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How can the words "Women empowerment" get logical people so worked up?

You said it all!

I knew this post will trigger them but seeing some of the comments from this guys are just mind blowing.

Saintmary:
These neanderthals came to a thread meant for females to 'set us straight'.




Can you see it, dear woman?





They need you to stay ignorant, foolish, dependent, subservient, compliant and malleable.


They need your spirit to be a shapeless putty.



They need you to stay breakable, brittle, yielding, a willing doormat.





Osinachi Nwachukwu was their perfect woman.
May Edochie is their wife material.




They need you to be like them, and end up like them.


That is why they came to attack this thread.




The moment you realize that they are not on your side, that is the beginning of your emancipation.


Your mental, spiritual, financial and physical well-being is inconvenient for them.



Don't play yourself, use your brain.

cococandy:
May you be blessed with first husband title too. Amen

Toplap:
Some of them like that life.

Of course! What do we do? We leave them. Opportunities will be created for those who want better.

Toplap:
Mstick

The more women get empowered the less they settle for "bring garri make I bring soup" lifestyle.

Hello *waving aggressively*

As expected my thread was over run by the usual suspects trying to stifle,malign and abuse women. I know no woman on this forum is shocked, it's what they do it's who they are.

For years on this forum many women have been insulted out of here, blackmailed, bullied and abused till they left.

My series, yes I've decided to make it a series will be dedicated to uplifting Nigerian women.

This will be a safe space for women, you don't have to post your personal life stories here because we know the immatures will use it against you.

I will be posting resources that can be used to help women, post encouraging words, including posting job, uplift women, opportunities for WOMEN ONLY and please i encourage and plead with other women on this forum to do the same.

Nigerian women let's shut our eyes and ears to misogyny, there's no insult any man on this forum can throw at any woman here that has not been said over and over and over again, it old and tired.

Nigerian women must win ! Nigerian women are not useless! Nigerian women deserve the best.

My post is about Nigerian WOMEN, and I come here this morning to see "men" bickering, I am not surprised!

Toplap:
For real? This is the type of thing you are talking about in your main post about Nigerian men. No wonder the trader has many issues and is full of bile and bitterness,confirmed product of a broken home. His anger and bitterness should be at his father not nairaland women he doesn't know jack about

Yes his father left his perfect rich mother for a woman earning 50k a month, guess who he blames?.......the woman! Not his Randy father that left his wife with SEVEN children to go and start a new family.

He can change his moniker a hundred times but you will always know who he's. It's always "I am a rich alcohol dealer,ship on the sea, I met a rich girl, my mother's rich with 10 Mercedes Benz, my sisters have masters degree with 5 Mercedes Benz each but in all this Nigerian women are useless except my mom and sisters".

.......And with all this achievements your father still left your mother in the middle of the night with just a travelling bag to marry a fat woman without education, the man even prefers to stay in a single room apartment with his wife and four children than going home to your "perfect" mother.

SeaTrade:
I don't mind trolling ooo,it doesn't bother me like it use to.
I never trash talk anybody that didn't have it coming.If you make a funny case,I give a funny reply.
My mom is a Nigerian woman,she showed me the heights women(even without education) can get to without ranting and blaming society for their personal failures.
No noise or blame game,she just assessed her reality, put in the work for over 30years,changed the fortune of her family and lineage,reason her offsprings and the generation after will never see what she saw in a tiny little village in anambra during Biafra War.
I have no issues with women like her,infact I do sing their praises when I find them. They are always hard to find.
Take yourself for instance ,why are you here this morning trying to bicker me into submission on a fine morning like this when you should be out there doing things that will make you less dependent on the men you claim to hate their ways so much?Isn't this behaviour unwise to you?
Women like my mom won't have this time,she left the house latest 7am and focuses so much for the rest of the day.
But look at you,here,helpless,bickering with a guy that has life all figured?come on,you can do better.
It's always the worthless ones I give reality checks when I'm in the mood.
I'm replying you not cos I care,I'm home today,not doing anything,you are keeping me entertained since I ain't in the mood for a good whiskey,smoke and fruits.

We all woke up to the news that Yul Edochie married a second wife and I've seen numerous takes especially from Nigerian men about how it's within his rights to do so. Of course polygamy is not and has never been a crime in Africa but is that really what polygamy is? Does the first wife at least get a heads up in such a situation?

May Edochie said she found out on Monday that her husband got married on Sunday, that is pure and sheer wickedness. A woman spends 17 years of her life with you, gives you four children and I am sure she has contributed financially, morally and in other ways to build the home and Yul Edochie didn't even have the decency to tell this same woman about his plans.

Men always talk about how the women of this days aren't loyal like their mothers LOL! Things like this and more that women see everyday and you still expect loyalty?!

My advice to every married woman, engaged woman and women in general. You see that man you're doing struggle love with, have a backup plan my dear, I repeat don't TRUST THE LOYALTY OF A BROKE MAN. Get a job, save money, don't have children that you cannot comfortably take care of alone, surround yourself with your family, don't fight your family EVER because when shît hits the fan they're the ones that will protect and fight for you.

African women, Black women, Nigerian women please and please stop aiding struggle love, go out there and work for your own money, it's better you struggle alone, than carrying a baby on your back while wondering what you would cook when you get home.

