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Mariangeles:
I nukwa there's nothing Christian about marriage?

Kobo is a junkie...

Mariangeles:
He seems more like a commander-in-chief than a husband.
Ebere m e mere nwunye ya.

Commander-in-chief... finish him..lmao

He is dishing advise na..UNFILTERED..

Acidosis:



How's my oga, Munzy

your curiousity...sha..

Mariangeles:
Your wife go don hear nwiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!

I made it easier for others to read. You're welcome.

Smh...Somebody dished out advise, una want change am for him...Which one is nwiiiiii

He stated guidelines married women should observe...Especially the part a woman shouldn't get involved in convo...If not invited...And the food aspect..I mean our mothers understand these things perfectly.

But we are in a woke generation sha God help us.

Mariangeles:
Stop misrepresenting Christianity.

Onye ahu eji hu ahu...I am surprised people still quote him/her.

Angela62:
I am married for about a decade now, and I am enjoying my marriage. Honestly, if the worse happens and I became a widow, I will not marry any other man, I will train my kids alone. That is how much I love my husband and cherish my marriage. Since childhood, I have always been close to my grandmother, I grew up with her since my mum died when I was a child. I learned a lot from her. I can still remember the advice she gave to me when I wanted to marry my husband, and I will tell you exactly that.

1. Look at the qualities and characters of the man you want to marry. Most ''shine shine'' men, as my grandma will put it are not the real men. `Just as sugar is sweet but unhealthy, lots of men are like that. That bricklayer that sends his mum money in the village every month, that doesn't go to a club, doesn't smoke and buy expensive designers, he might not even give you butterflies, those are the real men. Ten years from now when you are pregnant with your third child, his masculinity will be like an umbrella to protect, provide and be the best father for your kids.

But you see those ones that are doing fine boys only, care more about the phone they use and the girl they sleep with this weekend than their future, those you must avoid. They may be attractive now, but when the difficulties of marriage come especially financially, then you realize that truly, internal beauty (characters and virtues) is what keeps marriage. So do not sacrifice the future due to your youthful exuberance.

2. Look at his patterns, those are the secrets to his future and of course, your future. Does he wakes up and go to work every day? What is the relationship he has with his family? How does he handle stress? is he hardworking? Do people around him respect him? Where does he go after work? What is your assessment of his friends? `What are his goals? etc. You might be clouded with feelings with this assessment especially when you are in love, so you might ask people you trust for advice. I saw this thread some few years ago by pansophist, where he wrote about qualities you should look for in a man for marriage, I implore you to check it out. The guy is on point. As I read through it, I kept nodding my head in affirmation because my husband easily covered all these qualities.

https://www.nairaland.com/6257463/part-two-traits-woman-should

Also when I first met my husband, I wasn't that interested. He appears so ordinary (if you know what I mean), but as I scratch further, the depth of his manliness opens up. I was not attracted at first, but everything fell into place, and I was glad I didn't just brush him away. But I couldn't see his qualities quickly, it was my grandma that pointed it all out. So you should really have someone older, that have walked the talk of marriage, to advise and guide you.

3. Support him. Men are at their best when their wive are supportive. For example, my husband never asks me about my income, but every of my penny goes to my household. The idea that a man has to carry all the financial responsibilities is a self-defeating adventure. Such a woman punishes herself due to her short-sightedness and selfishness by reducing her worth in his eyes, making her easily replaceable.

Wow!

I have come to realize, ladies trained by grannies make good wife/mothers...

It is as if they were handed over the baton of home management from those grannies..

Another set of ladies that do well in this marriage institution are those who have done house helping to some of these big Ogas..Infact they easily marry faster than Oga's proud and arrogant daughters.

Your Advise is super...

Whiteangel1234:
We have decide to play National politics just like in 2015 nah

Lmao...you are not nice..

Whiteangel1234:
Seems finally Ndi Igbo have hijacked APC party

In 2015 Ndi Igbo voted for Our South South Brother they accuse us of being emotional and not sophisticated

Fast forward to 2022 we decide to play National politics and adopt Ahmad Lawan , they accuse us of being selfish

Wetin Igbo man do for this 9ja ?

Big congrats to him...A time to unify the country..

garfield1:
Fergie001, this will not fly.I saw this coming.tinubu will humiliate buhari

Go and sit down!

It is turn of the south east or North east..

Tinubu from south west is greed...After OBJ 8years and Osibanjo VP 8years..

Come to equity with clean hands..

Garfield quit sycophant life style it never pays.

Mariangeles:
April.

Wow...Ndi otu last born anyi..

April born.

I have come to notice April born are blessed with money luck/grace ...My deep thoughts sha.
Try check from your side..Let me see if the research is working..

Judging from my bro, and some other money guys I know..ma obi ma nwa nga ya chief priest.

And some close friend Born in April.

Mariangeles:
Mpa m wu Aries.

Serious...March ka o wu April?

Kwara has got a handful of very intelligent and ambitious ladies...Talking from exposure and experience.

Some situation can change ones perceptions about life.

Mariangeles:
I told I didn't like going to catechism, much less block rosary, gi na a juoha'm ma m so na umu Mary?
A si ulo fada gbara oku, gi na a ju ma o gbakwara ahu-onu ya.
Thankfully, my dad didn't enforce it.

Mpa m so na ndi CMO, while my mum so na ndi CWO.

I'm not a member of CE o, I just like some of their teachings.

I wu half Catholic

Your Dad must be a calm man.

Oooh! I thought you do attend.

Astrokid911:
Hmmmm, I no dey always comment o Sha today I go post.

I'm 5 ft 9,( ajebutter barrack boy) fair and since from small na him Dem dey call me fine boy. Well to cut the long story short, I met a girl in school. She stays not too far from my apartment, so we became friends, after weeks we started dating, not too long I was introduced to her younger sister.

