₦airaland Forum

Koleman:
and yet everyday we come here to scream. Fulani and boko Haram. we are worse than them

squanta:
Think before you act. Whats 1-1 goalless draw? Is 1-1 goalless?

olakrim:
Salam! pls,no one should bother saying I should end the relationship cos I have decided to take her as my wife after much considerations..........not after being with her for 4yrs+

Actually my girlfriend is igbo/Christian while am yoruba/Muslim and we have decided to leave it as it is except that our children will practice Islam which is my own religion....I would love her to convert though but I know Islam is about free will,so I will just wait for Allah to touch her while she is in my house.

Now this is where I need your advice.....
We are actually planning to get married soon and its going to be traditional and court wedding as agreed,but I don't know how I am going to balance the religion aspect at the traditional wedding since the whole thing will take place in the east. Brothers and sister,how do I stay within the tenets of Islam and at the same time not make my in-laws feel encroached? What does Islam state relating to this kind of situation? ADVICE

hollermeelaycon:
I see u r already a judge concerning wt Allah has clearly stated in the Qur'an. Pls kindly refer to surah Al-Maidah ayat 5 n also ayat 48 wch i post below
We have sent down the Book to you with the truth, fulfilling [the predictions] revealed in the previous scriptures and determining what is true therein, and as a guardian over it.. Judge, therefore, between them by what God has revealed, and do not follow their vain desires turning away from the truth that has come to you. To every one of you We have ordained a law and a way, and had God so willed, He would have made you all a single community, but He did not so will, in order that He might try you by what He has given you. Vie, then, with one another in doing good works; to God you shall all return; then He will make clear to you about what you have been disputing.
Seek more knowledge on dis issue n refrain from condemning d idea

MsNas:
Lmao. Look at this unsightly porcupine asking me if I'm sane? Lmao. It's you and your generations who are insane. Yea, I am a Muslim, a right thinking one at that. Who says a person can judge my level of Islam? Lmao. I know your type. Holier than thou, while commiting atrocities in the confines of their darkened room.

Even if I was unmarried, I can't marry a slow thinking penguin like you, so You're doomed Anyways. Yes. I stand by my words. I am not trying to please anybody from any religion. I have my own voice. Just because I'm a Muslim, I should cover the excesses of some Muslims like you? Please, go back to bed. You think you've seen a weak ass female to rain on her parade on NL right? Lmbo. I'm done with you. Bye Chewbacca.

MsNas:
[size=40pt]Gosh! Muslims are the most hypocritical and judgmental people I've ever met.[/size] No wonder!! See grown men telling him he's walking to destruction and they pity his life and his children? Basically cursing him, his wife to be and his unborn children? How does Islam reflect on your life then? Because the man chose to marry a Christian woman? Y'all that married Muslim women, how are you sure of Al-Janah?? Smh.

OP, please go ahead and marry your wife Abeg. Since she's agreed to let your children practice Islam when they're born. But make sure to always teach them the Islamic way, take them to prayers and even enroll them in madrasah. Pray for your wife, but don't force her to follow you to the mosque. Congratulations on your impending marriage. May it be full of happiness.

babs01:
U can only apply sharia law to any muslim nd nt non-believers. Ese is free of sharia if im nt mistaken.

HaroldFinch:
a vote? that will not happen, I can assure you. Islamic law is not being practiced for political reasons in SA. its a way of life. I can agree that the Islamic criminal law in Saudi Is a bit up in its strict application form what it used to be traditionally, but it'll never descend to the lawless societies you yearn for, where individualism has caused us all ruins, were gay rights have become tool to oppress religious institutions, where morality is preached at beer parlours and strip clubs.

AlanSugar:
And this is coming from a pastor? Whatever happened to "pray for thy enemies", "love thy neighbour as thyself", and so on? Mr yellow said ese's mom knew about their illicit love affair, he just took it to the next level thinking it'll be alright and did as his religion permitted him to, only for the mother to now come and be "forming"! Why didn't she stop it when it just got started? Abeg enough of this story already until we know the truth about what actually happened.

Angelberry:
They were lovers

olakrim:
Salam! pls,no one should bother saying I should end the relationship cos I have decided to take her as my wife after much considerations..........not after being with her for 4yrs+

Actually my girlfriend is igbo/Christian while am yoruba/Muslim and we have decided to leave it as it is except that our children will practice Islam which is my own religion....I would love her to convert though but I know Islam is about free will,so I will just wait for Allah to touch her while she is in my house.

