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Xda59:This is such a tragic situation and my heart goes out to the mother and family. But the truth of the matter is that so many people think that swimming is easy and just about getting in the water and paddling around. It is not, if you don't know how to swim well, stay in the shallow end by the side of the pool where you can grab onto the edge or rails. Many people 'Think' they can swim, but water is not a thing to joke with. An example of how casual people are towards swimming can be seen during the Gulder Ultimate Search 'try out'. To my shock and horror many people when asked if they could swim said 'yes' if not for the lifeguards quite a few would have drowned (watch the clip here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLw2BZO2OLw The situation at the Resort is strange to say the least, but a few things point to the fact that none of the 3 could swim 'very well' or had experience or training in saving a drowning person. It is not as simple as just jumping in the pool and pulling the person out, a person panicking during drowning is a risk to the rescuers especially when they are not strong swimmers themselves and or trained in rescue. Having said that, please go and learn some basic swimming skills as you never know when you will need it, do not approach a body of water casually, drowning can happen so fast. R.I.P to the deceased. A longer clip from GUS where contestants deceive themselves they can swim- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XwVrY1Oaz30, |
sarang60:I loved it, Amazing Series! |
greatermeme:Have you applied for the Paystack/Lambda school Bootcamp? It's the maiden edition do pls join. |
OyiboOyibo:Oh wow, I don't live in Nigeria, I thought I could get it online, but Viki don't show it here. |
OyiboOyibo:i want to watch jumong, where can i watch it please? |
hi everyone, i've been watching korean dramas his year. just stumbled across this thread, very interesting. Who is watching Crowned Clown with Yeo Jin-goo ? |
Dantedasz:Lol! Silly little man! I'm not only sugabelly, i'm her mother, her sister, her friend and every woman out there!!! Men like you are always intimidated by strong women who win their rape cases. I'm sure your past does not bear scrutiny, hence the constant wish for women to NOT tell their story of rape and win. Don't worry, just check yourself because if you are found wanting I can assure you your past will be exposed soon. If not, you have nothing to worry about, relax! Meanwhile, Mustapha Audu, is a Rapist, put that in your tiny pipe and smoke it! |
Dantedasz:The Rape Apologist activities of men, just boggles my mind! All the mental gymnastics you will try and do to get out of being labeled a latent rapist! Tell me why Mustapha Audu does not want to clear his name! Someone calls you a Rapist all over the world and you are here talking what we do not know! If the incidence had happened in the US, im sure he would be charged for the Criminal offence, but as it happened in nigeria, im not sure the US court has jurisidction and if the police there can even institute a criminal proceeding against him, or if the statute of limitation has expired. One thing i do know is that he can never bring a case against her for defamation based on this same facts, so yes she won on that front and you should be sorry for yourself if you stand with him for withdrawing a case to clear his name! Sorry for her for what again The reasoning of some men boggles my mind, but No, my bad, why should i say that, im obviously speaking to a Rape Apologist! Chaiiiiii! And lest i forget, go and check your name on the list of the Rape Apologists she dropped on Twitter! I'm sure its there!!! |
TheMadame:Madam , you are not telling the truth if you say you told your parents everything you did and your kids told you everything they did, not possile ever, take it from me! lol, how naive you must be!!! And it's unfortunate you think that marriage is the be all and end all of a womans life . You dont even know if sugabelly is married or not! As for the wives of Mustapha and his gang, they are married to Rapists, quote me anywhere any day,they even admitted in the lawsuit that it had affected their lives themselves,or why do you think they spent over $70,000 on a lawsuit to clear their names if they are so comfortable in their lives being labeled Rapists? But Hey according to you, and as someone said on twitter, in Nigeria Reputation does not matter does it! Madam, anyone can get raped, either in your home , by armed robbers or even by husband or anyone, so stop being a Rape Apologist and lay the blame squarely where it belongs, at the feet of Rapist Mustapha Audu and his Rapist friends! I dont even blame his mother because i doubt she brought up her son to do so, so you blaming Sugabelly's mother is also ridiculous! Goodnight to you too Madam! |
Dantedasz:Can you read the Blog Post where she told the story of Mustapha Audu and his gang of Rapists? If you can still read it today, right this minute, then she has Won! Anyone of us can see him tomorrow and call him a "RAPIST" to his face and he can't do anything about it! Yes o, she has won!!! |