Although no sparks at first, we were always together as she became my friend, I broke up with the elder sister months after dating not because of the younger sis o but because our differences was too much.

A year later, the younger sis and I grew so fond of each other so I asked her out, she rejected but accepted one day. I got confronted by the elder sis Sha. I pleaded with her not to stop our affairs she agreed, but now omoh the girl no one see me for eyes she dey vex with the younger sis anyhow I don't know what's happening she wouldn't even greet me and now she's trying her best to keep us apart.

What should I do?

You want to eat your cake and have it...

This works, if you and the younger sister are matured and it is a straight to marriage thing...If not, na your grave you dey dig slowly...

olaboy33:
That's Gbenga Daniel, Atiku's last campaign manager.

He quitted PDP after Atiku's loss saying he was leaving partisan politics.

Today, he is an APC senatorial candidate in Ogun state.

trust issues.

Franky70:
It might end up being
Amaechi president
Lawan for Vice!

You want to shock an entire tribe abii...

In all this permutations, let us all know that north has just 1 candidate come next year..

That alone is a serious +++

Mariangeles:
Ginwa murula ihe ojoo ke-mgbe I nu na nwata.

Onye aghirigha!



No, I didn't.

Lmao...I knew things I am supposed to know na...

Y didn't you?

You left For CE?

Mariangeles:
There was nothing on it that I couldn't show anyone if I wanted to.

Reading through it again, I just felt embarrassed that someone else read them, ihere e megbuo m.
It was funny.

You will read and analyse it countable times, to know if you jonse some where


Na I can confirm your shyness status bar..

O si ihere emegbuola ya... ..Next time I know your will be extremely careful. Lol

Mariangeles:
7 whole years? I kwesiri I wu Reverend father.

kuku finish me..lol

Me that was groomed to be a daddy..

My parents used the alter boy to capture and curtail my stubbornness...Mine was extreme in the little boy days...And their plans worked..So I learnt a way of curtailing the boy child in the Catholic way.

Ya wuru nwa m nwaanyi, Ma kporo ya gawa Mary league girls..

Did you join Mary league girls?

Mariangeles:
As I was begging him not to, he quoted one with a laughing emoji.



It was more of my thoughts, inspirations and ideas, so it was more like barging into my thoughts without my permission.

Ihe ndi di ka gini?

Lol....He read and digest everything..

O ga na achi gi ochi...

Some ideas can sound funny or make one see you like a baby with dreams even though an Adult.

Ihe ndi di ka private issues i na achohu onye o wula hu, unless ma i gwara onye ahu

Mariangeles:
Our center then was mirror of justice.


So, you were even an altar boy? Wow!



I like sweet sweet things.

I remember back then, you have to be present in the Christmas carols, or you don't get to share in the gifts at the end of it. Or you get less.

Yes. Catholics are the same everywhere.
Even in Mexico.

Lol...ours was Mother of God...We won a lot of trophies in the Quiz competitions then..It made us popular..And ndi brother will always want to Identify with us.

Yea From my primary6 till ss3..7 good years...Deeply rooted and grounded in Catholic doctrine sha..And I am enjoying the blessings even though bad boy life took over.

I left when my mom started a programme in the Uni, so I can fix house chores while she is busy till I got admission outside my state and left.

In Igbo I likiri ihe uto..

Christmas season is pure fun..Our Block rosary
president then, we usually go to his house to watch movie..During the days of VHS..
Anyi lewe film, ya ru romantic scene, ya si anyi fuwa outside.. Like as if we don't know what will happen... Me I will start laughing because I laugh a lot, ha bia si amuru m ihe ojoor osiso..lol

Even the two great footballers are Catholic..Very dominant church...Really one.

Mariangeles:
I didn't even need to wait for him to type anything.
Immediately I saw the double blue ticks, m yowa ya si ya a gukwala ha, ya a gwa'm si ya a guchala ha.

The Innocent in the begging lol...Ezigbo ya agukwala ha.. As if if ya wuru gi, i ga ahu agu ya.

But wait, they write ups were mainly Ideas and events you recorded as diary abii?
Ka onwere ihe ndi di añaa i dere ebe ahu

uchaymart:
Successful cultists

What a description

Mindlog:
Yes, it was strong back then in Lagos. I recall when visiting the other centre (Queen of Peace) that was about 5 streets away from our own centre (Seat of Wisdom) , we the kids would be on a single file according to our heights and march to the other centre reciting the rosary, we were a spectacle likewise the other centre, when they come visiting our centre.


Beautiful childhood memories.

The orderliness and coordination a typical catch them young in the Catholic setting.

Wow In my Crib here, we had Seat of Wisdom and Queen of peace centres as well..

Wonderful memories...The bible quiz competitions as well...

From block rosary I moved to Mass serving..As the first boy to in my centre, other boys followed..

Automatically I became a star boy from stubborn boy back then ..

Arysexy:


Somebody should check Tinubu BP per minute

Tinubu on your wallet we stand

On his wallet ke..

Mariangeles:
I was like

And he didn't type anything to you? Like how far.

Ya wuru m, I will try reconnecting i ji mee ka ighota na aguru m ihe n'ile

Mariangeles:
Hehehehehehehehehehe

I liked Block Rosary only during Christmas seasons because then we only held short prayers, then we'd go on congress, visiting each member's house day after day, singing and beating drums, then the parents would give us gifts (like drinks, biscuits, candles, cash...)

At the end of it, the brothers will then share everything among us.

Onye nri...

Block rosary dey sweet during Christmas sha...Christmas carols and end of the year party that follows..

So these things happen in Lagos as well...I thought it was mainly a south east thing..Catholic is one..