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iamL:
Is a simple case of jealousy and bitterness. When they can't take u down they start spreading lies and when it doesn't work Dem go wan mad.

Na their type dey poison neighbor. Tufiwa for dem!

Lizzyangel:
Hello everyone.
To God be the glory,schools resumed in Ondo state yesterday, I had to go back home on Sunday Evening to check if I can get Diye's uniforms and Kiishi's needs, the door is locked but I could find my way in through the exit door, resuming coupled with my current restlessness led to my tiredness and inability to update this last night.


I've searched round Ore looking for a room for my kids and I to live,as we're still living and being fed in a stranger's house for the past six days without a single call from folykaze to ask about his kid's welfare,(I guess it's a dream come through for him, victory at last!). So, I'm not comfortable living here, I don't like being a burden on others, though our host ain't complaining,but I shouldn't over-stay my welcome, they've really tried feeding, housing and clothing us for the past 6days, I pray that God almighty will continue to enrich their pockets and answer their prayers IJN.

The houses have been seeing are 1-2bedroom flats, which ranges 80-100k, I can't afford this cos whatever loan the school would be giving me, I'm to compulsorily pay back before the end of the term(3months) the minimum loan I was able to get is 50k,to be gradually deducted monthly, coupled with my kids tuition fees, my basic salary is 30k (extra lessons-exclusive)after the tax and compulsory savings reductions.


Restructuring may be hard and tasky ,but I'm surely moving on, if not for the urgency in my predicament, I'd have Done a thrift with my colleagues to enable me meet up my budget, but alas! I've been in a dilemma. I so much wish I could leave this my host's house before the end of this week.


This brings me to doing this again, I know many people will insult me again, and call me name, while few others that God will use will surely help us, for the sake of this innocent kids, please MAs/ Sirs, whatever God laid in your heart to help us with, it will go a long way in getting them an abode, their welfare is Paramount to me, right now I'm having the 50k loan gotten from school with me ,we'd be needing more for the rents, little consumables, foodstuffs, diapers and others,(I've got loan to repay monthly, salary may not be enough for now), no little amount from your side that will go un-appreciated ma/sir.

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I might not be able to reply mentions during the day cos, we ain't allowed to use phones in the classroom,but I'd definitely reply in the evening/@night.

I'd gladly accept every insult coming to me for begging for my kid's sake, I'm not going back,I've come this far, please HELP US!!!

FOLYKAZE:
With an heavy heart, I am sorry for coming back to you guys soliciting for fund for discharging my wife and new born baby from the hospital. It has been uneasy out there. I have tried selling some of my gadgets to raise money but people are unwilling to buy. And as we continue to stay back in the hospital, our bills pill up.

We are at University of Medical science Hospital (mother and child), had a baby through CS, and have been discharged since Saturday 27th July, but couldn't return home because we are yet to balance our bills.

The total bill excluding drugs, injections, and miscellaneous is ₦121,000. We've managed to pay ₦90,000, and left with balance of ₦31,000. At the moment, we are penniless and have no hope of getting the balance.

I have a mini laptop (Asus), TV (LG 26'inch) and mifi (zte universal). If you need any of these, I am willing to sell them. We would appreciate your support too. Thanks

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Ishilove:
This is not practicable when children are involved.

Lizzyangel:
I was advised here not to disclose whatever plans I have in mind to him, heaven knows I'm done with him, my purse kept me handicapped, to some extent, Ore is big enough for people to live seperately without seeing each other, houses here ain't costly too as my job is still intact,but he said I must leave this noon. I never had plans for the urgency.

Ginaz:
Abeg don’t mind them , that’s how they are . They will come and wail in self pity but won’t do anything to help themselves out of the situation. All they want is self pity and a pat on the back all the time .