TheMadame:No, not because you are a woman, but because you are human being, who i'm sure at the time you were 17, you did many things your parents did not know about or sanction. I was in the university at 16 and my parents did not know half the things i did and neither did many of my classmates parents. Our parents would have fainted if they knew! So bringing up properly is neither here nor there. I just thank goodness we all lived and came out unscathed to become who we are today, some were not so lucky. Whether its a girl or boy, i know and so do you that many parents have no idea what their teenage kids are up to, not because they dont want to know, but because teenagers do hide lots from their parents. Maybe it was different for you age wise, but i find it strange that you would blame any parent for any of the above. Also we do not know the circumstances , if you dont believe everything she wrote about the rape, why do you believe everything she wrote about her curfew etc? "I am a mother and I repeat if a child becomes involved in a toxic environment,it is the duty of the mother to know and put an immediate stop to it except you are an incompetent mother." - How will you know if she doesnt want you to know, pray tell me? Sorry to burst your bubble, maybe your kids are still small, but once your kids reach a certain age, I can tell you for free that you may know just half of what they get up to and nothing more unless they decide to let you know, believe me or not. As parents , we can only hope and pray that they meet the right people along the way and not Rapists and Monsters like Mustapha Audu and his gang of rapists! |
TheMadame:Nigerian women like you can be exhausting, "I blame her mother"! That's all you have to say, ok! lets even leave sugabellys matter Im sure you have seen the case of ElizabethOchanya a 13 year old girl that died recently from being raped by her uncle and his son. Pray tell me, who do you blame in that case? Maybe you should also blame Mustapha Audu's Mother for bringing up a BAD SON WHO IS A RAPIST whilst you are at it! Kai women, we are our own worst enemies at times, why do i have time for this , this weekend ![]() |
Born2Breed:I totaly agree with you and they are scared their past misdeeds will come back, so they are so resistant to any lady winning her case against a man she claimed raped her in case it might be their turn next! Sad Rape Apologists everywhere! Go to twitter and see people deleting their tweets left and right, to late she screenshot them and is posting them for all to see what SCUM some so called MEN and WOMEN are! |
[quote author=Tedpgrass post=72473378]Agree with the chap above.. This was one-sided love turned very sour!! It does not excuse Mustapha taking advantage of the situation.. But let's call a spade a spade Let her come out with more evidence to set the records straight, if any... Come out where, on Social Media or in court? Since they have gone to court with it already, you are just looking for a Gist!!! Obviously they have both submitted all evidence to the Court/lawyers and his was found inadequate, hence his withdrawal. If he had it, i doubt anything in this earth or heaven would have stopped him from clearing his Title as Rapist, would you stop? We assume he spent about 70,000 US dollars and showed all the evidence he and his wife claimed they had to prove she was lying against him, so what happened to clearing his Good name, why is it now Sugabelly that must provide more evidence for us to beleive her side of the story? Why dont you insist he brings the evidence and clears his name? This child wrote this story for years as it was happening to her and you still want her to produce more information, na wa for you! If you aim to be fair, Put Mustapha Audu and his friends on the spot, tell THEM to CLEAR their names, Sugabelly has done her part by coming out and being consistent with her story, and yet we are still asking more of her after all she has gone through! This makes me believe that most men are latent RAPISTS and Rape Apologists and dont want to believe that after 10 years their sins can still come back to haunt them! Believe her or not, but she has done what most people cannot do, she has stuck to her story for 10 years, refused to be intimidated, has not backed down and is still calling them Rapists for the world to hear! She has FOUGHT THE BEAST AND WON! I say Kudos to her, she is braver than many of us can ever be, myself included! |
eniola1010:Read! Read!! Read !!! dont let that guy rope you into being a Rape Apologist like so many Nigerian men, unless you are one already! As they say "All dogs eat poo, its the ones we see it on their mouths we know of". Mustapha Audu got caught now every man is wondering if they will get caught for their past missdeeds too! It makes one think, what have our Father, Brothers, Husbands and male relations and friends been up to that we dont know about!!! The mind boggles, because everyone is claiming innocent now! |
abbey621:These links lead to an error page. Just give me the URL please. |
Apina:Lol Rape Apologists everywhere! You dont even begin to know what you are talking about! Even The Audu's tried to use the Anti Slap law as their excuse, you are just pulling this out of thin air! Chaiii, biko try harder, nothing like that exists in any part of the case file, ( Just interpreting nonsense as you go) go and read it and if it does, post it here for us to see. Whilst your at it you can Google Sugabelly's Law firms reputation, in case you think they came to play with ignorant people like you! Dumb and Dumber! |
