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Poster,

The question here is do you love her or do you not love her?

iff you love her, than tell her what your concern is about her and discuss it over so that you both could work your differences out.

if you dont love her, than tell her that she is not the one and that you dont think it will work

priest2u:
I think we men are responsible for the scarcity of good girls in our days. I think we should change the criteria for falling in love, most women are so concern about how they look in the outside and forget to develop their character and inner beauty.What if all the guys refuse to fall in love based on how a girl looks but how she behave to others? How good will it be if a guy can say I'm in love with this girl because of how she treated someone or somebody and not how beautiful she is? when that happen ladies with bad character will have no bf not to talk of husband. Women always conform themselves to what men are looking for, if men start looking for good character, then the pursuit of good character will increase among ladies. Well this is my thought, I look forward to the days when we men select our wives based on what good they have done for others and not how they look outwardly. I rest my case.

190:
Kandikane is a man, shes not worthy 2 be called a woman

she even fights boys , how can u call her a woman

Are u mocking my sister?

sexkillz:
Oh, Hell NO!!! Even the Bible Says that A Man/Woman would have to leave His /her parents And become one flesh with his/her partner!

Aha! So Im never wrong to begin with than. I was right all along.!

J12:
You are right, and besides, why is Ileke's name up there?
I don't know how she is romantic to the OP.

Ehen!

The free world is whats causing the quality of the discussions and debate on this forum. U will continue to be sick on NL

Pafuri, I did not receive your PM  

sexkillz:
[color=#000099]@Miss Potato, If you try that kind thing for Naija, Your parents fit no come ya Wedding oh! i have seen it happen!. . . Seriously Are most Parents Still living in the past? . . .[/color]

yes I know that but what can I do? They hate black while I love black so what do you expect me to do? Should I follow their orders and when both of them die, I will live a lifetime of misery?

Pafuri, Im so sacred to even go to the US. The reason its because I come from a very tiny island where everyone knows everyone. But I have a feeling that if I go there, it might be a better opportunity for my husband to be cause we tried alot of things here but people bring us down all the time. You know, recently I begged one of the company here to give my bf an industrial training for him to graduate for his degree level but because of certain friends and family, they sabotage us and in the end he was unable to get one.

It brought me down to a level that I almost given up but than I ask myself, would you choose love or would u choose to pl;ease other people for the rest of your life and I chose love so Im not giving up. I wanna fight untill the day they decided to hang me to my death. I dont care!  

Ok, I think I better stop before I cry even more

Pafuri:
I live in the US. Let me know how I can help. I dont know how to give you my private contact on this site. Any idea?

Huh? U serious? But are u originally Nigerian?

Do add me on your FB. My add is :-Xand send me a PM please. Thank you 

Pafuri:
Thanks, Ms. Potato. People here seem to be confusing knowledge with experience. Knowledge is acquired, experience is lived. Which means that knowledge could be at best misleading, and at worst false. Experience is real. I married a decent lady, but I was blinded by this decency and I did not realize that I was marrying into whole family of snakes until,  well, thank God I did not allow myself to be bitten. I must say that my ex was actually the only one out of 4 daughters, whose husband stood with her until I left her when the family, having destroyed all the other daughters' happiness, closed in on me. Guess that says a lot. BTW, how are you guys doing in Malaysia?

Im so sorry about what you have to go through with your wife and her family. I mean like common, When one marries, he/she must be submitted to each other. If Im going to support my parents and be against my husband, might as well I marry my parents. How selfsih can one be really?

Malaysia is getting harder by the day my dear. People here dont aprove of our love because of the color of his skin. Every single day if they can give us hell, they would. We have just finish recovered from a backstabbing dirty police act attacking our home causing us to be homneless. I dont know, by the looks of things and my family, we are planning to run away to another country. Im sorry to say this but I chose him over my family and my country!

LMAO! at topic!

But Mr T dont get angry when I touch his head now

Poster, because of 15 girls you dey claim women are like that abi? try date 500 more women and see for yourself and oh! If possible, try to date many different types of races and ethnicity from around the globe. You would be surprise!

Pafuri, I believe some parents in law are 4ucking selfish. Like my parents. They dont want to hear what I have to say about my bf. To them, as long as he is black, that means he is a confirm bad evil person to their eyes. But what they dont know is they themselves are evil

I forgotten to mention infidelity but come to think of it, Infidelity is also due to miscomunnication

olawalebab:
What do you think we can do to improve the situation.

Give birth to babies, nurture them to be good citizens and have good manners online and offline and than force them to join and post on NL everyday

And suddenly I was thinking, why is kandiikane not on the list considering she expresses love very well and also alot of guys love her very well here?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=706928.msg8666532#msg8666532 date=1310000106]LMAO@my 2 votes Spare me really!

Ms. Potato

A date with me would have you crossing teams. Ask Rokiatu. [/quote]2 votes? How did u get 2 votes? I want 2 votes too ooo!

Crossing teams? What do u mean?

I believe that every breakup is caused by 90% of miscommunication and 10% is due to other factors caused by third party or from selfish or greedy needs (family and friends disaproval, lethal sickness, transfered, death and so on)

Donlittle:
EFFF EL GUAPO, HE DOESNT LOVE YOU AS MUCH AS I DO

Ehen! Same thing naa. Only that yours is worst cause u get fiance. At least he only has a gf.

What he did? ^^^

[quote author=Mr. Globe link=topic=707172.msg8662042#msg8662042 date=1309955611]Vindicated. Mrs Potato dey there dey lie[/quote]Maybe its just her. As for me I object! I have never ask for a single cent from my father/bf/brother/unlce/mother/grandmother and so on since the day I was born!

Cuddlemii:
Intelligence as always. Every other thing is/can be instilled into that or derived from it.

My brother is very intelligent but his intelligence has made him be filled with stoopidity