They know the solution to their problems but have no mental strength to put an end to it . Let her stay with the wicked father of a man.. I tell you she won’t leave him. They rather die in excuses than moving ahead .

dobnina:
Were you reading my mind?
I don't want to be harsh but
I remember when she got pregnant for her second child, she came to naira land to beg, one lady asked her why she got pregnant again when she can barely feed. Lizzy opened her mouth to say Any woman that has one child is no different from a barren woman.
Nairalanders pitied her, contributed money for baby things and hospital things.
After some months, her husband opened a thread again and was begging for money.
He claimed his wife was in the hospital and no money to pay for hospital bills and hospital materials.
People pitied him and sent money to him.
Do you know that the husband had the guts to come back again to beg for money to feed his baby. He said his bike was stolen in his house and that was his only source of income.
Lizzy and her husband fit each other.
When she is ready to leave, she will leave but for now, she is only looking for excuses to beg for money.
I won't be surprised if she and her husband planned this.

Sanchez01:
Be kind. She teaches in a private school but we all know private schools are notorious for owing. Not sure most private schools can afford advance salaries when they can barely settle backlogs.

Lizzyangel:
Huunnn?? That's cruel!
But you know what? I don't give a damn about this statement, I've gone through worse comments even from the person I loved and almost died for, to some Nlanders like you, everything is about begging. In it?

pocohantas:
Very good memory you have o. I am familiar with Lizzy’s moniker. She is very calm, NL-wife-material standard. I am even surprised a man can be this mean to her.

You know he caught her young. The dynamics of relationships like hers is different. A part of her would owe him a lot, despite his bad sides. So if she moves front, she go still come back. She needs to stop listening to that part of her brain and leave. If he decides to come back for her, her family can now give him conditions. If not, she should move on with her life.

Let no one deceive her into thinking her next would be worse. That nonsense is reserved for women. I have never seen a man being told his next could be worse. They simply tell him there are millions of ladies out there that would respect and appreciate him. The choice is hers. I am sure she doesn’t even look 27 due to stress. She would look older than me that is 42.

Lizzyangel:
Thanks for the comments man, we live in Ore, Ondo-state, while my mum lives in Igangan, Ibarapa north LGA, Oyo state.

It's like 6-7hrs journey, how do I leave for her place right away, unplanned and broke?

pocohantas:
Nawa o. How you take know say na him?

Honor no dey their dictionary. It is Lizzy that should make a choice to leave (honorably). He wouldn’t change.



Someone did the same thing to his (2months old) wife and created a thread about it here. Everyone that told him he acted wrongly was called a simp or feminist. According to our NL alfa males, he has shown his wife who is the man of the house.

Welcome to UAR.

Ogbotobo77:
Let me reiterate . ...men can have sex detached and still love the wife at home....women on the other hand have to be emotionally invested to have sex..a woman that can have sex detached is labelled a HOE...she belongs to the street
Men are as faithful as their options...as a man progresses financially his pool of women also increase..cos women are hypergamous in nature and they chase the top 10% of men...now how do u expect a man to be faithful when the things that gives a man value takes years to achieve..while for a woman,she is born with value??

AmazonTopaz:
I know of two women who put their husbands through a master's degree and paid for it in Nigeria.I know of a man whom his own wife gave him the car she bought,the woman barely uses it but the husband done turn am to him own but will go outside and tell his friends he bought it.

If not for personal relationships with these women I won't even know this,that goes to show you how a lot of women are covering for their husbands so that they will still feel good about themselves and in charge because they were raised to believe that a man's worth is in what he can provide.

These urchins on nairaland's just want to yab women some of them were single handedly trained by their mothers but will come online to spill trash about Nigerian women even young girls are not left out oo they feed their boyfriends too but their boyfriends will come on nairaland to trash women.In universities some babes go use their money buy food items cook give their boyfriends make dem chop but they will not say anything unless tell their closed friends.When women come out to say all these things these urchins will tag her desperate as you claim and will say she isn't wise to respect her husband and she is hurting his ego ana authority in the home but it is okay for men to insult and undermine women like they are doing here on a daily basis

A lot of Nigerian couples are interdependent on each other especially with the state of the economy they divide the finances and responsibility it is only on nairaland that women depend on men and men are the sole providers

AmazonTopaz:
@bold,who told you women don't do all these things even in Nigeria it happens.If a woman announces it you will be the first to condemn her claiming that she is hurting her husband's ego.

A lot of women in Nigeria are feeding their husbands but are silent because they wanna feed his ego.Even you will condemn such man and claim his wife is the head of the home.

We know una nor be today Nigeria men get useless pride.

Jmarjr:
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