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I like that you called her out with your full chest, take care of your mum, your direct siblings and be cordial with the rest.

Don't leave your inheritance for anyone even the smallest item because when you do they will start taking more and more, even if you don't need it let it be given to you and you can use it for whatever you like.

gabbytabby:
There is a chance you know the one that chose to wake the tiger in me in the Facebook message above her name is Tosin Mustapha an editor and publisher of Afro Heritage magazine out of New York City.

She graduated as a Microbiologist from the university of lagos so one would think that she should not be too hungry for a bunch of property in 9ja that is essentially 2 or 3 floors of face me I slap you.

Instead she is the ring leader and going mental.

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Hello whyna, how's the hair business in Vietnam? Can you please tell me about a good hair vendor that sells quality hair if you know any. Thanks.

WhyNa:
Guys enough already.

I believe y'all are here to get/seek important information or just be entertained by following the happenings and viewing pictures and stuff.

You've all made your point, give it a rest, don't derail the thread please.

It's not even about not wanting to learn but the kind of oppressive society we are in. You see all this "oga and madam" they still want to benefit from the old ways of doing thing plus the new ways.

I wanted to learn to make hair, just basic styles I had no plans of opening a salon, the woman told me the amount I will pay, plus groundnut, carton of malt,wine for her and campari for her husband. In the olden days you bring items to learn but not money, but she expects me to pay her, buy things for her and her husband and still as grown as I was I will be running errands.

So tell me how many people from poor families can actually afford this requirement?

Lol! I say no wahala. I've data. I learnt making hair through YouTube.

I agree with you, most time this oga's don't even settle the guys after many years of service, once they know it's almost time to settle them they will accuse them of theft.

Calitoscassius:
Sounds like normalised child labour and abuse to me. I can bet my left balls that most nigerian ignoramuses on here will disagree.










Oya! Start! with your dumb remarks.

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Xocan:
tell them to send it back. Don't use FedEx to ship even DHL, that how they rip pple with customs fee

They said I still have to pay the 45k plus shipping fee and insurance to send it back.

Yes I think so too. Do immigration increase a price of a package when the sending company from China said it was gotten at 18$ and they review it to 200$?

When I sent the letter FedEx sent to me to the company what they were really surprised.

How do you get 200$ from 18$?

No number on the custom website is even going through.

Hero2t:
That is FedEx way

Gjackzy:
How much is the total cost of the item ( item price + shipping )

18$ for the cost of item plus 44$ for shipping, the item was sent to me as a sample so I can purchase the product in the future.

And I paid the 18$ for the hair to be wigged but the hair is free, I was told that custom revalued the package and said it worth 200$

Hello everyone, so I bought some sample hair from Alibaba, the weight of the goods is 0.5kg and I paid 44$ for the shipping via FedEx and its been three weeks now, so I checked the tracking information and I saw clearance delay, texted the seller and she's telling me FedEx said custom duty is 45,000 naira. How's duty calculated that hairs not even upto 200k duty will be that amount?

So a woman's suppose to assist her husband financially when he's broke but man isn't allowed to assist his wife with chores

.... and we wonder why Africa is the anus of the world.

Solosolojohquay:
In Africa women are thought to be submissive is not about if the husband work or not a good wife can support the husband for some time till he is stable without outsiders knowing she is the breadwinner my uncle wife is the sole owner of their house it was part of her entitlement at work the money was being removed from her salary but my uncle still command and acted like the landlord and the wife still respect him

Hollup, hollup, you said you've been married for 20 years with a 22 years old child and your wife isn't up to 40 yet?!

That's what happens when you "catch them young"

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Men are logical beings? How come they're more men in jail for murder? After all you said men think of actions before they take it?

What about domestic violence? Rape? Stealing? Drug abuse? Banditry? Kidnapping? So you mean to tell me that a logical being decides to go into this vices after "logically'' thinking even though he knows how much it will hurt those around him?

Majority of the men that have killed their spouses, raped women especially minors always blames the devil when caught doesn't that throw the logical argument out of the window?

Your post is riddled with emotional garbage still you claim logical and its comical to see. You're in your 30's and still talk about eve eating an apple and using religious beliefs as a tool to oppress women tells me all I need to know.

Because your religion is popular doesn't make it true,some religions believe women are the creators and custodians.
Broaden your horizon.

Genevieve had both financial and moral support from her family, what does OP sister have? obviously they're poor and their only surviving parent doesn't even care.

Why even talk about Genevieve? Why don't you talk about the millions of single mothers in Nigeria struggling to get by without help from the government or family? Heck you nairalanders even take pleasure in demonizing them.

Imustnottalk:
Please don't allow them terminate the baby he/she may be a blessing child same way they told Genevieve then now she happy for now terminate the child I know it's rough now bet me every child will grow up

How old are you? Do you think life is a movie?


Did OP tell you he hasn't been working hard? I notice it men that are against abortion meanwhile it was a man that put her in that condition and it will still be you men that will mock her.


OP how far along is she? If she's under 12 weeks please let her abort the baby. child care in Nigeria is at an all time high and giving your financial situation you don't need that burden.

Nwagod26:
It is disheartening and I sincerely sympathize with you on this sad experience your family is facing.
First, show love,care and tenderness to your kid sister. She needs it more than anything else. Help her go through it all.
Secondly, do not abort that child. Hustle extra for both of them. Ignore your father and all who have ignored you.
Third, lodge your complaints at the traditional council, the police and every other relevant agency that you can get to. But do not allow any useless feminist or people of such politicize the matter.
Fourth, my dear go and hustle. Hustle legitimately and do not be ash to do odd jobs. Una no get money na e cos the useless man fit do the nonsense wey e do.
Fifth, face and persevere through the hard times with God as your back up. Take it personal to succeed.
If nothing is done to bring justice, do not push. Rather push back the tears, be there for your siblings and lead them unto greatness.
Finally, years later, succeed,ask of the man, carry out your justice. Bleep up no de sour.
My humble and candid opinion

Hopefully Nigerian women will learn from all the backlash Annie has gotten and stop rewarding adulterous men with prayers.

What a vomit inducing thread.

Cococandy you're so nice. Congratulations on the birth of your baby.

valjoy:
Hi,

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Hello, just $100 please, what's your rate?

Do you check out on Amazon?

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Abba Kyari a police officer became a tailor and debt collector in under a week! Wahala for who no get multiple sources of lies income.

When they can't defend the indefensible they result to personal attacks.

So many clowns and irresponsible humans in this country.

Have Nigeria ever tried and persecuted any of it's too police officer for any crime?

This so called super cup, did you know how many times his named popped up for gross misconduct, abuse of power, murder, stealing and false imprisonment over the years but it was swept under the carpet instead he was rewarded?

No Nigerian will tell me they don't know what the police force and every military and para-military do in this country.

We would have said yes let him be tried and persecuted here in Nigeria if found guilty but we know it WILL NEVER EVER happen.

So let him be sent to a country where justice will be served hopefully by the type he finishes his jail term in the US we would have good and responsible leaders that will try him for his crimes against humanity in Nigeria so he can spend the rest of his stupîd life in jail.

Return that child to the mother please.

He's too young to be in this mix before your girlfriend starts abusing him.