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mariahAngel:
Owukwanu eshiokwu.
Mana, otu a unu nile wucha umu nwoke, onye legekwanu ihu daadii unu?

Lol
Nwoke anaghi a pamper nwoke ibe ya NA

But he looks like say he be our elder brother with his regular jean and T-shirt attire.

You know if u have all boys, your hubby go deh look younger with wears and some act.

If u have all girls, you will be looking younger and girly as a mom..I don't know if you've noticed such?[center][/center]

mariahAngel:
Okwaya?


Toks is one of the few good ones on this platform. I respect him.




You know what they say about Sags falling too quickly? Well, it's true most times.
That is one of the reasons I stay in check. I can't afford to lose control.

Lol...
Is not about control cha..

You seem to be scared of falling, maybe due to previous experience or things you hear and read.

It happens to some humans especially ladies..


Ihe ka cha mkpa wu, ur priorities... Kedu ihe ndi I choro kedu ihe ndi I na achoghi.....Don't be too harsh, don't be too soft..on the fence ka cha mma...with principles..

Kriss216:



I like this your boyfriend oo.


If actually you know what it takes to ask a Nigerian girl out


Your boyfriend suppose win Time's Man of the Year.

Lolz..

The most important thing, the guy really lover her...Maybe he will tone down after the marriage or when he gets back to his senses...Or responsibility of training kids sets in.

afroedo:
How can dis Old man terrorized person, does it mean our youth are so weak, can understand it really

Their is one thing about Fulanis, nomata your age, as far as u are currently heading a settlement, you command huge respect and controls resources in that settlement.

For the fact he head Fulani settlement there, he equally head all their good and bad activities as well...While sitting at home all he needs is his cell phone to coordinate deadly acts and make millions as well.

And if he say go all Fulani under him will, without questioning. .

Never look at his act, criminals first play around for public sympathy the moment they're caught.

mariahAngel:
Owu eshiokwu.



Daughters are very special... especially to their fathers

Owuhu nani na-ala Igbo...



Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Oh...

Yes, just like sons pamper the mothers.

mariahAngel:
Hahahahahahahahahaha
Gi na getaway ehn...




A ma'm ama me ya
A si'm ma chotu Toks okwu





I know that it's real but I've come to learn that when you expect much from people (to make you feel good or whatever), you make yourself vulnerable, and some people might take advantage of that.

One thing about me is I'm emotionally generous, but I've learned to guard myself (emotionally) from manipulative people who see that as a weakness and tend to take advantage.

Lol, yes o..that's when I feel alone in my own world with a partner...with all the time and touches... Ka obi na adi mu mma..


You and toks...okwa eme I kpoya tokunbo...


One thing that helps my principles is I don't really expect that much from anyone..if anything comes,I take it as jara/ bonus.

If u are always on guard to avoid being taken advantage of, u will be like a security guard who's hand is always on his gun trigger even when everywhere is at peace.

A cool way to bypass being that vulnerability and being taken advantage of , is simply setting out goals and priorities and sticking to them without being confused(but this is usually difficult for some ladies) That is y u see guys shouting women are confused in some FP threads...The moment u get confused or lose focus from those goals and priorities, u set oneself up for manipulation by the other person.

Again, love comes with sacrifice, in fact it goes hand in hand with it..... If the sacrifice isn't there, then everything turns out as self deceits on both parties.


Normally some ladies bring emotions to play...But what matters is never lose focus.

People who are focused right from younger age, have the higher percentage of meeting the right people whose focus(dreams,goals and aspirations) is in sync with theirs.


Lastly nothing beats genuine...Be genuine...

mariahAngel:
Yeah.
Even guys too o...mana umu nwoke na dikari dirty




Mbakwa o!
O kacha mma ka nwa nwoke wuru nke ishi o, mana nke owula Chineke kwadoro onye, ya were ya otu ahu.

Lol maka oru ha na-aru NA.... But not all men o.

So a woman as the home manager kwesiri iwu a neat freak..She corrects her man and the kids.

Mana ya bia wuru akpa dirty, ebelebe egbuo la.

