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guobe:
okay that may be another angle,but why wish yourself an ailment like that to redeploy,just asking.

It is awlays a redeployment strategy and not a wish.

guobe:
for you to get married to a woman that does not go the kitchen is not easy,it takes a strong mindset,can this our present guys accept that.

It takes maturity, understanding and genuine love, to be in such union...It is a sacrifice worth it if she is worth it.

guobe:
I was interacting with a corper serving in my office of recent and she told me she was asthmatic and she usually have crisis sometimes and will need to redeploy to be closer to her Doctor managing her.I felt sober hearing this and thoughts came in to my mind like why is this happening to this young vibrant girl.will she ever be able to get married,will a guy accept an asthmatic girl as a wife,how will she cope if she eventually gets married.Thoughts thoughts thought.This is a glare case of this life is just not balance.credit uyimarshal@yahoo.com

First of all asthma is a trick used by nysc guys to redeploy.

Lastly, many asthma patients are married...My former boss wife is...She has rules she follows in the house..Doesn't near kitchen to fry any thing plus other things that can trigger her.

Not everyone working for them knew this...In a discussion, she revealed to I and a friend.

WillyWonda1:
https://www.nairaland.com/6983980/gave-boss-shocker-life


Sequel to my previous post about my boss and I.
It was a dramatic day for me yesterday. While everyone was enjoying Valentine's day celebration, I was summoned to a panel to explain my reasons for having to yell at my superior at work and not reporting to HR just like everyone has been suggesting on the comment section.
So I honoured the panel while a member of the board of directors was invited to hear from both parties.
My boss was emphasizing on the fact that I don't do the duties assigned to me, which is a BIG FAT LIE. Basically, he didn't have any cogent reason for his negative actions towards me. It was just pure hatred. I was then asked to talk, then I told the panel that since I was posted to his department, I've been getting negative vibes from him for no reason. I endured the whole hatred for 2 years and 3months under him without any retaliation.
Luckily, the MD had been briefed about the whole thing.
Now, i need you all to understand that I have a personal relationship with the MD.
So while the panel was ongoing, the MD called on zoom and interfered in the meeting. After hearing from both of us, he gladly ordered that my now EX BOSS be transferred to our portharcourt branch while someone else takes over with immediate effect.
Before I decided to yell at him, I had already made up my mind for whatever the outcome would be cos I had been pushed to the wall. Then the promotion even worsened the whole issue to the point that he couldn't hold the hatred other than to show it to me.
During pep talk this morning, y'all needed to see the look on his face. It was obvious he wanted me out, but to God be the glory, reverse is the case.

The MD later called me personally to admonish me about taking laws into my hands. I apologized and the whole thing ended.

I'm sorry for the long talk, but that's how it all played out.
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. God bless us all.

Don't laws into your hands...If there are laid down rules, follow it...And over react when nothing changed after...

Even though I am of the unconventional humans, Some times I observe the rules and regulations to trap my game fully before striking...

The whole thing is a lesson....And neve oppress a junior in future endeavour.

Iyaebe:
I took the pics down,but I saw you viewing before taking them down. I asked for some reasons but it's OK.

I didn't see..Was rationing my time between here and Instagram before sleep.

Just love your self and be bold enough to embrace your physique...ones you are comfortable being who you are...Then, you no problem as a human..


Keeping it natural is best

Iyaebe:
My slim or thick stature, which is the best?respond fast so I can take the pics down

I didn't see any...

WWhether slim or thick, being very confident and comfortable with your body is the best for me.

Though slim with the feminine features in shape is bae for my kind of woman..

Iyaebe:
Sorry I got an answer to what I wanted to ask.lol thanks and no vex

Smh..this girl sef...You give the vibe of a pampered only girl...

Iyaebe:
mu.nzy14 come here,I want your view. I know say you are matured. Respond to this mention and I will show you what I want to ask about

Here..

Kobojunkie:
Your response makes no sense!

K

Kobojunkie:
Yes, Catholism is a cult.

That's your problem...It equally explained your personality the more.

Mariangeles:
Gini ka I choro ka’m kwuo na?
Okwu gbasara Naijiria gworo mmadu ike.

Lol...sometimes I want to imagine you speak the way you right....Especially hear your Igbo...

Mercychen:
I can only do it for my hubby. Not some boyfriend or intending husband.

At least you accepted you can do it for a man...That is fine..

Initially you sounded like it is a taboo....Of course the best is reserved for your hubby....Some treats are for the married.

Kobojunkie:
This Catholic cult is insane!
ROFLMAO

Catholic cult?

Smh..

DREAMZZZ:
This one na Afonja obi cubana

You guys are extra here...

Show off na fake stuffs...

Genuine stuffs are private and when you see it, you go know..

Mercychen:
Akikor 21st century.

Mercy..smh you are just stubborn...you are who you are sha..

But talking from a male angle, ones in a while spoil your man...We men pride in it when we chill over cold beer and grilled fish..

Is not by force sha...And no be joke, some ladies here the spoil their men shege....And they get triple in return..A man is a giver...He will awlays want to give back..

