know, those guys struggled and sweated to make to make their countroes work.
So, u guys want to go there and work in big big offices, Does that makes sense 2 u, going to ride on peoples sweat?

Those doing menial jobs there, live comfortably but the mentality of get ALL at once of Nigerians is what is driving MOST of them nut.

How many level 10 civil servants here can afford to buy even common corolla here?, can that be said of saner climes where small workers get access to the good things in life?.

Please whenever you guys hear pipo moving to saner climes, JUST SAY CONGRATS AND WORK HARDER TO JOIN THEM.
IF U GUYS KNOW WHAT NIGERIA WILL BE IN COMING YEARS, UNA GO FEAR!.

--This country has been sold and anyone that handle the mantle; IS JUST THERE FOR HIS SHARE, IT TAKES COMMON SENSE TO KNOW THIS.

Gerrard59:
Please let's focus on the main post: a so-called bank manager is working as a skyscraper cleaner in the UK

You alluded that because a cleaner can save 20 million while working in the UK, then he is better off than a bank manager in Nigeria. I said that is false as you are comparing a bank manager in Nigeria to a cleaner in the UK. That is not the appropriate way to compare. Should the bank manager want to relocate to the same UK, he would aim to be at the same position as he was in Nigeria. Getting an MBA is one way, and he would aim at the top ones. Remember he was a bank manager in Nigeria. LBS is the number one MBA school in the UK.

I maintain my stance that judging using PPP metric, a bank manager in Nigeria lives a better life than a cleaner in the UK. I would not even compare them as it does not make sense. I compare like for like: bank manager in Nigeria to bank manager in the UK.

U are far from reality.
A restroom cleaner live a far better life than bank managers in Nigeria.
Do u guys even know the word called comfort?

Jewessgratitud3:
Ok. Congratulations to him but why is the poster now comparing his job then and now? By the way that was what me I reacted to.

That was simply trying to say, He was in comfortable office but now doing a menial job.

Be that as it may; Nigga is doing perfectly well and posterity will thank him for saving them.

If a local tout (Mc Oluomo) could know the value of life outside this doom we are, giving all his kids access to good climes; I wonder what our enlightened people are still arguing.

Incase you don't know; Majority of highly connected people, have dual and a lot of citizenship outside this doom we are.
They are just here milking the already dry breast.

Jewessgratitud3:
Soft life to hard life.

I guess when he got there and saw the pile of bills staring him in the face he had no choice but to grab the next available job.

If you are gainfully employed in naija, you don't need to japa. Japa is for someone who has no hope of ever getting a job in Nigeria. He'll appreciate any kind of job he finds there.

I doubt if u know the difference between NOW and FUTURE!.

Yes, he's gonna pay bills, were u expecting to live a good and comfortable life for free?.

Oga what is the hope for someone earning a whole 3million monthly in naija? (Still from hand to mouth)
not to talk of, COMMON BANK MANAGER.
UNA WRONG ADVICE DEY SCARE ME EVERYTIME.
and to think it will keep getting worst in Naija is VERY insane.

Aside the political and highly connected class, everyother person dey problem.

Do u even know how poorly a whole Doctors and Professors are paid here, ABEG MAKE UNA DEY REASON.
See, that guy has secured himself and posterity, SAY CONGRATS TO HIM and move, rather than talking irrationally.

If u like don't secure yours, be there dreaming for a beta country that our fellow commoners have sold for a pot of beans.

In less than 10yrs, getting common student visa with lots of cash in Aza will be EXTREMELY difficult, because, a lot of people have seen the light and it would be too bad for those that have the means but refused to move.

Have a nice day.

bolabizzle:
Just got word from a friend about someone who made the move from being a bank manager in Nigeria to working as a skyscraper cleaner in the UK. 😕

Smart move or not?

He has changed his story and that of his prosterity.
EXTREME smart move.