Hahahaha...umu nwaanyi ga a like ka nwoke wuru first... But I will want a girl.

You know in Igbo, nwaanyi muta nwoke, ya wuru na foundation ya a dila strong in her Hubby's home. The more the boys, the more solid is her foundation.

Oto a mma m bu 4boys ya, ihe owu wu nu egwim..

And usually in my extended FAM, ihe ha na amukari wu mainly ofu nwa nwoke ma owu abuo.

Toks2008:
I'm a coded realistic red piller.

Red pill people...

It is good to be realistic, it alleviates act of manipulation.

Them say, any day a man fall in love, one mugu is born.. anyway it's a case of loving who is not reciprocating the love.

mariahAngel:
Gini wu olu ihunanya gi?

O nwekwara ihe ozo na Wuhu time and touch....You know that touch that doesn't need permission from a lover.

Oya mere ejihu m getaway egwuriegwu..That's a good time to express both for a busy schedule person like me.

The love language is so real...Because av been with different ladies that wanted it differently....

One wanted communication every now and then..that year.
One wanted PDA,touch,and time anywhere, anytime shy me then...

Ihe m ji gwa gi ihe a wu, maka ahuru m ebe I piara the thread attack ka ofu pastor iwe weh ga.... .

It's real, and doesn't open one to manipulation.. U love what u like...

I never see person weh love Wetin he/she hates.

And best love is the one that is being reciprocated, if not, back off.

Toks2008:
Mine are words of affirmation and physical touch.... These two do wonders to my soul.

Toks the lover man..

mariahAngel:
I si akpa dirty?



Owu eshiokwu



Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Daughters are usually more on their father's side.

Ehee NA...a huge turn off for a lady with poor hygiene.


Yea...I even want my first to be a girl.... It will reduce burden on the mom...for kitchen and some other chores..

I ma nwaanyi choro I ghogbu di ya, ya si ike gwuru ya.. Maka oru di n'ulo...Nwoke mmadu adi confused with ihe ya na ya so...

mariahAngel:
Owu ihe o gwara gi?
Owu nani onye ga na agbati ya ahu?




There are different kinds of struggles that people don't talk about.
Losing a husband at an early stage in marriage is one of them.

I ma nu, asi onye kowa mkpa ya, ebunye ya meeting...Ka o were ya gbazuo..

The woman kowara mkpa na.



Exactly, it is one of the worst thing that can happen to a lady,especially after dropping a number of kids..onwu umu nwoke a na hu ara ahu.

O nwere ike na-agbawa the man obi with complaints and nagging, mana eshi nwoke a hu nwuru, ka nwaanyi ga amata ihe bu ahuhu...even if she has a good job.


Mmiri zoo, weather for two e me ya iwa...

Ma obu massage di NA nwunye..lol

Plus responsibility... And kids growing wild due to absence of father figure.

Ma di ma nwunye di mkpa o.

chatinent:
The shoe I am seeing there must be your dad's. That shoe cannot spoil, man. I can see yours under the shoe. There's a brown smell oozing out of it.



I can see your mum's slippers there too. Clearly, she has gone to buy pepper and nchaanwu for this great feast. And I'm sure it's charcoal we cooking with.

You didn't even remove the water bottles for fetching ororo on the sofa.


I'm coming with one jar of overnight tumbo, and some wooden cup..with alligator pepper and ugba.


I can also see that you were the one who carried it home, hence the sachet water nylon lying on the floor you drank when you dropped it.


Is your sister, Titi, my lovely girlfriend around?

You be Case... U literally described the scenario...

Nonexistent1:
The pure water I knew was Volkswagen Golf.

Opel omega...

And Opel senator... These cars faded like cloth.

Kingscee:
I belong to number 20, that first month that I bought that car, to sit down for one place no dey for my dictionary, even for my dreams I dey see myself driving, but today the car don tire me self, but guys BABY BENZ na strong and rugged car, I swear.

Hahahaha NA so car deh do...Ones it's new, all u think of is where to go...But with time, u will get tired.. Time will come when u will beg to be driven.... Driving na stress o

bluefilm:
Clearly, Toyota is the most widely used car on naija roads

Not just Nigeria alone, the whole world.

