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apple30:
. Am not a romance movie freak ,I prefer suspense.. take it or leave it not every woman act like an average woman, few dnt ,if I dnt I believe some women out dere dnt ..it may be few tho..

Lol, but you like romance abii?

I am yet to meet a lady who doesn't like romance stuffs..

Mariangeles:
Kinda.

Really? I read it in that zodiac thing too, but I have this obsession of wanting someone to understand everything clearly when I teach anything, otherwise, I’d rather not do it.

I ji eme ka mpa m... if he is teaching, Gosh! He expects you to understand it all.

I find it awkward some people don't take that zodiac seriously.. That stuff is reality.

I get some saggs vibe from you, There are saggs vibe I don't get from you as well...I think upbringing and environmental factors can as well influence that...

I learnt sagg ladies don't care about relationship commitment until they reach a certain age, o wu eziokwu?

because i can say yes for one sagg I know back in uni days...Cynthia hehehe nothing freaks her..She bleeps who she want to and move.

Na sabi babe...Almost hook me but I ran...She is a pure sagg...Blunt, uncouth, always on the move, a loving heart, extremely generous, sex goddess

Mariangeles:
A ma’m gi?

Hehehe I am correct...

Nkuzi ga kwa e fit gi o...I nwere teacher's vibe..Could it be natural?

MufasaLion:
This your write-up would be better and interesting to read if you could have paragraphs, punctuation marks and correct the words you spelt wrongly.

Mufasa the erudite Professor..


Nobel laureate in English language Easy easy..

Mariangeles:
You don finish me!

Okwa a di m correct na the first statement?

obembet:
I believe we've heard it a million times but it bears repeating, even the strongest relationships face challenges

Building a happy, healthy partnership takes work and may not always be easy, especially when there’s been a breach of trust. “Issues are a part of life and a part of being in a relationship,” says clinical psychologist Stone Kraushaar. “ And the goal is to not fixate on the past, but work to create together in a meaningful way.”

Anytime trust is broken, there’s going to be a rift in the relationship. It might be painful to face, but leaving these issues unaddressed won’t help anyone in the long run.

So let me put to the intelligent Nairalanders,

What is the best way to spice up a dying relationship?

If it is a normal boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, ones there is a shift in interest from one partner, it is gone...You can't redirect it....Let it go..Who is for you, will never see a reason to leave.

If na married couples, they should start with gift and surprises....never underestimate what an unexpected credit alert can do..
Couples must spend, Infact lavish that small money on eachother ones in a while..Celebrate any little win..

Special days, make it memorable for eachother.

Give each other special treats ones in a while...

Go on dates...Take eachother out ones in a while on a budget...I mean will you die if you spend that money on yourselves? The answer is no...

Go on vacation or weekend getaway ones in a while..This one is special to me..This guarantees a space away from home, work and raising kids stress...It is like a couple on a honey moon.. .

Make and eat quality meal...Hungry person no dey get libido o

Lastly, have great and mind blowing sex life...This is very Important...But underrated...The sex is not food crew should hold it there...Sex is a food for the soul and body..A good sex.. with fantasies explored.

Early morning sex is bonding...Is great and binding for couples...Keeps them connected for the day even at work.

Naija couples make una the improve abeg, life is short...

Mariangeles:
I don’t watch much television, but when I do, it has to be something relaxing, entertaining, exciting, funny, educative…
It could be anything…even cartoons.

What I watch does not make me any less important than someone who chooses to watch CNN, BBC, Aljazeera all the time.

Them no dey use you check biko, I wu onye mummy.. you go even find banny and friends more interesting or Bob the builder, ma o wu sophia the first.. as kids love them..

That last statement no be wetin woke people want hear for here o...
But you are not suppose to change who you are because of some random opinion in faceless forum o...

You are entitled to relaxation, fun and happy moments.

Liyastitches:
From my point of view, it is because they are gullible most of the time,they tend to trust easily and overlook the hand writing on the wall.

It's also a test from God to know if your 'good heart' can stand the test of time, because good
attitude attract both good and bad, but never give up doing good, if those you are doing good to does not deserve it.

They make want a priority over need.

It happens to both male and female genders.

Mariangeles:
You know, it is funny how some people think what one watches determines how more “important” or “intelligent” they are than others.

It was his “change your circle” for me.
He should change his mindset rather.

Lol don't mind him, I don't have issues with my lady watching a movie, what I have issue is her allocating quality time to watching movie than other things...And i ma , ufodu ndi mmadu ma nwoke o ma nwaanyi can be soo lazy as long as there is comfort provided.

My roomate that year in school, He can glue his eye to mnet and forget lecture time. Ihe nke a ji afu m eeh..

Relaxation shouldn't be a job or hobby na..

Okwa ya chanjia a mindset na The way he mentioned my circle was funny...Like as if he know me very well...

I doubt if my circle watch movie sef...I better pass ndi nke ahu na i watch ihe ndi a na watch..

No be u talk say u be graphics designer designing flyers for 2 by 2 Pentecostal shops..

Na that u want use build house and marry.

The system is really getting at u plus the flyers.

Finish him...

A zombie is down...I repeat a zombie is down..

Bahamas95:
Lol. Nothing on earth would make me get married to an ugly wife, even if it's a spell it won't work on me. I am very selective when it comes to women.....I have never dated an ugly girl so there's no way I would get married to an ugly girl.

