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Compliance: Yourself like ese, you two are agents of the devil sent to pull down God's servants...we shall be waiting at the other end when the judgment of your evil deeds starts catching up with you...daughters of belial! I'm not a member of Coza...but we've heard about several ladies like you who go around in disguise of one thing or the other to gun down great men of God...watch out for the judgment reserved for Jezebeels like you. At other condemning nairalander, he that has no sin, let him cast the first stone.

Gosh, RELIGION IS TRULY THE OPIUM OF THE MASSES! some people have lost their minds!!

kunlesehan: why do women always kiss and tell?

Why should a pastor be kissing someone who is not his wife?? Please lets not loose sight of what the real issue is here! I'n the context of this your silly statement, the children who were Molested by Pastor Odulele should not have told what he did to them! Did you think before making the statement??

angelseddy: I believe ese walter's story n that of this lady even though they both sound very odd. I don't know y people regard pastors who are mere humans with so much fear and silly regard. Respect your pastor but fear God and read his word more.

What is odd about them? Go to a gathering of 10 ladies, if they want to open up, you will hear worse, or are you not a woman living in Nigeria ? Just student / lecturer gist is enough to create a pornographic film , talk less of these men in positions of power and influence! You are so right about people holding their Pastors in seemingly high regard!! Women please stop all this pretense, can't we be honest for once?? Why cover up what we know goes on every day? Can we not for once be our sisters keeper and stand in solidarity with these women? It is so disgusting seeing women mocking their fellow woman for something you know that almost every marginally attractive woman has been through in one form or the other!

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nora544: Read the story of pastor Dt Albert Odulele, what he makes, it happen in UK so he has to go to Jail, he will preach at the first of September in Lagos.

The court heard how Odulele, 47, initially denied any wrongdoing after he was arrested last summer by the Metropolitan Police’s Major Child Abuse Investigation Unit.

But he later admitted to police that he had been ‘battling’ with his sexuality for years. He denied the offences were pre-planned.

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I for one am glad that this has come to light because I believe that so many times, some of us hold leaders up high in an unhealthy way and never question what the the ‘man of God’ says. I have heard some of his messages and it is normally your typical doctrine revolving around prosperity, wealth transfer, self fulfillment, blessings, dominion now and everything else relating to the “What God has for you” doctrine.

Many Christians will be throwing out the ‘judge not’ line and will want to pretend that this stuff doesnt happen in Christendom but as Jesus said, you shall know the truth and the truth will set you free (John 8:32). Adversely, that means that if you dont know the truth (or chose not to) , then you will be kept in bondage. Hopefully this will help people to have their eyes opened and say goodbye to the untouchable preachers.

No problem, let him come and preach but I will see who in the " touch not my anointed" gang, that will send their children to see him in private! Stupid hypocrites ! As long as it happened to someone else abi? Nonsense!

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Nashville: I agree with everything you said except the fact that she was abused. Efe was used not abused. She was lied to, she was promised a relationship, Pastor's girlfriend, and later she found that all was a lie. She has a right to tell the whole world, but she was not abused. She herself admitted she wasnt. She willingly had consensual sex and probably thought of a relationship with pastor which never materialised. She was used and dumped but never abused.

Ahh we are now coming to what is defined as abuse abi? I still maintain that any person be it man or woman who solicits for an intimate relationship from a person in his or her care, by care I mean employee, student, step child, house help , member of congregation etc is in a position where he can influence the outcome of the relationship by virtue of Said Position/ office. having said that, if Ese's story is to be believed, and I beleive it, the good Pastor Planned the whole thing from the get go. That is intent on his part to conduct an affair with a member of his congregation and as far as I am concerned his Position as her Pastor greatly influenced her judgement. That is abuse of office and trust!.

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spicy v: Okay, so now you have the attention you desperately sought, what next?

Spicy v, this is not about attention, after all we are all anonymous on these forums, because we don't want any. Someone said that does the Pastor have to bear the brunt of every woman who has faced such immoral proposals?