Toyota has got the best selling cars... Rav4, Highlanders, corolla, Camry, hilux, tundras, Tacoma...smh list plenty.

They still own Lexus as a sub..and that one is selling like maad...With steady models coming out to entice Nigerians..

These guys are everywhere... Again they have affordable cars...with some having cool second hand value...

And I forgot, Toyota makes good engine with a nice fuel economy, A reason why it is a hot cake for snatchers, around riverine areas..they use the engine for boat construction...

mariahAngel:
It is not for everybody to accept it.

I don't contradict myself as a Christian. Not even on a platform like Nairaland.

Yes not everyone should as a fact.


But, oputara na ndi aunty feminist awu hu nu Christians?

Because I know most of them have Christ belief.. That rubbish is not common with Muslim ladies like it is with Christians.

mariahAngel:
As in...

I wonder how he gather his thoughts

Wild wild..

But in this case he is correct...The lady ji nwayoo na-acho onye enye m aka...And onye ga ana enyere aka I gbati ahu.... maka na ahu mmàdu awu hu nku...


Women who lost their hubbies early the suffer o...Even if he left money for upkeep of the kids..it is still not easy...Any lady who grew up in such home, will always cherish a good guy who comes to marry her...Even she will see a father, boyfriend and hubby in that particular man.

mariahAngel:
Mothers though...





Yeah.



Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Men who grew up with sisters have this sense of entitlement that certain things should be done for them.
They also hate chores.

Lol.. True talk..

Yes NA, before u wake, ur sister must av cooked, clean everywhere and other chores...especially sisters that are hygiene conscious... U know some ladies can be akpa dirty like some guys.

But, if no sister, u must learn to do everything as a guy...Even cooking good meals.

And u know nowadays, ndi mma na a hangi boot osiso from kitchen ones they have daughters...but if she no get, she cook cook come tire...

And mothers without daughters can do kitchen shakara well well.

That's y I will always pray to have at least one or two so nwaanyi agahu eji NRI mere m guy....ya su, nwa m nwaanyi a banye kitchen..

mariahAngel:
Your destiny don finish!

Hahahaha... Ike gwuru.

mariahAngel:
Ehyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Now I understand why they celebrate mothers' day like 10× in a year

Na so...ihe unu ji a ghori anyi...

mariahAngel:
Onye ara!

Who let you loose?

That guy is a big specimen...

mariahAngel:
Woman was created for man.
Woman was put in the care of man by God.
Woman is meant to be cared for by man.

Lekwa ndi feminist na bia I pia gi attack o...statement a na afu ha ka ose...

mariahAngel:
Oh! I richala ma amala... I've never had it before though



Ya wu na mma gi laikiri gi ofuma
Mothers usually like kids that are not picky eaters.
Come to think of it...no wonder you like the food thread.
Ihe mma'm ga kpo gi wu o kpa n'usekwu. Do you know what it means?


A ma'm ya nu.

Lol, mma m likiri anyi n'ile o....Especially my immediate... Onye nke ahu enye hu ya nsogbu at all at all...O gwara m na onye nke ahu jury ara osiso...And can stay at a place all day in his infant stage...doesn't cry, hates to stay at neighbors place...

Like he gave her freedom to work without the usual lactating mom stress.... So their bond di strong...

Hahahhahaha smh, I like the act of cooking good meals...The whole kitchen stuff is fun....ihe ma wu, nwaanyi m ga alu ,ga eme enjoy kitchen gist...And company when am chanced to...

Okpa n'usekwu wu nu onye na -aga na kitchen..

I like the gist o, not the actual cooking, unless I no get option...that's when I cook.

I ma nu, nwoke NNE ya na amutaghi nwaanyi, ga wu zi, nwoke buru kwa Ada...

Mood when u know u are a man....

This matter is between married women and single ladies...

Wives up ur game, otherwise aunty Patricia baby oku, will up ur Oga's john Thomas for u...