Now this is where I need your advice.....
We are actually planning to get married soon and its going to be traditional and court wedding as agreed,but I don't know how I am going to balance the religion aspect at the traditional wedding since the whole thing will take place in the east. Brothers and sister,how do I stay within the tenets of Islam and at the same time not make my in-laws feel encroached? What does Islam state relating to this kind of situation? ADVICE

hollermeelaycon:
Ma Sha Allah yah Akhi
Surah Al-maidah
Today, all good things have been made lawful to you. The food of the People of the Book is lawful to you, and your food is lawful to them. The chaste believing women and the chaste women of the people who were given the book before you, are lawful to you, provided that you give them their dowers, and marry them, neither committing fornication nor taking them as mistresses. The deeds of anyone who rejects the faith will come to nothing, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
Pls lets always try n understand all teachings concerning an issue fairly.
We only need to make this brother understand how to make his home berra, no mata d situation if we clearly follow d Sunnah we will av all course to b thankfull
I still stand on d ground dt diz bruvah is on halal path n he shud forge ahead in halal manner too.

MsNas:
Gosh! Muslims are the most hypocritical and judgmental people I've ever met. No wonder!! See grown men telling him he's walking to destruction and they pity his life and his children? Basically cursing him, his wife to be and his unborn children? How does Islam reflect on your life then? Because the man chose to marry a Christian woman? Y'all that married Muslim women, how are you sure of Al-Janah?? Smh.

OP, please go ahead and marry your wife Abeg. Since she's agreed to let your children practice Islam when they're born. But make sure to always teach them the Islamic way, take them to prayers and even enroll them in madrasah. Pray for your wife, but don't force her to follow you to the mosque. Congratulations on your impending marriage. May it be full of happiness.

MsNas:
Uncle, did I mention your name?Please, don't come for me unless I send for you.
The bolded part of your sentence is what got me annoyed in the first place. Like, are you serious? Islam my Islam. Because your marriage or relationship to a christian failed means all other cross-religious marriage like that is doomed? You are in dire need or education. I'm sure you're one of those people that I will refuse to mention. This is why they call use fanatics. I'm done with you.

silent10:
Fixed

hollermeelaycon:
I disagree wif u on this brother, Islam never forbids it nor cursed it like most pple on dis forum r doing. It is permitted lets juz pray for dem, lets make people see d beauty of Islam n nt d imperfection in its followers.

Wit al dis u r making it seem as if dey r hated n mind u dey r very regarded in Islam.

If d Qur'an n hadith allows it who r we to say d contrary

lahit14:
To ansa ur question, it wouldn't bring back d dead but it could atleast help somone recosider thr decision to drive undr the influence. Bearing in mind dat ur recklessness can send u to prison.

back2sender:
She was drunk when she hit the doctor. At last thank God for this judgement, this was been swept under the carpet during GeJ times because naa her sister.
Good judgement let her go and keep getting drunk in kirikiri.

olakrim:
Salam! pls,no one should bother saying I should end the relationship cos I have decided to take her as my wife after much considerations..........not after being with her for 4yrs+

Actually my girlfriend is igbo/Christian while am yoruba/Muslim and we have decided to leave it as it is except that our children will practice Islam which is my own religion....I would love her to convert though but I know Islam is about free will,so I will just wait for Allah to touch her while she is in my house.

Now this is where I need your advice.....
We are actually planning to get married soon and its going to be traditional and court wedding as agreed,but I don't know how I am going to balance the religion aspect at the traditional wedding since the whole thing will take place in the east. Brothers and sister,how do I stay within the tenets of Islam and at the same time not make my in-laws feel encroached? What does Islam state relating to this kind of situation? ADVICE

MsNas:
Gosh! Muslims are the most hypocritical and judgmental people I've ever met. No wonder!! See grown men telling him he's walking to destruction and they pity his life and his children? Basically cursing him, his wife to be and his unborn children? How does Islam reflect on your life then? Because the man chose to marry a Christian woman? Y'all that married Muslim women, how are you sure of Al-Janah?? Smh.

OP, please go ahead and marry your wife Abeg. Since she's agreed to let your children practice Islam when they're born. But make sure to always teach them the Islamic way, take them to prayers and even enroll them in madrasah. Pray for your wife, but don't force her to follow you to the mosque. Congratulations on your impending marriage. May it be full of happiness.

hardbody:
Ban alcohol? It is scientifically confirmed that your body system needs a certain level of alcohol in your blood stream. Do you outlaw food because it constipates some people? That's like using a mallet to kill a fly

klax:
Very unfortunate I really felt for her a lot but the sentence could have be reduced little to maybe 2 and half years full term I did not say this because she is a celebrity not at all as a matter of fact I don't even know her but the accident might not be her total fault or possibly some wrong signal or red light bleep up somewhere I guess.

