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Let me quickly put on my mtn phone... Just maybe I will be lucky too.

Originalsly:
Hmmm.... it depends. With Op's mindset you can never be just friends with the opposite sex. You have a hidden agenda and is faking friendship to get what you want. If at this stage of life you do not have real friends of the opposite sex.... with absolutely no strings attached.... then you are still at kindergarten level in the school of life.

I agree with you 100%

Op is both right and wrong.

Do not generalize. There are people who cannot do without eating 5 times a day and there are others who can do without eating twice. We are not all the same. You may wish to use data camparatives to buttress ur facts. For example, 95% of the guys cannot keep female friends without going an extra mile.

agriboom:
Ok it's official, I no like dis person

Following...

Arise001:
U mean African women? They are overly lazy, especially in doing physical exercises that will keep them fresh and young. Thru should take a cue from their foreign counterpart


Please map out a time table for African women from this list :
5.30am - Wake the family for morning devotion
6.30am - Prepare the kids for school along with lunch box for husband and kids , while the husband watch morning news
7.30am - The kids are off to school and husband to work
8.00am - Woman at work
4.00pm.- go to school pick the kids by wc ever means take them to the office while they wait to you close work for the day
6.00pm- Home to bath the kids from school, help them do their assignments and straight to the kitchen for dinner
8.00pm.- dinner
9.00pm- News which oga must watch while you are battling to stay awake
10.00pm.- Night devotion and straight to bed. Shower and prepare to service oga's conjugal rights.
11.30pm or morning you are sleeping already and close to the alarm clock for the next 5.30am.

It is a pity. I must assist her. These is way too much.

tintingz:
Naturally, women look more mature faster than men that's why it is advisable for men to marry a very much younger woman as wife. I know girls who I know am very much older than them but physically they look very much mature especially the chubby ones.

Secondly, It is child birth.. Many Nigerian women don't do exercise after child birth, they get fat and this make them look older than their husband.

Talking about house chores I don't think that's a reason for women looking older than their husband, some women have maids who work for them.

Men too go out to work some men even work at home and isn't working like the house chores another form of exercise?

The main reason is lack of exercise, obesity.

#iConcur

Merry Xmas y'all

cosmicrayboi:
sheey u don dey chop her food since? see ur head! and i sure say u like am.. u no dey go marry ha family, just d gal.. mayb wat u saw was der own definition to cleanliness, marry ha and teach her ur own way of cleanliness

Your statements make me think. Let me tell you something, if such a lady lives in that house and cannot put things right because say na family house, then she might do worse in your house, should she be ur wife. If her parents or her family is not clean, no one will scold her for being dirty. She has time for face and body makeup, she can even do make up for the food she gives the guy, yet lazy to do make for the kitchen stuffs.

I pity some people who have not been there before. Wise up and see the end from the beginning please.

You can't do this to your precious future. She lies? OK, find out more reasons why she refused to take you home. But if am to dwell on you post, I would make serious judgement to let her go. I mean, why would a lady form yet she is a mess. Why must you look good on the outside, and your inside is dirty. That's pretence and am very certain you can't live with that forever.

I see fire. Guy, can you see it too?

I don't know why you need ur friend's consent on this. All I will advise you do, provided you want to keep ur friend, is to bring in a mature person your friend respect so much. That is if u really want to go that far.

However, she should not decide for you who you are to marry. She no ready, she wan keep the guy waiting and keep you waiting too ni? Maybe she needed something that look like a 'space', and expect the guy to just 'kneel down' with two knees down to beg her to be ready.

In my opinion, you may have to lose one of them. Your friend or the guy. To damn her and go for him, you may lose her friendship, and you may wish to keep her and lose him. Your pick.

Both opportunities are rare. But be warned, she will come to Nairaland and post a topic... My best friend snatched my ex boyfriend.

martyns303:
Kneeling down to apologize to ur woman doesn't make u less a man. Don't mind all these 20yr old boys that are just developing testosterone. "Big boys", I have seen guys who represent the definition of that word in every sense apologize to their women. If as a guy you haven't seen a woman worth going the extra mile for, Then you are still growing up. Cos their comes a point in a man's life when you just have to let go of the player thing and love someone for real.

The problem is most women tend to go for the guys who are still playing.

You spoke well. But it is not pride either to man up and say in words reasons why she shouldn't leave you. Must you kneel down to show humility? No! By the way, it takes pride for a woman to demand u kneel to beg her before she accepts to walk with you. It is kinda childish if you ask me.

I repeat, no woman is indispensable. Reactions are borne out of actions. The good begets the good, and the bad, the bad!

CaroLyner:
all these guys above me .will they ever admit they were kneeling down and begging her.everyone be forming macho man

I knelt and beg a woman only when I was a kid. Why beg her when better ladies are craving for affection and attention. Grown-ups don't do that. Kids do.

I love pets, especially dogs (whether for keep or for eat, lol). But to love a thing or an animal more than my wife or kids or family, fa fa foul!