Alas! Nigeria 6- 1 Ethiopia

When it comes to progressive development...

Some people still live in the way of cavemen with little or no brain.

See human disfiguring their lips because of archaic tradition.

mariahAngel:
Sometimes, we just comply with these "rules" just to put parents at ease.
At the end, what they know is what you tell them.

Ha ma nga onye garala ma ihe ndi o ririla?
Mpa gi ugbu a gi o marala si i rizuo la? Ma mbe o, ma alika, ma akpi, ma edi abali , ma enwe, ma akiri, ma agwo
Ike gwuru!




Chai Chineke!

O yikwa ka a ma'm ama juo!
Onwekwere ihe I na aso?

Hahahaha I si ma alika...chai ike gwuru.

MPA m ma, o wu nu n'ulo ka m riri ihe ndia.

A ka m neche ihe m na aso na nso...

Unless NRI mba ndi ozo....But av had amala, tuwo etc...

My mom si enye m hu ya nsogbu mgbe ndi ntakiri...I literally eat everything.

The only meal I don't like wu ji mmiri oku, unless it's a catfish or old chicken pepper soup.

Okwa I ma ji mmiri oku? Udi nke a ana-esi with roots and some herbs for nwaanyi muru nwa ohuru ka ahu ya tight a up.

Charmingrascal:
Nothing but the truth.



When I was a little boy I used to go Fulani settlements with my Dad sometimes we boarded canoes to take us across big rivers just to get to them.
My Dad is an health worker and the Fulanis preferred his services so they were always calling him when there were sick people. (He did house service, my papa like money. Lol) and the Fulanis had money too, legitimate money made from selling their cows, grains and birds/chickens. Those days Fulani were nice people, I would always get maishan (very sweet butter/oil like stuff) and many other things, they were so nice and lovely people. As secluded as their settlements were we never got scared of going there, they stayed inside thick forest but we still felt safe with them
As a young boy I always said I would marry a Fulani lady because they were so beautiful, friendly and nice people.


I am talking about 14 to 15 years ago.

What went wrong? F*ck!


Modified: I think those killer Fulanis that started terrorising Nigerians are not Nigerian and Buhari's failure to decisively deal with them led to the escalation of their killings and that also encouraged some Nigerian Fulanis to join them.
Fulani groups that are suppose to condemn the killers were also being biased in their judgement, instead of fishing out the foreigners that are killing people among them, they decided to allow tribal sentiment overshadow their sense of reasoning.

If Miyetti Allah had chastised them instead of covering up for them things would not have escalated to this extent, also I will blame Buhari for not taking decisive action.


It is not too late Miyetti Allah should tell Nigerians among them not to join those foreigners in perpetrating crime, they should urge them to fish out the killers among them and the government should not be biased in handling this Fulani issue, Buhari or whoever is in charge of the affairs of the Nation should be decisive in dealing with these Intruders.

Nothing can be done... These bororo guys multiply faster than the Nigerian Fulani...And they av tested war..So the country is gone...Their is huge money in hostagf taking business...

MikeMicheal:
Same thing applys to women.

CHECK UNDERNEATH BEFORE YOU PAY BRIDE PRICE.

Lol...nairaland and words...

mariahAngel:
Ya wuru otu ahu, then it's a valid reason.

I riela anu nkita mbo?

Maybe... I ma a wucha hu m onye superstitious o..

I look for the scientific explanations...

Haaa nkita bu normal... but on rare occasions...
The meat is not that lean...

mariahAngel:
Owu o gwahu gi ihe kpatara ha ji a so ya?

Just ancestral belief...And in Igbo land here they normally use that one during burial... U can't see it's beef in the market.

mariahAngel:
Chai!

I rie la nnoo!

Lol..owu hu kwa obere ihe o..


Onweghi nke m NA so NA nso..except native cow...the one with short or no horn..my dad said it is a taboo..but I asked him, if I am in Canada,and crave for beef, so I won't eat it?because I know outside this country, some beef consumed, the cow is different from the Fulani own...


Ya si m, well Christianity has taken over...

I tire for supe superstitious believe of ndi mpa.