Sorry lady really sorry I can understand how you felt. In Nigeria I trusted no judgement as such simply because horrible things are happening behind the curtain as I always said if you don't belong to the *clan* or refused anything from the *clan* you may be in soup for a minor offense my word may sound funny but that is where I belong I knew how the game is being played all the time day and night 365 days a year.

Don't know what to say in as much I don't support recklessness driving and killing but this lady might be a victim I bet it.

campusflavour:
I feel for her, its just an accident, na why hit and run full everywhere

Decrown94:
Relocation finally approved...it unbelievable...

dragnet:
I wasn't expecting a better reply, I'm not disappointed.

dragnet:
That's such a lame argument, Electromagnetic waves falls when it rains from the sky right? even a 2 year old should know better.

EBUBS:
Due to the high cost of data/internet in Nigeria, Nigerians are getting so used to the habit of looking for short-cut/awoof, mostly among the students. Inasmuch as using these cheats has advantages, their disadvantages counts more.
1. ITS STEALING: Stealing is defined as the illegal act of taking another person's property without that person's freely-given consent. the truth can be bitter you know but it must be told(lol). That someone is a thief is not only when he carries a gun, illegal means of acquiring services from providers is also stealing.
2. KILLS TIME: since its free you would want to use it really well, at least before the network blocks the cheat (nawao). You've done allot, only to realize that you've not even used up to a gig, (omoh). you then start looking for unimportant and irrelevant things to do online to make sure you use it to the fullest,meanwhile there are important tasks ahead of you. This will eventually lead to more and more procrastination.
3. SLEEPLESS NIGHTS: As per unlimited things you didn't pay for na, you then try to download all the (irrelevant) games and movies you need so badly, but the network disconnects at times so you need to stay awake to make sure you connect back. you then check the time only to realize its 4am (lol) and you either work or lectures to attend to by 7am. (Na only serious coffee go save you). The funniest part is that you'll repeat same things the next day since the internet is faster at night.
4. PORN ADDICTION: You told yourself that you never visit that porn site anymore, but then remebered that you have a veery fast and free internet at you reach. You then tell yourself just one clip, from one you end up spending hours watching porn (how you go take stop). addiction continues since the na awoof internet.
5. A SIN: Exodus 20:15 says ;"You shall not steal". If you think its not a sin when you use cheats tell me how.
The truth is so bitter.....

LoJ:
Hello Benodic,

I am one of those that admire many of your posts, and was among the first one to commend your financial advices. Since my previous comment may have pushed many to embrace the system presented in your whatsapp seminars, I felt I have a moral obligation to air my views on the topic. This is just my opinion, and everyone should be free to follow his or her own intuition.

Money is in my opinion not an end in life, but a mean to the end, and the manner in which we acquire the money matters.

Multi level marketing (or MLM) is in my opinion incorrect and contrary to Justice and love. Yes it can turn some few into milionnaires, but is doomed to make many more loose their initial investment. Therefore, at some point some will definitely get rich from defrauding others.
The fundamental problem with MLM programs, no matter the low investment and high return on investment they suggest, is what is called the Ponzi Scheme.

http://www.investopedia.com/terms/p/ponzischeme.asp
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ponzi_scheme

For instance, when in a MLM Program Each person is asked to recruit at 3 other people in other for the process to continue, we will get :
- One person
- 3^1 = 3 people
- 3^2 = 9 people
- ...
- 3^21 = 10,460,353,203

It can be seen easily that already at the 21th level, for the system to perpetuate it would require more than 10 billion people which is far more than the whole population of the earth. It means that, even if the whole world would suscribe to any particular MLM program, it would still not suffice for any one to get promised results.

That’s why MLM programs of any kind are morally wrong. They are mathematically impossible to sustain, and will necessarily at some level defraud the last batch of people, which are the majority. It is therefore in my sensing morally and even legally in some countries (like in Europe) unjust to enrich oneself that way. Only those at the very top, or who joined early enough, collect a lot of money from the misfortune and gullibility of others.

I repeat again, My intend is not to bash anyone. People should be free to do whatever they want to do with their money. But let it be clear that I do not commend a program that will necessarily defraud people’s money, even if it is a low as 1k. Anyone can do his own research and come to his own conclusions.

Cheerful greetings.

titi4fola:
Use your sense, are you a kid? Dress well and not to expose any part of your body when next you're visiting, be very sure your friend(his wife) is around. Place a call to her before leaving ur home, and limit your visiting to their house. Are u working in the same organisation with her hubby or shopping at the same time? How come you bump into him at different places?
Try as much to cut out any form of familiarity with the guy.
Abeg stay in your house if you truly love your friend. Lobatan!!!

Stupedinluv:
But what if she asks me why i stopped coming over? We are so close. Apart from her house, i bump into her husband at different places sometimes.