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smart1204:
Hi everyone, I'm a 20 year old male student in college of medicine UNN, enugu campus. This is
my problem.

I get aroused by close body contact with ladies. example:

Sitting beside a lady around my age or so makes me get an erection. Even though I have MOSTLY but not totally conquered this by fighting it in my mind.

The remaining ones I've sincerely tried and not being able to overcome are:

1. when I give a female friend front hug without any ulterior motive in mind, I start to get an erection (This has happened severally and made me stop hugging ladies).

2. when standing in a crowded place like 2 submit a script or enter a class. If ladies buttocks are pressed against groin and/or their breasts on my body, I start to get an embarrassing erection even though I actually hate it and have nothing in mind. This happens to the point I have to place my hand to cover it or prevent it.

Pls, I'm a technical virgin and have made up my mind to remain celibate till marriage. I try my best not to lust after women or sexual objectify them.

PLEASE HELP ME DEAR FRIENDS.

ojun50:
na every time them hospitalized for kano state

Prospertochu:
I got my girlfriend then now wife pregnant, I wasn't ready for marriage. My plan was to take care of her and my baby while she stays in her father's house, her mother was fine with it as long as I take care of my responsibilities, but everything changed when the scan confirmed that she was carrying triples, her mother said I must marry her because there's no way her daughter will still under her roofs with 3 children.

I pleaded with her to give me sometimes to find my own accommodations because I was living in my father's family house after his demise I stay with his siblings while my mum left with my younger sister.

My mother in law refused saying I must do something fast because she doesn't want people to mocked her that her daughter has gotten pregnant out of wedlock not just with one baby but 3 so I managed to save enough money to get a place for our own but her mother refused saying I must pay her bride price first, I didn't have any more money so i have borrowed from friends and added to the money I had to pay for her bride price. It wasn't a big party just something small, I took my wife to my father family house where we are living now with our triplets but things hasn't been easy for me, taking care of 3 children it's not easy, I am grateful that I am rent free but household bills are killing me.

My wife and I are always arguing because she keeps asking for more money my salary is 55k I use to give her 20k monthly, 10 monthly to my mother and I use 20 and save 5k she said the money wasn't enough that I am stingy, I now started giving her 25k she is still complaining about the money not being enough. I refused giving her more she started staving me of sex and foods. My family are tired of separating us fighting almost every day, my uncle has asked us to leave the compound because we are disturbing there peace and I had to beg him to forgive us that ur shouldn't be happening again and I cautioned my wife but she is threatening to abandon me with the kids. I have told her to do her worse because I am tired of her madness. I wish I never married her in the first, all I could've do is to take care of my kids and let her be I know it's too late now to change the past but what should I do?

Jostoman:
A whole 14 soldiers die the president and his Vice did not even bother but if was to go and celebrate one governor install by TANKO MUHAMMED the whole of ASO ROCK would have move to IMO STATE. Nonsense

VadBet:
None for Tonto?

Draslo:
In the heat of the moment, we don't care.

Women sef. Some, just light kissing and pressing of yansh, downstairs don turn Pacific Ocean while some even if you like, use vacuum cleaner on the clitoris, they'll still be like Sahara Desert.

vincentjk:
Jnr pope is a real definition of a family man who loves his wife and tries his best to always make his two sons appear good.

If dis guy give you 1naira call me anything you like I go answer

mariahAngel:
I hukwa gi ehn...

I gbadiri wicked, biakwa were onu ojoo tukwasa n'elu ya!

A si'm ma bia na-akuku nga bia chia tupu ha mapu'm n'iwu nga ahu

mariahAngel:
Take closer shots of your food. it makes it more appealing.

DrAkpa:
Buhari done show this one shege

alfasexy:
I pity religious people. They just let other people direct their lives.

chatinent:
And who has that foodflask head at the back of the chair?


Looks like Ned Nwoko.

Light78:
I was walking around my compound yesterday, and I saw a fish jumped out of the marsh to a drier side of the compound. It was struggling to swim back into the marsh, but I caught it with a basket.

What is the name of this fish?

stanisbaratheon:
That fish is part of the mullet family.

So its big Mullet

lordally:
Based on My dad's advice...marry a woman that also has something doing!!! No go carry liability put for house!! If not na suffer FC go sign you as number 9.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr

Omotolla mind go dey beat fast now

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless... All Of Them

PointZerom:
Laziness and pride is killing the so called graduates.

mariahAngel:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Na mbo kwanu? Ole otu I choro ka o di? Onye chi umu nwoke ano o kwesiri I ju oyi? Owu I mahu na ndi umu nwoke na dikari aghirigha?




Owukwanuhu ashi.

Ya gaa lota, ihe owula o jiri lo, lastborn anyi ga nu ngahu, ya e were ya nye'm.

mariahAngel:
This is another side to it.


@the second part...

mariahAngel:
I remember when I started logging on to nairaland newly... everything I read then was so shocking, I couldn't believe! omg!

Mana ugbu a, shock capacitor'm a dituwala weak.

justosee:
is he in any related to Orji?

illicit:
I have been teaching, and teaching is grossly underpaid....

PointZerom:
Goan learn how to fabricate and fix aluminium windows.
Goan learn electrician.
Goan learn plumbing.
Goan learn how to produce paint/painting.

BabaIbo:
Easier said than done.

Do you think starting a business is any easy?

FYI, it's tougher than being employed.

Ballary:
that is when you will know that you came alone in this world especially when you are from a struggling family.aviod anything that will bring liability and pursue anything that will bring investment.

don't allow women be your priority at this stage of life, rather you can have one that is intelligent and understanding, body no be firewood.

mariahAngel:
Onwehu nsogbu



Well, mpa'm di strict, so I wouldn't say I relate.

mariahAngel:
Well, I wouldn't say I've been that hurt by anyone or felt anything for someone and regretted it later.

Just being careful...especially because of what I read