abbey621:Really, you read the case file, where ?Give me the link so i can read it too. TIA. |
GidiWoodsMan:Well the courts saw through his selected leaking of emails that favoured him! In court, you dont select which emails to publish, you must show all! The ones he published were obviously one sided , but no judge in the states is that ignorant, so obviousy when both sides of the emails and whatever evidence she had came out , he knew the game was up . One thing we must give to Sugabelly, is that she has used her Blog as a diary or electronic journal which cannot be faked so her posts going all the way back make for very interesting reading on this matter. I wonder what her emails would have revealed that made him run away from a case he started! Impunity wont work everywhere, and so he has learnt! Lets see how this will unfold. |
TechCapon:Well her so called 'Attention Seeking' has cost Mustapha Audu the Title of "Rapist" and over 24 million naira ($70,000 - Seventy Thousand dollars) in an American Court of competent jurisdiction! So much for her being a 'Mumu' and a Liar! His Title shall always be "RAPIST", how about that? |
abbey621:Did you read the over 300 page case file? or you relied on just a few pages posted on twitter? or maybe you are not aware that cases are public in the US and anyone can find and read them? Dont be unecessarily obtuse, read the file. If someone called you a Rapist in Public and you had the chance to clear your name, and you had even started doing so, would you withdraw suddenly? He asked for her to Make a Public Appology and delete the blog post and her tweets, has she done so? Are we stupid or i'm missing something here? If you can't read the file , go and read her latest Blog Post, all the Tweets are there from Mustapha and his wife saying they had tons of proof to show she lied , ngwa where are they now when they need them or they didnt know this day would come? They wanted to intimidate the lady into silence with their money! Why drop the case? |
GidiWoodsMan:Read! Read!! Read!!! it will help! Stop pulling assumptions out of thin air. There are over 300 pages of a case filled for you to answer your questions , yet you chose to pull answers out of thin air! If she is Mentally unstable ,then a lot of people need to be too, because she is a brilliant writer! She may be traumatised by her experience, which is hardly the same thing! If she can write as brilliantly as she does and you can't even string a reasonable summary from what you read ie if you even read it, she is definitely more stable than a lot of people. And to quote you "She was young, impressionable and mentally unstable, she fell in with a crowd of older, more experienced hedonists and got played." If this is what we can expect from our Men, then God Help the young women of Nigeria because none of them are safe! |
Apina:Its very difficult for many people like you to read an over 300-400 page case file, we get it, but please, leave your glaring ignorance at the door! All you Rape appologists in Nigeria, Your Time Has Come! You even admit that a full grown adult engaged a child of 17 years old in BDSM, and you think thats ok? Yet Audu and his wife denied having anything to do with her, since you know so much tell us which is true?? A competent court in the USA found the plaintiff's case frivoulous and has no merit and awarded fees to the defendant (Sugabelly). USA is not Nigeria where they can use Power, Priviledge, Money and Stupidity to intimidate people into silence! Why was she victorious and awarded these fees, because the Plaintiff Audu withdrew his own case because he knew that his intimidation tactics could not work because she had too much evidence to prove her case! He withdrew at the point where the evidence was to be entered into the public record for all to see and judge him further. They did not settle anything out of court, Sugabelly called him a Rapist and she still maintains her story( check her blog and tweets, still there for all to see). He on the other hand has been labeled A Rapist for all time until he proves otherwise , which is obvious from the case he cannot despite his former aspertions he could. Who had evidence, Sugabelly! Who is to pay her Legal fees to the tune of Thirty five Thousand dollars ($35,000 over 12 million naira), Audu. (This does not include his own Lawyers Fees, which are most likely the same, so $70,000 in total) He's spent over 24 million naira on a case and withdrew without even clearing his name!!! Which innocent person does that ![]() Who won this case - Sugabelly! She is Vindicated in my mind and any right thinking persons mind! This is the summary of what you found it so hard to read and understand. |
mercyland93:The age Does not matter, even a Lecturer and undergraduate relationshp can get you into trouble, so can Employer/employee etc. Once it's deemed you are in a position of power, avoid such liasions, they can be seen as Sexual harrassment, and unless you are livng under a rock, that spells trouble now. Check out the case of Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby, Matt Lauer , even Roy Moore who just lost the elections due to allegations of impropriety with a minor, the list is endless. |