Jmichael1:
love and religion nah major scam 4 nigeria...
there's notin lyk love in my dictionary....

Lol...smh

MufasaLion:
Rightly put!

So you didn't want to end up on Nairaland front page in case you were beaten to pulp?

Taaa...them no reach...people that were sucking mama breast when men were men..

I don't rush is mine..

Mariangeles:
Hahahahahahahahahaha

Kwuo nu naaa

Mariangeles:
Motherhood looks so beautiful on her.

By igba nwa ntakiri otor n'ihu umu uwa

Parents are mixing vital issues with SM

Mariangeles:
There seem to be some gloomy clouds that almost permanently hover over Nigeria’s atmosphere.

Prophetes Mariangeles, tell us what you saw?

Jmichael1:
nah make i no wn even fall inlove...

You are yet to be wise...


How will you tell your youthful stories without falling in love?

My brother fall, make them break am jaree so you go wise up to select your own wife o

Mercychen:
A woman will offer to take you out and you'll accept?
SHAME!

What is shame there? Nawa o...easy easy.

I will and heaven will not fall...I will still find a way to keep my ego intact.

And before a woman can do this, either she is just a longterm friend, or a babe wey we don dey knack tey tey(lover, wife or fwb).

Na new catch a man wants to impress, he will be forming dangote for.

Babe don tell me to pack my luggages for a getaway bills on her, I laughed, She was serious...before she could say Jack I paid for reservation and she saw to food and drinks plus others. Nothing to be shame about, If a woman wants to spoil me, and I wanted to, I will go.

Money is sweet after all...And no one has monopoly of making and spending it.

MufasaLion:
The man shouldn't have slapped her irrespective of whatever! I detest any human that easily go violent.

Well, it ain't my business.

Every human have the tendency to go violent...na when them never press your button ...But not for this...It doesn't worth it at all..

An ex decided to pepper me with lovy-dovy video of her new man yesterday... Wetin I never see for this life tire...I realized from our chat, na her side niggar, so when break up came up, the second option became available.. I told her she is being a woman and one in her peak..she flared up..


Some ladies are funny..Anyway I warned make I no see mystery lady come dey enter my wife dm anytime I don settle down...Because na that one go press my button...And I go knack wetin no good...

I dey respect myself nowadays...make i no go match wetin them keep for another person..

Fight a woman no worth am....And fighting for her comes with an option...

Your wife
Your mom
Your sister.

A woman is like a palm tree standing along the village pathway...When the fruit ripe, e go dey fall small small, until one person will harvest it and that is it...The harvester here is her husband...Any man wey go the man house, the find trouble..

If them never harvest am, anyone wey pick, the on the right path..

Now, this mumu man the fight man wey pick ripe fruit..

A sure babe invited me to her place yesterday, I codedly disembark...Such movement the kill man easily..Anything wey want happen, can happen Some other time.

Rastaramsey:
Swears
Make the money
My stupid uncle wey never cum see me before cum dey disturb me say make I give am time say he won show for my lounge......

Some uncles sef

Typical.

Iliveforever:
Ehyaa maybe no one showed him this kind of love while growing up

it is not maybe...Actually no one did...Street is military...no joy.

PlayMaker14:
After he don piss for body scatter from Orilé to Ikorodu, the Iragbiji born cocaine lover wan come out for President....

If he is the chosen one, we can't do anything...I mean anything...

PlayMaker14:
You mean that Baba Agbalagba wen dey piss for body?


*Spits

Una go finish bobo chicago...

Yankeeboy02:
I just want to share my story to the world.
When I graduated, I was so blessed that I didn’t hurt for job, before I got one. I was working in the bank and was paid well, within a year I rented an apartment and got married, things was falling in place and I felt on top of the world before I started gambling, how I started it, I can’t explain. I lost all my resources and money within two years, I was sacked eventually and life became worst for me.
I got another job and promised my wife, family and kids to be a responsible father, but the urge for gambling keep coming, I couldn’t control the urge, I lost the job again.
My wife believed am a good man, but I see myself like am cursed and it is not that am getting money from the gambling.
I am sick and tired of life, I am a failure, sometimes I feel like committing suicide, I have brought shame to my family and kids.
Please I need help, am jobless, money can’t stay in my hand, I will go to gambling shop and lavish it.
Am I cursed, I need help

You got a job, within 1year you run go marry? Who the give una this audacity abeg?

When failed to plan, just plan to fail...

Nothing concern you with marriage within the time frame...you needed to work for 3yrs plus before rushing..

Na the marriage put you under pressure to become greedy and start looking of money that wi ll come like "Ike Pentecost ".. You even rushed to child bearing on top bank work people dey reject nowadays...suit packaging and free AC...

You are in a deep mess man...You bought your way into poverty....Na grace of God go redeem you...

The wife you rushed to marry, if you can't provide for her, I hope you know she can leave? Anyway na now you will know if na your own woman you marry, abii na someone else.

PlayMaker14:



Who Valentine's day Epp?

Tinubu...

PlayMaker14:
Our reliable Obioma and Drug lover is in for a long ride.

Una don dey resurface one by one after Valentine..Under radar..