Work for your own money, stop shrinking yourselves, if a man says he wouldn't marry you because you've a car or a house it's not a lose but a gain.

Yul Edochie impregnated his co-star,she gave birth in June last year and he denied it.married her on Sunday and his wife of 17 years found out on Monday and they're people supporting him. As a woman married to a Nigerian man please always have a backup plan. E get why.

All this men using Solomon and David as successful polygamists I hope you also have at least 5% of their wealth, you can't marry multiple wives and be expecting them to "bring something to the table" because I am 1000% sure Solomon's wives weren't working and David wasn't depending on his wives to bring the money to buy food items while he subscribes for DSTV.

Woman leaves abusive marriage: she's a LovePeddler, it's because the husband doesn't have money, she should have endured.
Woman dies in abusive marriage:why didn't she leave? It's her fault.

RIP Osinachi.

Are you ok? How did she cause her death? Did Chinelo pick up a gun and shoot herself?

Nigeria has no emergency number and she used the only medium she knows which is Twitter. She's a doctor and I am sure she saw the part of her body were the bullet penetrated that's why she asked for preyers.

Most of you're just pure evil. Pure evil.

You're right don't mind their barks.

This OP is a cheat, even cheated on his wife with a married mother of 3, I am sure he treats the woman badly and when he's down none of his women outside even helped him and he wants the same wife he cheats on to.

In marriage no woman except she's mentally ill will leave or treat a good husband bad.

AGurlnoname:
Lol... Is it only men that have problems here? Everytime my wife this, my girlfriend that, my sister that. Oga you're a lazy man for you to come online to say such things about your wife. Go and hustle more and stop complaining about your poor wife.

Mod: keep quoting me guys, lol. Check the validity of this story, all is cock and bull story for clickbits, another thread to say vile things about women again. This same handler loves degrading and body shame women but well is a platform, everyone can say shiii.

Lmao.... Nairaland men are so emotional , see quotes abeg

Hopefully your parents have other kids.

Old and tired PR, this will only be believed by dummies.

Since they can't accuse the prophetess of infidelity like the previous queens then they're accusing are mother of being wayward and her siblings.

I hope you palace people think through all the nonsense you guys are churning out because I know she wouldn't keep quiet and let you guys slander her family.

When I was pregnant with my first child, I heard our dogs barking non stop even when I asked the security to put them in a cage they were still restless and the barking got worse, I came out and I looked around nothing, but I noticed they were barking and looking towards the fence, I went there and a saw a striped cat, she looked at me with anger and I knew she was protecting something.

I backed away, waited till evening and I went back, true to my intuition she had kittens she just littered.

I gave birth not up to a week later and my baby was born healthy and strong and the cat was in my compound till her kittens where strong enough and they left on their own.

tempest01:
If I have not seen a scenario like this before, I would have doubted this and would have said stupid things about this. But crazy things happen.

In my own story it was cats. A pregnant lady staying in one of our flats said heard our dog crying and whimpering and she stepped outside to see some cats strategically position in the compound. This has never happened before and never happened afterwards.

She lost the baby few days after.

She was told repeatedly though to go stay with a praying congregation till she was due many times before this happened and she refused.

Those "strange birds" are geese and they were migrating That's the reason for their number.

At some point this religious folks need to start asking their leaders some questions.

Almost 30 years of marriage and your Mom doesn't know how to work around your dad?

Weird.

No we're not, you said women want men only for money, I said majority of Nigerian men are poor, I just want to know where this money you guys are always saying women want from you is.

Where's this money?

Majority of Nigerian marriages/relationship is built on hope, one day one day e go better. Not even up to 10% make it.

Black men always talking about money, amongst other races of men black men are the poorest.

Nigerian men always talking about money, amongst other countries Nigeria has the largest number of poor people.

So pray tell where is this money you clowns are always yapping about?

Ooni is the problem, three women divorcing him with all his money and fame? Come on this man is a walking red flag and so many women are in that palace waiting for him to claim them.

Imagine announcing your divorce on the 23rd of December.

Na was oh, she said the other "side attractions" wasn't the issue so I wonder what happened. At this point he is the problem.

Common he has been married to his agemate, an older woman and a younger woman still he couldn't keep any.

He called your dad a simp? Please copy and paste this your post on romance and sexuality section am sure he will see it.

How many married women have you spoken to before coming to the conclusion that married women deny their husband sex?

You want to bam ba? You want to chill with the big boys, oya telly me who blend you!

Where's is musiwa? I once had a clash with him and this guy nearly mapped me to Oblivion.

After the party:

Romance section:
How I banged 10 girls at the Akwaibom Xmas party.

OP if you've too much time and money please go spend your Xmas at the orphanage.

So funny and cute. This was really nice to watch.

Even if you wear the type of hajia Lizzy wedding rings, be 9 months pregnant, be with your husband they don't care.

It's only online they say don't chase married women, in reality? As a married woman it's even better you take off your ring because even young guys will ask you out, older men nko? Those ones their shame is already dead.

Even the "expensive committed' ones will chyke you when you turn them down they will remember that they've a wife that's prettier than you.

Hayee:
the truth pain dis one
Toor
Nigerian men are cheap and can do anything for pussy

If they commit or not does not change the fact
If you like don't commit shey you be God
Or has your commitment made Nigeria any better