Josephamstrong1:
I don’t really understand some schools this days. My baby girl cleared all her subjects with distinction, all As and she was given 3rd position. She has been sobbing uncontrollably since yesterday. Yes, she was promised Christmas gifts and present if she takes first position in class this term.
I think she deserves the 1st position. I want to go to the school on Monday and appeal for result recheck. It can’t be!
I am not taking this o! My baby deserves 1st position with this result.

Typical parents i encountered some years back.
Y do we have a lot of educated illiterates?

So u don't know that scoring 98% in all subjects can still take u to 5th position?

Please go there and fool yourself, since u think having good grades and someone having a better grade, while someone, having an excellent grade, cannot take your baby to 3rd position.

This result sef can take a pupil to even 8th position in a school that is filled with gurus.
Imagine having 80's, when the least you could see in some pupils result is 97?, NA WA 4 UNA!.

Instead of appreciating your baby's success, you are killing her spirit with 1st, 2nd, 3rd mentality.
When u ought to know that; Even 1 mark difference could be the reason here and grades doesn't determing knowledge or I.Q, i wonder, if u guys read or know about basic things in life sef.

You guys should learn to apply wisdom in your dealings.

Jesterinjay:
I got something out of this
Thanks

🙏

okoroemeka:
may God grant all hustlers the strength and courage to keep moving on against all odds

🙏

Honeydenz:
YOU BROUGHT HER DOWN BELOW YOUR LEVEL....the exact implication of her choice I wanted to hear u say, she's not wise nor classy enough in d first place, she is someone from a poor background privileged to hangout with big boys, that's why u were able to get her. If she's a classy girl from a rich background, you need to be extremely handsome or rich also to get her, d later is already out of the options. Quote me anywhere

Lol.
There is no rich and classy woman on Earth that cannot fall in love with the right pauper that gat d vibes and qualities she craves, QUOTE ME ANYWHERE.

All for the Hustle.
Success is not for the faint hearted.

Sequel to this thread...
https://www.nairaland.com/7942369/what

It is very necessary for people above 18yrs to have basic knowledge of life but its quite funny; family society, school and religion are shunning the need to pass a lot of life useful hacks.

If there is something i am very proud of, is the fact that; I look at everybody as being equal!.
In the real sense, no one is bigger or better than the other, we just only have people of different talents, socio classes and faces.

For a young boy to think because, he is a carpenter and can't approach a daughter of a minister or Governor, is the highest form of self disruption.

I said something in that thread and a kid was quoting "Nollywood movies". See, one thing i love about NL, is that, it is a platform to meet people of different classes, races and learn a whole lot of new experiences that sounds too gud to be true but are EXTREMELY true and i have benefitted a lot from threads here.

It is even difficult to post these days because; a lot of unreasonable people will comment foolishness and even bash your intelligences with their stupidity.

I have said it in that thread and let me say it here;
My MOST longest and MOST enjoyable relationship was with a very high class girl who was dating Big guys in Lagos, PH etc, Most times; she visited her guys with flights or drivers wud b sent to pick her with flashy cars (NOT HOOKUP TYPE). I knew this because i was close to her and was dying in silence before a close pal of mine gave me this orientation that made me to get her easily.

This girl later told me; She fell for me simply because I WAS BOLD ENOUGH TO APPROACH HER and that; SHE WANTED TO SEE MORE QUALITIES IN SUCH A LOW CLASS GUY THAT COULD CHYKE HER, WHEN THE TOP GUYS IN HER LOCALITY AND DEPARTMENT ARE PAYING, BEGGING AND PREACHING AND SPENDING HEAVILY.

My nigga said; "Man, Every girl is on the same level, you just have to be her type and erase spirit of FEAR".

Now, what is the meaning of being somebody's type?
It simply means having a charming quality that she likes or possesing what freaks her.
The story of Titanic seems fictitious but it is VERY VERY valid and it happens in real life.

A lot of girls can date a gorilla, provided he has a lot of cash.

A lot of rich guys can date a local, uneducated village girl, if she has killer curves and built.