NwaAmaikpe:I'm sure you a) did not read the post properly, or b) Read it and still have no understanding of what it means! Racism is not mentioned here at all, rather the issue is sexual battery of a minor and or sexual harrasment of a student by a teacher, wether a minor or not. eg Lecturers harrassing girls in the university. Both concepts seem to be lost on nigerians judging by the silly comments here ! eg "he enjoyed it", he is human and one can enjoy something that is bad for you, that doesnt make it right. Givng a child beer and he acquires a liking for it and wants it, does not mean its the right thing to do and if you do it you should be arrested for endangering a minor etc. Please acquire some sense! |
Xsem:Gosh , its not about Money! Why is AMerica great today, its because they keep improving, keep pushing the frontiers, they are NEVER satisfied and keep looking for more. Go and watch "The men who built America", you may then understand why America is the way it is and Nigeria the way it is. You will also find the answer to your question! |
rosalieene:That's why the Team will collapse, none of them are working, so how does the team grow and the biz be sustained? If new members don't come in, or Sales are not being made, the biz is already Dead! Learn to Sell products and recruit, that's the live blood of any MLM |
rosalieene:Why would you promise them downlines? Don't you see that's where the problems start, everyone has their own network and if they can't find at least 2 people in all their acquaintances to join them, then the business is NOT for them. Learn to pre-qualify your prospects, if you ever decide to run an mlm business again. Don't be desperate for downlines. |
I've been a Network Marketing Professional for 6 years and here's My take on Network Marketing - its a great sustainable model if you obey and follow the rules and are willing and able to work hard and Consistently. Swiss Golden is a Cycler , which is not bad if all the Members are ready to work HARD! But as the Op said,tables hardly get 100% filled, so the danger of being left hanging is real(I did Ultimate Cycler, its almost the exact same format) - Tips on choosing an MLM Company - Any MLM that does not have a product is a Ponzi scheme. - Any MLM that asks people to bring money, whether you are asked to refer people or not is a Ponzi scheme. - If the only way to make money in an MLM is by referring people, think hard about joining, don't expect to be assisted. - Can YOU do it, and more importantly, can the people you refer do it, ie refer theirs? - If you are given products, what is your plan for selling them for a Profit? - Is your plan to refer two and do no more? - Plan to learn everything you can about the business, don't rely on anyone. - Are you thinking of becoming a Leader in the biz and growing your own Team, this should be your end goal if you really want to succeed in any MLM - For any MLM co to be sustainable there must be Multiple ways of making income within the opportunity, such as - Profit on product Sales - one time Commissions from Referrals - Monthly/Weekly Bonus - - Incentives like Cars - - Travels and other Items, - Personal Development/Business Training, - Free Products or other competition prizes. A reasonable earning structure from any of the first 3 mentioned should be obtainable. - Are you planning to use Social media for your business? think of doing so immediately, I live in another country and run my Network marketing biz in Nigeria via Social media, all the Clients you want are there, but you must do it right. Set up the right systems and you literally make money while you sleep without bothering family and friends. If you want to learn, Join my FREE biz group in my link. |
First off, your pimples are Acne, and look infected, so Stop touching them apart from Washing with a mild face wash. Second, If you can, see a dermatologist, you may need a long term course of antibiotics to treat the Acne from within, not just Topically. If you can avoid oily foods as much as possible like ground nuts, sugary foods too, eat more vegetables and drink lots of water, at least 8 glasses a day, stop Soft drinks. Two thinks I'll recommend if you can afford them are Aloe Face wash and Propolis Cream. These contain Aloe vera and Bee Propolis and will take care of the inflammation and heal the scars. If you need more guidance on how to live a Healtheir llifestyle for your Acne, get into My Healthy Living Support group on Facebook( its absolutely free) Click the link in my bio to get in touch |
Dc4life:I had that thought myself, but they also stated that they are now inseparable since being re united, so hopefully she won't reject baby somewhere down the line. I'm sure they are observing them carefully. |
emmykk:You only pay for FB ads at the end of a cycle, but its good to key in your card details so whenever the cycle is reached they will take their money from the card. Im not sure how your bank works but if you have online banking, you should be good to go. Mine is a Naira Master card. Never put your PIN anywhere online please!!! |