My current girlfriend is a paragon of beauty, whenever I'm down and I see her pretty face or hear her sweet voice my mood changes immediately.

:DYou no want rest....Handicapped babes go swear for you o.

It is cute having a beautiful woman though..But aside beauty, you will be needing other things in her...Your taste gets enhanced as you age with wisdom.

bluefilm:
Of course!!!

for sure...I thought you forgot the main thing.

apple30:
Dey r ladies dat dnt watch Zworld..tho 5 out of 100 dat shit is too slow particularly dere effect demn ,dat shit bore me off my mind

If you don't watch zee world, you watch something else similar

Even romantic movies on Netflix, na zee world pro max o

Mariangeles:

O le ihe tor ga gi ochi?

Senomi:
I dey talk of fresh girls wey resemble those instagram influencers

No be secondary school, market sellers, ugly yanshless,bressless, churchgoers, underage and dirty amaljiri or village girls............. no be these types

I mean virgin girls with a combination of kim and rihanna

We will give you clay and water to mold her..

MadeINchenzen2:


Only those born in the 70s, 80s and 90s can relate

Searching for crest...

Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

First of all at your age you lack self discipline for a man. and that is worrisome..I hope your relationship is a romantic one or is the usual charade?

To the girl in her 20, exactly the age they feel they can get any man with their hot body.. ...Can't you seat that little girl down and talk to her as man and not a boy.

Tell her to dress properly.

Senomi:
Everybody just dey find virgin,

It's easier to theif one million bitcoins than to catch one virgin(in naija)

Change this mindset bro...

Virgins plenty for this naija....

David160:
no introvert

Ok...That's cool..

Though choice of partner is usually best on who brings some qualities you lack..

A sort of complementing.

Bahamas95:
BEAUTY!

There're other features but I can't stand the sight of an ugly girl so it's a must for me.

I wanna wake up in the morning and smile because an angel is sleeping beside me.

Lol...

Reminds me of what one lady said some years ago..

She will marry a handsome guy, so that she will wake up look at his face and smile... To her it is a booster to work for more.... Some choices are cute and funny as well.

David160:
She has to be :

Cute
Introverted
Calm personality
Quiet
Intelligent
Smart
Kind

Are you an extrovert?

Angelfrost:
My wife doesn't watch that station...

Please, widen your circle.

My circle has no business with what their women watch to unwind...Everyone is entitled to happiness and a relax mind.

If your wife is not on zee world, maybe it could be African magic or similar...Go and check very well.

CSTRR:
Those clowns saying "tall".
Are they aware that 70% of the world's population is not tall?

So we wey dey rock 6ft plus make we begin shakara on top the 30% na..

bluefilm:
Intelligence: Book smart and Streetwise

And feminine...

GOFRONT:
She must know how to drink beer....

She must not be a Zee world addict.

You never ready for relationship be that na..


I am yet to meet a babe wey no like zee world...Zee world na romance stuffs...Women love things of the heart.

Prechgold1180:
As we nur inherit generational Wealth’s make generational curse nur follow us

Nothing like generational curse...work smart and work yourself out of poverty and move into success.

Poverty is a thing of the mind.

She is aging fast despite the money...Her mind is not at peace.. All this na charade..

Prechgold1180:
Dog get privilege pass human being but nah wah o

To think we all came down from heaven just to come to earth and fight to go to same heaven

Her grand is a former governor of lagos state Or So..

Do you gerrit?

Politics brings a generational wealth...That is why you see one man loot billions meant for everybody.

If you have 1billion in your acct, you can be spending 1millon every month, multiply it by 12months...You will leave 80years and above spending 1billion naira.

If you invest wisely, you being to double it...And that is what Otedola her Dad did.

These guys had solid foundation and inheritance..

Life no balance...Some are destined to gather from scratch.

If she has a daughter, I pity the unlucky guy that will marry her if she is like her mum.

The difference between this one and Shakarau is that she never begin carry gun...Fanatics and brainwashing...

To think she has members in her church/company, Some people are destined to be follow follow...zombie things..

Ikillbrokehoes:
I've experienced this with Naija girls not guys, I onced invited a girl to my apartment and this girl almost finished my foodstuffs, do you know this girl started coming to my apartment everyday? I had to look for ways to stop her from coming.

You invited her na...

iamyemiakins:
Men will always be men, not like the other gender wey no like themselves from the bottom of their hearts, na mouth the like end.

Lady: "Did you by any chance help me to see the pant I hanged in the bathroom earlier?"

Overstaying visitor (lady): What do you mean?! Do you mean I stole your pant?

Stay don end be that! E no dey tey dem

What a description of reality..

Another issue is, let her friend try and get friendly with you as her boyfriend, e don be for the visitor..

Women are unique people, na only God understand them.

FalseProphet1:
The problem with such visitors is that 98% of them are chronic womanizers, how can you be squatting with someone and still inconvenience him by turning the home he's housing you into a brothel?

I've had several experiences especially during my schooling days, most of them are just opportunists.

It depends on age and kind of circle one keeps...Even in my uni days, If you carry babe dey go your apartment jaree...not mine...

I don't even have friends that like leaving their territory then..

Not to talk of now most are out of naija...The new circle I have are mostly entrepreneurs...No time to the come over or sleep over.

Circle of risk takers No disturbance..