Personally, i don't fancy big butts and curves and a lot of girls thinks, having big bum bum and boobs, simply means; All the guys will fall 4 u.

If u look carefully, you will know that; ALL humans on Earth have special, charming qualities that a lot of high class people will die to palli with, is just that; LOW SELF EXTEME AND FEAR IS TAKING OVER A LOT OF PEOPLE.

If u love ANYBODY, simply walk up to her and say it; its an issue of YES / NO.
The girl may be waiting for your move sef, but FEAR will stand as a barrier to your success.

FEAR IS THE KILLER OF SUCCESS IN ANY ENDEAVOUR!.

seanwilliam:

You watch too much nollywood

A lot of kids like you are dominating here, so read my signature and MOVE.

RALPHOW:
Better use your brain, otherwise you may loose your job.
Keep her contacts, go back to school, upgrade your standard to her level before you make your intentions known to her.

Lose which job?
When has it become a crime to fall in love?.

I once toasted a high class girl, she fumbled, insulted me and left warning me seriously, I lock up, move on.
1 week later, she called and visited me, apologies and i pounded her mercilessly that day, she refused to go home; We pounded TDB.
That was how we started dating and till date, that was my Best and Most longest relationship.

She later told me that, she fell 4 me because i was bold, that of all the guys arond school and hood, i was d ONLY one bold enough to chyke her, because she was only dating top class big boys in Lagos and PH.
I reduced that girl below my level to the extent, she was thinking i was jazzing her.
See bro, when a woman is truly in love; a 2yr old kid WISE PASS AM SEF!.
There is NOTHING she can't do to make u happy and there is no extent u won't bend her.

Youths are failing seriously because; THEY ARE SCARED OF TAKING RISKS!.

Xkale1996:
why you mumu na


Focus on your Job
She will definitely turn you down

Further your education

Wrong advice.
ALL gud things comes from UNEXPECTED SHOTS and FAILURE to take risks means; AUTOMATIC FAILURE!.

Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time

Please what should I do

Oga, it is a NO/YES affair.
Spill it, u may be lucky and if otherwise; MOVE ON.

Thinking you are a common cleaner makes u 100 steps backward in thinking.
There is NO CLASS of girl i like that i can't tell my intentions.
Class is a socio status and not a higher set of humans, WE ALL ARE EQUAL!.

I wonder why youths are scared of taking risks.
This is the main reason y a lot will NEVER succeed.

DGimmick:
At age 25
girlfriends; 0
kisses ; 0
sex; 0
hugs; 0

it's not that am not attractive, infact girls even make advances at me but what can I say, I think I'm the worst introvert on earth

God is blessing u and u wish to kill yourself by yourself?
Life nor truly balance.

guobe:
Lol u strong o

Only d strong gets to d promise land,
Soft guys gets procrastination or at most, kisses and hugs, Y dey spend foolishly.

DesChyko:
The scene of the runway was abuzz with fashion models traipsing the runway during the Aba Fashion Week, holding in Aba, Abia State.

Suddenly, everyone held their breath and all heads turned in the direction of the start of the runway carpet.

A young boy, clad in a red shirt, ragged jean shorts and bright orange flipflops had mounted the runway. People looked on in confusion at the uninvited child, poised to walk down the runway, just as the models had done.

Unfazed, Kingsley Joseph from Ebonyi State, began the walk, as daring as can be, and gave his best rendition just as he had seen the models before him do. The silence, soon turned to cheers, and a rousing applause, as the highly entertained crowd marvelled at his performance. His antics went viral.

Soon enough, he got the attention of Abia-born philanthropist, Chima Anyaso who gave him full scholarship to pursue his education. What's more? He was subsequently seen in choice locations, having classy meals, signing endorsement deals.

It appears a demonstration of strong will turned out to be good fortune for the lad.

https://www.facebook.com/reel/892497162267692?s=yWDuG2&fs=e&mibextid=2JQ9oc

When its TIME; ITS TIME!.
Fact low minds will keep struggling with till eternity.