That is not the point either, it's not about him per se, it's about taking back our right to Not being coerced to give in by people in a position of authority or respect!
It is wrong for a person who has been put in that capacity to infringe on the trust bestowed on him, he is ,in all respects a Teacher to our young ones, a moral custodian, to even the adults in the congregation. Granted Ese made some errors in judgement, but I saw nowhere in her story where she refered to herself as a Victim on the contrary she said she was riddled with guilt, and shame, but you know what ,she was abused, because the definition of abuse is not as you think force or rape as some people have defined it here. Even calling your child Stupid once a day, constitutes some form of abuse. Why ? because coming from you, it means a whole lot more than coming from a total stranger . what annoys me most about these religious issue's is the fact that the congregation are so ready to forgive the pastor but turn on the victims to cry foul, look at the case of Pstor Oduleye, if that had been in Nigeria, he would still be on the pulpit preaching and his victims branded as the Devils messengers, that needed deliverance! If not that it happened in London where such things are taken seriously!

This attitude we have of not exposing things , or would i saying accepting wrong doing from, wealthy people, has permeated all aspects of life in Nigeria, the other day we heard of Ogara people hosting a Birthday week for a convicted serving criminal! Even to the extent of the pastor telling the congregation to emulate the man! to do what, loot and steal the common wealth?? what is wrong with these pastors? Bode George, another case in point, from prison straight to church!
Who then should we look to for our Moral Guidance? Anyone who decides to take up that mantle should know he should live an exemplary life , beyond reproach, and not indulge himself in seamy love affairs with his church workers!

batstan: Buy garri make u share round and u'll get d needed solidarity.

Sorry iv already got it, look at my post, I asked for ten I have over 15 likes! we Nigerians are not as silly as you and your Pastors think!?

spicy v: Honey, so sorry to burst your bubbles, you won't get the attention you seek!

Spicy v, o yeah?? Watch the numbers rise! You think everyone is suffering from rabid psychedelic delusional schizophrenia like yourself? Many of us are sane and know the cure Nigeria needs for what ails it! Definitely not your hypocritical, immoral Deviant of a Pastor! He should be dragged kicking and screaming from that pulpit! What does he have to teach our children and youths , that immorality and adultery is ok? There is another lady that has come out with her story, what do you have to say about that? Many more are at this moment wondering if they should tell theirs too, I'm sure. Are you really a defender or a woman with a not too subtle crush??

spicy v: I am not a psychiatrist and so cannot give you any medical eveidence. However, I can tell a person is unstable through interactions with them.

I am being my sisters' keeper when I advise that she seeks professional help.

You need it more than she does because you have obviously become brain dead from the mass hysteria in that church! You seem to be a woman so it's maybe you are not very attractive , because if you ,as an even moderately attractive Nigerian woman have gone through life, from secondary school to university and working life without being propositioned immorally by a man who you respected and least expected such from , then I guess you may see her behavior as irrational and spiteful!

If any lady on this forum can honestly relate to what I'm talking about, please give my post a like! Even guys whose female friends or relations have been victims of sexual harassment in one way or another, please do so, lets show these Brain washed religious fanatics that Pastor Biodun's behavior is unacceptable and show solidarity for Ese!
If I don't get up to 10 likes I will rest my case and give up Totaly on Nigerians

sammyzacks: and you were a child of God, a church worker? how did you get the mind to do all that as a Christian with a pure heart.or were you sent by Satan to destroy the poor man of God?

Are you so blinded by religious fanaticism? What do you mean and she had the mind to do all those things?? What do you want her to have done? Succumb to the Pastor? Or beg him to give her another room. Instead of praising her for her presence of mind in doing what she did and making her escape you are castigating her!

What is happening to the so called chrsitians in nigeria is this religious brainwashing or what?? Again why do you not hear this kind of stupid comments from Rich people!? Because as Karl Marx so rightly said " Religion is the Opium of the masses"! The Nigerian masses have taken it up a Notch, they have become brain dead !!

coogar: she said it herself that she's been with dozens of men (in her own words).



he's not my pastor....
pastor biodun is not a serial räpist - the pröstitute said she consented to the sex they had. how's that rapë?

So in your self righteous mind that makes her a prostitute? Please can you tell us the score card of all the ladies in your family , from your mother to your sisters and daughters if you have them, how many men they have been with and if you will categorize them as prostitutes if the number is more than you think?

In trying to defend this shameless excuse for a human being called Pastor whatever, you allow yourself to indulge in hypocritical BS! Gosh!

Rossikk: A lot of what the guy says is wrong, such as that peoples' lives have not improved since the military, and that democracy has delivered no dividends etc etc. Typical shallow analysis by a person who's never lived in Nigeria, but is just a visitor who now thinks he knows everything.