The dog is as bad-mannered as her master. Beating up a pregnant woman because of a dog is a no-no! He deserve to be jailed, with the animal, in a zoo cage!

Absord!

The progressives came together in the spirit of vengeance. The immediate past government also saw these coming, hence the tough fight for retainment of powers. However as it was, president buhari won and trust me, a lot of holes were to be dugged. No government is perfect, if another political party wins presidential come 2019, Buhari's administration may also be dugged for curroption and probed just like it is at present.

Team #notsurprised

Error of some foreign orders!

Witches? Lipsealed! Did I just comment? Comment withdrawn

Cool, but I really think there should be a balance. As much as the ladies must observe these points, most guys must also bear in mind the fact that carelessness should not be an option when it comes to serious relationship and sex.

Do not have sex her until you are sure she is not using you. Most ladies do this. My piece of cake.

MissSlimbody:
I no know who slim pass between me and this babe sef

She slim pass you lol

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Pls help me design a logo. Thanks sir

Have you proposed to her yet? Oya do if you never do o lol. I like ladies who give unconditionally. For me I want to suggest that should it be a must to reciprocate, look out for a great surprise, no matter how small. Ladies appreciates gestures a lot. Words and actions goes a long way together

If you can't keep that child, do not do what may get you pregnant. Risky. OP thanks

Kingsasian:
I can't live with someone I don't love so I prefer no.1. I know how to tame a woman with a bad character

Just a few question. For how long into eternity would you continue to tame a woman with a bad character? 10 years in the marriage? 25? 30? 50?

For how long would u live with a beautiful loving and caring woman you don't love? How long? If it take you more than 21days living with such yet no sign of you loving her, then you may have to check yourself.

My dear, you can live to grow for a good wife, but may die taming a woman with a bad character.

For me, I will go for the first. Love is powerful.

beware of scammers... Just wondering why u want to swap such a fone for an older type... U have failed to mention its fault, or ur reason.

Suspecting a foul play. Once bitten, twice shy. Twice a victim, forever a fool!

TechsNG:
Go and test out the battery on the infinix hot note x551 running android 5.1 lollipop and you'd be impressed. Watching YouTube videos non-stop from 12AM to 6AM still leaves you with over 40% battery.

Infinix hot note running android 5.1 lollipop? The last I checked, it was running on 4.4.2 kitkat. Or do we have one with a higher operating system? Curious.

Platnum1:
Wow. For u to even consider another man I think u shld cancel d wedding cos your fiance deserves a better woman. No offense but it's d plain truth.

meaning the OP is a disgrace to the innocent man. The husband to be indeed deserves someone 'better'.

OP, whenever there is an issue between my fiancee and I, all she does is to look for every possible means to settle the matter if she notice I am wasting time in doing so. Thats how to be the woman, and not the girl who waits to have a rosy affair or relationship on a platter of gold.

By the way, how could you be discussing whatever transpired between u and ur fiance with other male friends or people. Thats immaturity of the 'graviest' extent. You are suppose to protect ur privacy no matter what.
Wake up dear, u r lighting fire around the fuelled circle while in the middle. It will catch up and consume u if u dont snap out of that ill dream of urs.

2goodbobo:
You are distracted by the other guy that is why. Hence, the reason why anything your boyfriend does, do not excite you anymore.
What happens if you refuse to marry your boyfriend and go on with the new guy then after another five years you become tired of him?
will you dump him and go for another? between what makes you feel he is better than your boyfriend? The devil you know is better than
the angel you don't. Slap yourself out of that illusion you are having else you might end up having an egg on your face with this new guy.

in addition, miss OP said she is in her mid 20s. And so? U want to wait another 5yrs? Ok no problem, menopause is real sha.

My dear, be sincere to yourself. You are the one excommunicating ur hubby2be, because one fine boy wey get look like heavenly cloud don show with deceit tongue. Mostly in some marriages, we have issues like that which may last for more than 6months but by endurance, trust and reconcilations, the marriage continues. Thats the beauty of courtship. It helps to teach u how to stay with ur man whether in th rainy, stormy or windy periods. The distractor is a test of faith. U fall, he is gone, in fact u may lose both guys to marry menopause.

Pidggin:
Are u a farmer?

hahahahahahaha... I tire o!

@OP, what is your qualification and what is his? When did you join the labour market and when did he? When did you gain employment to work in that farm, and when did he? What did you apply for and what did he? What is in ur terms of reference on ur appointment letter and what are his?

That you sit with management to suggest what they approve eventually, does not mean you are a manager or doing most of the job. The mouth is as important as the eyes, yet the eyes appears before the mouth on the face. The manager may have had some professional qualifications on his area of specialisation, which you are yet to have, which of course placed you where you are.

Check your character, check your temper, check your behaviour. If it gets obvious, you may lose your job. And mind you ur body language depicts one with a daggar to murder or the desire that the 'Manager' be eliminated so you take his position.

Others say you are arrogant and prideful but I advise you, GROW UP SON!

#wait4yourTIME

how does this work

There is no boundary to emotions. And yes, of course. Is she not human?