Really? Ok please give us an analysis of what has improved, and I'm not talking about ikoyi, surulere, I'm talking about the lot of the masses!

spicy v: Obviously you have zero facts about the genesis of my post, so I'll ignore your rude request of silence from me.

Yes! I know her and I repeat, she is VERY disturbed.

Really?? Can you back your claim up with sound medical evidence?? She may be disturbed because of this disgusting debacle she is going through!
I am a Nigerian woman, and I can tell you that nothing here is new when it comes to the male of the Nigerian species! Father, husband , brother, distinguished gentlemen, Man of God, Pastor ! Priest , respected pillars of society , bosses etc etc the list is endless, we all have them as our loved ones abi? Yet we as women have to admit that our men are capable of this and more, no matter the title you put to them, so why all the horror and finger pointing at the lady?
If Nigerian women could bare their minds openly on a forum,on their experiences with men in positions of authority, or so called respectable pillars of society, it would read like a "how to guide"for Soddom and Gomorrah . Moral decadence in Nigeria is extremely wide spread, every day women are forced to make decisions between immorality and achieving their basic rights!
It's a choice, but sometimes a very difficult one to make for some who are faced with devastating odds.
Ladies stop the pretence, lets be our sisters keepers!

The Religious Stupidity in Nigeria is at an all time High! It boggles the mind!

Most of the posts here are condemning the lady for what she did but no one is talking about the pastors disgusting lack of moral control!

What is wrong with us in this country that we worship cheats and charlatans, be they Politicians or self styled Men Of God! Touch not my anointed my foot!

This man is a wolf in sheeps clothing and instead of dragging him down from the pulpit in shame and disgrace, some are castigating the lady for trying to ruin him!
What utter nonsense ! Whatever she did wrong, she is not claiming to have been molested in any way, she told it as it was, but from what I understand she is disgusted at the continued pretense and hypocrisy going on in that Church by that serial fornicator, or do you think it will end with her? Definitely not !

He has the audacity to tweet that ,him and his wife are in love, before nko?
What has that got to do with anything, does that stamp the seal of approval on his adulterous behavior because his wife decides to forgive him? Shameless man !

If you have not heard of The Anthony Weiner sexting scandal,google it, his wife too stood by him after he admitted to having online affairs with only 6-10 women! Online only oh!

Then some person here tells us that the atmosphere in the church this morning was electric! My dear, why won't it be, when the majority of the church goers are unrepentant sinners who are looking for validation for their sinful ways! " Ha if the Pastor can do it and God forgives him, why not me?? Yay! Iv been forgiven for last weeks sins, let me start a new chapter, till next Sunday"

Nigerians I marvel at your continued Religious Stupidity!

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I've found that many people on Nairaland claim they want to get involved in Online business, but when faced with an opportunity, they find it difficult to follow up.

I have offered to pay for someone to come into my team and that is more or less giving away hundred dollars to the person! I will narrate my experience with the post and I hope with time my volunteers will come and give their own experiences too.

After i put up the Post on Nairaland,three people out of all that looked at the advert replied and sent emails about a week ago.
Out of the three, two followed up and actually logged into my Facebook page to see what it was about, out of the two, only one has been consistently and actively making an effort to convince me he is worth paying for. (even though im deliberately giving him a hard time) .

My people, Talk is cheap, to make serious money on the Internet, you have to be

1: Online, a lot! With good Internet access.
2: Consistent
3: Adventurous and ready to take risks
4: Determined and Hardworking
5:Patient
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8:Last but not the least, ready to invest some money, no matter how small

I may have missed some things, but this is what comes to mind right now!

Making money is not easy, online or off, if you are serious and determined to do it , then there is lots of money to be made on the Internet and people are making it, why not you!

I've found that many people on Nairaland claim they want to get involved in Online business, but when faced with an opportunity, they find it difficult to follow up.

I have offered to pay for someone to come into my team and that is more or less giving away hundred dollars to the person! I will narrate my experience with the post and I hope with time my volunteers will come and give their own experiences too.

After i put up the Post on Nairaland,three people out of all that looked at the advert replied and sent emails about a week ago.
Out of the three, two followed up and actually logged into my Facebook page to see what it was about, out of the two, only one has been consistently and actively making an effort to convince me he is worth paying for. (even though im deliberately giving him a hard time) .

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2: Consistent
3: Adventurous and ready to take risks
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